Annie Nicholas's Blog, page 18
January 16, 2011
Menage a Trois
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Though the idea of being part of threesome sounds enticing, in reality I think it's quite an emotional challenge. Keeping a stable relationship between two people is tough enough without insert another personality to the equation. How do you keep feelings from getting hurt and jealousy from blooming?
I've never been part of such a relationship, though I'll admit to the fantasy. Many romance books have started including ménage a trios and my next release has one but I didn't want to write about it blindly.
Did I go out and have a ménage? LOL. No, my husband is too alpha possessive to believe in sharing and to be honest, so am I. Instead, I gathered my never and asked. It surprised me how open people are about their relationships and I gathered as much info from this treasure trove as I could.
From what I learned, there seems to be two different kinds of ménages. One where there is the central couple who asks a third to join them for sex but with very little emotional attachment. The other is where all three are equally involved, sexually and emotionally.
I decided to give myself a migraine and chose the second option by not only writing a ménage between three lovers, but a deranged love triangle, where the affection is more turbulent than a whirlpool bath. Love triangles can be a mess but if a resolution can be found, it makes life so much sweeter.
What is your opinion in the ménage a trios?
Though the idea of being part of threesome sounds enticing, in reality I think it's quite an emotional challenge. Keeping a stable relationship between two people is tough enough without insert another personality to the equation. How do you keep feelings from getting hurt and jealousy from blooming?
I've never been part of such a relationship, though I'll admit to the fantasy. Many romance books have started including ménage a trios and my next release has one but I didn't want to write about it blindly.
Did I go out and have a ménage? LOL. No, my husband is too alpha possessive to believe in sharing and to be honest, so am I. Instead, I gathered my never and asked. It surprised me how open people are about their relationships and I gathered as much info from this treasure trove as I could.
From what I learned, there seems to be two different kinds of ménages. One where there is the central couple who asks a third to join them for sex but with very little emotional attachment. The other is where all three are equally involved, sexually and emotionally.
I decided to give myself a migraine and chose the second option by not only writing a ménage between three lovers, but a deranged love triangle, where the affection is more turbulent than a whirlpool bath. Love triangles can be a mess but if a resolution can be found, it makes life so much sweeter.
What is your opinion in the ménage a trios?
Published on January 16, 2011 20:52
January 8, 2011
My 2011 List
Time has come and gone once more. I've officially been published for one year and what a year. Two novels and three novellas, can 't beat that.
Really, I can't beat it. LOL Most of those books were written the year before I contracted them or during the time I was waiting for the first one's to come out. So, I don't think I'll be publishing at this pace until I can quit the evil day job.
The things I'd like to get done this year is:
Save some money to take the boys on a real vacation. Not a camping in the backyard kind of deal. The destination is not as important as the time together so I won't worry about it.Make excercise a priority and try to get in shape enough to jog. *eek* (I've already been working on this goal for three months so I cheated a little.)Promote my two new novellas releasing in 2011.Write two novellas and one novel this year.Find either a new to me publisher or agent.
Really, I can't beat it. LOL Most of those books were written the year before I contracted them or during the time I was waiting for the first one's to come out. So, I don't think I'll be publishing at this pace until I can quit the evil day job.
The things I'd like to get done this year is:
Save some money to take the boys on a real vacation. Not a camping in the backyard kind of deal. The destination is not as important as the time together so I won't worry about it.Make excercise a priority and try to get in shape enough to jog. *eek* (I've already been working on this goal for three months so I cheated a little.)Promote my two new novellas releasing in 2011.Write two novellas and one novel this year.Find either a new to me publisher or agent.
Published on January 08, 2011 20:53
December 31, 2010
It's All in the Kiss
Welcome to the New Years Eve Blog Hop 2011! If you've fallen off the bus click HERE.
All romances start with one of the simplest, yet the most life changing, meaningful thing that a person can do.
A KISS
It means so many things. A mother's light kiss on a sleeping child's head, a press of the lips on a woman's wrist, an eager crush of two mouths, a tender brush on a someone's cheek. I love to write about 'the kiss'. What other non-lethal action makes a person want to melt to the floor, pine for someone, or ease pain?
Here is my homage.
[image error] The "I want you" kiss
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The "Don't Leave Me" or "Don't Forget Me" kiss
[image error] The "I think you're sexy" kiss orThe "vampire" kiss
[image error] The "I love you so much" kiss
[image error] The "spiderman" kiss
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The "New Year's Eve" kiss
My most memorable kiss was a simple thing. My DH leaned over and kissed me on the forehead out of the blue on day. I was O-o but then I was awwww. *blush*
Do you have a special kiss?
All romances start with one of the simplest, yet the most life changing, meaningful thing that a person can do.
A KISS
It means so many things. A mother's light kiss on a sleeping child's head, a press of the lips on a woman's wrist, an eager crush of two mouths, a tender brush on a someone's cheek. I love to write about 'the kiss'. What other non-lethal action makes a person want to melt to the floor, pine for someone, or ease pain?
Here is my homage.
[image error] The "I want you" kiss
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The "Don't Leave Me" or "Don't Forget Me" kiss
[image error] The "I think you're sexy" kiss orThe "vampire" kiss
[image error] The "I love you so much" kiss
[image error] The "spiderman" kiss
[image error] picture by Aaron Rohde
The "New Year's Eve" kiss
My most memorable kiss was a simple thing. My DH leaned over and kissed me on the forehead out of the blue on day. I was O-o but then I was awwww. *blush*
Do you have a special kiss?
Published on December 31, 2010 21:01
December 23, 2010
First Hunk of Chirtmas
Published on December 23, 2010 21:01
December 22, 2010
Second Hunk of Christmas
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December 21, 2010
Third Hunk of Christmas
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December 20, 2010
Fourth Hunk of Christmas
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December 19, 2010
Fifth Hunk of Christmas
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December 18, 2010
Sixth Hunk of Christmas
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December 17, 2010
Seventh Hunk of Christmas
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