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The Best Gayborhoods in Florida’s Major Cities

Let’s get one thing straight — Florida is not. Drive ten hours along the state’s sun-kissed shaft, and you’ll find vibrant gay Florida enclaves centered around rainbow-painted sidewalks, LGBTQ+-owned businesses, and chosen families where all identities are welcome.

Considering the state’s anti-LGBTQ history, this might come as a shock. In the 1950s and 60s, the Florida Legislative Investigation Committee attempted to eliminate LGBTQ people from schools by demonizing gay teachers and upending their careers. Anita Bryant’s anti-gay campaign in the 1970s led to a repeal of Florida’s non-discrimination ordinance, causing a disastrous ripple effect around the US. Most recently, Governor Ron DeSantis signed the “Don’t Say Gay” bill to restrict the discussion of sexuality and gender identity in public schools — an act of social-emotional terrorism against children and educators alike.

But antiquated ideology and hateful legislation can’t snuff out reality. Unless Florida falls into the ocean, LGBTQ folks aren’t going anywhere. Join the Sunshine State’s queer community by screaming “gay” from the ROY-G-BIV rooftops of these five rainbow-riffic destinations.

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St. Petersburg

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Locals don’t call it ‘Gay St. Pete’ for nothing – this coastal city is the epicenter of gay life along Florida’s Gulf Shore. On top of hosting the state’s largest LGBTQ Pride celebration every June, the ‘burg also boasts a perfect score from HRC’s Municipal Equality Index — an honor received every year since 2014. The Equality Index, which measures how well cities treat their LGBTQ communities, highlights a secret just starting to get international attention – queer life here is tops.

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St. Pete doesn’t have only one gayborhood — it has three (or four, if you include Ybor City in nearby Tampa). The most action-packed enclave is the Grand Central District, stretching from roughly 16th to 31st streets along Central Avenue. Walk or bike along this buzzy strip to peruse cute boutiques, snap photos of sky-high murals, or graze at trendy eateries. Intermezzo is a stylish coffee shop-cum-bar open into the evenings; Freya’s is a tasty vegan diner next to St. Pete’s rainbow crosswalk.

As night descends, LGBTQ bars spill onto the sidewalk like New Orleans-style block parties. The outdoor seating at Enigma, an unpretentious gay hang, is ideal for sun-kissed happy hours. Cocktail St. Pete is best for dancing to pop tunes and catching drag performances. Punky’s, a gay-owned bar with pub grub, is a low-key alternative that trades club tunes for cornhole.

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When nightclubs close, the local LGBTQ crowd heads home to neighboring Kenwood (a historic district with Craftsman bungalows) and Gulfport — an arty beach town located 15 minutes away by car. The town’s Austin-inspired motto, “Keep Gulfport Weird,” says everything you need to know about this lesbian-favored hippie haunt: saying ‘gay’ is definitely okay. After spinning around town, stretch out on Sunset Beach — a white-sand shore where queer folks catch rays on weekend afternoons.

Where to stay in St Petersburg Florida

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Thanks to Veo, a pay-as-you-ride scooter service available throughout St. Pete, spending an entire weekend exploring the city’s hot spots is possible sans wheels. If you’re car-free, stay at the Avalon, an art-deco budget hotel with neon Miami flare. The downtown hotel is within walking distance to the recently-renovated St. Pete Pier, the world-renowned Dali Museum, and Craft Kafe — a gluten-free eatery with sinfully good pastries. The Grand Central District is a 10-minute scooter ride away.

Case del Merman, a gay B&B with a clothing-optional outdoor pool, is a buttercream confection tucked five minutes away from the Grand Central District by car. Each room has a private entrance and bathroom, so you don’t have to get cozy with other guests — but the friendly, small-town charm of host Brian will likely entice you to stick around for the complimentary continental breakfast and happy hour.

Key West

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The seven-square-mile island at the southernmost tip of the continental United States became a historic queer haven in the mid-20th century. Gay playwright Tenessee Williams visited and lived here from 1941 until his death. In 1983, Key West made headlines by electing one of the nation’s first openly gay mayors, Richard A. Heyman. The city is so proud of its LGBTQ heritage that on December 31st, locals don’t drop a glittering ball to celebrate the new year — they drop a drag queen riding a giant red pump. The annual celebration is an Oz-like call to queer folks north of the Florida Overseas Highway: there’s no place like home in the Keys.

Key West’s Caribbean flavor attracts a melange of America’s alphabet mafia. Womenfest, an annual circuit-style weekend in September, calls to queer women and nonbinary folks. In October, the Headdress Ball, a queer costume extravaganza, highlights gaudy LGBTQ artistry. The Pink Triangle — a section of Duval Street replete with LGBTQ establishments — sizzles with spring break energy every night. Between bear bars, drag shows, and dance clubs, there’s always an after-hours affair to suit your style. And if suits aren’t your thing, there’s a place for that, too: Island House is a gay resort where boys trade in banana hammocks for all-nude pool parties.

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But Key West isn’t only rum-soaked hedonism. Bike around pastel-painted conch houses, snorkel at gay-favored Higgs Beach, or dine at gay-owned eateries like Azur (a classy Mediterranean joint) and LaTeDa (a campy restaurant-hotel-cabaret combo with cruise ship vibes). To experience the region’s colorful biodiversity, consider a tour to coral reefs and mangrove forests with LGBTQ-friendly Namaste Eco Excursions. If you’re more interested in the island’s literary legacy, take a peek at lesbian poet Elizabeth Bishop’s former abode or visit the Tennessee Williams Museum.

Where to stay in Key West

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Soak up Key West history by spending a night at Alexander’s Guesthouse, a ten-minute walk from Duval Street. The LGBTQ hotel has 17 rooms spread among three homes built between 1902 and 1904. A pool and jacuzzi at the center of the property is an inviting social hub where guests can sunbathe, swim, or enjoy a complimentary cocktail hour.

Miami

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Miami is Florida’s multicultural melting pot. Cuban, Haitian, Jamaican, and Mexican communities mix with Russians, Jews, and NYC snowbirds — and that’s just scratching the surface. Sprinkled on this international soufflé is LGBTQ culture — a key ingredient to the local flavor.

Queer life in Miami is like sand after a beach day — it’s everywhere. The original gayborhood, established in South Beach (SoBe) in the 1980s and 1990s, now has roots in Wynwood, Coconut Grove, Little Haiti, Little Havana, and beyond. Festivals throughout the year attract visitors as diverse as the locals. There’s Sizzle (a Memorial Weekend meet-up for gay BIPOC men), Gay8 Festival (America’s largest LGBTQ Latinx festival), Sweetheart (a women-centered Pride), Wigwood (a one-day fête of all things lace front), and Winter Party (a winter dance extravaganza favored by gay boys). When Art Basel turns Miami into a contemporary art gallery, the LGBTQ community turns part of South Beach into Art Gaysel — a three-day festival showcasing queer creators. When Pride hits Miami Beach, close to 200,000 people party in the streets.

Festivals aside, most people visit Miami for two things: sun and fun. For the former, head to SoBe’s 12th Street gay beach, where bikini-clad boys, girls, and nonbinary folks work on tan lines or wade in the electric-blue Atlantic. If tan lines aren’t your thing, drive to Haulover Nude Beach, the largest sanctioned naturist beach in the US. Gay men bare their buns on the shore’s northern section.

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When it comes to late-night shenanigans, Miami is an East Coast mecca. Twist, SoBe’s two-story maze of bars and dance floors, offers the quintessential gay club experience. Nathan’s, a recent addition to the SoBe scene, is a quirky video bar that plays nostalgic tv episodes beloved by queer fans. For drag shows, check out the street-side performers at Palace, or head to Double Stubble at Gramps — a weekly Wynwood wigfest.

Miami’s queer bounty doesn’t only exist after hours. The World Erotic Art Museum devotes several sections to the queer gaze. Flaming Classics pairs screenings of queer films with local drag performances. YAS Improv, Miami’s only LGBTQ improv show, brings queer comedy to the Villain Theater. When it’s time to recharge, head to Hôtel Gaythering, a gay boutique hotel with a low-key bar, Sunday afternoon shindigs, and men’s sauna open to non-guests.

Where to stay in Miami

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You don’t need to stay at an LGBTQ-centered resort to make the most of queer Miami. The Standard, a Scandi-style retreat located ten minutes from SoBe, is a swanky hotel and spa favored by scenesters of all stripes. Detox in the steamy Turkish hammam before you retox with a craft cocktail while lounging by the pool.

Fort Lauderdale and Wilton Manors

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Fort Lauderdale’s visitor slogan, “Everyone Under the Sun,” isn’t a marketing tactic — it’s a way of life. While nearby Miami dazzles with late-night glitz and muscle-gay glamor, Fort Lauderdale shines with a diverse scene catering to all LGBTQ types. In 2017, the city made waves by becoming the first metro area to use trans models in travel ads. Wilton Manors, a charming city suburb, earns bragging rights as the gayest American zip code outside Provincetown. In 2018, the two-square-mile town became the second municipal government in the US to elect all LGBTQ leaders. Even the cops in Wilton Manors know how to keep it queer. In 2019, the police department unveiled a squad car given the rainbow treatment. Thanks to this all-are-welcome energy, Fort Lauderdale attracts roughly 1.5 billion dollars from over 1 million LGBTQ travelers annually.

With an average of 246 sunny days, visiting the gay beach is a Fort Lauderdale requirement. Gay men congregate on Sebastian Street Beach — a vast expanse that fills up with filled-out speedos on weekends. If you’re looking for something more mellow, set up camp at Terramar Beach to meditate as Atlantic waves break along the shore.

For a trip down memory lane, see an exhibit at the Stonewall National Museum and Archives, home to one of the country’s largest collections of LGBTQ artifacts. The World AIDS Museum, which documents the ongoing history of HIV/AIDS, promotes education and encourages artistic expression while telling stories of queer lives lost.

To experience city life, skip to Wilton Drive — Wilton Manors’ lively commercial strip with over 40 queer-owned or queer-friendly businesses. Bite into a burger at gay-owned Rosie’s Bar & Grill or slurp down oysters at lesbian-run Bubbles & Pearls. The Eagle is a harness-approved hotspot, DrYnk is the place for cocktail connoisseurs, and the vast and varied complex at Georgie’s Alibi Monkey Bar might convince you to stay until sunrise.

Although downtown Fort Lauderdale isn’t as packed with queer haunts as Wilton Manors, it’s still noteworthy. Neighborhood dives like Mona’s are perfect for low-key evenings; The Club is a gay bathhouse that’s open 24/7.

Where to stay in Fort Lauderdale

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Throw a dart in Fort Lauderdale and you’ll hit an all-gay resort. There’s super-lux Pineapple Point and clothing-optional spots like the Worthington and Ed Lugo Resort — but the Grand Resort stands one spa treatment above the rest. With on-site massage, hair, and nail services, you can relax all day on nearby Sebastian Street Beach before resting at this naturist-friendly getaway.

Orlando

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The happiest place on earth is one of the gayest cities in America. Orlando, home to Mickey Mouse’s pleasure palace, also boasts the fourth-highest percentage of same-sex households in the US, beating NYC and Los Angeles. In June, over 150,000 LGBTQ folks flock to Disney World in red shirts to enjoy Gay Days Orlando — a family-friendly event that floods local amusement parks with queer love. LGBTQ bars dot the Milk District, Downtown Orlando, North Orange, and Fairview Shores. This place gave us Drag Race legends like Trinity the Tuck and Ginger Minj. Hamburger Mary’s, the gay meat-patty palace that started in San Francisco, has an Orlando outpost, and a rainbow amphitheater in Lake Eola Park honors the LGBTQ community. Orlando even has an LGBTQ publication — Watermark – which shares local and international news.

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Orlando’s 13 theme parks might be the City Beautiful’s main attractions, but to experience local queer life, lose the mouse-eared crowds and head to lake-adjacent nabes. For the highest concentration of all things LGBTQ, start in the colorful Milk District. Munch on Big Daddy’s Triple Decker from PomPom’s Teahouse and Sandwicheria — a cozy eatery and beloved queer space. Se7en Bites, a lesbian-owned bakery, serves sweets with Southern flare. District Dive is a local gay bar with billiards, shuffleboard, and a trivia night.

You’ll need a car to visit the city’s other queer locales. Gay-owned Bites and Bubbles is best for light fare and expertly-sourced wine. The Glass Knife, another gay-owned eatery in Winter Park, serves picture-perfect cakes, donuts, and other decadent desserts. For nightlife, hit up Savoy’s expansive indoor-outdoor club for drinks, drag, and go-go boys. Barcodes and Hank’s Bar are the places to go for a friendly local atmosphere. Southern Nights turns into a lesbian mecca for Saturday night’s GIRL The Party.

Perhaps most poignantly, Orlando is home to the onePulse Foundation Memorial and Museum (slated to open this year), which commemorates the 49 victims murdered during a shooting at Pulse nightclub in 2016. The incident was the deadliest recorded attack on LGBTQ people in US history, and the monument is a reminder of the challenges continually faced by queer Americans.

Maybe if Mr. DeSantis visited the memorial and followed it up with a big, gay hug from Mickey, Florida’s laws would look a little different.

Where to stay in Orlando

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The art-happy Grand Bohemian Hotel, located in Downtown Orlando, is a chic reprieve from Orlando’s cartoon kitsch. Although it isn’t LGBTQ-centric, it’s an elegant place to call home while exploring the queer scene, all within easy driving distance. Disney World is 30 minutes away by car.

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Watch: How a Plane Takes Off in the Highest Crosswind Speeds Allowed

Plane travel is definitely safe. That being said, there’s still room for a bumpy ride — after all, you are in a metal tube cruising tens of thousands of feet above the earth. Pilots have a hard job because there are so many variables when it comes to flying a plane — weird weather being one of them. The TikTok account @aircrash_captain posted a video that shows how the windy weather impacted an airplane taking off on the runway at the Birmingham airport in the United Kingdom.

@aircrash_captain At Birmingham Airport (UK) on the 25th September 2017. #boeing757 #unitedairlines #maydaymayday #pilotskills ♬ original sound – Aircrash Investigation

Birmingham is known for its windy weather, so taking off or landing at its airport isn’t for the faint of heart. The plane was taking off at its maximum safe crosswind limit. In an ideal world, airplanes take off with the wind, but there’s a likelihood that your pilot will have to work against it in order to take off and land. Each airplane has its own crosswind limits to ensure passengers stay safe. On this United Airlines flight, it’s clear that the pilot is fighting to keep the plane steady in the maximum crosswinds allowed for safety.

Even the most seasoned pilots have to be on their toes through every flight. In the meantime, it’s essential to be as cooperative as possible to do your part to keep you and other passengers late. When it’s time to pull your tray table up and pull up your window blinds during takeoff and landing, do so cordially. Although a moment where you feel like the plane isn’t moving in a way you particularly like, remain calm and hope that the pilot and their crew has your back.

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This Boutique Colorado Springs Hotel Is the Perfect Home Base for a Dog-Friendly Trip

Dog ownership can complicate travel plans. A four-legged friend doesn’t make it impossible to travel, but it certainly does limit where you can stay, how you get there, and what activities you can do. But find the right dog-friendly hotel with a staff eager to help you find things to do (and pet your pup, of course), and you’ll be set, as I found on a recent stay at Kinship Landing in Colorado Springs.

I went for a short staycation with my fiancée Heather and our two dogs, a 12-year-old English bulldog and a 13-year-old Pomeranian-Chihuahua. We took the short drive up from Denver and checked in at the hotel desk, which is attached to the bar, on a late Thursday afternoon.

Going inside to check in was actually an extra step I didn’t need to take — everything from the room code to concierge questions can be done over text. Yet unlike some of the automated hotels and businesses I’ve been to in the past, the people writing those texts from the check-in desk were eager to talk and answer any questions in-person. That cheery greeting set the vibe for the whole stay at this boutique hotel built by frequent travelers.

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Founders Bobby and Brooke Mikulas drew inspiration for Kinship Landing after a year-long journey to 17 countries in 2016.

“They travel the world and stayed only twice in hotels,” says Lindsay Pertsov, assistant general manager. “The rest, they stayed in hostels and their car, and they came back to the Springs with a love of different hospitality concepts. They’re both locals and saw a need for that in the Springs.”

One of the things they learned is that there are many different types of travel needs, and they wanted to meet as many as possible. That includes people traveling with pets — something not too uncommon in this outdoors-focused state. The entire second floor is dog friendly, and Kinship Landing charges a straightforward fee of $49 per night.

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A diversity of room styles offers something for everyone

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Kinship Landing is small — especially considering the diversity of room options there are — with just 41 rooms overall.

We stayed in a junior suite. The design helped the small space feel just right with wood wrapping around one half of the room and elevating the bed in front of the window. For people without dogs, spacious king suites with floating bathtubs in front of a fireplace are equally suitable for a staycation as they are for someone who wants to stretch out for a long stay to explore Colorado Springs.

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There are also hostel-like rooms (either private or shared) where you can book by the bunk. The concept didn’t immediately click with the clientele, but interest has been building.

“It’s been a bit of a learning curve for the shared concept,” Pertsov says, “but it’s been really successful in the summer with solo travelers.”

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Everyone has their own locker to store things, and there are two accessible corridor bathrooms to use and a community kitchen. Sports teams, church groups, and families have so far been the lion’s share of guests for the shared rooms. Downstairs near the lobby, there are public lockers anyone can use, and the bottom lockers have charging points.

And then there’s the type of room that you can’t find anywhere else. Well, room is kind of misleading. On the fourth floor, Kinship Landing has the Camp Deck, which is a space for people to pitch a tent and sleep under the stars with all the benefits of the rest of the hotel right outside your door.

Regardless of the room choice, Garrett Brown Designs from the Denver area helped make each feel different than your average hotel.

Local connections like the first Friday artwalk and a 5K run held every quarter keep Kinship Landing tied to its hometown. The steep-bag coffee in every room comes from Switchback Coffee Roasters in Colorado Springs. Zane Prater, a muralist from Colorado Springs, was visiting his family over one Thanksgiving weekend and did the mural covering a large portion of one side of the building in two and a half days. On the main floor, the coworking space, bar, and coffee bar was filled with a mix of locals and guests. It would be easy to be satisfied with all the the hotel had to offer for our trip, but getting out and seeing the community is what Kinship Landing is all about.

“It was intentional to have smaller room footprint,” Pertsov says. “It has everything you need and nothing you don’t need to enjoy the space. But not for too long, because we want you to get outside and enjoy the Springs and the outdoors.”

Dog-friendly outdoor things to do in Colorado Springs

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Manitou Cliff Dwellings: This dog-friendly park shows what housing was like for ancient Puebloan people who lived in the area. You can see and walk through the housing built straight into the cliffs, learn about (and see first hand) the plants that sustained them, and experience tools and art in the museum.

Pikes Peak: While you can’t take your dog on the historic Pikes Peak Cog Railway that has taken people to the top since 1891, you can still see the famous peak that inspired “America the Beautiful” with your leashed friend.

Seven Falls: Take in the view, and let your four-legged friend do the same, of a series of waterfalls and a dog-friendly restaurant after the hiking area. Note that the trail is better suited to pets (and people) who can manage a moderate difficulty, high-elevation hike.

Garden of the Gods: There are few sites that can match the beauty of striking red rocks against a blue sky — or even better, red rocks with a dusting of snow. Garden of the Gods has dog-friendly hiking trails as well as a driving loop if your pup is more the type that likes to hop out for a quick picture and then return to riding with their head out of the window.

Dog-friendly restaurants and bars in Colorado Springs

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Many of the bars and restaurants allow dogs outside, as does Kinship Landing for its on-site food and drink service. Below is a selection of the places we visited with our two dogs, as well as some suggestions from staff and locals.

Pub Dog Colorado: The only restaurant in Colorado that allows indoor dining with dogs (though there’s plenty of outside seating, too). There’s an off-leash area for well-behaved dogs.

Pikes Peak Brewing: Just a short walk from Kinship Landing, Pikes Peak Brewing’s downtown location has a small patio out front where you can sit with your dog, or head nextdoor where there are outdoor firepits to keep warm on a chilly night.

Local Relic: This former church houses Local Relic brewing with 18 taps and more than 100 bottles (you can’t go wrong with a barrel aged beer or a saison here), as well as wine, cocktails, and two restaurant concepts focusing on local ingredients. Dogs are allowed outside.

Fossil Craft Beer: Just a short drive away from the hotel in Old Colorado City, this brewery allows dogs both inside and outside.

Phantom Canyon Brewing: This easily accessible downtown brewery and restaurant is the perfect place to take your dog with your for a rotating list of craft beer on tap, wine, cocktails, and elevated pub food like patty melts, burgers, and fish and chips.

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Here’s How Much It Actually Costs To Take a Weekend Trip To Portland, Oregon

This is Travel Spends, an occasional series where frequent travelers outline exactly how much a trip cost them and where that money went.

For privacy reasons, Travel Spends participants are given the option to remain anonymous. Matador Network vets the details and facts to the best of our ability, but rely on truthful user submissions. Monetary amounts are rounded estimates.

In this spotlight, we’re looking at a long weekend trip to the Pacific Northwest.

Where did you go? Portland, Oregon, as well as some surrounding beaches and wineries.
Who did you travel with? Two family members and my partner.
What is your occupation and household income? Freelance content creator, and my partner is a dentist. While both of our incomes vary year to year, we both bring home six figures and have a household income of around $380,000. My flexible schedule allows for easy travel, and my partner doesn’t work on Fridays.
Where did you stay? A three bedroom, one bathroom Airbnb in the Buckman Neighborhood for $150 per night.

Total cost on bars and dining out: $1,500
Total cost on tours: $0
Total cost on transportation for the group: $1,090 ($920 for flights, $60 for rental car, $50 for gas, $60 for parking)
Total cost on accommodations: $450

How we divide costs: There’s a pretty big income gap between all of us individually, but we decide to split everything evenly with the exception that the person who wasn’t drinking didn’t pay for the wine tastings or brewery stops.

Total cost of a trip to Portland, Oregon, for four people:

$3,225

Day one

7 PM — We have a late flight out to Portland on Thursday, and decide to drive and pay for parking instead of Uber. Before takeoff, we have a light dinner at the airport. Only three of us are drinking on the trip. Each meal costs around $12 and the three people drinking have two drinks each at about $11 per drink. Total: $135

11:30 PM — We arrive late and head straight to the rental car pick up. One family member was able to get a free rental car due to how many points they’ve earned traveling for work, so we decide to upgrade to an Audi SUV and pay the extra. Total: $60

Day two

9 AM — We walk a gorgeous spring walk filled with flowering trees over to Hawthorne Asylum food truck park for breakfast. We all order from Smaaken Waffle Sandwiches, which average out to about $14 each after tip, and order a coffee or tea for $3 each. Total: $70

11 AM — We have an hour and a half to kill before a scheduled tour, so we head to Rogue Eastside Pub & Pilot Brewery just up the street to take advantage of the nice weather. The three of us who are drinking order two drinks each that average out to around $10 each after tip. Total: $60

1 PM — A complimentary distillery tour and tasting was set up for us beforehand, so no added costs for either other than a $20 tip left for the waitstaff. Total: $20

5:30 PM — Dinner at Eem. A friend told us that the place fills up fast, so we arrive super early to get a spot at the no reservation Thai restaurant right when it opens. Everything comes on share plates, so we split a handful of dishes including the Very Spicy Papaya Salad ($10), a large Sweet & Sour Fried Chicken ($14), Massaman Curry ($17), and Smoked Pork Krapao ($16). For drinks, I get two beers for $7 each, and one other person in the party gets a beer and the Drugs cocktail ($13). The other two people get a Thai tea for $5 each. We’re extremely full, but opt for dessert as well. Total: $140

7 PM — On the way back to the Airbnb, we stop at Cascade Brewing Barrel House. The person not drinking orders a craft ginger soda for $3.50. The rest of us get two beers each that average out to around $9 after tip. Total: $60

8:30 PM — I make a quick stop to the dispensary before we leave and buy edibles and a pre-roll and leave a couple extra dollars tip. Total: $15

8:45 PM — We decide to grab some snacks and beverages at the gas station last minute: Chips, Gatorades, a six-pack of craft beer, and two bottles of cheap wine. Total: $45

Day three

11 AM — We take a slow morning drive out to the coast and stop at Blue Heron in Tillamook for an early lunch. Two of us decide to do the wine tasting of the wines made on-site for about $15 each. We get two small cups of chowder and a bowl, as well as the cheese sampler and two Tilly Grilly sandwiches, from the Deli. Total: $50

2 PM — After driving the coast, exploring a few beaches, and taking a short hike through the trees to Short Sand Beach, we make a pit stop at the Winery at Manzanita to sit in the sun and sip a couple glasses of wine each. Total: $90

5 PM — We make one last stop at Tillamook Creamery for ice cream and get a scoop each for $5. We also pick up some souvenirs and dog toys to take back home. Total: $40

7:45 PM — A quick stop back at the Airbnb to freshen up, then we head to Jake’s Famous Crawfish for dinner. We start with the very good Dungeness crab and artichoke dip for $18 and end up ordering two bottles of Argyle Oregon Pinot Noir for about $50 each. Most of us order on the cheaper side of the pricey menu, like the salmon and mushroom saute for $27 and the Alaskan true cod for $35 and the steelhead for $35. One of us springs for the crab-stuffed halibut though for $52. Total: $340

9:30 PM — One last nightcap at Pink Rabbit before going back to the Airbnb. Total: $50

Day four

9 AM — We have a late afternoon flight, and decide on breakfast burritos, salmon benedicts, and Irish coffees at Jam on Hawthorne. Total: $105

11 AM — After the wine from Argyle the night before, we decide to visit the winery for a tasting. Three of us participate and love all of the sparkling wines and pinot noirs. We leave with three bottles of the Nuthouse pinot, which cancels out the tasting fee. Total: $165

1 PM — Our last stop before heading to the airport is Hyland Estates Winery. We get three tastings for $20 each. Total: $70

2:30 PM — The car used up about $50 worth of gas, and we filled it up before returning. Total: $50

3 PM — One last (unremarkable) airport meal at PDX. Total: $60

7 PM — Arrive back home and pay the parking fee at the airport. Total $60

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Live Your Best Lake Life at These Top-Rated Wisconsin Airbnbs

The upper Midwestern state of Wisconsin knows how to get your heart racing with its outdoor pursuits and enchanting lakeside lodges. A wealth of biking, skiing, hiking, and watersports to suit all abilities makes Wisconsin a solid choice for families and larger groups. Check into one of our carefully chosen rustic Airbnb Wisconsin chalets, lodges, or farmsteads for an epic stay.

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Top Pick of Wisconsin AirbnbsThe Secluded Valley Cabin

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This ultra-private secluded Wisconsin Airbnb with hot tub near Ferryville is perfect for unplugging and recharging with your nearest and dearest. Woody interiors give the cabin a homely vibe while three roomy doubles easily accommodate a trio of couples or a smaller group. The elevated deck is equipped with a Jacuzzi bath where you can unwind to a backdrop of wide-open space and a field of pine trees where roaming wildlife is a daily occurrence.

Six guests, three bedrooms
Price: $223 per night

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Lakeside Airbnbs WisconsinIdyllic, peaceful and adventure-filled property

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Located north of Milwaukee on the banks of ​​Lake Michigan, this pet-friendly farmhouse Airbnb Wisconsin retreat overlooks a serene pond where swimming is highly encouraged. In addition, the host provides rowing boats, kayaks, and paddleboards. If that’s not enough to get your heart pumping, the converted barn is attached to both a basketball and sand volleyball court. The loft space is designed for groups seeking long evenings of sharing stories, playing games, and streaming movies.

Fifteen guests, five bedrooms
Price: $850 per night

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Hart Haven A-frame on Lake Millicent

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Built in 1960, this stylish A-frame chalet sits right on the edge of Lake Millicent and features minimalist interiors polished off with a vintage flair. Your backyard is strewn with hammocks and a wooden swing chair to capture those “wish you were here” moments. Kayaks are provided by the host and there’s a ping pong table where you can rustle up your group for a light competition in the evening.

Four guests, two bedrooms
Price: $350 per night

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The Luxe Chalet on Red Cedar River

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A touch north of Lake Menomin on the Red Cedar River, this secluded luxury chalet is right out of a storybook. Dogs are welcome at this pet-friendly Airbnb Wisconsin with 2,000 square feet of relaxation space and one acre of riverfront backyard. Home comforts include a blazing fireplace, a soaking Jacuzzi tub in the bathroom, and an open-air hot tub in the private garden.

Eight guests, three bedrooms
Price: $320 per night

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Stony Crest Cabin

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Live your best lake life at this shoreside vacation rental at Deer Lake – one of 28 lakes in the Three Lakes and Eagle River region for you to explore. Warm up around the fire pit after a spot of wild swimming off your private dock. Indoors, you’ll find a yoga studio, plush movie lounge, and a collection of arcade games. Any chefs in your group will clap their hands with glee at the professional-level kitchen.

Eight guests, four bedrooms
Price: $340 per night

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Modern lake house

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Get your hygge fill at this Scandi-style Wisconsin rental chalet nestled in the woods near the Eau Claire Lakes. Whether you’re a skier, biker, or water baby – this cabin puts you right on track for your next adventure fix. The backyard is rigged with a fire pit for cozy après sessions with a hot chocolate and a round of s’mores. Inside, panoramic windows and sliding screen doors provide soothing views over the water.

Eight guests, three bedrooms
Price: $315 per night

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Lake life with year-round hot tub

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Located near Neenah on the shores of Lake Winnebago the perks of this Wisconsin Airbnb vacation cottage include a private dock, fire pit, tiki bar, and spacious patio with an outdoor hot tub and couch. Canoes and kayaks are provided while the host can advise regarding motorboat rental if required. The interiors are immaculately appointed with comfort in mind when you need to get your shut-eye.

Six guests, two bedrooms
Price: $325 per night

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Airbnb Wisconsin for larger groupsNostalgic highland farmhouse

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This remote countryside stay is a short drive from Van Dyne. The space has recently undergone a major facelift to introduce a designer feel and now benefits from a chic kitchen. Light and airy interiors with upscale furnishings work in tandem with the boutique exteriors. Relax on the walk-out balcony or huddle around the fire pit. Cattle, poultry, and a friendly mule roam the land at the “farmette” which only adds to the charm.

Sixteen guests, four bedrooms
Price: $910 per night

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Farmstead with hot tub

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A flawless example of a Wisconsin Airbnb for large groups and families, this hilltop farmstead comes with a hot tub, pool table, dartboard, air hockey and foosball table. A glass-fronted porch, expansive windows, and even a bathtub with a view make it easy to survey the surroundings without stepping outdoors. Situated a stone’s throw from ​​Elkhart Lake and town.

Fourteen guests, six bedrooms
Price: $1,020 per night

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Cottage at Cave Point

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Located on Door County Peninsula, this incredible Airbnb Wisconsin rental for larger groups is a mile away from the best beach in the area. Engulfed by dense woodland, your outdoor swimming pool has the added perk of a slide for endless hours of fun. A walk-out terrace on the upper level is fitted out with plenty of seating to accommodate family dinners for a full house. Pets are welcome upon request.

Sixteen guests, six bedrooms
Price: $800 per night

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Connors Lake chalet and bunkhouse

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Not far from the banks of Connors Lake, this Winter vacation property blends chalet architecture with barn elements to produce a unique family-friendly vacation home. An already elegant living room is topped off with a piano for evening singalongs in front of the fireplace. You’ve got a Swedish sauna and a pool table to ensure everyone’s needs are met. Ample outdoor space revolves around a fire pit that overlooks the water. Pure bliss.

Sixteen guests, eight bedrooms
Price: $690 per night

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I Went To the ‘Vegan McDonald’s’ in Los Angeles. Here’s What It Was Like.

I am not a vegan. And even though I know McDonald’s is notorious for being unhealthy, I’d say once a month, I get a craving for a taste of the burgers, chicken nuggets, and fries that seem to evoke so much nostalgia. That’s why I decided to stop by Mr. Charlie’s, a combination art installation and vegan fast food joint, in Los Angeles to see how it riffed on a classic McDonald’s meal.

McDonald’s has been open since 1955 and is now a household name worldwide, with 40,031 restaurants across at least 120 countries in 2021. McDonald’s USA has its own plans for a vegan option in the US, with the McPlant now being tested in 600 locations in San Francisco Bay and Dallas-Fort Worth area. But a small Black-owned business in Los Angeles has decided to create its own version of a vegan fast food burger. After spotting multiple TikToks depicting Mr. Charlie’s on La Brea Avenue, a self-described “An Exhibition of Plants,” I knew I had to go inside and try it. I love trying vegan food and feeling like I’m putting something a little bit healthier in my body — even if it is fast food.

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Driving up to the restaurant was a typical LA experience because I had to search for parking. But you can’t miss Mr. Charlie’s when you drive by. The bright red building is adorned with the yellow smile turned upside down — a reference, and a play on, the iconic McDonald’s design.

Once I parked, I walked to the front of the store and noticed tiny yellow stools adorned the food counter outside to sit on while enjoying your meal. The sign outside, which was “La la la la la it’s vegan,” was clearly Mr. Charlie’s version of the “I’m lovin’ it,” McDonald’s motto. The building’s design gave me those same feelings of childhood nostalgia but in a way that felt more mature and grown-up.

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I ordered the food online beforehand because I had expected a long line, but in the middle of the day on a Thursday, the restaurant wasn’t crowded. I walked inside and took in what was much less like the international chain restaurant than I expected. Trap music roared out of loudspeakers, while only a few workers seemed to be manning the restaurant. The TikTok speculation that Mr. Charlie’s was actually an elaborate art exhibit seemed to be true. Ronald McDonald was nowhere to be found. Instead, pop art portraits of Marilyn Monroe hung above the counter and on the walls. The art work seemed to spoof both Andy Warhol and McDonald’s while positioning Mr. Charlie’s as a piece of pop art in its own right. One of those old claw machines that you might find in an arcade was also on display, but it was out of order. There’s also an upstairs area, but it was roped off at the time I stopped by.

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My order was ready when I arrived. I ordered two so-called frownie meals (again, a reference to the McDonald’s Happy Meal), which come with what Mr. Charlie’s has named the not a hamburger,” four plant-based nuggets, fries and a drink for $15. I paid extra to turn my not a hamburger into a double not a cheeseburger, which comes with vegan cheese. The chef let me know there was a bottle opener on the wall for my classic bottled Cokes. I headed back to my car to eat because the street was a bit loud and busy. I opened my box and found it was not packaged as neatly as a typical Happy Meal. I bit into my plant-based burger and was surprised at how fresh everything tasted. The bun was freshly toasted, and it was a typical all-American burger with pickles, ketchup, and mustard. I moved on to the nuggets and was impressed. The flavor was from the processed nuggets that are served at McDonald’s. I wasn’t a fan of the mystery white sauce they offered with it. It might have been trying to mimic ranch dressing, but didn’t even come close. The fries were a little cold because I ordered in advance. They weren’t as crispy, but they were well salted.

All in all, I would return to Mr. Charlie’s. The food was tasted good, but the joy was definitely in the whimsy of the design and the cheeky references to McDonald’s scattered throughout the restaurant and on the menu. Since I went, Mr. Charlie’s has added a not a chicken sandwich on the menu. For vegans and non-vegans alike, Mr. Charlie’s will hit the spot, but if you’re expecting the food to taste exactly like what you ate growing up, you may be disappointed. After all, McDonald’s has remained wildly popular all these years for a reason.

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9 Stunning LA Hiking Trails for an Urban Workout Without the Crowds

One of the most significant advantages of living in or visiting Los Angeles is having access to over 100 hiking trails evenly spaced throughout Los Angeles county.

LA hiking trails run the gamut from coastal cliffs and inland forests to mountains and views of downtown skyscrapers. For being such a large, expensive city, Los Angeles offers a surprising host of incredible trails for most hikers within just a short drive from the city limits.

However, most people visiting the city tend to stick to the classic, more well-known hiking trails in LA, including Griffith Park or one of the two routes in Runyon Canyon Park. This means those LA hiking trails are incredibly crowded, but many of the lesser-known routes around the county get overlooked, despite their beautiful surroundings.

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Given the highly regulated parking around LA and the fact that there are probably too many cars in the city, accessing the most popular trails can be a hassle, especially when the parking lots fill.

But don’t worry: you just need to explore one of these incredible LA hiking trails with fewer crowds. Just remember that the city is generally blessed with sunny, moderate weather, but temperatures can fluctuate wildly from morning to night. Hot, sunny days can quickly turn into chilly evenings after the sun goes down. Wear layers, drink plenty of water, and keep an eye on the weather (and an eye on the ground as there are a few odd rattlesnakes in the area).

Oh, and as any Angeleno will tell you, driving to or from trails during morning and evening rush hour is a bad idea. Los Angeles traffic has some weird roads and the traffic is really, really bad.

Wildwood Canyon Trail

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Location: BurbankDistance: 2.3 milesType: Out and backElevation gain/loss: +/- 918 feet

Perhaps better known to tourists and locals as the home of Warner Bros. Studios, Burbank also has a surprising number of recreational areas. At the top of that list is the Wildwood Canyon Trail, which rewards hikers with one of the most breathtaking, sweeping views of Los Angeles. On a (rare) clear day, visitors can see the city’s downtown area, the hills, and the coast at once.

Though it’s a short hike, the incline on the way up is relatively steep, so be prepared for a strenuous ascent that usually takes just under an hour. Sunset is the best time to enjoy the views from the top. Considering the limited artificial light around this area, you’ll want to bring a light source for the hike back down.

Hikers looking for a more relaxed descent can take the alternate, mostly paved route down, which is longer and windier but has a more moderate incline.

As a bonus, the parking lot at the base of the trail is usually mostly empty, making this one of the easier hikes in LA to do on a whim.

Note that there’s another Wildwood Canyon Trail near Yucaipa, so don’t get the two confused. More information.

Escondido Falls Trail

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Location: MalibuDistance: 3.7 milesType: Out and backElevation gain/loss: +/- 534 feet

Just off the scenic Pacific Coast Highway, the Escondido Falls Trail features plenty of California coastal views and takes hikers past luxury Malibu mansions to a beautiful waterfall vista. Thanks to its location near the ocean and the fact that most of the trail is shaded, it’s one of the best LA hiking trails for warmer summer days.

Couples and families especially enjoy this route as a good section of it is fairly wide and level and dog-friendly. A couple of creek crossings are required, but even when the water level is high, some easy rock-hopping makes it easy to keep your feet dry. In spring, wildflowers bloom along the path, creating an extra burst of beauty.

Keep in mind that only the lower falls are accessible, as the upper falls are on private property. More information.

Franklin Canyon Site Trail

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Location: Between Beverly Hills and Studio CityDistance: 2 milesType: LoopElevation gain/loss: +/- 219 feet

One of the easiest and shortest LA hiking trails, Franklin Canyon Site Trail is perfect for an afternoon stroll through one of the lesser-known natural refuges of Los Angeles, in the eastern end of the Santa Monica Mountains. Though it’s in the middle of LA, you’ll feel like you’ve left the city far behind, especially with the ducks and turtles swimming around the reservoir and adjoining Heavenly Pond.

Though almost devoid of tourists, Franklin Canyon Park is a favorite spot among locals for picnicking, strolling, biking, and birdwatching. More information.

Wisdom Tree Trail & Mount Lee Summit Loop

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Location: Near Cahuenga PassDistance: 3.9 milesType: LoopElevation gain/loss: +/- 1,407 feet

The Wisdom Tree Trail is a great example of a hike you can find photos of on social media but is still somehow under the radar in real life – even though it’s near the incredibly popular Griffith Park. Perhaps part of the reason for the low traffic is the long, moderately challenging nature of the trail itself.

You’ll be able to find the trailhead on most maps. Though it’s in the middle of a busy residential area, the trail is on public land. Parking is on Lake Hollywood Drive.

The lone-standing tree at the top of the first part of this trail has become famous for supposedly being the only tree left standing after wildfires raged throughout the area in 2007. Some visitors take a shortcut, making their way up only to the famous tree and then looping back down without finishing the full Mount Lee Summit Loop. It’s a great option if you’re short on time.

After taking in the view by the Wisdom Tree, hikers should check out a large box by the tree’s base – it’s a cache full of papers and journals with positive messages. Bring a pen if you want to add your own. More information.

Paradise Falls Trail

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Location: Thousand OaksDistance: 2.8 milesType: LoopElevation gain/loss: +/- 498 feet

This moderate trail is named for the beautiful 37-foot-tall waterfall hikers will find at the end of the road. Along the way, hikers will come across a canyon and Indian Cave, both definitely worth exploring.

The views and scenery along the way make this trail a favorite for local families. If you bring the kids, just keep an eye on younger members on rocky parts and during the creek crossing. Bring a lot of water as large sections are exposed to the hot California sun.

Thanks to the creek crossing and waterfall at the end of the trail, hiking shoes that work well in water are highly recommended. More information.

Vasquez Rocks Trail

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Location: Agua DulceDistance: 2.7 milesType: LoopElevation gain/loss: +/- 311 feet

Some hiking trails in the City of Angeles combine nature viewing with the ability to explore filming locations, and Vasquez Rocks is one of them. Most visitors will recognize the famous rocky landscape from movies like Blazing Saddles and TV shows ranging from Star Trek: The Next Generation to Westworld.

Named after Tiburcio Vasquez, a bandit in the Old West who used the rocks to evade capture in 1874, the area is home to fascinating desert flora and natural features. Even though the plant life and features are well-signed, the trail itself is unmarked in some parts. So it’s one of the best hiking trails in LA for using a hiking app.

The trailhead is about 45 minutes from Los Angeles, but the views and nature center are worth it. More information.

Temescal Canyon Trail

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Location: Pacific PalisadesDistance: 4 milesType: LoopElevation gain/loss: +/- 928 feet

Temescal Canyon takes hikers through flowering fields and trees up to peaks overlooking the gorgeous coastline of Malibu. You’ll see the best Southern California has to offer while exploring the canyons and ocean views of the natural retreat just a stone’s throw away from the bustling downtown hub of Santa Monica.

In Topanga State Park, this moderately challenging trail alternates between shaded areas and rather exposed areas, so wear layers as temperatures will fluctuate throughout the hike. On a clear day, hikers can see Catalina Island from the San Gabriel Mountains in a sweeping panorama.

Note that there’s a fee for parking in the lots near the trailhead. Parking enforcement officials check the area and ticket often, so make sure you pay the fee before starting up the trail.

Bridge to Nowhere (East Fork Trail)

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Location: Mount BaldyDistance: 9.5 milesType: Out and backElevation gain/loss: +/-1,246 feet

Hikers wanting to experience a challenging trail that’ll take most of the day to complete should check out the East Fork Trail, leading to the Bridge to Nowhere. It’s at the edge of LA County and is one of the oddest attractions in the area.

Built in 1936, the Bridge to Nowhere (technically called the Big Tujunga Canyon Bridge) crossed the San Gabriel River to link the San Gabriel Valley to Wrightwood. However, It was in service for just a short time before a devastating 1938 flood washed out the road leading to it, rendering the bridge essentially useless.

Now the abandoned bridge remains a popular hiking destination and occasional bungee-jumper destination as well. The route is long and challenging, requiring a day pack, sturdy hiking boots, and plenty of water. Hikers must wade through water at least four times, occasionally almost waist-high, to reach the end. You may want to bring water shoes along to keep your hiking shoes dry.

The bridge itself might be the trail’s highlight, but this route will take hikers through shaded glens, along the rim of the San Gabriel River, and across stunning canyons.

Be sure to respect any signs regarding access to the bridge, which is sometimes off-limits to visitors. More information.

Grotto Trail

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Location: MalibuDistance: 2.5 milesType: Out and backElevation gain/loss: +/-561 feet

A truly under-trafficked LA hiking trail, the Grotto Trail takes around 90 minutes to complete and winds through beautiful natural features in Malibu. Unlike most hiking trails in LA, it starts with a descent, but the route out of the grotto is mostly uphill.

The trail is generally recommended for more experienced or fit hikers as there’s plenty of scrambling and light bouldering required to get to the caves and hidden waterfalls. Don’t make the mistake of scrambling down the boulders to get to the grotto without first assessing if you can climb your way back out.

There’s little-to-no phone service along the trail, so either be prepared for a scramble or go with a buddy and climb down one at a time. Carry more water than you anticipate needing as there’s little shade on the trail and the hills are fairly steep.

However, the oasis that is the grotto makes this hike worth it for outdoor adventurers wanting to discover the hidden natural beauty of southern California. More information.

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A Gaycation Guide To Montreal for Queer Women

I am newly engaged to the woman of my dreams, and we are a very affectionate couple. This matters in the grand scheme of traveling as an openly queer couple.So for our first trip abroad, we wanted to go somewhere that felt safe to just be ourselves. Our sickly sweet, moon-eyed, queer selves.

And as it turns out, a long weekend in Montreal was exactly the right fit for us.

Know before you go

Whenever I’ve done research on LGBTQ-friendly places to travel, my priorities are safety and avoiding hostility. It had never even crossed my mind to think of places in the world where warmth and kindness could be expected. In Montreal, we were welcomed, not just tolerated, but embraced. There aren’t words for how nice that feels when you’ve never experienced it before. And although Montreal’s history of the Gay Village will tell you otherwise, it showed us a new frontier is on the horizon. And just as everywhere may have a history that’s not so great, many destinations are forging a new generation that is much more welcoming and safe for LGBTQ travelers.

But as a queer traveler, this trip meant something to me in a way that other destinations just haven’t. So it’s important to know the places where presently queer people are safer, look into what initiatives certain destinations have that support LGBTQ people, and as I’m doing, spread the word.

Representation matters in choosing travel destinations

I was drawn to Montreal when I heard about the opening of an exhibit on queer portraits at the McCord Museum. I’m always looking for unique travel experiences, particularly in the arts. It’s currently on display until September 18, 2022, “JJ Levine: Queer Photographs” takes an intimate look at queer identity through three different portrait series.

The first, “Queer Portraits” is described by Levine as a “life project” that intimately examines queer identity through photos of daily life. The second and third series, entitled “Alone Time” and “Switch” respectively, both question and push back against traditional binary gender roles by exploring the subjects in alternating masculine and feminine presentations.

As a queer woman with a growing sense of gender anarchy, the exhibit was powerfully stirring. I highly recommend adding it to your must-see activities in Montreal.

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Shopping in the Gay Village

Inspired by the challenges presented in Levine’s artwork, both my fiancee and I were feeling excited to do some genderbending of our own. Naturally, the first place we went was the Gay Village, a neighborhood in Montreal that holds the honor of being the largest gay village in North America. There we found Evolution, a men’s clothing boutique that “prefer[s] the human touch by offering you a unique shopping experience in-store.”  And wow, was that true!

The small shop was staffed by two men who did everything from putting together matching outfits to helping us into our little vests and suit jackets. As a couple of queer women who had never seriously bought men’s clothing before, it was absolutely heart-warming to be guided through the process with so much kindness and patience. I have never felt that welcome in any kind of store, much less a men’s boutique with my wife.

Ideally, we are not ones to neglect the feminine side of shop options. We later took a short walk from the Village to La Brise du Sud, another small boutique that specializes in pretty underwear. Similar to Evolution, the shop attendant was friendly and excited to assist us. She helped us try on matching bathing suits and lingerie, complimenting me on my freshly cropped hair as I got fitted for a bra. While checking out, she noticed my wife was paying for something that I had tried on. With a smile, she said it was an “excellent gift.” (And it was.)

Queer dates and dining

Our first sit-down meal in Montreal was lunch in the Village at Notre-Boeuf-De-Grâce, a high-end burger joint with enough rainbows on the walls that we didn’t hesitate to do our usual hand-holding across the table. As is our habit, we spent more time talking than we did eating. Yet no one rushed us or seemed eager to usher us out. The staff was helpful and friendly, a trend that continued everywhere from Thai restaurants to French creameries. In most cases, people seemed somewhat charmed by having a queer couple on their hands.

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On our last night, we opted for Indian food at India Rosa. My wife wore a “little gentleman” outfit that we got at Evolution, and I went slightly more femme for the occasion. The hostess offered to take a picture of us, and our waiter was super personable, letting us know that he liked our vibe and thought we were cool people. It felt like a major win to cap off a very queer and gender-nonconforming travel experience.

Montreal is definitely a city worth exploring for queer travelers looking for a place to exist comfortably.

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Harry Potter: The Exhibition

“Harry Potter: The Exhibition” is making its grand debut in Philadelphia, and what better place than at the Franklin Institute, one of the coolest museums in the US.

Whether new to Harry Potter or an old fan, be prepared to be immediately transported to the wizarding world. Upon entering the exhibition, you’ll be sorted into one of the Hogwarts’ four houses, then, you’ll pick a wand and a patronus. Smile for a picture to complete your profile. From there, you’ll board the Hogwarts Express to start you on your journey to the fantastic world of Harry Potter.

Once inside, this immersive experience will captivate the original Potterheads, and will convert other ones into fans. While the movies may be older than your children, they will leave “Harry Potter: The Exhibition” understanding why so many are bewitched by the world of Harry and his friends. The high-tech exhibit is fun and a couple parts are a little scary, giving every age group something to enjoy. In Franklin Institute fashion, prepare to use all of your senses, as well as your imagination, during your visit.

“Harry Potter: The Exhibition” tour dates

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“Harry Potter: The Exhibition” opened in Philadelphia in February 2022 and will run until September 18, 2022. Philadelphia’s Franklin Institute is the world premiere location of the “Harry Potter: The Exhibition” tour. There is currently no other location or date announced for the exhibition.

Where is “Harry Potter: The Exhibition” in Philadelphia?

The Franklin Institute is located at 20th Street and the Benjamin Franklin Parkway, at a walking distance from the Philadelphia Museum of Art, the Museum of Natural Sciences, and the Free Public Library. There is limited street parking on the parkway and 20th Street, but there are plenty of garages and lots nearby.

The #1 piece of advice before visiting “Harry Potter: The Exhibition”

Plan to spend a few hours walking around the exhibit. With so many other attractions in the area, it may be tempting to try to see them all in a day. However, while you can get through the Harry Potter exhibition itself in 60 to 90 minutes, the entire Franklin Institute is worth a visit. Exhibits explore human anatomy, mechanics, space, and more. Visitors can even walk inside of a giant anatomically correct heart.

The best time to visit the “Harry Potter: The Exhibition”

The best time to visit the “Harry Potter: The Exhibition” is during the week, but with the timed tickets, you’ll find the crowd to be well-paced. Day and evening tickets are available, but know that the price is the same no matter what time you go. To see the entire museum, it is $43 for an adult ticket and $30 for a children’s ticket. For just the Harry Potter exhibition, it is $30 each, and all tickets are timed. Tickets can be purchased on the Franklin Institute’s website. You can also give the gift of the Harry Potter experience.

Where to start your visit of “Harry Potter: The Exhibition”

Start your visit by taking your photo with the 20-foot high marble statue of Benjamin Franklin in the beautiful lobby of the museum – it’s a tradition. Then, continue to the Harry Potter exhibition which is located on the first floor, and accessible in the back left corner. There is only one way through the exhibit, and your first stop will be to board the Hogwarts Express.

After you go through the Harry Potter exhibition, there are still four floors of the museum to visit, so make the most of your time and check them all out.

The best things to see at “Harry Potter: The Exhibition”

The exhibition is full of props and costumes all displayed in sets that bring the books and the movies to life.

Battle for the House Cup

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Make sure you use the wristband you were given upon entry. Find the golden snitch on each display, then wave your wrist over it before you complete one of the magical tasks asked of you during the visit. Once the task has been completed, whether that be casting a spell or preparing a potion, you earn points for your house.

Are you Ravenclaw with a Hufflepuff friend? Make your visit into a competition, and towards the end you can actually try out your magic with a friendly battle.

Give Quidditch a try

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If you’ve ever attended a Harry Potter-themed festival (Philadelphia had one for years) then you understand how serious people can be about Quidditch. at “Harry Potter: The Exhibition” you can try your hand at Harry’s favorite sport. See how well you can toss a quaffle into six hoops, which sit far back on the wall like the electronic basketball hoops at your local arcade. Then watch the Quidditch World Cup through a peephole.

Make Professor Snape and professor Slughorn proud in potion class

During the entire exhibition, you’ll be treated as a Hogwarts student, so you’ll be tested on your ability at performing magic. In the potions room, you can test your apothecary skills by working with unusual ingredients like rat spleen. Read the ingredients and follow the instructions carefully if you’d like to graduate with an Outstanding.

Get a close look at the Harry Potter movies’ best costumes

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From Umbridge’s corny pink suit to Snape’s sinister robes, some of the most iconic costumes of the Harry Potter movie franchise, along with some fun facts about each, are on display in this exhibition. For instance, did you know that Minerva McGonagall’s robes and capes were darker in some films to reflect the somber themes?

Take a peek at some of the movies’ most-loved sets

Make a call from a phone booth supposed to take you to the Ministry of Magic, revisit Harry’s room under the stairs, and have a seat in Hagrid’s hut. The displays put you right into some of the most memorable movie scenes.

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Going To Watch a Shuttle Launch? Here’s What Else To Do Along Florida’s Space Coast

So you’ve decided to go watch a shuttle launch. You checked and re-checked this year’s launch schedules. You researched the best places to watch from and how to get there. You even did a little digging to find the best times of year to go. But mesmerizing as watching a rocket blast into outer space is, like a lot of things in Central Florida it’s a lot of time invested for a painfully short burst of excitement.

So that means you’ll need to figure stuff out like where to eat, where to drink, and what else to do near Cape Canaveral. And though Kennedy Space Center is over an hour from Orlando, Cocoa Beach, Titusville, and Melbourne are all within half an hour or less. And each offers a surprising abundance of fantastic places to eat, drink, and do stuff other than watch rockets fly into the air.

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Where to stay:

Cocoa Beach is the closest city to Cape Canaveral and has become a beachy destination in its own right. As you might expect, that also means it’s the most expensive – and most crowded – of the three cities. But it also offers the most in terms of lodging.

The Beachside Hotel and Suites is probably your best move, especially if traveling with kids. Its sprawling lazy river allows you to unwind after a long travel day and offers easy access to the poolside bar, Duck Dive. The rooms are colorful and modern and feel like a little beach house.

The Hilton Cocoa Beach Oceanfront doesn’t have a lazy river, but it does have direct access to the sand, and two tiki bars. It’s the ideal option for those who don’t like to roll the dice when they travel and offers the best workspace of any hotel on the beach if you’re working remotely.

For a boutique hotel with a chic, modern vibe, book the Hotel Melby in Melbourne about 25 minutes south. The city’s newest digs offer an open, airy lobby with a gourmet coffee bar and plenty of workspaces. Its rooftop bar boasts the best views on the Space Coast, and probably the best cocktails too.

Where to eat

Cocoa Beach

Hands down, the best restaurant in Cocoa Beach is Flavour Kitchen, hidden next to a jazz club along the city’s main drag. The small plates menu is teeming with savory treats like maple chili glazed bacon and hushpuppies with wildflower lavender syrup. And the braised short rib pizza might be the best dish in the region. The wine list is also top-notch, as the chef/owner banished any wines he could find at Publix.

For dinner with a view, grab a sunset meal at Pelican’s Bar and Grill on the Cocoa Beach Pier. It offers a menu with more eclectic selections than your typical seaside joint, with poke bowls, Korean beef bulgogi bowls, and a Gator Melt sandwich highlighting the list. Though everything tastes pretty good when you’re eating it over the ocean.

The Space Coast’s most quizzically named eatery has to be Nosh, the odd Thai/Sushi restaurant with a Yiddish name. Though you won’t find kreplach or kugel, you will find Cocoa Beach’s best sushi, with ceviches, rolls, and tempuras topping an Asian-inspired menu.

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Titusville

If you’re planning to watch a morning launch from Kennedy Point Park, grab coffee and breakfast at Sunrise Bread Co. The homemade pastries are like a little slice of Paris in Brevard County, and the freshly brewed coffee tops anything in the area.

For larger meals, head a little off the water to Third Culture Kitchen, the rare restaurant that tackles more than one cuisine and masters them all. The chicken tostones with black beans could have come from a Calle Ocho cafeteria. And the street tacos, bao, and PO boy sandwiches offer an overwhelming array of international options. Pro tip: Get there early, as the Pheanang curry is so popular they often run out before lunch is over.

Under a hardware store façade along downtown’s S. Washington Ave. you’ll find Playalinda Brewing, and even if you’re not here to drink the food is phenomenal. Order the roasted red pepper hummus if you’re looking to snack on something on the sunny sidewalk. Or go for the mojo pork lettuce wraps if you need something more substantial

Melbourne

The Space Coast’s best BBQ is a few blocks from downtown Melbourne at Cyderman’s. The fast-casual joint scoops up hearty portions of Texas-style brisket and smoked turkey breast, and offers a barbecue beef sausage rarely found outside the Lone Star State. Grab a mammoth Cookie Monster cookie while you’re checking out too. It’ll come in handy once you’re hungry again.

For a higher-end dining experience, stroll downtown’s E. New Haven Ave until your nose catches the smell of Catch XI. This funky downtown eatery is done up in mismatched furniture, and appropriately also offers the city’s most creative menu. The sriracha marinated flat iron steak with avocado mashed potatoes is the go-to for meat-eaters. Though the roasted butternut squash salad with herbed goat cheese and candied pecans work well if you’re trying to go light.

Where to drink:

Cocoa Beach

Rikki Tiki Tavern at the end of the Cocoa Beach pier might be the best pier bar in America, a ragtag tiki hut where most of the seats face the ocean. Drinks are reasonably priced and you can catch a glimpse of the Atlantic from everywhere. You can also order the full menu from Pelican’s if you’d rather eat outside.

Just up the road in Cape Canaveral, you’ll find Florida Brewing Co., the area’s largest brewery. Its biggest brand is Carib, loaded with light drinking beers perfect for a Florida vacation. Roll in for the 4-6 pm daily happy hour and try the easy-drinking Carib Caribbean lager, the tropical hard seltzers, or Hurricane Reef pilsners and IPAs.

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Titusville

Playalinda Brewing offers two distinct drinking experiences. The downtown taproom in the old hardware store is the original and gives the feeling of drinking beer in a 1920s storefront. If you’re looking for the big taproom experience with a massive menu, craft cocktails, and places to let the kids play, hit Playalinda’s Brix Project about ten minutes south.

Melbourne

What passes for a “scene” in Melbourne resides atop the Hotel Melby at The Landing Rooftop. Fire pits and sprawling views mix with a crowd of well-dressed young professionals sampling the Space Coast’s best cocktails. It’s not quite Miami, but it also feels a long way from the rural swampland that sits just outside of town.

For something lower key (and lower to the ground) head downstairs, turn left, and stroll into Foo Bar & Lotus Gallery. Part bar, part art gallery, the relaxed space has regular bands and stiff drinks and gives a slightly stronger sense of the locals’ scene than its next-door upstairs neighbor.

Intracoastal Brewing Company anchors Melbourne’s Eau Gallie Arts District and is the Space Coast’s best spot for a beers-and-murals vibe. The large outdoor patio hosts regular concerts and events, but even during quieter times, it’s a great place to belly up next to friendly natives. The beers skew high on ABV, though, so don’t let the light tropical flavors fool you into thinking you can slam several.

What else to do

Cocoa Beach

Champion surfer Kelly Slater hails from the Space Coast, and if seeing the Cocoa Beach native’s statue gets you inspired to catch some breaks you can learn how at the School of Surf. The family-run operation offers small, private lessons that’ll have you standing up and surfing within an hour.

If that’s a little too rigorous, but you still want to hit the water, take a sunset sail with Sail Cocoa Beach. You’ll cruise along the Indian River, past mangroves and possibly manatees, and dolphins swim alongside the catamaran as the sun goes down. It’s BYOB, though, so if you’re looking to drink more than soda you’ll need to bring stuff aboard.

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And what beach town is complete without a putt-putt course? Lighthouse Cove Adventure Golf offers two, 18-hole courses, each of which can be done in less than an hour. The inside bar serves ice cream for dessert and an impressive collection of local craft beers for those who enjoy their dessert with foam.

Titusville

If you do one thing on the Space Coast other than watch your shuttle launch, make it to the Valiant Air Command Warbird Museum. This tribute to military aircraft boasts an astounding collection of planes, with everything from Top Gun jets to Migs to Blue Angels on display. Hundreds of them fill multiple hangars, and a tour through them is like living a History Channel documentary. You can even sit inside the cockpit of a B52 bomber, and get a sense of what a titanic plane it was.

The area’s best space museum that won’t have you fighting the crowds at Cape Canaveral is the American Space Museum. The albeit-smaller showcase includes vintage consoles from the original mission control, space suits, old space program training manuals, and artifacts from famous astronauts. It’s also responsible for the Space Walk of Fame in Space View Park, where you can put your hands in the handprints of men who walked on the moon.

Perhaps the area’s most unique museum is the American Police Hall of Fame…and gun range. Yes, here you can peruse the stories of America’s greatest cops, pose inside a gas chamber or electric chair, and dress up like officers from around the country. Then, if you feel inspired, walk next door and see how you stack up on an actual live shooting range. Florida truly is a magical place.

Melbourne

The Eau Gallie Arts District is the Space Coast’s culturally hidden gem, an urban enclave of art galleries, stylish boutiques, and murals. Follow the mural trail and stop into every shop that looks even remotely interesting. It’s the place where you’ll find some fascinating object, buy it for reasons you don’t quite know, and proudly display it in your home for years.

For outdoor enthusiasts, the Archie Carr National Wildlife Refuge offers a fairly undeveloped stretch of beach about 20 minutes from downtown. While you’re welcome to enjoy the silence of an uncrowded Florida shore, hiking through the tropical hammocks gives you a sense of what Florida looked like before it was dredged and filled. They have brought the preserve back too much of its natural state and are the largest nesting area for Green Turtles in the world. The Barrier Island Sanctuary tells the story of how the preserve has helped revitalize the species and offers short films and exhibits explaining the habitat.

And finally, for something truly Floridian, head a little west to Camp Holly Airboat Rides. Here you’ll board an airboat and speed through the backwater channels that give this state its character, encountering plenty of alligators along the way. After the ride, grab a $3 beer at the camp’s tiki bar, chat up your fellow barflies, and realize why the Space Coast is truly so much more than a place to watch rockets.