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Diana is a 40-year-old woman with gray eyes, blonde hair and a lovely dimple. She was writing something in her notebook when I entered. She looked up and smiled at me. I sat beside her and waited until she finished and gave her the paneer pakoras to taste.

“Hmmm. Very nice, Nithya. I am thinking of adding a couple of Indian snacks to the menu. There has been a noticeable increase in Indian customers here,” she said, eating the pakoras with relish.

“How about it Nithya? You can make this stuff from home and send it around to the restaurant. I’ll pay cash. What do you say?” she asked.

Diana’s suggestion seemed God-sent but I also wanted it to be my ticket out of the house.

“My mother-in-law is coming from India today. So most likely she will take over the kitchen. I can come here and make the snacks, if you don’t mind. How about that?” I asked.

She seemed pleased to hear that. “Sounds better. We can serve them hot! Great. So how long is your mother-in-law here?”
“For about three months I think. She might leave earlier if my sister-in- law’s marriage gets fixed,” I said.

“I still can’t understand why you won’t leave him? Divorces are also common in India. My Indian friend Malathi is divorced and happy.”

I bit my lip while I pondered her question. She never really understood why a younger sister would have trouble getting married if the older sister got divorced.

The Perfect Groom

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Published on July 23, 2013 21:25 Tags: groom, indian-bride, marriage, perfect-groom, romance-novella, sumeetha, wedding

My Journey to ‘The Perfect Groom’

My journey to The Perfect Groom began on a lazy afternoon when I got an enthusiastic phone call from a distant relative. Her daughter’s marriage had been arranged and she gushed on about how good the groom was, how rich his family was and how happy she felt that her daughter was going to be in the US.

I congratulated her and made polite conversation for a while. For some reason, her conversation kept playing on my mind all through the day. ‘He is such a perfect groom’, ‘He is all that I wanted for my daughter’, ‘His family is rich and he is the only son’. And I was reminded of an anecdote that an old friend of mine told me about a girl, almost a decade ago.

That was when I got the idea to write a story about that unknown ‘girl’. I had no details about her except for what had happened in her life. But I instinctively knew that she was bold, caring, broad-minded and yet innocent and naive. And my heroine Nithya arrived on my pages. I am sure that Nithya’s perilous journey through love and relationship will capture the reader’s heart and hold it.

I do not know what happened to the girl whose anecdote inspired me to write this novella. Hopeless romantic that I am, I wish with all my heart that she found a man like Vasu to share her life with.

P.S. A special thanks to my friend Anupama who shared that anecdote with me all those years ago.
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Published on August 10, 2013 08:06 Tags: groom, indian-bride, marriage, perfect-groom, romance-novella, sumeetha, wedding

The Perfect Groom: Chapter 3

Ashok   didn’t   come   back   home   in   the   night   nor   did   I   expect   him   to.   He   would probably go pick up my mother-in-law straight from wherever he was.  I  couldn’t  sleep  after  the  upsetting  call  with  my  father-in-law. I quickly took a bath and got dressed in a sari.

While I was making breakfast, Ashok called me. “Hello.”

“Yes?”

“Amma’s   flight   is   delayed   by   3   hours.   I   am   at   the   fucking   airport.   If   my   father Desikacharya, the bastard, calls, tell   him,”   he   said   in   a   drunken   drawl.

“Ok,”  I  replied.

God! He is drunk. I just hope he sobers up before his mother arrives or else there will be another conference call from the inquisition squad in India.

I quickly prepared lunch and thought I would go and meet my friend Diana.

Diana owned a restaurant right around the block. We became friends three years ago. I had been in the neighborhood park, brooding over my hopeless   situation   and   crying.   I   didn’t   notice   anyone   and   no   one   bothered   me.  I  didn’t  know how long I sat there. Suddenly I felt a hand comforting me. It was Diana. She said that she had been watching me for a long time.

“There,  there, dear!  Don’t  cry.”

I poured my heart out to her. Sometimes it is easier to talk to strangers. Things that I had kept hidden from my mother and sister tumbled out of my mouth. It was the beginning of a beautiful friendship. I was glad that I had Diana to fall back on, in this strange country.

I made paneer pakoras for her to taste. She loved Indian snacks, especially samosas, and was forever asking me to give her recipes to try. I wrapped the pakoras in aluminum foil and went to the restaurant.

Diana is a 40-year-old woman with gray eyes, blonde hair and a lovely dimple. She was writing something in her notebook when I entered. She looked up and smiled at me. I sat beside her and waited until she finished and gave her the paneer pakoras to taste.

“Hmmm.  Very  nice, Nithya. I am thinking of adding a couple of Indian snacks to the menu. There has been a noticeable increase in Indian customers here,”  she said, eating the pakoras with relish.

“How  about  it Nithya? You can make this stuff from home and send it around to the restaurant. I’ll pay cash. What do you  say?”  she  asked.

Diana’s  suggestion  seemed  God-sent but I also wanted it to be my ticket out of the house.

“My  mother-in-law is coming from India today. So most likely she will take   over   the   kitchen.   I   can   come   here   and   make   the   snacks,   if   you   don’t   mind. How  about  that?”  I  asked.

She seemed pleased to hear that. “Sounds  better.  We  can  serve them hot! Great. So how long is your mother-in-law  here?”

“For  about  three months I think. She might leave earlier if my sister-in- law’s  marriage  gets  fixed,”  I  said.

“I   still   can’t   understand   why   you   won’t   leave   him?   Divorces   are   also   common  in  India.  My  Indian  friend  Malathi  is  divorced  and  happy.”

I bit my lip while I pondered her question. She never really understood why a younger sister would have trouble getting married if the older sister got divorced.

“Ashok  and  I  have  an  agreement.  I  can’t  back  off  now,”  I  said  morosely.

She scowled and pursed her lips as she considered my situation.

“What  agreement?  He’s  just  taking  advantage  of  you.  Can’t  you  see  that?   And have  you  thought  of  what  you  want  to  do,  once  you  go  back  to  India?”   she asked.

I have thought about nothing else in all my time here.
I   looked   directly   at   her   and   said,   “I   want   to   go   back   to   India   and   start   a   restaurant like yours. I have studied hotel management.”

She seemed pleased with my decision.

“That’s   good.   At   least   you   have   a   definite   plan.   So   when   is   your   sister   getting  married?

 Does  she  like  anyone?”  she  asked.

Despite having many Indian friends, Diana never really understood the concept of arranged marriages. We had several interesting conversations and arguments about how people get married in India after one or two meetings.

“My   sister   just   completed   her   engineering.   Next month   she   will   be   joining Wipro. She will need some time to get settled in  her  job,”  I  said.

“That  could be another three to four years.  What  about  Ashok’s  sister?   How  old  is  she?”  she  asked  pondering  deeply  over  my  situation.

“She  is  twenty-two years old. They are actively looking for a match. My mother-in-law wants Ashok to find someone for her from the US. But he is not  very  keen,”  I  said.

“I’m not surprised. So you are going to lead this sham life for the next four years. Do you think it is worth  it?”  she  asked  me  directly.

I was afraid to answer that. She was right. It was not worth it. But I just needed to pretend that everything was fine, until Divya got married.  That’s all.
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Published on August 28, 2013 07:45 Tags: groom, indian-bride, marriage, perfect-groom, romance-novella, sumeetha, wedding