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May 2, 2018

Bay Area Book Festival

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Here we are, in all our craziness, at the  Bay Area Book Festival held in Berkeley on April 28 and 29, 2018. Lots of people. Lots of conversations. Lots of cold, cold weather.


In the photo the water is mine, the popcorn is his, and the table is missing, so let’s try this again.


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The one on the left looks better to me.  >>>>


 


Bottom line: This book fair was a great place to network, and it was wonderful to have Richard there. He’s a first-class salesman.


 


And, to give you a sample of something from the book, here’s the ad he wrote that attracted me:










CLASSIC















1944 classic roadster with many miles left!
















Motor humms, transmission smooth and and all the gears work!
















Only two previous owners, very great women.
















Two tone, white with a gray top.
















Seeking a new woman owner who knows how to drive a classic!
















Thanks
















PS, This car is at church every Sunday so if that is a problem with
















you this car is not for you.
















Obviously, he was shopping for his third wife. Before our first
















date, he asked if I would ever marry if I fell in love.










Wondering how I responded? You can find it at the start of Chapter 2 (page 9) of

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Never Too Late

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Published on May 02, 2018 05:50

April 25, 2018

The Gift of Writing Regularly

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The Gift of Writing Regularly
April 25, 2018 | By B Lynn Goodwin| Reply

 


Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the process of writing. Thinking is great. Doing is better. To encourage you to keep writing, I’d like to share a few excerpts from an interview Carol Smallwood did with me about my new book, Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62. The title says it all, but the memoir says it in so much more detail.


When I started making notes for the book, while Richard and I were dating, I was filled with “what ifs.”



What if this wasn’t the real deal?
What if I lost my identity and my money—not that I had an overwhelming amount.
What if I couldn’t live with 62-years of being alone?

I journaled about these questions and much more. Writing gave me perspective and insight. We got married on February 17, 2012.


Once the book came out, it was time for interviews. Carol Smallwood, a prolific librarian, asked some great questions, and I was happy to answer them. I loved it when she asked, “From working closely with writers, what advice would you give someone struggling with getting started as a writer?


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So here are A Dozen Flexible Rules for Struggling Writers:



Write daily. Start by writing for 10-20 minutes.
Give yourself permission to get lost in your writing
Write about whatever you want, and if one day you want to write a list, start there.
Go wherever the writing takes you. No one ever has to read it but you.
When you are done, reread what you’ve written and underline 2-3 places that have energy for you.
Pick one the next day that you really like and start there.
Or write another list.
Or write about whatever is on your mind.
Can’t write? Read a story.
Look at how professionals put a story together.
Go back to your journal and say what you liked about the story.
Let the writing go wherever it wants before repeating Steps 5 & 6.

Start anywhere! Writing daily matters. Your techniques will improve. So will the speed at which you get ideas.


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I’ve been writing Monday through Friday for the last 6 weeks or so. Theoretically, I write first thing in the morning—but I usually do some stretches, feed Eddie McPuppers, and pour a cup of coffee before I start. Usually, I write for 10 minutes, but I often go longer. Then polish for another 15-20. I started doing this to help me get back on track after publishing Never Too Late. I don’t consider myself a struggling writer, but this helps so much that I recommend it anytime anyone gets in a slump.


NOTE: If you defy rules:



Quitting is not an option.
Doodling is not an option.
Checking the Internet or my e-mail is not an option.

If I could get going a little earlier, I’d start looking at the flash fiction, flash memoir, and potential for longer stories in this eclectic collection I’m building. You have to have the material before you can start shaping it, and I feel more and more ready to shape and sculpt my stories every day.


As a woman I heard speak recently said, “Write, revise, send, and repeat.” I think I’ve got the first two down. It’s time to start practicing send and repeat, and see where those steps take me.


If you’d like to read Carol’s interview with me and learn more about Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62, go to www.writeradvice.com.



B. Lynn Goodwin owns Writer Advice, http://www.writeradvice.com. Her memoir, Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62 was released in December. She’s written You Want Me to Do WHAT? Journaling for Caregiversand Talent, which was short-listed for a Literary Lightbox Award, won a bronze medal in the Moonbeam Children’s Book Awards and was a finalist for a Sarton Women’s Book Award.


Goodwin’s work has appeared in Voices of Caregivers, Hip Mama, Dramatics Magazine, Inspire Me Today, The Sun, Good Housekeeping.com, Purple Clover.com and many other places. She is a reviewer and teacher at Story Circle Network, and she is an editor, writer and manuscript coach at Writer Advice.


First appeared on https://storycirclenetwork.wordpress.com/2018/04/09/the-gift-of-writing-regularly/ and was reposted on http://booksbywomen.org/the-gift-of-writing-regularly-by-b-lynn-goodwin/


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Published on April 25, 2018 05:50

April 23, 2018

#WorldBookDay

April 23, 2018


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What are you reading? 


How long since you’ve read a book by someone who is not from your country?


How long since you’ve read a book by someone who is not in your age bracket? 


All of these are important questions to ask on World Book Day. While it’s mostly for students, you just might be a life-long learner. I know I am. 


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Of course I want you to pick up a copy of Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62, but today I also want to encourage you to also read other authors, share their stories, and enjoy the tales they tell.


Even more, I want to encourage you to read whatever appeals. Make time to read and enjoy it. 


What are you reading today? We’d love to know.


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Published on April 23, 2018 13:29

April 22, 2018

Guest Post by Lynn Goodwin – Share Your Opinions: Why Book Reviews Matter and How You Can Help 6

Together we can change the world, one good deed at a time.   —Anonymous


Note: This originally appeared on http://writingthroughlife.com.


 



Real life doesn't have a script.



WHETHER YOU’RE AN AUTHOR OR NOT, one of the kindest gifts you can give to any writer is a constructive, honest review. It doesn’t have to be long or literary or quote specific passages unless you’re writing for a site that expects that.

Not only will your comments please the author, but your words might help her see her work in a whole new way. You’ll be helping readers who depend on reviews to make a choice. That’s good for everyone and a lot to get out of a few minutes of reacting to a story that grabbed you and/or made you think.


Quick, short reviews can be very effective — especially on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads. Simply tell why you recommend the book in one or two sentences. If you want to add plot summary, analysis of writing style, or who the ideal audience is, feel free. It’s nice but not necessary.


Short reviews can be very effective. CLICK TO TWEET


If you decide to write a more detailed review, start with the themes an author explores and then talk about how and why the story sheds new light on a familiar subject or opens your insights.  Often I start by articulating the questions that the author is exploring:



What if you have a gift that no one can accept?
Ever been puzzled by a partner’s behavior?
Ever wonder how others handle the costs of their bad decisions?
What happens when family and ambition compete?
What does it take to survive?

Another approach is to tell people what the book intends to convey and how well it does its job. This works for a two-sentence review or a longer one.


I usually include a brief summary and identify the author’s strengths. If something bothers me I’ll mention it briefly as long as it’s not a story spoiler. If I can’t write something good and make the review at least 80% positive, I move on to the next book.


If you look at the reviews on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads, you’ll see that lengths vary. I’ve written one-sentence reviews and I’ve posted reviews of 350 words or more. Generally, less is more. Many people have short attention spans.


Once you’re satisfied with your review, it’s easy to copy and paste into Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads.



Go to the site where you want to place your review.
Find the search box.
Type the book title and/or author and hit return.
When the correct page comes up, scroll down to the box that says, “Write a Customer Review” or “Add a Review.”
Click on the box. Amazon asks some questions to guide you. Barnes & Noble doesn’t. You can simply rate the book and paste in your review, because you are prepared.

Often the sites will notify the author when a review is posted. Not always. It’s all controlled by algorithms beyond our control. Here’s what’s within your control:



You can write a review.
You can read other reviews as samples.
You can post a review.

You can practice on the last book you read. Or the one you’re just finishing. The author will love you for it.


Another way to help authors is to recommend their books to your friends, writing peers, and book groups. Word of mouth is excellent publicity. Paying it forward matters. Right or wrong, the number of reviews you have on Amazon also matters, so the important thing is to write honestly and share your thoughts. They’re just as valuable as anyone else’s. You never know where a review might lead, and posting book reviews is a great way for writers to build community.



Not sure where to start? Not even reading a book right now? I’d be delighted to have you review my memoir about love, acceptance, and much more. It’s called Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62.


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It’s a quick, easy read, and I’m perfectly happy with either a short or long review, as long as it’s honest. You can post it on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Goodreads, or all three.



B. Lynn Goodwin owns Writer Advice, www.writeradvice.com. Her memoir, Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62 came out in December. She’s written You Want Me to Do WHAT? Journaling for Caregivers and Talent, which was short-listed for a Literary Lightbox Award, won a bronze medal in the Moonbeam Children’s Book Awards and was a finalist for a Sarton Women’s Book Award.


Goodwin’s work has appeared in Voices of Caregivers, Hip Mama, Dramatics Magazine, Inspire Me Today, The Sun, Good Housekeeping.com, Purple Clover.com and many other places. She is a reviewer and teacher at Story Circle Network, and she is an editor, writer and manuscript coach at Writer Advice.


 

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Published on April 22, 2018 06:44

April 13, 2018

Fun!

Reading for groups is great fun. Especially when your husby, who is the subject of your book, comes along.
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Published on April 13, 2018 13:11

March 26, 2018

Never Too Late Featured at Book Fair

My book was published far from California, where I live. The company, Koehler Books, is in Virginia Beach, Virginia, and my editor, Lynn Moon, pictured below, displayed top books, promoted the company, and answered the questions of those who’d like to publish with Koehler.

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What does it matter?


One of the books she brought was mine. It’s the blue one on the far right side of the table. You can read Never Too Late on it.
She sent me that picture and this one:

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It’s really hard to miss the book in that one.
She said there was a lot of interest in the book and she sent lots of people to Amazon People can get there as soon as they are sent, if they have a cell phone, and who doesn’t these days? 
So my Amazon numbers were up.
You can keep them that way. Buy a copy for a friend, for a library, for a relative, for a group, or for your book club to look at. I’m happy to talk by phone with any book club, writing group, service organization, singles group, or Meet-Up group. There are face-to-face methods as well, and I’m happy to talk to you about it. 
Please help me share my story with any group you are in. You can tell me how below.


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Published on March 26, 2018 23:14

February 16, 2018

From Wannabe to Wife

This lovely review was posted on https://contemplativeed.blogspot.com/.... The author is Rev. Linda M. Rhinehart Neas, M.Ed.
Linda, I can’t wait to see you add this to the reviews on Amazon,
Never Too Late

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February 16, 2018
Last week I had the honor of hosting B. Lynn Goodwin, author of Never Too Late : From Wannabe to Wife  on this blog as a guest blogger.  She wrote about how compromise and acceptance were important components in relationships. Her wisdom comes straight from the heart, as does her writing.
Lynn fills her memoir with humor, honesty and a growing, mature love that is often found in the lives of older adults. She pulls the reader in with her ability to mix just enough laughs with reality. 
The reality that she met her future husband on Craiglist may cause some to gasp in shock. However, I was nonplussed by the fact that this was the vehicle for their paths to cross. Life has taught me that some of the most wonderful relationships come about through some of the most unusual circumstances.  But, what I wanted to know about was how did they make it work. (I soon learned, but no spoilers here…you have to read the book!)
Also, as a minister, I loved the spiritual aspect of the story. Lynn’s talks with God were heartfelt and real. She very eloquently showed her readers that leaps of faith are never easy. (Again…no spoilers. You must read the book to see what happens!)



I highly recommend this book to one and all! Never Too Late is one of those books that you can read cover to cover, because it is just too interesting to put down.



Never Too Late is available on Amazon and Barnes and Noble.
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Lynn Goodwin owns Writer Advice, www.writeradvice.com. Her  memoir, Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62was just released by Koehler Press.   
She’s written You Want Me to Do WHAT? Journaling for Caregivers and Talent, which was short-listed for a Literary Lightbox Award, won a bronze medal in the Moonbeam Children’s Book Awards and was a finalist for a Sarton Women’s Book Award.
Goodwin’s work has appeared in Voices of Caregivers, Hip Mama, Dramatics Magazine, Inspire Me Today, The Sun, Good Housekeeping.com, Purple Clover.com and many other places. She is a reviewer and teacher at Story Circle Network, and she is an editor, writer and manuscript coach at Writer Advice. 
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Published on February 16, 2018 07:52

February 3, 2018

Time for some Shopping

Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife is getting this one which I found today. Thanks for sharing this with the world!


Words from K. Alan


Christmas is over, so I’m off to do some shopping. I’ll never leave my chair, of course—the idea of going out to shop has become almost laughable—but there are a few books waiting for me to buy, a few more almost certain to be discovered, and an Android e-reader that supports enough apps to overcome even Amazon’s false Kindle barrier.



In other words, while I struggle to do any writing, I might as well do some reading.



NeverTooLateMy first stop is to pick up B. Lynn Goodwin’s newly released memoir,Never Too Late. If you’ve read any of Lynn’s articles, coaching or other missives over at Writer Advice, you’ll already know that her style will grip you, but that’s not what appeals to me most about the samples of this book. What appeals to me most is that it’s written by someone who remembers when meeting people had…


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Published on February 03, 2018 15:43

January 29, 2018

What does HAPPILY EVER AFTER mean?

Purchasing link
WHO: B. Lynn Goodwin with WOW–Women on Writing
WOW–Women on Writing Blog
WHAT: Interview about
Never Too Late: From Wannabe to Wife at 62  

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WHERE: http://muffin.wow-womenonwriting.com
WHEN: Today, January 29, 2018
WHY: Because this is a story worth celebrating

 


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Do I look happier than he does? 
Will this marriage last? 
How can I share my home and my life with a man I’ve known 7 months? 
What does happily ever after really mean?
I’d love to read your answers. Please post them.
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Published on January 29, 2018 11:50

December 20, 2017

Never Too Late is Launched to the World

 




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Never Too Late
What makes this book launch special?
Truthfully, it’s the characters and their story that make this book special. It’s not about the launch. There’s no big party to celebrate. Our party is an ongoing, everyday life that we live together. Who could ask for anything better than that?

 


Why should you care?

 


Happily ever after is not a fairy tale. But don’t worry. We have plenty of conflict and uncertainty before we arrive at that conclusion. Rejoice with us in a marriage that worked. Pick up a copy today. Never Too Late

 


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Published on December 20, 2017 14:53

Writer Advice's Flash MEMOIR Contest

B. Lynn Goodwin
WriterAdvice seeks flash memoir, a personal life story running 750 words or less. Enlighten, dazzle, and delight us. Focus on a moment that changed you. Memoir is a slice or sliver of your life. Hopef ...more
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