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Published on December 11, 2012 08:40

Rebuilding Trust, May Water

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Published on December 09, 2012 15:24

Knife Play: Sextreme

Knife play is form of consensual BDSM edge play involving knives, daggers, and swords as a source of physical and mental stimulation. Knives are typically used to cut away clothing, scratch the skin, remove wax after wax play, or simply provide sensual stimulation. Knife play can also be a form of temperature play or body modification.

Knife play is sometimes, but not always, a form of fear play. The 'victim' in some cases, is shown a sharp implement, and then blindfolded, and a blunt knife used on their skin (for example: the practice of insertive sex play without the certain knowledge of the submissive that an exchange of implements — blunt for sharp — has occurred. This is a form of fear play, yet it still maintains some degree of safety). Wikipedia

Knife play can be highly erotic. The psychological reactions can be intense. It consists of brushing, scraping, or dragging the edge of a blade against skin with a WILLING participant. Back, chest, inner thighs and neck are amongst the most popular areas to play with. The genital area and nipples should only be approached when the mastering of knives is established. A light touch is required. Unless you plan on cutting the clothing off of your lover, a dull blade is always recommended.

Start with a knife or other implement that feels comfortable in your hand. Keep control of it, and your lover at all times. Not only do you have to be sure that you don't accidentally stab them, you need to be aware of possible twitching and jerking on their end. Some people use the edge of credit cards. It elicits the same physical sensations when your lover is blindfolded, without danger of drawing blood.

Knife play should NOT be confused with Blood Play. Knives are used as props, to excite, to make the 'victim' feel exposed, amplify fear without actually causing bodily harm. A cold steel blade running across a nipple, a dagger pressed against a vulnerable neck, or having a nightie sliced right off body can heighten sex to an alarming level. I give he necessary warning to not attempt knife play if you do not feel confident in your ability to control it. Have fun & be safe.

Love & Warmth, May

SEXTREME EXCERPT: LICORICE WHIPS

“Ye whore,” he spit out. The darkness of danger in his eyes made her want to weep. He looked downright evil, and she adored it. Molly raised her hips to meet his angry thrusts.

“Fuck me, hurt me,” she cried, real tears streaming down her face.

That’s when she felt the cool blade against her forearm, right on that tender area above her armpit. She craned her head to watch him cut her, bashing her hips into him more forcefully when she saw the bright-red drops of blood stream into her armpit. She moaned and bucked wildly, wanting him to keep fucking her, keep cutting her.

“More, more,” she gasped, wild with lust. This was the place Evan refused to take her. Yes, he whipped her to the point of ecstasy, but never had he raised a blade to her. It was the one thing she craved.

Jack made another quick slice, and then he placed the blade again at her throat as he leaned over her. “I could kill you now,” he whispered. Jack’s dark half was staring her right in the eye, and she wanted more. Molly bucked her hips violently as she held her breath, wanting more pain, more of Jack. Her sexual excitement intensified as she held her breath. It was heavenly...

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Published on December 07, 2012 05:03

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Published on November 29, 2012 13:46

Swinging: The Nitty Gritty

Swinging: The Nitty Gritty
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Polyamory- Living a lifestyle where it is possible to love more than one person at a time without deception. Poly couples make an agreement to have other partners while maintaining their commitment to their original partner. Emotional bonds are key to poly relationships.

Swinging- Engaging in sex with partners outside of a committed relationship. These connections are mainly used for recreation and exploration. Although emotional bonds can form, it is not the main intent.

A whole culture of people classifies themselves as polyamorous, or polys. Another culture classifies themselves as swingers. The two cultures often overlap. While I find both topics fascinating, for this piece I want to focus on swinging. The topic raises many questions for me: How do couples that swing keep their primary relationship intact? How do they address the issues of jealousy, insecurity, and sexual safety? Can swinging couples stay in a long term relationship? Or does their increased sexual interest make them overly vulnerable to being led astray?
In addition to doing gads of research on swinging, I decided to ask real swingers. People I know both married and single who do, or have participated in swinging. From all the research I did, the biggest causes of relationship deterioration are:

-One person forming an emotional bond with another that they choose to pursue.
-One person tires of the swinging lifestyle while the other wants to maintain it.
-One person breaks the rules set in place.

The biggest factors in maintaining strong relationships were:
-Constant open communication
-Biding by set rules.
-The ability to stop swinging if one person no longer wants to participate in the lifestyle.

Teresa: "I was always a really sexual person so I was happy when I met Eric. I finally met someone I could be myself with, especially bed. He was way kinkier than me and got me to try all sorts of stuff. Some things made me uncomfortable, but I just kept going with it. I figured that someday we'd try everything and he'd calm down. That didn't happen though. We were having sex with other couples within a year of getting married. After five years of marriage I realized he couldn't stop. I got tired of all the kink and other people. He started doing it without me which led to our divorce."

Matt: "I always had the ménage fantasy, two girls and me. When my wife suggested we invite her friend into our bedroom (a close friend of hers going through a divorce) I was like hell yeah. I won't lie. The sex was amazing. But then things got emotional. My wife wanted to be alone with her more, excluding me. It was a rough time for us. The only way to save our marriage was for her to break ties with her friend."

Lynn: "I've been married to Bruce for 16 years. We met when I was 18 and a virgin, he was 26 and not. We explored everything together, including swinging, mainly because I was really bi-curious back then. We did the ménage thing for about two years. Once we couple swapped but I really wasn't into guys other than him. It was a lot of fun, but also a lot of work. We both lost interest in it when we started to have kids. Every now and then I get the urge to be with a woman, but with kids around it’s too much of a hassle. I think for us it was what it was at the time, something to look back on."

Richard: "Frank and I have a solid relationship. We've been together for almost 10 years. Before I met him I was all over the place with group sex, meeting guys online, you name it. For a while I was with someone else who was heavy into the swinging scene. Some of the shit I did was super unsafe. Frank's not into that stuff. As soon as we got serious he told me to choose him or that lifestyle. I picked him and stability. Do I sometimes miss the old me? Not really. I was young and wild. I'm glad I did it back then."

Ken: "Abby and I have been swinging for over ten years. When I see her with another guy it makes me love her even more. We have rules and follow them. Two things she can’t do with a man are eating his cum or let him come inside. Not just for safety reasons but because those are too intimate for me. My best advice is to keep talking. If someone keeps hurt or jealous it festers."

Abby (Ken's wife): "Sex with another man while Ken watches is indescribable. I know I won't be doing it forever so I'm enjoying it while I’m still young. There's no chance I'd fall for someone else because I don't even go there. Not to be a bitch, but I try to talk with the guys as little as possible. It keeps it sexual. Two big rules I have for Ken is no kissing the women on the mouth and no hickeys. He gave a friend of mine a hickey once and I flipped out. That hurt."

So, you think you got in in you? Could you and your partner maintain a strong relationship while inviting other people into the bedroom? Could you stop swinging if your partner decided they couldn’t handle it? Can you honestly say that you wouldn’t or couldn’t fall for anyone else? Could you not only establish very specific and delicate rules, but also follow them? Even during the heat of a sexual frenzy? If so, then have at it. You are part of a small percentage of couples that can make the swinging lifestyle work. May you realize this and cherish this fact. May you explore well into your golden years.

Love and Warmth, May

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Published on November 27, 2012 11:45

Let Mother Nature help you get it up or make you juicy

Men want to get it up, and keep it up. Women want to get wet, and stay wet. What to do when you're body isn't cooperating? Many make a visit to their doc and try out man made concoctions and pills. Yes, they may work, but at what cost? The side effects can be quite scary.

Others turn to food and herbs. Mother Nature supplies EVERYTHING we need to sustain, heal, and repair the damage we do directly or inadvertently to our bodies. I could go into herbal cheerleader mode here, but I'll stick to the subject: Natural foods that boost the libido (sex drive), make a peenie less weenie or a vajajay less dusty.

Some new trends appear to be holistic, but actually are NOT. Take Honey Sex. Encased in its gooey goodness is sildenafil, the active ingredient in Viagra. Not exactly holistic.

Here are some foods and herbs that are fairly easy to obtain. They have a long history of effectiveness. Most can be researched online as to safe dosage .They can be added to your daily diet. I recommend speaking with an herbal nutritionist, holistic practitioner, or other knowledgeable healers if you have a serious health issue which causes your sexual issue.

Personally, I worked closely with an herbal nutritionist and saw firsthand the amazing benefits of herbs and the right foods. Sometimes it takes trial and error to see what works best for each person. When a man I know discovered the combination of exercise, chocolate, eggs, and cinnamon (not good for some men): his sex life went through the roof. A close female friend added walking, chocolate, ginseng, and seafood to her diet. She claims she’s over wet! Something she never thought would be an issue.

On another note, many remedies increases blood flow to the groin, which leads to enhanced sexual performance. A great way to increase blood flow is by walking. Just 10 minutes of fast walking a day can get your blood pumping. Exercise is good for every part of your health, including sexual health.

Okay, here are some DO foods:

Bananas-Contain an enzyme, which is believed to increase libido and reverse impotence in men

Basil (especially for women)-Increases fertility and arousal, stimulates circulation, and generates a feeling of peace

Black Licorice-The scent of licorice is sexually arousing to women

Capsaicin- Found in spicy food, peppers, and chilies. They release chemicals which raise your heart rate and trigger endorphins that give you a natural high

Raw Celery (Men eat/for women’s libido)-It contains an odorless hormone released through male perspiration and turns women on

Chocolate (yay!)- It contains an alkaloid that is similar to caffeine. It contains phenyl ethylamine, a chemical believed to produce the feeling of "being in love."

Coffee-Studies show that the female sex drive perks up after a little coffee

Eggs-Help balance hormone levels and fight stress

Figs-High in amino acids, which can increase libido and improve sexual stamina

Garlic (capsule form is good to reduce odor issues) -It contains allicin, which increases blood flow to the sexual organs

Pure Maca (tea form is easy) Known to increase strength, energy, stamina, libido, and sexual function

Oysters-Increases dopamine levels to increase libido and sexual function

Saffron-Expensive but great for improving sexual performance

Foods high in Vitamin C -They increase sperm count

Watermelon-It has been indicated to increase libido due to amino acids

Have fun, eat well, and hump like bunnies!

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Published on November 20, 2012 08:24

Bisexual FFMM Menage-SALT WATER TAFFY

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Meet the bi-sexual foursome Molly, Jess, Evan & Michael in the playful SEASIDE SURRENDER series. Start with SALT WATER TAFFY. Here's what people are saying:

"I found Ms. Water's writing to be very easy to read. She was true to the time-period and her descriptions of Boston, Provincetown and Italy were very descriptive. She brought you into the book and the character's. I was able to laugh with and at them very easily and totally enjoyed the playfulness between Molly and Michael. I look forward to the 2nd book in the Seaside Surrender Series. Honestly, I am looking forward to seeing where the relationships go and how the Menage affects the 4 of them." Guilty Pleasure Book reviews

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Published on November 20, 2012 06:01

Happy 1 year anniversary erotic QUEEN MARYMARY!

Happy One Year Anniversary QUEEN MARYMARY /May Water/ Siren Publishing
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Published on November 17, 2012 09:39

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Published on November 14, 2012 08:50

Are more than half of women bi-curious?

More than half of women are bi-curious

A recent study by Boise State University discovered that most women are naturally bi-curious when it comes to sex. out of a group of 484 heterosexual women, 60 per cent were sexually attracted to other women; 45 per cent had kissed a woman and 50 per cent had fantasies about the same sex. Other studies and surveys done by various entities show the same results.

Some believe that the sexual attraction (and the acting upon this attraction) derives from the natural friendliness women demonstrate towards each other from an early age. Sleepovers, cuddling during movies, phone chatting...All of these actions bond women. Most women also do lots of touching, hugging, etc. when gathering for social occasions. Maybe the familiarity of another woman’s body makes it easier to be so touchy feely

So, the big question is, does the attraction toward other women, sometimes combined with an actual sexual experience with another woman make you bisexual? I personally find it unnecessary to place labels on ourselves. Throughout our lives we come across many individuals that stir something inside of us romantically and sexually. They can be both male and female. I like that humans have the capability to love outside the prescribed molds of what is acceptable. It gives me hope that someday humans will love each other regardless of what type of shell we are encased in.

The question of whether bisexuality truly exists is debated. ‘Gay, straight, or lying’ was a term coined by a group of psychologists in Toronto and Chicago, stating that if an individual was really probed (quite literally-genital arousal patterns were measured) it was found that they had a stronger attraction to one sex than the other, thereby making them straight or gay.

Bisexuality is romantic or sexual attraction or behavior toward males and females. Bisexuality is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation, along with a heterosexual and a homosexual orientation. (Wikipedia.com)

Bi-curious is a term used to refer to people of a heterosexual or homosexual identity who, while showing some curiosity for a relationship or sexual activity with a person of the sex they do not favor, distinguish themselves from the bisexual label. (Wikipedia.com)

Pansexuality, or omnisexuality, is sexual attraction, sexual desire, romantic love, or emotional attraction toward persons of all gender identities and biological sexes. Self-identified pansexuals may consider pansexuality a sexual orientation, and refer to themselves as gender-blind, asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others (Wikipedia.com)

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“Are you sure the lass wants to get fucked?” he asked. Molly laughed out loud.

“Oh, I’m sure. Why else would she be teasing you and Ken all day?” she responded. At her words, Jasper began wriggling more. Molly pressed down harder with her boot.

“I don’t know, Molly,” Ken commented as he crouched next to Jasper. His hands ran over her plump buttocks as he licked his lips. Molly saw him sway slightly and knew it was now or never. If the man didn’t slip into Jasper now then he’d be too drunk to do it later.

Molly sighed deeply. Then she crouched in front of Jasper, making sure that her legs were spread so the girl would get a good look at her shaved pussy. When she tilted the girl’s face up, she gazed into her eyes.

“Now, Jasper, tell these fine men how much you want them to fuck you,” she said in her sweetest voice. Then in a whisper she added a very important fact. “Just remember that if you ever want to touch Jess again, you’ll nod your head yes.”

Jasper’s eyes widened with surprise. Molly could tell by the look in her eyes that she believed every word Molly was saying. And Molly knew quite well that Jasper wouldn’t risk losing Jess as a lover. Hell, they’d been lovers for over five years.

Jasper sighed and nodded her head.

“Oh, come on. Put a little pep in your nod,” Molly said with a chuckle. Jasper obeyed, nodding as enthusiastically as she could muster. Then Molly turned to the men. “See? I told you!”

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