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5-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Court

I grew up in a family who didn't believe in dating. No, we weren't crazy, here's 5 reasons why.



(Most people's faces when you tell them you don't date)

1. A lot less stress

Finding your "perfect" man isn't like a Disney movie. Girls go on a hunt for Prince Charming and weird enough, he keeps turning into the frog prince. Yuck.


Don't settle for the frog. God has your prince.

Courting is based on trust. When you trust God about your relationship, you won't end up with a frog. Who wants frog breath? I mean come on!

2. Heartache doesn't happen

How many girls get their hearts shattered by a guy they got into a relationship with that wasn't God? Just read New Moon from the Twilight series, good gravy, you'll see what it does to some girls when a boy leaves them.

3. Be happier with the single life

While you're single, enjoy it! Live life with the contentment of having faith that God's got your back. Instead of obsessing over the perfect man, just discover who you are, and what you love doing in life. A man will be attracted to a girl who's got her head screwed on straight.



4. Build a friendship that will last forever

When I first met my husband, I desperately needed a friend, and we started chatting back and forth on-line. I didn't stress about anything, just built our friendship over time. Amazingly enough, that friendship became more.

You want the man you marry to be your best friend.
If you're not comfortable farting in front of the guy, then he's probably not for you. Obviously, you don't wanna fart the first time you meet.

5. Your relationship will shine

When God brings that perfect man into your life, I say "perfect" but don't expect your guy not to screw up now and again. But, God knows what will polish you and help you move forward. So, don't be surprised if you attract the exact opposite of your personality.



Believe me, this courting stuff works. God brought along the man for me, right when I needed him most. He makes me laugh, lightens my life with his smile, and helps me through anything I face. Don't give up, girls! God has your dream man for you!

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Natasha House is the author of Grace Alive, a modern day Christian romance novel where Zoe, a pastor's daughter faces a giant challenge with the topic of courting. If you enjoy Christian romance, with humor, drama, and passion, then you'll enjoy Grace Alive.
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