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October 7, 2025
When you're a girl on a Twin Flame Journey "Twin flames aren’t just a fairy tale. For a girl on this journey, pain is real, invisible battles are constant — and the ultimate lesson is learning to love yourself." Self-love is the magic that heals the dee
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Do You Know What It Means to Be a Girl on a Twin Flame Journey?
You may have heard about twin flames — and maybe you’ve been told it’s just a beautiful fairy tale. Many people don’t believe they exist, because twin flames are so rare. But rare doesn’t mean unreal. Twin flames are real, and the greatest proof of their existence is the endless pain you carry for years, a pain that never fades away.
So what does it mean to be a girl on a twin flame journey?
It means being a constant target and a trigger.
It means nobody around you believes you, and worse — you feel invisible, because the world keeps trying to convince you that you don’t exist, or that you’re just a joke.
Crazy? Exactly.
Time goes on, and slowly, a girl’s heart almost stops beating. Yet she doesn’t stop loving. She doesn’t stop feeling. In fact, she begins to love and feel even more deeply. And then she realizes the truth: love must begin with herself.
That’s when the magic happens.
Her wounded heart begins to shine.
The twin flame journey proves one thing: self-love heals even the deepest wounds. Love can heal the world — but it has to start with you. Because if every person truly loved and valued themselves, there wouldn’t be a single unhappy soul left on earth.
And maybe, we go through this pain only to finally understand that.
💫 This reflection is inspired by my memoir Under My Skin —
a raw, ironic, and spiritual story about twin flames, pain, and transformation.
© Oleksandra Fomichova, pen name: yourrrr_soul
Originally published on Medium.
📖 Available here:
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
Kobo: https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Gumroad: https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
Instagram: @yourrrr_soul
Do You Know What It Means to Be a Girl on a Twin Flame Journey?
You may have heard about twin flames — and maybe you’ve been told it’s just a beautiful fairy tale. Many people don’t believe they exist, because twin flames are so rare. But rare doesn’t mean unreal. Twin flames are real, and the greatest proof of their existence is the endless pain you carry for years, a pain that never fades away.
So what does it mean to be a girl on a twin flame journey?
It means being a constant target and a trigger.
It means nobody around you believes you, and worse — you feel invisible, because the world keeps trying to convince you that you don’t exist, or that you’re just a joke.
Crazy? Exactly.
Time goes on, and slowly, a girl’s heart almost stops beating. Yet she doesn’t stop loving. She doesn’t stop feeling. In fact, she begins to love and feel even more deeply. And then she realizes the truth: love must begin with herself.
That’s when the magic happens.
Her wounded heart begins to shine.
The twin flame journey proves one thing: self-love heals even the deepest wounds. Love can heal the world — but it has to start with you. Because if every person truly loved and valued themselves, there wouldn’t be a single unhappy soul left on earth.
And maybe, we go through this pain only to finally understand that.
💫 This reflection is inspired by my memoir Under My Skin —
a raw, ironic, and spiritual story about twin flames, pain, and transformation.
© Oleksandra Fomichova, pen name: yourrrr_soul
Originally published on Medium.
📖 Available here:
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
Kobo: https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Gumroad: https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
Instagram: @yourrrr_soul
When You’re an Empath, Everyone Thinks You’re Mother Teresa
When You’re an Empath, Everyone Thinks You’re Mother Teresa
People automatically assume that if you’re an empath, you must spend your nights crying over stray animals and sobbing at the end of Titanic. That you’re some kind of emotional sponge, a free psychologist, psychiatrist, and volunteer for every broken soul who happens to cross your path.
The truth is different.
An empath is someone who feels the emotions and pain of others — deeply, intensely, sometimes more than they want to. But feeling doesn’t mean absorbing. A real empath doesn’t exist to be a dumping ground for the world’s trauma. They can point out what’s hurting you, why you keep repeating the same mistakes, and how you might be unconsciously causing pain to yourself and everyone around you.
So what is my book Under My Skin really about?
Is it just another tale about twin flames?
Not quite. It’s the story of a girl who was supposed to become that emotional sieve for everyone else’s dirt. Instead, she turned out to be something else — a so-called “dark empath.” And in the end, that made her stronger.
/This story is part of my memoir Under My Skin/
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People automatically assume that if you’re an empath, you must spend your nights crying over stray animals and sobbing at the end of Titanic. That you’re some kind of emotional sponge, a free psychologist, psychiatrist, and volunteer for every broken soul who happens to cross your path.
The truth is different.
An empath is someone who feels the emotions and pain of others — deeply, intensely, sometimes more than they want to. But feeling doesn’t mean absorbing. A real empath doesn’t exist to be a dumping ground for the world’s trauma. They can point out what’s hurting you, why you keep repeating the same mistakes, and how you might be unconsciously causing pain to yourself and everyone around you.
So what is my book Under My Skin really about?
Is it just another tale about twin flames?
Not quite. It’s the story of a girl who was supposed to become that emotional sieve for everyone else’s dirt. Instead, she turned out to be something else — a so-called “dark empath.” And in the end, that made her stronger.
/This story is part of my memoir Under My Skin/
❤️❤️❤️
Join to me in my Instagram @yourrrr_soul
October 3, 2025
Story of my Empath journey
🌙 My Journey as an Empath & Writer
Not a fairytale, not a tragedy — just the raw truth of feeling everything too deeply.
Being an empath is both a blessing and a curse.
You feel everything — too much, too deeply, too strongly.
For a long time I thought it was my weakness.
Now I know: it’s my power.
Life with heightened sensitivity means you notice the things others ignore —
the shadows behind the smile, the silence in the noise, the truth in the lie.
But it also means you often end up in the hands of narcissists, manipulators, and people who try to dim your light.
I survived it.
And I turned the pain into words.
Under My Skin is my confession and my victory.
It’s about breaking free from illusions, healing from toxic love, and stepping into the magic of self-discovery.
It’s not a fairy tale. It’s raw, it’s ironic, it’s painfully real — and it’s mine.
Empaths are not weak.
We are warriors of invisible battles.
Writing this book was an act of rebellion.
An act of saying: “I exist. I feel. And I’m not afraid of it anymore.”
If you’ve ever been called “too emotional,” “too dramatic,” or “too much” — this book is for you.
📖 Read Under My Skin on Kobo https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
or Goomroad
https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
✨ Follow my journey on Instagram: @yourrrr_soul
📝 More writings on my Goodreads Blog
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show...
twin flames, empaths, healing, narcissistic abuse, spirituality, self-discovery
Not a fairytale, not a tragedy — just the raw truth of feeling everything too deeply.
Being an empath is both a blessing and a curse.
You feel everything — too much, too deeply, too strongly.
For a long time I thought it was my weakness.
Now I know: it’s my power.
Life with heightened sensitivity means you notice the things others ignore —
the shadows behind the smile, the silence in the noise, the truth in the lie.
But it also means you often end up in the hands of narcissists, manipulators, and people who try to dim your light.
I survived it.
And I turned the pain into words.
Under My Skin is my confession and my victory.
It’s about breaking free from illusions, healing from toxic love, and stepping into the magic of self-discovery.
It’s not a fairy tale. It’s raw, it’s ironic, it’s painfully real — and it’s mine.
Empaths are not weak.
We are warriors of invisible battles.
Writing this book was an act of rebellion.
An act of saying: “I exist. I feel. And I’m not afraid of it anymore.”
If you’ve ever been called “too emotional,” “too dramatic,” or “too much” — this book is for you.
📖 Read Under My Skin on Kobo https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
or Goomroad
https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
✨ Follow my journey on Instagram: @yourrrr_soul
📝 More writings on my Goodreads Blog
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show...
twin flames, empaths, healing, narcissistic abuse, spirituality, self-discovery
Under my skin it's twin flame book about self love
# Why I Wrote *Under My Skin*
When people ask me why I wrote this book, my answer is simple:
it was not a choice.
It was a survival instinct, a healing spell, and a confession all at once.
---
I lived through narcissistic abuse, spiritual awakening, and the painful dance of twin flame illusions.
This book is not just about trauma — it’s about transformation.
It’s about remembering who I am, and reclaiming my destiny when everything tried to break me.
*Under My Skin* is a raw journey filled with irony, honesty, and a little bit of magic.
I wrote it for the empaths, the seekers, the ones who always felt “too much” — because in reality, we are exactly enough.
---
> *“They can have a man, but they never will have my destiny.”*
---
This book is my truth, and maybe it will remind you of yours.
If you ever felt lost in the chaos of manipulation and still kept your light alive — *Under My Skin* is for you.
---
📖 Read Under My Skin on Kobo https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
or Goomroad
https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
✨ Follow my journey on Instagram: @yourrrr_soul
📝 More writings on my Goodreads Blog
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show...
✨ Follow me on Instagram: [@yourrrr_soul](https://www.instagram.com/yourrrr_soul)
When people ask me why I wrote this book, my answer is simple:
it was not a choice.
It was a survival instinct, a healing spell, and a confession all at once.
---
I lived through narcissistic abuse, spiritual awakening, and the painful dance of twin flame illusions.
This book is not just about trauma — it’s about transformation.
It’s about remembering who I am, and reclaiming my destiny when everything tried to break me.
*Under My Skin* is a raw journey filled with irony, honesty, and a little bit of magic.
I wrote it for the empaths, the seekers, the ones who always felt “too much” — because in reality, we are exactly enough.
---
> *“They can have a man, but they never will have my destiny.”*
---
This book is my truth, and maybe it will remind you of yours.
If you ever felt lost in the chaos of manipulation and still kept your light alive — *Under My Skin* is for you.
---
📖 Read Under My Skin on Kobo https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
or Goomroad
https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
✨ Follow my journey on Instagram: @yourrrr_soul
📝 More writings on my Goodreads Blog
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show...
✨ Follow me on Instagram: [@yourrrr_soul](https://www.instagram.com/yourrrr_soul)
Under my skin it's a story about empath survival
# My Journey as an Empath & Writer
Being an empath is both a blessing and a curse.
You feel everything — too much, too deeply, too strongly.
For a long time I thought it was my weakness.
Now I know: it’s my power.
---
Life with heightened sensitivity means you notice the things others ignore —
the shadows behind the smile, the silence in the noise, the truth in the lie.
But it also means you often end up in the hands of narcissists, manipulators, and people who try to dim your light.
I survived it.
And I turned the pain into words.
---
*Under My Skin* is my confession and my victory.
It’s about breaking free from illusions, healing from toxic love, and stepping into the magic of self-discovery.
It’s not a fairy tale. It’s raw, it’s ironic, it’s painfully real — and it’s mine.
---
> Empaths are not weak.
> We are warriors of invisible battles.
---
Writing this book was an act of rebellion.
An act of saying: “I exist. I feel. And I’m not afraid of it anymore.”
If you’ve ever been called “too emotional,” “too dramatic,” or “too much” — this book is for you.
---
📖 Read Under My Skin on Kobo https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
or Goomroad
https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
✨ Follow my journey on Instagram: [@yourrrr_soul](https://www.instagram.com/yourrrr_soul)
Being an empath is both a blessing and a curse.
You feel everything — too much, too deeply, too strongly.
For a long time I thought it was my weakness.
Now I know: it’s my power.
---
Life with heightened sensitivity means you notice the things others ignore —
the shadows behind the smile, the silence in the noise, the truth in the lie.
But it also means you often end up in the hands of narcissists, manipulators, and people who try to dim your light.
I survived it.
And I turned the pain into words.
---
*Under My Skin* is my confession and my victory.
It’s about breaking free from illusions, healing from toxic love, and stepping into the magic of self-discovery.
It’s not a fairy tale. It’s raw, it’s ironic, it’s painfully real — and it’s mine.
---
> Empaths are not weak.
> We are warriors of invisible battles.
---
Writing this book was an act of rebellion.
An act of saying: “I exist. I feel. And I’m not afraid of it anymore.”
If you’ve ever been called “too emotional,” “too dramatic,” or “too much” — this book is for you.
---
📖 Read Under My Skin on Kobo https://www.kobo.com/ww/en/ebook/unde...
Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FLL64QXM
or Goomroad
https://yourrrrsoul.gumroad.com/l/bpnrg
✨ Follow my journey on Instagram: [@yourrrr_soul](https://www.instagram.com/yourrrr_soul)
Twin flames blog
Notes from under my skin — where twin flames, karmic lessons, and the divine feminine meet sarcasm, coffee, and glitter. Expect honesty, irony, and a touch of witchy wisdom.
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