D.P. Davidson's Blog
November 13, 2024
Uphill...
Walking uphill is hard enough, but the wind doesn't cool me from the blistering heat. It assaults my body with dirt and whips my neck and face with my hair, stings my eyes with my sweat. I sit to rest and grass that should be soft and welcoming is coarse and covered in burrs, leaving me scratched and bloodied, a fool for seeking rest and refuge from my labor.
I continue up the hill, pestered by insects that swarm and sting and fly in my face. I tear my sleeve from my shirt and tie it around my face to keep them from invading my mouth and nose, but they're constantly in my face, buzzing in my ear.
Driving me insane with their buzzing.
Night comes, but it would be foolish to hope it comes with relief. The heat may have ended, but the cold is just as brutal. My clothes, still wet from the sweat of day, now cling to me as I shiver in the cold of the night. I would continue to walk, but the light from the moon isn't sufficient to light my way. So I wait and shiver.
The sun peeks over the mountain the next morning, and though I am sore, I start again. Every day. The top of the hill is just as far away. Every day. I never get any closer, but they say I have to reach the top of that hill. They tell me I should happy the sun is shining. They tell me I should be happy the grass is green. They tell me I have legs so I should be happy. I should be happy.
Should I be happy?
June 14, 2023
The Dukes of Hazzard...
Whilst in the meditation chamber, upon the throne of contemplation, I began to reflect upon the various and sundry television shows of my youth. There were many to chose from and many that I enjoyed; Perfect Strangers, Night Court, Punky Brewster, Bosom Buddies, so many awesome shows!
Then the wheel of mental confusion spun again and settled on the Dukes of Hazzard. I've never really thought the deep thoughts about the Dukes, but it's kind of a sad situation. Bo, Luke and Daisy are three cousins who lived with their uncle Jesse in Georgia. Jesse is about a hundred years old and it seemed he's raised these three young adults, who I repeat, are cousins. Why does that matter?
Because that means Jesse has not one, not two, but THREE siblings who couldn't raise their own children for whatever reasons. After Bo and Luke left the show, they were replaced with two other cousins making in total FIVE siblings whose children Jesse had to care for.
Then there's the county commissioner whose name is Boss Hogg. He had a lacky sheriff named Roscoe P. Coltrane who either has a stutter or a catch phrase (good, good, good)? Another office names Enos who I think dated Daisy Duke and her very short short for a while and a mechanic called Cooter who seemed morally opposed to sleeves.
I remember an orange car (I was a kid back then) called the General Lee with a confederate flag and an obnoxious horn. I don't think that car even had doors as those Duke boys never EVER used them. I'm pretty sure they didn't believe in walking if it took them around the General Lee either. It was over the hood or not at all.
That reminds me, I loved the Goonies something fierce, too. You know, watching that as an adult opened my eyes to how absolutely innocent I really was! Holy dumpster fire, Batman! That flick was filled to the gills with dirty references. Don't get me wrong, I think they're funny as heck, I just don't know how MY parents were able to watch these things with a straight face.
I watched the Goonies with my kids and I was PRAYING they wouldn't remember, let alone understand some of those references. I'm truly hoping they don't remember because there is something magical about singing a song (or watching a movie) you've sung (or watched) for years and finally truly understanding what was happening.
Mine was Little Red Corvette by Prince. The shock I felt as I sang about the "Trojans and some of them used," then "thinking 'bout the Jockeys that were there before me." Oh my poor heart! It was WONDERFUL!
I hope my children get that adrenaline rush at least once in their lives. It's AMAZING! Eenie said her Come to Jesus was Stacey's Mom by Fountains of Wayne.
Did anyone else have that revelation? Wanna share with the group?
June 13, 2023
Education For The Real World
One of the things I've been in to this last two years is going back to school. I started back to work last year and decided I wanted to go back to school to learn the skills needed to help me to be better at my job. It was amazing!
Miney graduated from high school leaving Moe the lone homeschooler and we both knew it was time to change things up, so he started at the public high school in August. It was rough for the both of us and I was really really thankful to have my job to keep me busy.
So I'm plugging along with goals and purpose and everything is moving forward until April when I start feeling like my time at my current employ is fast coming to an end. There are various reasons and many of them I could have ignored, but the main reason was knowing it was a prompting. I don't mess with promptings. I don't ignore promptings. I sometimes resist them, but only to my detriment.
One week after I resigned my position, Babe went out of town for a week and four days later, Miney got into an accident that totaled her car. Babe was supposed to be home two days after that, but the Lord wasn't finished testing me yet. The weather in DFW kept his plane from landing and diverted them to Oklahoma City, literally three hours away, just far enough out and late enough in the evening to be annoying. He couldn't drive home, and would have been royally pissed if I had come to get him so he got to sleep in a nasty hotel instead.
He finally made it home Friday morning and Miney's wrist, which we were told was broken, wasn't even a little bit broken (thank goodness). We're still down to two cars because apparently I am the reason our insurance premium is now an insane amount. We haven't settled with the insurance yet, but even after we have, I plan to walk everywhere for the rest of my life. We can't afford me. I'm a freakin' liability!
Meanwhile, in 2023...
Guys,
Can you believe we're already halfway through 2023?! Where has the time gone? And what have you done with it? I feel like I have just done a whole lot of nuthin'. That's not true, but that's what I feel like.
So what have I been doing? Writing books!
These books!
Guess what I JUST found out! There's already a book called Diary of a Henchman on Amazon! That doesn't look sus AT ALL!!!
Wow! This day just took a turn for the worse.
In other news, there are just a metric ton of movies and books called Legacy and that's okay as that name is a little less on the nose.
In other, other news, I finally settled on covers (and names) for my first two books. They are now Dark Horse (Push) and Still Waters (Push Back) and the covers are wicked awesome if I must say so myself...and for now I must because I haven't gotten a lot of feedback. One day that might change.
One day.
I have some other fun stories in the works and if nothing else, they make me happy!
Joy!
July 14, 2022
My hat...
COVID, COVID, everywhere.
Think I'll just destroy my hair.
This pandemic has been just...awesome. Babe has been working from home since March...last year. He first planted himself on the couch in the living room, but we home school and live here all day, so he made his office in the classroom (did I mention we home school?) and just recently moved into a bedroom that had earlier been vacated by another of our children because she's nineteen and that's enough of a reason. Thankfully, I really like that guy, so it only annoys when he snaps at us (as much as Babe ever snaps) if we get too loud, which happens sometimes because, and I can't stress this enough, we home school and also live here.
As a result of the way we were already living our lives, the pandemic and resulting shut down of all the things hasn't been as traumatic for us as it has been for the rest of America. My kids continued their educational pursuits without needing to transition from anywhere, but the classroom to the kitchen. See above paragraph for reference.
I decided the best way to treat COVID fever (not the actual virus) was to experiment with my hair, and have done so with reckless abandon. I've pinked it, blued it, blonded it, pinked it again, silver toned it, blue silver toned it (for Ennie's wedding) and then copper-toned it. I've loved every iteration of my lovely locks, but this treatment has caused a lot of damage, as you can well imagine. Thus I have made it a point to keep it well managed.
It ain't cheap to fiddle with one's hair if one desires to keep said hair locked onto one's noggin, so I was getting the work done by competent individuals, because I know what I am and it ain't competent. So, because I sometimes make poor decisions, and hadn't made one in a while, I decided to get my hair cut at a place that shall remain nameless because 1. I'm embarrassed I sunk so low and 2. They should be embarrassed by what they did to my hair.
The air head who cut my hair had a far away look and was humming to herself for the duration of my hair cut. Why didn't I stop her, you ask? Because sometimes you have to trust the process. This was not one of those times.
When she "finished" the cut, she asked what I thought. I showed her the picture of the cut I had asked for. Note that this:
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Does not look like this:
Not even a little bit, yet she seemed to think it was spot on. She called her manager over and this lady must have suffered from the same myopia because she seemed confused by my insistence that no, it wasn't the cut I wanted. No one in their right mind would ask for this on purpose.
The manager apologized and said she would comp my haircuts until it grew back. Jokes on her, I'm NEVER going back because I have learned my lesson.
I slunk back to my hair dresser and asked her to do what she could to fix the mess on my head. The photo above is what she was able to fix. There were long pieces and short pieces and pieces that I'm still trying to grow out and this happened in October.
While I appreciated what my hair dresser was able to accomplish, it was still not cute, so I decided to make a hat...some hats. I made so many hats.
It's nine months later and my hair still isn't long enough for the the style I wanted, but at least it doesn't look like I've got a raging case of the mange anymore. Lesson learned and little victories are still victories. Email me if you would like me to make you a hat. I still have plenty of yarn.
Musing...
I've been reading a lot of opinion pieces or "news" lately, and I've decided if other people can post unverified, inflammatory or 100% wrong swill, then I can too. And if I write enough fluff and foolishness, maybe some of those new sites will find my writing "hard hitting" and "on the nose" (whose nose by the way?). Maybe they will be so enamored by my ability to write farce with a straight face, they'll be beating down my virtual door! Then, I can be a freelance writer. Heck, I won't even have to proofread (I'll be starting right now) because if they aren't interested in fact who the heck even cares about misspellings, poor grammar or proper formatting. Even if I wasn't a grammar Nazi (and I'm not) my little pea-pickin English lovin' heart has clutched the pearls so often I'm afraid to wear jewelry.
Anyone who knows me knows I have opinion to spare, so why not get paid to spew? Does anyone out there care what I think?
No, but why should I let that stop me?
Hey There Stranger...
I know it's been a while since I posted, but maybe some one is still out there, eager to hear my newest tale. Let's get started shall we...
On July 4th, Babe took Miney and Moe out to see the fireworks. They stopped along a bridge with approximately 700 other people to watch said fireworks. I didn't go because I didn't want to. About an hour after they'd left, Babe calls me up to ask if "I'd heard". To which I replied, "heard what?"
"We've been in an accident," he tells me.
Fabulous.
But it gets so so much better. Babe was parked facing South. Dude comes up the road headed North and just wandered to the other side of the road. He hit our car in the back passenger door and because my daughter is ten feet tall, her head grazes the ceiling at all the times and she hit the window, causing a slight concussion. Dude being the gem he is, tries to drive away, but his car was busted too, so he got out of his car and jumped the railing! Dude straight up ran away. Also, the car had paper tags...that were expired.
Captain A$$hole's Stolen (probably) Car
Heartbroken Babe's car.I hopped in our Teenmobile and rushed out to pick them up. The police showed up, a wrecker or two showed up, people gawked as they passed and weren't terribly concerned about there being minimal space on the road with a wrecked car on either side because apparently there is only one way in and out of Fort Worth and this was it.
Now, I'm not angry about the car. No one got too badly hurt, we have insurance and it's just a car. However, I am nursing a new kind of irritation over the whole thing that I am going to call General Ineptitude or How To Have Someone Else Do Your Job.
It starts like this. Babe called on Monday to find out what was happening with the repair estimate on the car. He is told it's probably about 10K. The next day, the total is higher. Yesterday, he calls again and they tell him they haven't even had a chance to look the car over. So where did those first two estimates come from? He asks if they've includes the damage to the interior. Guy apparently hadn't even considered checking the interior. Babe helped Guy do his job.
Babe has also been following up with the police department. First, they can't find the police report. Then, they find the report, but explain that it has been rejected from the system because of some error. The police department then invites Babe to call the officer and let her know the file was rejected. Seriously? The officer in question works nights and doesn't have a voice mail. I beg Babe not to tell them about the voicemail for fear they will ask him to set one up for her because we're having other people do our jobs these days.
Then he contacts the detective...
Listen, I know no one is perfect and we all have off days, but this has crossed the threshold from ridiculous to enraging. Just do YOUR job. It's one thing to follow up, it's another thing entirely if you can't be bothered to inform your employee of a mistake in her report so instead ask the customer to inform your employee of the mistake in her report. Who does that?!
Well, three of the companies involved in this accident, that's who.
The New Guy...
So Ennie and B-Mo married in March and we had a lovely reception in our back yard. I planted lots of flowers and the grass was a lovely shade of green. The weather was wonderful and it was just a really nice end to a days long activity.
See Eenie and B-Mo wanted to get married in San Antonio. Thus the Thursday before the ceremony, the bride's peeps (that would be us) drove out to San Antonio where we stayed the night. Friday morning was spent primping and prepping, then the ceremony was performed that afternoon. We are Latter Day Saints or Mormons, so the marriage was performed in the temple there. Thanks to COVID, only five from each side could attend the actual ceremony while the rest waited outside.
The guests who waited outside were some serious troopers, I tell ya. They drove for four hours even though they knew they would have to wait outside. I've never felt such love for my family as those people showed us that day.
After the ceremony we spent hours and hours and days posing for pictures before the sweet release of dinner, which our new son's parents graciously hosted. Then, we drove home one passenger lighter because Eenie wanted to stay with that guy she'd married. Poo.
We got back to the house late Friday night then spent the next morning setting up for the reception. Some things I learned through this process:
1. Renting tables and chairs can be pricey, but sometimes it's better to pay the money to avoid the aggravation of finding the time and resources to pick up and drop off those same items from a third location. Thankfully, that last minute revelation didn't bite me in the butt, and I was able to rent the items we needed just in time.
Aren't they just adorable?!2. One basically agrees to surrender one's entire house to the wedding for months before, and a solid month after, the event. Those cute cupcake towers and punch bowels do not store themselves. We were very fortunate to have had everything basically handed to us by a woman whose daughter was married over ten years ago. Those bins of lights and tablecloths have fulfilled the purpose of their existence many, many times, and a super bonus is they have already moved to the next family in need of wedding décor. Huzzah!
3. Just rent the dang tent. You can buy one for what it costs to rent one, but it's made of toilet paper and bread ties. The money is gone anyway, so do yourself a favor and fork over the dough.
4. Be prepared to have food and drink coming out of your ears for at least two weeks after the party has ended. We still have bacon wrapped jalapenos in the freezer. I've heard it's better to have too much than not enough. That's what they say, but I'm still not sure.
5. My mother in law is a SAINT. Marriage is an adjustment and not just for the happy couple. Sometimes, I draw blood for biting my tongue so hard. I can only imagine how frustrating it had to be my own mother in law. DFD, I am so sorry for sometimes making things harder than they needed to be. I hate to break it to all the young people out there, but you've only been adulting for a handful of years. Try to remember that when you think you know all the things.
So now I have achieved the rank of mother in law. It could be worse...for B-Mo.
Muahahahaha!
Aren't we just adorable?! September 19, 2021
I've Never Been Accused of Being Graceful...
I just can't win. I was telling a friend it seems like our guardian angels have left us to our own devices because we just can't not hurt ourselves. I've had some pretty moronic accidents that have left me with bumps and bruise, accidents I couldn't recreate if you paid me. My one comfort was that at least I had a fun story to share.
Then this happened...
My toes are hidden in the shadow. Promise.
On the plus side I had just gotten a pedicure.
I used to have an ankle here.Thursday last week I stepped off a curb. That's it. That's what happened. Somewhere between the curb and the pavement my foot stopped supporting me. Or maybe I just needed to lie down? At any rate, I found myself forcefully moved to the ground.
After a moment of reflection and gratuitous cursing, I hauled my hinder off the ground and limped back to the van. Miney had accompanied me on my errand, but had applied all of her attention to her phone thus she did not see me disappear from the rearview mirror. If she had, she would have already been well versed on so many, many things. My ankle was throbbing, but Miney is unlicensed so I had to drive myself home. As I gingerly loaded myself into the van, she asked where we were headed next and I said, "Home, because I have fallen." She was unconcerned because I fall all the time, so what?
Well, by the time we got home, maybe ten minutes later, my ankle had swollen to an unbelievable size and the pain had become unbearable. It hurt like a bad dog when Babe pulled my sock off. My ankle bone was the size of a softball and it hurt. A lot.
I was so certain I had broken that bugger that I had Babe run me to the Carenow, but because I half-ass everything, it wasn't broken just severely sprained. The doc splinted my ankle and sent me on my way. Babe got me ice cream on the way home.
So now I'm gimping around the house on crutches or "death sticks," if you will. My lack of grace is amplified with crutches and I'm just waiting for one of Moe's shoes to pop up out of no where, trip me up and launch me into space. My dogs have decided the best way to help me is to walk ahead of me, then decide at the last moment to move to the left, no the right. Wait! Yes, the left.
One of the pups has also decided the best place to hang out is right under the recliner where I sit with my leg propped six feet in the air. So when I have to go to the bathroom, I have to make sure she gets out of the way because the kids would be upset if I accidently killed her in the chair.
Potty breaks are a fun trip in themselves as I have to push my stack of pillow to the left, reach for my crutches and make sure the foot rest snaps snuggly in place before I stand up, or it will pop back up and smack me in my ouchie ankle because, of course it would.
We're headed to Florida next week so I'm thankful it isn't broken. I need both feet for jellyfish stings and I am capable of bring sand inside without involving a clunky cast.
Update: It has been a year since I hurt myself (that time). I still walk with a limp and my ankle swells if I walk too far or stand too long. Clearly I am of an age where once it's broke it stays that way. The trip to Florida was fun. The place we rented was super tiny so crutches were just the best. Also, the floor was tiled because sand, so the grips on the bottom of my crutches had nothing to grip, but did make for a heart stopping slip and slide ride.
I made it out to the beach the first day, but the sand was difficult to traverse on crutches (you probably already knew that, but I'm not the brightest bulb on the tree) and my splint picked up a lot of sand, so I mostly hung out in our cabana.
I want to go to Florida again, but I'll plan to stay sedentary, wrapped in bubble wrap, for the weeks preceding the trip.
I regret nothing!
Oh, Rats...
Freakin' furry monsters.
Earlier this year, Judy (our beloved Toyota Sienna) was sent to the Big Farm to retire. She'd put in sixteen years of hard labor and the wear was beginning to catch up with her. We had decided last year's high dollar repair was the last repair so when she was diagnosed with another high dollar repair, we pulled the plug. This left me without a vehicle, which was fine because I never go anywhere, but because Babe is the best, he was already scouting for a replacement.
A month or two later he found me a truck. OMG! I was so excited. However, that excitement was dampened a hair when I learned we'd have to drive half way across Texas to pick it up. No joke, it was five hours round trip. So not really half, but a whole day nonetheless. We decided to make a day of it so that worked out. We toured the jail where some guy murdered some other guy and then was murdered himself, and had some "meh" barbecue. Also, the previous owner was a smoker so I drove back with the windows down. Seventy mile per hour wind is a lot of wind, just so you know, and cigarette smoke permeates EV-ERY THING.
Anyway, now I've got an awesome truck with a liner and back-up camera and everything. The back-up camera is more on the annoying side because it beeps if you get too close to the car behind you. Which means it screams bloody murder if the tailgate is down, which happens sometimes. No I don't accidently leave the tailgate down, if that's what you're thinking.
My first order of business was to get some dirt so I could load it into my truck. Woot! Also, I needed dirt for the Garden of Contention which will get some attention in another post. Anyhoo, I have since made several trips to the dump, helped my sister move and pretty much filled that bed as often as I can. If you need something hauled, just call!
So, here we are not five month later and I was helping out a friend by taking her child to gymnastics. As the site of the class was in the middle of friggin no where, I waited in the truck for the clock to run out. About half an hour into my idle, my truck kind of sputtered and then stopped.
It started right up, so I didn't think too much about it until the next day when it threatened to die at a stoplight. I went to AutoZone to have my battery and alternator checked and they weren't the problem. I checked the air filter. It wasn't that. I made sure the gas cap was tightened, and checked the windshield wiper fluid as well as the blinker fluid, for good measure.
After running my errands, I was headed back home when all of a sudden I was coasting down the street. Thankfully, it was the street to my house so I coasted into the driveway. I tried starting the truck several times and the one or two times it turned over, it immediately died again. I could hear my debit card start sobbing from my wallet. Awesome.
After some googling, consulting with my male siblings, and hoping against hope, I was no closer to an answer. So I took Pixie (that's her name) to the mechanic.
The drive short, but anxiety inducing. She died at the first light where I was paused to turn right. It took several tries to start her up again. Then, I found myself in a school zone so I got to creep ever so slowly and sweat ever so profusely through that. Then, I found myself behind two of the slowest drivers ever to grace this earth. I couldn't change lanes because they were in both of them. I was beginning to worry I might have to push my truck the rest of the way to the mechanic when one of the cars finally moved up enough that I could get around both of them, but Pixie was stuttering and pulling so I wasn't sure how much longer she would last. And then the check engine light popped on. The suspense was thrilling. Would I make it in time? Would I have to push my track for the last few miles? Would there be anyone to help or would they all stare wide-eyed and stupefied as they passed? Should I just leave her on the side of the road? I had a lot of time to think while I was behind those two morons.
I just made it to the garage when she died again so I coasted into a spot and let her rest. A day later, I got the prognosis. Rats had gotten up under the hood and gone to town on a few of the sensors. And I had an oil leak.
What is it about plastic coating that rats find so delicious?
The repair or "check for one rat's meal" cost us three car payment. Imma find that rat and take those three car payments out of it's hide. Imma skin it and hang it's pelt in the back window of my truck as a warning to it's wife and progeny. Also, now I'm a little bit paranoid it will happen again. I've heard peppermint is a deterrent. So if you smell candy canes, it's probably me. I'm also looking into sonic boom tech to cause the little rodents auditory damage. They also invaded my garden and shat in my planters so they have it coming.
Damn rats.
