Bryant McGill's Blog, page 34
November 28, 2015
Your heart is not broken
"Your heart is not broken. Hearts don't break. What you are feeling is growing pains. Your heart is expanding in wisdom, compassion, and strength, so one day, you can love even more."
— Bryant McGill
November 27, 2015
Your heart is not breaking
"Your heart is not breaking; it's expanding."
— Bryant McGill
November 23, 2015
Your love becomes beauty
"Anything, or anyone you love becomes more beautiful."
— Bryant McGill
November 20, 2015
Why you are miserable
"You want them to be sorry, which is why you are miserable."
— Bryant McGill
November 19, 2015
Broken people often demand from others, what they cannot summon from within
Uneasiness and suffering spills out on everyone around the wounded soul who cannot see themselves. What they have not observed, accepted and healed within themselves infects everyone they meet. Their instability shakes every encounter with uneasiness. Their desperate longing for meaningful contact and peace, is steadily amplified by their unconscious and ill-mannered quarks of petty drama, or neglect. Broken people often demand from others, what they cannot summon from within. Many wounded pe...
October 28, 2015
If you want to be loved
"If you want to be loved, you first must open your own heart."
— Bryant McGill
Do not get sucked into their hellish world
"Some people will suck you into their hellish world if you let them. They will keep you there forever, for drama after drama, as their emotional support — as their prisoner."
— Bryant McGill
October 27, 2015
Sometimes letting go is the only way to survive
Some people love to relive their pain; they are perpetual victims. They are always fanning into flames every little spark. Some people are addicted to the trauma of the drama; their raison d'etre is the daily struggle against their own created turmoil. The struggle in life is their stagecraft, where the people around them become unwitting performers in their dramatic scenes. Crisis is their sensation of being alive; spectacle is their excitement and proof of life. In absence of true passion a...
Everyone goes through hell, but not everyone stays there
Everyone goes through hell, but not everyone stays there. Stop tormenting yourself by reliving the pain over and over. Good people go through terrible things, but wise people know when and how to let it go. We all know that wisdom does not come easy, it often comes from painful experience. Many of us are very unwise in how we handle our pain. Like an animal that struggles in a steel trap, we worsen our wounds the way we struggle, deny, and fight against what simply, is. When we refuse to lear...
Everyone goes through hell
"Everyone goes through hell, but not everyone stays there. Stop tormenting yourself by reliving the pain over and over. Good people go through terrible things, but wise people know when and how to let it go."
— Bryant McGill
