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Hey Azra, I am so sorry to come to ur askbox to say this, I just didn't know where to go. Im a 19 year old muslim girl who wants to move away from my abusive father because of the toll it is taking on my mental health but Im scared if I leave he'll take it

I’ve learned recently that people are always going to do what they’re going to do. You can’t stop them and you can’t change them. You’ll be stuck there forever if you think of all the negative effects you leaving might have on your family. Your father probably isn’t going to change. You staying won’t make him change and will only cause you more unhappiness. I left home recently and it was one of the hardest best decisions I’ve made. My family are very loving and caring but they’re remarkably difficult sometimes. My mum said that my leaving would make her ill, or that I’d give my dad a heart attack or any number of horrible things and they’re fine. They’re all fine. They’re healing. 

Hey Azra, I am so sorry to come to ur askbox to say this, I just didn't know where to go. Im a 19 year old muslim girl who wants to move away from my abusive father because of the toll it is taking on my mental health but Im scared if I leave he'll take it

I’ve learned recently that people are always going to do what they’re going to do. You can’t stop them and you can’t change them. You’ll be stuck there forever if you think of all the negative effects you leaving might have on your family. Your father probably isn’t going to change. You staying won’t make him change and will only cause you more unhappiness. I left home recently and it was one of the hardest best decisions I’ve made. My family are very loving and caring but they’re remarkably difficult sometimes. My mum said that my leaving would make her ill, or that I’d give my dad a heart attack or any number of horrible things and they’re fine. They’re all fine. They’re healing. 

Hey Azra, I am so sorry to come to ur askbox to say this, I just didn't know where to go. Im a 19 year old muslim girl who wants to move away from my abusive father because of the toll it is taking on my mental health but Im scared if I leave he'll take it

I’ve learned recently that people are always going to do what they’re going to do. You can’t stop them and you can’t change them. You’ll be stuck there forever if you think of all the negative effects you leaving might have on your family. Your father probably isn’t going to change. You staying won’t make him change and will only cause you more unhappiness. I left home recently and it was one of the hardest best decisions I’ve made. My family are very loving and caring but they’re remarkably difficult sometimes. My mum said that my leaving would make her ill, or that I’d give my dad a heart attack or any number of horrible things and they’re fine. They’re all fine. They’re healing. 

Hey Azra, I am so sorry to come to ur askbox to say this, I just didn't know where to go. Im a 19 year old muslim girl who wants to move away from my abusive father because of the toll it is taking on my mental health but Im scared if I leave he'll take it

I’ve learned recently that people are always going to do what they’re going to do. You can’t stop them and you can’t change them. You’ll be stuck there forever if you think of all the negative effects you leaving might have on your family. Your father probably isn’t going to change. You staying won’t make him change and will only cause you more unhappiness. I left home recently and it was one of the hardest best decisions I’ve made. My family are very loving and caring but they’re remarkably difficult sometimes. My mum said that my leaving would make her ill, or that I’d give my dad a heart attack or any number of horrible things and they’re fine. They’re all fine. They’re healing. 

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I think the quote the anon is talking about is that of Margaret Atwood, when asked her favourite word - “What is your favorite word?” “And. It is so hopeful.”

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I forgot if it was your blog but do you know the quote about the word And being their favorite word? Something about how it is so hopeful? I desperately want a tattoo of an &.. Or that quote. Please help me find it if you can?? thank you~

You’ll have to be more clearer I’m afraid! I don’t know what quote you mean

"He’s the kind of man who walks into a room and all the walls fall down."

“He’s the kind of man who walks into a room and all the walls fall down.”

- Jandy Nelson “I’ll Give You The Sun”

"You came to me while wewere sleeping, we were both sleeping, and you asked meto hold this for you...."

“You came to me while we

were sleeping, we were both sleeping, and you asked me

to hold this for you. I am holding this for you.”

- Richard Siken  (via kdecember)

I rode past a lavender field the other day and all I could think was "this is what azra's soul looks like."

i LOVE you