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February 19, 2024

The Unusual Gift of Desperation


The man standing on the front porch of our dental office didn’t have to say a word. We knew exactly why he was there, thirty minutes before we were scheduled to open. Pacing. Clutching his cheek. Wiping away tears.


People suffering from abscessed teeth do desperate things to relieve the agony. Remember actor Tom Hanks using an ice skate to extract his abscessed tooth in the movie Castaway? I haven’t witnessed any ice skate extractions, but I have encountered people who have burned their gums with powdered pain relievers, bruised their faces, and drunk themselves into a stupor. One man admitted he’d considered using a Black and Decker drill in his mouth.


I’ve never had an abscessed tooth (praise God), but I have been desperate. I suspect you have, too. 


Desperation

I was desperate when my husband lost his job, leaving our young family without income or insurance.


I was desperate when I faced a health crisis with an uncertain outcome, and I was desperate when my marriage struggled under the strain of anger, apathy, and disappointment.


I was desperate when a prodigal child turned their back on God, me, and everything I held dear.


My Greatest Desperation

When I was 18 years old, I experienced my greatest desperation.


On the outside, I had everything that should have made me happy. I’d graduated fourth in my high school class, had a steady boyfriend, and a full-tuition scholarship to the college of my choice. 


On the inside, I was miserable. Unexplainably miserable. So miserable that I’d look in the mirror every morning and sob.


When the cloud failed to lift and instead threatened to swallow me, I became desperate. I knew I couldn’t live this way much longer. I had to relieve the pain and begin to heal.


But heal from what?


I’d been attending a Bible-believing church—not because I cared about God, but because I cared about my boyfriend. He attended three times a week, so I did, too. Besides, his ex-girlfriend also attended, and I had to be sure she stayed his ex.


But for all the hours I spent there, nothing in my life changed. I sinned, and it didn’t bother me. I had little interest in the Bible or spiritual pursuits. I served others only when it served my purposes. I was selfish, self-centered, and self-absorbed. And did I mention I was selfish? Oh, my goodness was I selfish. I’d argue with my mom for fifteen minutes over doing a chore that took five.


One Dark Day

On the darkest day of that horribly glorious summer, I stared into the mirror at my red-rimmed eyes and snotty nose and knew something was desperately wrong. I needed help.


But who could I turn to? I couldn’t tell my parents (why, I have no idea, except that I was also prideful). I needed to talk with someone. A counselor. But counselors cost money, and I didn’t have any.


Then a realization struck me. I could talk to my pastor. Pastors are like counselors, right? They listen to people and try to help.


I called the church office and made an appointment for the next afternoon.


I don’t know what I planned to say to my pastor that day, but neither he nor I was prepared for what came out of my mouth.


In the presence of that kind man and in response to his gentle questions, an overwhelming sense of my sinfulness washed over me. I confessed the self-centered attitudes of my heart and the impure actions of my life. 


“I’ve been living my life my way,” I sobbed, “and I’ve made a mess of it. I’m making decisions that will impact the rest of my life, and I have no clue what I’m doing. Life is too big and too scary, and I don’t want to be in control anymore.”


With my pastor’s guidance, I surrendered my life to Christ that day. I left his office changed.


Dependent not Desperate

Fear of the future no longer lurked in the shadows of every day. Peace enabled me to sleep at night and awaken joyful. The Holy Spirit inside me began to transform my thoughts and actions. Suddenly, I loved God’s Word, God’s house, and God’s people.


I faced each day dependent on God, not desperate to figure out life on my own.


I now had a Father who promised to love me no matter what, meet my needs, order the days of my life, and, one day, take me home to live with Him forever.


Are You Feeling Desperate Today?


Maybe you’re feeling desperate because you’ve never surrendered yourself—your whole self—to God. Today can be the day. 


Seek the Lord. Ask Him to help you understand your sin and your need for His redemption. He’s designed your desperation to help you seek His salvation.


Maybe you’re feeling desperate because you’ve asked Christ to be your Savior, but you’re not following Him. You’ve been living your life your way, and it’s a mess. Surrender it to Him—all of it. Confess your independence and promise to follow Him as He reveals himself to you through His Word and wise counselors. Give Him the broken pieces of your life and trust Him to make something beautiful.


Maybe you desperately want God to work in a situation that seems too big and too ugly for even Him to fix. Trust Him. Pray. Seek wise counsel. Pray some more. Surrender the outcome to His all-wise and all-loving will and faithfully obey what He tells you to do. Don’t lose heart. God is always at work.


Desperation Is a Good Thing

Our dental patient’s desperation was a good thing, because it caused him to seek out someone who could ease his pain and help him heal. 


Spiritual desperation is a blessing, too, if it presses us into God. He and only He can ease our pain and help us heal.


If you’re feeling desperate today, run to Jesus. He’s calling you.



This post first appeared on Revive Our Hearts blog.



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February 12, 2024

Powerful Comfort When the Answers Are Slow in Coming


Last week, A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind released. Because of kind and supportive readers like you, it ranked as a Top Ten New Release on Amazon!


Today, I’d like to share one more excerpt as a thank you. If it blesses you, I hope you’ll add A Word for Your Day to your reading list.



Wait

For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay. 


Habakkuk 2:3

Winter lasts forever in New England. 


We used to say my home state of Rhode Island has three seasons, not four—June, July, and winter. From the first frost of October to the last frost of May, the landscape shivers under grey skies, damp air, and icy blankets of snow. The growing season is short. Farmers and amateur gardeners often wait until after Memorial Day to sow their seeds and plant their tender plants.


Every year at Easter my mother would gather my sisters and me, dressed in our holiday finery, for a picture. One snapshot stands out in my memory. Taken during the first week of April, the grainy image shows the three of us huddled together on the front porch with purple crocuses poking through the snow at our feet.


I’ve weathered quite a few long winters. Some I’ve marked on the calendar, crossing out days with big red Xs as the months creep by. Others I’ve marked with tear-filled journal entries and agonizing seasons of prayer.


A prodigal child, a struggling marriage, or a relational conflict can cause even the steadiest hope to wobble. A long season of unemployment or a loved one battling addiction invites Satan’s icy fingers to clutch at our hearts and squeeze the breath from our lungs. 


Years of unanswered prayers for a baby, a spouse, or a dream rattle the leaves of hope, scattering the precious few that cling to the branches.


When you’re in the middle of a long winter, spring seems very far away. It’s easy to imagine, as C. S. Lewis wrote of the fictional world of Narnia, that it will be “always winter and never Christmas.”


This is why I take comfort in these verses in the tiny book of Habakkuk. They remind me that though God’s answer seems long in coming, it will come.


The prophet Habakkuk groaned under God’s seeming disinterest in the chaos that surrounded him. Evil acts, lawlessness, and injustice troubled his world. 


“How long, Lord, must I call for help, but you do not listen?” he wailed to the sky. “Or cry out to you, ‘Violence!’ but you do not save? Why do you make me look at injustice? Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?” (Habakkuk 1:2–3).


I’ve often prayed Habakkuk-type prayers, asking God, “How long?”


How long will it take for a loved one to recognize the self-destructive path they’re on and repent? How long will the godly suffer with no one to rescue them? How long will people struggle with cancer, or Parkinson’s, or depression before they experience a breakthrough?


“Look at the nations and watch,” the Lord replies to Habakkuk’s question, “and be utterly amazed. For I am going to do something in your days that you would not believe, even if you were told” (v. 5).


God reminded Habakkuk that though answers seem slow in coming, he could trust His timing. 


And he could trust that the means God used would accomplish His good and perfect will, even when they weren’t what he expected.


Long before my sisters and I glimpsed the crocus petals pushing through the snow that Easter day, God was at work.


When last year’s blossoms died, He’d already begun the process of rebirth.


All seemed frozen and dead to the watching world. But God was working where we couldn’t see. First the roots emerged, drinking in life-giving water, and pushing deep into the icy soil. Then the leaves unfurled. Finally, the stalk pushed through the snow. “Though it linger, wait for it,” God said to Habakkuk. “It will certainly come and will not delay” (2:3).


Then, one snowy day no different from all the rest, beauty erupted from the ground.


And we marveled.


Crocuses in the snow.


You may have sown the seeds of faith into your children, but the soil of their heart seems frozen solid. Perhaps you’ve planted snips of kindness into relationships that shiver with cold. Maybe you’ve watered the ground with your prayer-soaked tears, but the landscape stretches before you like a polar expanse.


Don’t give up. Believe that the God who is always at work is working for you. Sight unseen. Accomplishing His purposes, in His way, in His timing.


“The Lord is in his holy temple,” Habakkuk declares (v. 20).


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“The just shall live by his faith” (v. 4 NKJV).


Trust in the Lord. Don’t give up hope. Wait.


This post is an excerpt from the book, A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind, by Lori Hatcher, published by Our Daily Bread Publishing and used with permission.


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Allow God’s Word to change your life, one word at a time! This 66-day devotional highlights one relevant, sometimes unexpected, word from each book of the Bible. Lori Hatcher, the best-selling author of Refresh Your Faith and Refresh Your Prayers, shares simple—but never simplistic—truths. She continues to remind us that every part of Scripture is active, alive, and applicable. 


From beginning in Genesis to new in Revelation, ponder each significant word as you move through your day and allow God to transform your heart and mind.


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February 5, 2024

TADA! It’s HERE! It’s HERE! Come Celebrate with Me



You’ve heard the whispers . . .


You’ve read the excerpts . . .


You’ve watched the countdown . . .


Some of you have even prayed for a safe delivery . . .


While I’d love to be announcing the arrival of a new grandbaby, that’s out of my control.


The next best announcement I could make would be to announce the arrival of my new BOOK BABY.


Ushered into the world at 5 a.m. Amazon time, A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind weighed in at a diminutive 9.6 ounces. At nine inches long, it stands spine to spine with its Refresh siblings.


But don’t let its premie stats fool you. This full-term, 240-page devotional burgeons with high-impact stories that will make you laugh, cry, and worship. One special word at a time, one from each book of the Bible, will invite you to learn more about God and His Word, comfort and strengthen your faith, and warm and cheer your heart. And when you’re not expecting it, I’ve snuck in a chuckle here and there, because life gets way too serious, and we’ve just gotta laugh.


I’d love for you, my most faithful readers, to have one of the earliest copies of A Word for Your Day.


I hope you’ll place your order today—one for you, and one for that special friend who needs gentle, heart-warming spiritual encouragement.


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January 29, 2024

Do You Need a Glorious Reason to Rejoice Today?


On hopeless days, we all need a reason to rejoice.


Last week I shared an excerpt from my new book, A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind. This devotional takes you on a grand and glorious journey through every book of the Bible. Each story-driven (often hilarious) devotion captures the essence of one important word. Starting with Beginning in Genesis and ending with New in Revelation, we’ll journey together through the highs and lows of life on this earth. We’ll laugh, cry, and praise God together for His faithfulness to walk with us all the days of our life.


One of the benefits of being a faithful reader is early access and sneak peeks, so today I want to share an excerpt from the book I hope will make you laugh, maybe cry, and, if I’ve done my job right, REJOICE. I pray it blesses you big time and remind you of all we have waiting for us.



Rejoice

Behold, this is our God; we have waited for him,  that he might save us. This is the Lord; we have waited  for him; let us be glad and rejoice in his salvation.


Isaiah 25:9 esv


Remember a time when you waited for something. Something you wanted badly. Something you knew would be the most wonderful thing in your life.I waited for college graduation. This event, I was sure, would launch me into the glorious world of adulthood and autonomy. With that precious piece of paper in my hand, I could leave behind the limitations of youth and rise to take my place in the world.


Several months later, I waited for my wedding day. No longer would I be lonely and incomplete. My husband would supply everything that was missing in my life and devote himself to making me happy.


Five years after we said “I do,” we waited for our first daughter to be born. The baby who stood on my bladder, pinched my sciatic nerve, and awakened me with her hiccups in the middle of the night would bring joy and happiness to our world.


Isaiah the prophet waited too. He waited for Israel to repent. He waited for the world to recognize the one true God. He waited for the Messiah to save His people from their sins. Most of all, he waited for God to usher in His forever kingdom.


The day I received my much-awaited college degree was a glorious one. My family gathered at a local restaurant and celebrated. That thin piece of parchment unlocked the door to my forty-year career as a dental hygienist. It also unlocked the door to long workdays, a stiff neck, and patients with cigarette breath.


And that marriage license? One hundred people gathered to witness our joy. It began almost forty years (so far) of learning to live with my best friend. It also began the challenge of trying to love each other well despite our tendencies to hurt and disappoint each other.


My nine-month wait for my precious daughter culminated in such overwhelming feelings of love I thought my heart would burst. David and I laughed, cried, and praised God for His goodness. Three days later colic began. Love covers a multitude of evils, but colic tested it to the limits.


Everything I’ve waited for and celebrated in this life has brought with it a mixture of joy and sorrow, triumph and trial.


But one day, Isaiah declares, Jesus will return, trials will disappear, and we will begin a celebration that will never end.


Someday, Isaiah wrote, Israel’s eyes will be opened and they will embrace Jesus as their long-awaited Messiah. “I, the Lord, have called you in righteousness; I will take hold of your hand. I will keep you and will make you to be a covenant for the people and a light for the Gentiles, to open eyes that are blind, to free captives from prison and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness” (Isaiah 42:6–7).


God will usher in His kingdom with shouts of joy. “To me every knee shall bow, every tongue shall swear allegiance” (45:23 esv).


The good news of salvation will spread on grateful tongues across all the world. “You will bring my salvation to the ends of the earth” (49:6 nlt).


And, finally, “He will swallow up death forever; and the Lord God will wipe away tears from all faces” (25:8 esv).


It’s not only okay but appropriate to celebrate the long-awaited things of this world. But are we also actively waiting for Jesus to come back? Do we live each day eager to celebrate His coming? Do we hold the things of this earth loosely, knowing a better world awaits us?


Be assured, something far superior is coming—something that will cause the things of this earth to grow strangely dim. No longer a mix of joy and sorrow, our forever lives will be more satisfying and marvelous than we can imagine.


Ponder this. Hold fast to the faith. Imagine what it will be like to celebrate with Isaiah, “Behold, this is our God; we have waited for him, that he might save us. This is the Lord; we have waited for him; let us be glad and rejoice in his salvation” (25:9 esv).


No matter how long it takes for Jesus to return, wait. Be glad. 


Rejoice.




Will you pray with me that God will use A Word for Your Day: 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind to draw my readers into a richer, fuller relationship with God this year? And if you’d like to be one of the first to read A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind, click HERE to order. Word has it that advance copies will begin shipping BEFORE its official release date of February 3. Wouldn’t you love to have one of the first copies?





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January 22, 2024

Disappointed with New Year Resolutions? Try This Unusual Approach


“Shoot for average and fail cheerfully.”


Not the advice I expected from Stanford School of Business lecturer Dan Klein. Apparently, his odd words also unsettled his high-achieving students. But over the course of the semester they—and I, vicariously—learned the wisdom in his advice.


I stumbled across Dan’s words in a podcast called “Think Fast, Talk Smart,” but his insight reminded me of principles from the Old Testament book of Zechariah. Written to the Israelites who’d returned from exile to rebuild God’s temple, the book records instructions and encouragement for Israel and its governor, Zerubbabel. As they faced the enormous task before them, He reminded them, “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin” (Zechariah 4:10 NLT).


Personally, I lean toward overachieving, not underachieving. To big accomplishments, not small. This mindset especially manifests itself at the start of every new year. I set big goals and lofty resolutions. And fail almost every time.


My failures made Dan Klein and Zechariah’s advice seem especially appealing as I approached January 1, 2023. This and the age-old adage that insanity is doing the same thing the same way and expecting different results. I knew something had to change.


Wise mentor Mary Hunt, in an article called “Foolproof Secrets to Guarantee You’ll Keep Your New Year’s Resolution,” suggests four steps: 


Read the rest of this post on God Hears Her blog by clicking here: “Why Not Shoot for Average?”




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January 15, 2024

Who Doesn’t Love a New Beginning?


Faithful readers, I’m so excited to share my new book with you! Available for pre-order now, A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind takes you on a grand and glorious journey through every book of the Bible. Each story-driven (often hilarious) devotion captures the essence of one important word. Starting with Beginning in Genesis and ending with New in Revelation, we’ll journey together through the highs and lows of life on this earth. We’ll laugh, cry, and praise God together for His faithfulness to walk with us all the days of our life.


Because I’m grateful for your faithful readership, I want to share with you a sneak peek at the very first devotion in the book. I pray it blesses you big time.


Will you pray with me that God will use this book to draw many into a richer, fuller relationship with God this year? And if you’d like to be one of the first to read A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind, click HERE to order. Word has it that advance copies will begin shipping BEFORE its official release date of February 3. Wouldn’t you love to have one of the first copies?



beginning

In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 



Genesis 1:1

Who doesn’t love a new beginning? Especially the beginning of a new year. With the orbit of the earth and the turn of the calendar page, we bid the old farewell and greet the new with a welcoming kiss. Only a second separates the previous year from the following, yet there it is—a fresh start. A do-over. A reboot.


Three hundred sixty-five days stretch promisingly before us, shining in their unmarred splendor. We breathe in their scent, crisp and clean, and we feel hope. A new year invites us to archive the difficulties of the previous year and turn our faces toward the dawn of new beginnings.


Like children on the first day of summer vacation, we look ahead to days fertile with promise, and our imaginations soar. Will this be the year our prodigal turns to the Lord? Or the year a long-awaited dream comes true? Will the prayer of a decade come to fruition? 


Will God reveal himself in ways we can only imagine?


At the dawn of time, the Bible tells us, God was there. “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1). Hebrews 1:10 fleshes out the details: “In the beginning, Lord, you laid the foundations of the earth, and the heavens are the work of your hands.”


I wonder if God’s heart beat hard as He peered out over the vast expanse of nothingness, knowing that very soon, something spectacular would take its place. A sparkling world filled with promise only He could create. As we face new beginnings, do our hearts beat with similar anticipation?


Sometimes mine does. Other times, a niggle of fear gnaws at the edges of my excitement. If the previous year has been hard, I wonder if more heartache will follow. If the year overflowed with joy and blessings, I wonder if the tide will turn, pummeling my life with storms.


Whether you greet a new start with anticipation or trepidation, it’s comforting to know that God has been present in every beginning. The early verses of John 1 affirm this truth. “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning” (vv. 1–2).


Revelation 22:13 tells us that Beginning is one of His names: “I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.”


Whether your new year holds tragedy or triumph, you can rest in confidence that God is there. Not just in the beginning, but all the way through. Unlike the deists—who believe God set the world in motion, then stepped back to watch it play itself out—we know God goes behind us and before us, hemming us in with His presence and protection (Psalm 139:5). Nothing comes into our lives that isn’t filtered through His hands of love.


We can be confident God will accompany us every step of the way—through our new year, our new venture, our new beginning.


*This post is excerpted from A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind, published by Our Daily Bread Publishing.


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January 8, 2024

If You’re Grieving the Loss of Someone You Love


Sometimes we find the greatest comfort in the simplest truths. If you’re grieving the loss of someone you love today, or you know someone who is, allow me to share some comfort.


But first, a story to set the stage.


My friend and his wife have an ongoing bet. If he fails to notice her haircut within 24 hours, he has to take her out to dinner.


 Sometimes he wins. Sometimes he loses.


It’s crazy, really, how someone who lives in the same house, sits at the same breakfast table, and sleeps in the same bed can miss something as obvious as a haircut. And it goes both ways—it took her two days to notice that he’d shaved the mustache he’d worn for six months.


There is a danger in the familiar. It’s possible we become so familiar that we fail to really see.


This happened to me at church recently. The worship leader announced the hymn for the day: “It Is Well with My Soul,” and launched into the familiar story behind the song.


“Horatio Spafford’s wife and four daughters were sailing to England when a horrible storm arose. . .”



I’ve heard the story a hundred times. But that day, as I sang the words from the hymnal, I noticed something I’d never seen before.


Not a haircut or a mustache, I saw something that makes this precious hymn even more meaningful and deep: two quotation marks.


The last verse of the hymn reads:


And Lord, haste the day when the faith shall be sight,

The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;

The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,

“Even so,” it is well with my soul.


A writer uses quotation marks to show he’s quoting words from another source. And what was the source that brought Horatio Spafford comfort as he mourned the loss of his beloved daughters?


The Word of God.


“Even so,” is a quote from 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14.


As Horatio sailed the ocean that had swallowed his children, broke his wife’s heart, and plunged him into a deep, gut-wrenching grief, the Word of God spoke hope and comfort.



“But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.”

1 Thessalonians 4:13-14

God used the truth Horatio Spafford had stored in his heart to speak comfort to his broken heart.


You will see your daughters again, the Holy Spirit whispered. Grieve, but don’t grieve as those who have no hope. You believe in Christ—that he conquered death, hell, and the grave. His resurrection proved that death could not hold him. Mourn your loved ones. Mourn them deeply, but fear not. You will see them again. They rest safely in the bosom of Jesus, and he will bring them with him on the last day. 


“Even so,” it is well with my soul.


If you’re grieving the loss of someone you love today, may God give you eyes to see the familiar. May his Word give you comfort and hope.



May it be well with your soul. 


“It is in the quiet crucible of your personal private sufferings that your noblest dreams are born and God’s greatest gifts are given in compensation for what you’ve been through.” ~Wintley Phipps



If you’re looking for more words of hope and comfort, I encourage you to check out my friend Marilyn Nutter’s new book, Hope for Widows.


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January 2, 2024

My Totally Awesome Working on This Forever Bodaciously Exciting Gift


Want to know a secret?


In 2020 (yes, during COVID), I wrote a sister book to my best-selling devotional, Refresh Your Faith. Like RYF, it contained 66 devotions, one from every book of the Bible. But instead of spotlighting a VERSE from every book, it spotlighted a WORD from every book.


Glorious words like:


Beginning, Pleasure, and Rejoice


Curious words like:


If, But, and Wait


Unexpected words like:


Infirmity, Wresting, and Surprised


It was to be my gift to you during a very trying time.


But the wheels of publishing moved curiously, and instead of immediately following Refresh Your Faith, the book queued up behind Refresh Your Prayers and Refresh Your Hope in the publishing line.


A Word for Your Day Cover Image

But

It’s finally time. A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind is poised to release on February 4!


Here’s the description from the back cover:


Allow God’s Word to change your life, one word at a time! This 66-day devotional highlights one relevant, sometimes unexpected, word from each book of the Bible. Lori Hatcher, the best-selling author of Refresh Your Faith and Refresh Your Prayers, shares simple—but never simplistic—truths. She continues to remind us that every part of Scripture is active, alive, and applicable. 


From beginning in Genesis to new in Revelation, ponder each significant word as you move through your day and allow God to transform your heart and mind.


Soooooooo, I Need Your Help

Will you help me launch this book? I’m looking for 50 readers who will be a part of my Launch Team. Not sure what this involves? Here’s a job description:


Click to hear details about A Word for Your Day https://youtu.be/IJyk677nrwY

A launch team member commits to:



Pray for the launch, the author (that’s me), and A Word for Your Day , that we’ll connect with every person God intends this book to reach.
Read an advance copy of A Word for Your Day (I’ll provide an electronic copy you can read on your computer or phone) and post an Amazon review.
Post about A Word for Your Day on social media in the weeks surrounding the book launch.
Purchase a copy of A Word for Your Day (if you’re able) on or before launch day. (This ensures that Amazon will accept your review as a Verified Purchase.)

What’s in it for you?


You’ll get to read A Word for Your Day before it releases to the public (YAY! Who doesn’t love to be at the front of the line?)


You’ll help me connect with every person God intends this book to reach. (A launch team member is ON MISSION to share the good news of the gospel and the life-changing message of God’s Word. I’m reasonably sure there will be rewards in heaven for helping share the good news 🙂


You’ll earn my deep, deep gratitude as we partner together in the faith life. (The writing life is lonely. But dedicated readers keep me writing :).


Will you pray about this? And if you feel the Lord leading you to be a part of launching A Word for Your Day, email me at LoriAHatcher (at) gmail.com. I’ll add you to the team, and we’ll get busy!


If you’re not able to help in this way, would you pray for me, the book, and my publisher, Our Daily Bread? More than anything, we want God to be glorified, and may to be drawn into a richer, fuller relationship with our precious Lord and Savior.


To hear more about A Word for Your Day, click HERE or on my picture above to watch a brief YouTube video with more details.


Happy New Year!




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January 1, 2024

Would you Like to Draw Closer to God this Year? Here’s the Best Way


The headline read, “Ten Ways to Draw Closer to God this Year.” As I looked down at the long list, I sighed. I was a young mom overwhelmed with the responsibilities of caring for two young children, homeschooling, serving in church, and working outside the home part time. I didn’t need ten more things to do. 


Why doesn’t anyone write an article giving ONE way to draw close to God this year? I wondered. I could do that. 


Twenty years later, this is that article. ONE WAY TO DRAW CLOSER TO GOD THIS YEAR. 


And here’s the one way: read your Bible.


If you’re super busy and need to move on, you can stop reading now. You know what to do. If you’d like to hear my story (and read several reasons I believe this is the best way to draw closer to God), read on. 


I’ve been a Christian for almost forty years. I’ve done Bible studies, joined women’s groups, attended retreats and conferences, and practiced all the spiritual disciplines, but only reading the Bible has revolutionized my life and drawn me closer to God. 


I’m not saying Bible studies, women’s retreats, and all the other things I just mentioned aren’t helpful. They are, and I recommend them all. But nothing has transformed my life and drawn me closer to God than reading His Word. 



Fits and Starts 

For years, I treated the Bible like my favorite piece of jewelry. I’d pick it up and put it down based on the occasion. During times of trial, I wore it close to my heart. During times of busyness or prosperity, I left it on the dresser. 


Every December when our pastor or Sunday school teacher encouraged us to commit to read the Bible in the new year, I’d sign on the pledge card and make a good start. 


Many years I sailed all the way through Genesis and Exodus only to shipwreck on the rocks of Leviticus. My relationship with and commitment to reading God’s Word was as fickle as a toddler at a buffet. Some days I’d feast, and other days I’d snack. Some days (months), I’d fast completely. 


My spiritual life mirrored my commitment level. In some seasons, I grew and flourished. Other times, I struggled, languished, and fainted. 



Many times, my motivation for reading was off base. I used it to bargain for God’s favor. “Lord, I read my Bible every day this week. Haven’t I earned a blessing?” I used it as a lucky rabbit’s foot. “Well, nothing bad can happen to me today because I checked off the Bible Reading box on my Good Christian scorecard.” 


Sometimes I used it to prop up my weak self-esteem and sense of worth. “I’m super spiritual. I read my Bible every day.” 


Then one day, I heard a Bible study leader tell her story. As a fairly new believer, she had joined the Campus Crusade for Christ (now Cru) staff as a college leader. One day, a speaker challenged the Cru leaders to commit to read the Bible for five minutes a day. Just five minutes. Every day. “See if it doesn’t change your life,” he said. 


She and the other students took the challenge. Some days she’d read more, but she never read less. She read her Bible every day for at least five minutes. The habit drew her closer to God and transformed her life. 


Twenty years later, she said, the group of college students, now middle-aged adults, held a reunion. Every person who had kept the commitment to read their Bibles for at least five minutes a day was still passionately walking with the Lord. Many were serving Him in full-time ministry. 


When I heard her story, my heart stirred. I want the kind of faith that lasts, I thought. I want to be like Jesus. I’m tired of wobbling around like a toddler, spending more time picking myself up off the ground than moving forward. I want to know God.


So I committed to read my Bible every day. 


Much later, I discovered Psalm 19:7-13, which gives fourteen reasons to feast on God’s Word:


God’s Word: 

Converts the soul (v. 7). 


Makes the simple wise (v. 7). 


Brings joy to our hearts (v. 8). 


Enlightens our eyes (v. 8).


Is pure and enduring (v. 9). 


Can be trusted (v. 9). 


Is more valuable than fine gold (v. 10). 


Adds sweetness to our lives (v. 10). 


Warns us of danger (v. 11). 


Bestows a special reward (v. 11). 


Reveals error in our lives (v. 12). 


Keeps us from presumption (v. 12). 


Guards us from becoming enslaved by sin (v. 13). 


Protects us from great transgressions (v. 13). 


Don’t you want these blessings? I do. 


If you’re sick of half-hearted Christianity and up-again-down-again spiritual growth, commit to read the Bible every day. Not to check off a box, acquire knowledge, or impress those around you. Read it to learn more about God. 


Ask the question, “God, what will you show me about yourself today?” and then look for His answer. You’ll draw closer to God, and your life will be transformed. 


I know. It happened to me.


A Christian cannot look sincerely into the Word of God—the whole word of God—and remain the same. And you cannot know God without knowing His Word.


But once you do, oh my. You’ll never look back.


On January 1, 2024, I will commit again to read my Bible through this year. Although I’ve done this for more than a decade, God has already shown me exciting new insights and glimpses of His heart, His love, and His character on these familiar pages. 


Do you want to draw closer to God this year? Do you want to know Him intimately and love Him deeply? Do you want to experience His power in your life?


Read your Bible. 


Now it’s your turn. Do you read your Bible regularly? Has this practice helped you draw closer to God? Leave a comment below, and share your experience. If you’re reading by email, click HERE to visit Refresh online and share your thoughts in the comment box.


A SNEAK PREVIEW

And now . . . a sneak preview to what’s coming in 2024! Click on the box to see the image and read the description below for my newest book, A Word for Your Day, 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind.





A Word for Your Day: 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind


Allow God’s Word to change your life, one word at a time. This 66-day devotional highlights one relevant, sometimes unexpected, word from each book of the Bible. Lori Hatcher, the best-selling author of Refresh Your Faith and Refresh Your Prayers, shares simple—but never simplistic—truths. She continues to remind us that every part of Scripture is active, alive, and applicable. 


From beginning in Genesis to new in Revelation, ponder each significant word as you move through your day and allow God to transform your heart and mind.




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Published on January 01, 2024 02:58

December 18, 2023

My Special Christmas Gift from the Lord



It happened when I wasn’t expecting it. 


In fact, for a few moments during that lovely Christmas Day service, surrounded by all the trappings of the season, I had forgotten I was pregnant. I’d moved past the queasy months of early pregnancy. In a comfortable interim, I hadn’t yet entered the awkward, uncomfortable final months before our baby was born. As yet, there was no visible evidence of the child growing within me.


And so it came, quietly, unexpectedly, so subtly that by the time I realized what was happening, it was over.  The choir reverently sang the songs of the Christmas season, and the pastor proclaimed the glorious hope of Christmas, “For unto us, a Child is born. Unto us, a Son is given” (Isaiah 9:6), but my focus was internal, tense and waiting.  


And then it happened again. 


Deep inside me, I felt the tiniest flicker.  Like the flutter of a butterfly’s wings, I felt my baby move for the first time.


Enthralled by the miracle of life exhibiting itself so personally, I gradually became aware of the pastor’s words, “At that time Mary got ready and hurried to a town in the hill country of Judea, where she entered Zechariah’s home and greeted Elizabeth.  When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb” (Luke 1:39-41).


Like Elizabeth, the cousin of Mary and pregnant mother of John the Baptizer, I felt my baby leap inside of me. Over two thousand years ago, Elizabeth had stood in the presence of the woman who carried her unborn Savior and cried, “When the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the baby leaped for joy inside of me!” (Luke 1:44). 


That Christmas day, hearing God’s word preached and singing songs of praise, I, too, had stood in the presence of my Savior. His name is Emmanuel, God with us.  And in the quietness of our worship, my baby leaped for joy.


My prayer for you this Christmas season is that you, like Elizabeth, will recognize that you stand in the presence of your Savior. May you, too, be filled with joy.  


 Merry Christmas!




About Refresh Your Hope,
60 Devotions for Trusting God with All Your Heart

How can you hold on to hope in an uncertain world? Especially when experiencing disappointments, setbacks, and discouragement? In Refresh Your Hope, Lori Hatcher invites you to renew your confidence and courage by calling attention to the remarkably good news—you have a hope greater than you could ever imagine.

 

An unshakable hope.

 

In this uplifting, Scripture-driven 60-day devotional, Lori returns to our rock-solid foundation—God’s amazing promises and His faithful character. Each warm, story-based reading will help you grow closer to God as you reflect on His assurances, His generous nature, and His unwavering commitments. Strengthen your prayer life with thought-provoking prompts. Replace anxiety with joy, peace, and trust while encountering Bible truths about the ultimate Source of hope.


Available now on Amazon.com, Christianbook.com, and other fine retailers.


Why not share a copy with a friend who could use a fresh dose of hope?



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