Jaquel D. Blanchard's Blog, page 2
April 14, 2016
Productive minds are essentials…
TOPIC: WHEN YOU DON’T DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, YOU EVENTUALLY BECOME ANGRY AND RESENTFUL – Iyanla Vanzant
JaQuel’s Understanding of this topic:
True story: At the end of the day, you are who you are. There is not one thing to gain from attempting to be anyone aside from that individual. Not happiness; not joy; not peace; not one thing. Therefore, if your way of better suiting others is to dress up in different costumes, a guaranteed short-term accomplishment will include growing exhausted and resentful with only being accepted as someone else’s clown opposed to being accepted for who you are. In other words, earn acceptance and respect as the real you; not someone’s puppet used for their personal comfort and satisfaction.
Ask yourself : Would they undergo the same appeasing transformation for you?
Love yourself, take care of yourself… Like no one else will #Self- Preservation…#Stay awake/stay focus…
March 17, 2016
Productive minds are essentials…
TOPIC: IF YOU CANNOT DETECT WHAT IS HURTING YOU, IT MAY BE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN TRYING SQUEEZE YOURSELF INTO SITUATION IN WHICH YOU DID NOT BELONG, A SITUATION THAT YOU HAVE OUTGROWN – Iyanla Vanzant
JaQuel’s Understanding of this topic:
True story: There are times when we attach ourselves to people, places, and things that are completely unhealthy for us. We may have the best intentions, but the situation in itself may be unfit for comfort. If you ever feel uneasy, you need to pinpoint the reason. If you cannot identify the reason, it may be because you have consciously or unconsciously chosen to ignore your discomfort. When discomfort is welcomed, sooner than later it invites pain.
Love yourself, take care of yourself… Like no one else will #Self- Preservation…#Stay awake/stay focus…
February 14, 2016
Productive minds are essentials…
TOPIC: Love does not hurt. What hurt is what you do or fail to do in the name of love – Iyanla Vanzant
JaQuel’s Understanding of this topic:
True story: Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. To become acquainted with a spirit that houses the above attributes is to have an understanding of love. If you are involved with individuals whom possess these sort of qualities, I assure you that you are in good hands. On the other hand, if you are involved with individuals whom lack these qualities , I assure you that you are single-handedly aligning yourself with harm’s way…
It could have been a long story, but that’s the short version…
Love yourself, take care of yourself… Like no one else will #Self- Preservation…#Stay awake/stay focus…
