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March 9, 2011

First Thursday in Lent 2011

Then the disciples of John came to him, saying, "Why do we and the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not fast?" And Jesus said to them, "Can the wedding guests mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast. No one puts a piece of unshrunk cloth on an old garment, for the patch tears away from the garment, and a worse tear is made. Neither is new wine put into old wineskins. If it is, the skins burst and the wine is spilled and the skins are destroyed. But new wine is put into fresh wineskins, and so both are preserved." ~ Matthew 9:14-17 (ESV)


Heavenly Father, make me a new heart, a heart filled with love for You and others, a pure heart, desiring only to love You and do Your will. In Jesus' name. Amen.


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Published on March 09, 2011 22:02

March 8, 2011

Ash Wednesday 2011

[image error]Last year I started the tradition of posting a Scripture and prayer for each day of Lent as part of my extra devotion during this time of penance. I hope these readings and prayers will bless you in your spiritual preparation for Resurrection Sunday.


Today is Ash Wednesday, the first day of Lent. In previous years, I have written about the purpose and meaning of Lent:



Ash Wednesday and Lent
Ash Wednesday and Penitence

More about  Ash  Wednesday and Lent can be found on the website of my church, All Saints Anglican of San Antonio, including the following:



Liturgy Lesson for Ash Wednesday: Contrition before God
Lenten Challenges from Father Ed Morgan
Seasons of the Church Year: Lent

Throughout Lent, I will post a Scripture and a prayer daily. May you be blessed.


 

As Jesus passed on from there, he saw a man called Matthew sitting at the tax booth, and he said to him, "Follow me." And he rose and followed him. And as Jesus reclined at table in the house, behold, many tax collectors and sinners came and were reclining with Jesus and his disciples. And when the Pharisees saw this, they said to his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?" But when he heard it, he said, "Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. Go and learn what this means, 'I desire mercy, and not sacrifice.' For I came not to call the righteous, but sinners." ~ Matthew 9:9-13 (ESV)


Lord, I like to think I am righteous, but at heart I am a sinner desperately in need of a Physician. Thank You for coming as the Great Physician to heal me and all sinners who earnestly repent. In Jesus' name. Amen.


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Published on March 08, 2011 22:25

March 5, 2011

Read an E-Book Week 2011

[image error]Read an E-Book Week, which I introduced in an earlier post, is here.


To celebrate Read an E-Book Week, you can download a free PDF copy of Fern's Fancies here. Or visit Smashwords for another format of Fern's Fancies or any of the free or discounted books available there.


On the Read an E-Book Week website, you will find:



Links to a variety of Read an E-Book Week partners (authors, publishers, booksellers, and websites) offering free or discounted e-books
The 40-year history of e-books
E-book resources and information about a variety of e-book readers
The advantages of e-books
A chance to win a Nook or a Kobo e-reader

Don't forget that the following are always free here:



Romance novelette: Trapped by Love  (read online here or download your favorite format at Smashwords)
Self-Editing Primer
Editing Primer

Are you an avid e-book reader? Then stock up on great books while they're free or discounted.


Have you never read an e-book? Then look for titles that appeal to you and read an e-book this week. Let me know what you think!


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Published on March 05, 2011 22:41

March 4, 2011

National March into Literacy Month

March is a busy month for book lovers. Next week is Read an E-Book Week, and the entire month is National March into Literacy Month. Theoretically, it is also National Small Press Month, which I would happily celebrate as I am a big fan of small presses. However, the information on the website is for 2010, so it looks like Small Press Month isn't being observed this year.


[image error] Just about everyone knows about the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation, which gives toys to needy kids at Christmas. A lesser-known program of the foundation is the literacy program.


The program's website shows the following shocking statistics:




It is estimated that the cost of illiteracy to business and taxpayers is $20 billion per year. (United Way, "Illiteracy: A National Crisis")
In low-income neighborhoods, the ratio of books per child is one age-appropriate book for every 300 children. (Included in the "Handbook of Early Literacy Research", Vol. 2 edited by Susan Neuman and David Dickinson)


The site describes the program this way:


After supporting Toys for Tots since 2005 and raising $1.3 million to help brighten the lives of thousands of children nationwide, The UPS Store and Mail Boxes Etc. network launched the Toys for Tots Literacy Program, a year-round initiative, in March 2008 to expand upon its existing partnership.


While the Toys for Tots Literacy Program maintains the Toys for Tots mission of delivering hope, it extends the organization's reach and impact in a meaningful way by providing children in need with the gift of a book. Since 2008, the program has delivered more than 1 million books to hundreds of thousands of less fortunate children. This program not only brings the joy of reading to these children, but also serves as an important tool in breaking the cycle of poverty.


All donations go directly to purchasing books for needy children, libraries, schools, or literacy programs. You can donate cash at the Toys for Tots site or donate cash or new books at participating UPS Stores and Mailboxes, Etc. locations.


If you agree with me that books and literacy are essential to breaking the cycle of poverty, I hope you will join me in making a donation to put books into the hands of disadvantaged children—through this program or any organization that is fighting illiteracy.


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Published on March 04, 2011 01:44

March 2, 2011

Read Across America on Dr. Seuss's Birthday

[image error]Today is Dr. Seuss's birthday and to celebrate Random House and the National Education Association are sponsoring Read Across America.


Schools and libraries are participating in special reading events, but one of the best ways to observe the day is for parents to read to children, grandparents to read to grandchildren, big brothers and sisters to read to little brothers and sisters, and friends and neighbors to read to kids they know and care about.


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Published on March 02, 2011 05:31

February 28, 2011

Why Give a Sample Edit?

[image error]In a comment on a post about freelance rates, Chad asked, "Can you recommend an alternative to providing samples to prospective clients? Would a resume be a good substitute?"


In my reply to Chad's comment, I explained why I think a sample edit is good for both the freelance editor and the potential client for several reasons.


First, it's how I determine how much to charge. All editing jobs are not created equal. Some writers are much better than others, and some writers require extensive editing. I never charge by the page or the word because the good writer overpays and the bad writer underpays (and I'm the one who doesn't get the money I should!). I ask the prospective client to send me an excerpt from the manuscript for me to edit. The time I spend on the sample guides me in determining the time I estimate for the entire project. My quote includes the proviso that the price is based on the assumption that the entire manuscript is self-edited to the same degree as the sample. The fee will be adjusted if the excerpt submitted for the sample edit has been polished, but the rest of the manuscript submitted for editing is very rough.


Editing a sample also helps me to feel comfortable that I'm a good fit to the manuscript. I don't edit erotica or stories with extreme levels of violence, and I simply am not familiar enough with the conventions of some genres to do them justice. I also have to find the story intriguing—it would be an injustice to edit something that I don't completely believe in. There's no better way to determine that I will enjoy editing the manuscript than actually doing it.


The sample also gives me an understanding of what the client wants—writers have different expectations. Some just want an editor to tell them their words are golden. It's much better to spend a few minutes doing a sample and find out they don't like your work than to take on the job and have an unhappy client.


Years ago, I was listed as a freelance editor on the website of the one of the "self-publishing" companies. Since then the companies all started offering in-house editing, but in the beginning, this company provided a list of approved editors rather than offering the service in-house. I never did any work for authors publishing with that company because they all wanted to do it their way. Now, having control over the finished product is one of the great benefits of self-publishing, but a serious writer will take advice from other professionals. I don't expect clients to accept every suggestion I make, but I expect them to consider my ideas and use some, even most, of them. If the client is going to tell you it's her story and she wants a spy being recruited in public at a random meeting in a bar and it doesn't matter if that's realistic or not because it's fiction … I don't want to edit that book.


A free sample also gives the prospective client a level of comfort that you can handle the job and that you will be easy to work with, always a good start to a working relationship. I am currently talking with a writer from another part of the world. He told me that he had quotes from two other editors that were considerably less than the price I quoted. However, I was the only editor who gave him a sample edit, and what he saw gave him confidence that the work would be done to his satisfaction. Although the other editors would charge less, he wasn't confident that he would be happy with their work. In fact, they may do an excellent job, but he feels that he is taking a risk because he hasn't seen anything to show him what he would get.


I always give a fair amount of detail on my suggestions in the sample edit, as you can see in the screen shot above of a few lines of an actual sample edit (blurred for privacy). Whether the writer agrees with my recommendations or not, he will understand my rationale. The writer can also tell me he doesn't want me to change something—for example, I may point out that Chicago Manual of Style (usually used for books) calls for serial commas. However, if the writer says he prefers not to use serial commas, I will respect that and edit for no serial commas.


Most of us have common errors that we make repeatedly. Newer writers frequently haven't discovered their common errors—possibly because they don't even know what they are doing is wrong. For example, some of the writers I work with don't know how to punctuate and paragraph dialogue, so every bit of dialogue in the manuscript has to be corrected. I point this out in the sample edit and often suggest that the writer make those corrections before submitting the manuscript to me for editing. That will cut down my editing time and their cost, and it will also help the writer hone his skill. Even if the writer ultimately chooses another editor, I hope that he learns something from the sample edit.


Of course, a sample edit isn't appropriate for a very small project. But for a book-length manuscript from a first-time client, I insist on doing a sample edit—for my benefit and the benefit of the prospective client.


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February 22, 2011

Thanks to January 2011 Commenters

 
 
 


 
Thank you to the 129 commenters who left 218 comments in January. Your comments extended the conversation and added value and interest, and I enjoyed replying to every one of them.Every month when I post thanks to commenters, I get questions about how I compile this list. I have explained my system in detail in Compiling Thanks to Commenters.
 


 
 
 


 
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Published on February 22, 2011 01:18

February 17, 2011

Read An E-Book Week March 6-12, 2011

[image error]Read an E-Book Week has been celebrated every March since 2004. The purpose of the week-long event is to educate readers about e-books and promote electronic reading.


This year, Read an E-Book Week is celebrating the 40th anniversary of e-books. You can read about Michael Hart creating the first "e-book"—a copy of the Declaration of the Independence—in 1971, the beginning of Project Gutenberg, which gives away e-books in the public domain.


You can probably tell just from looking around my website that I'm a big fan of e-books. My first novel, Stroke of Luck, was published an as e-book in 1999, and it is still available as an e-book (albeit from a different publisher). Now, all of my books are available as e-books at Smashwords.


In the early days, when I told people my novel was an e-book, the most common response was,"What's that?" After I explained what an e-book was, the most common response was, "Oh, I want to read a real book."


I gave talks to local writers groups and published an article in the newsletter of the San Antonio Romance Authors entitled "Is an E-Book a Real Book?" You won't be surprised to hear that my answer is a resounding "yes."


During Read an E-Book Week, you can download a free copy of my contemporary romance novel Fern's Fancies. You can download the PDF file here on my website; if you prefer other formats, you can download from Smashwords using a discount code I will provide.


I offer the following free e-books all the time:



Trapped by Love (contemporary romance novelette)
Self-Publishing Primer
Editing Primer

Many publishers, authors, and companies are participating in Read an E-Book Week. Each will offer something of value during the week, so be sure to check them out and stock up on great e-books for free!


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February 15, 2011

Using Style Sheets

Table of contents for Writing StylesChanging StylesShould You Follow a Style Guide for Your Blog?Using Style Sheets

i need to shave off about 10,000 words - riiiiiiiiightIn the first and second posts in this series, I talked about style guides. Today we'll discuss style sheets. A comment from author Dawn Colclasure gave me the idea for the post.


You might call style sheets mini style guides that you prepare yourself, often as supplement to a style guide. There are always things, such as industry jargon and names, that apply to a specific manuscript that aren't covered in the style guide you're using. In some cases, there may be a reason for deviating from the style guide, such as using a spelling that is common in the industry even though it's different from your selected style guide.


The book I'm currently editing is a resource for veterans and soldiers with PTSD. In different sources, the full name of the disease is spelled Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, posttraumatic stress disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder–and about a dozen more variations. I told the authors they had to decide which one they preferred, and I would ensure it was spelled that way throughout the book.  They chose the spelling used in the American Psychiatric Association's manual of psychiatric disorders. That spelling was one of many items included in the style sheet–for my use during editing and for the use of the proofreader I had to review the manuscript.


A style sheet can be as simple or as complex as needed. In its most basic form, it should include the preferred style guide and dictionary, then list additions and deviations, such as the example excerpted below.


Style Guide: Chicago Manual of Style

Dictionary: Merriam-Webster Online

Treatment of specific words and phrases:

amygdalae

flight-or-fight response and flight-fight-freeze (hyphenated)

Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (per DSM-IV)


You can include formatting instructions in the style sheet. For example, in the PTSD book, the co-authors wanted their words set apart in different fonts so it would be easy for readers to recognize whether the psychotherapist or the chaplain/psychotherapist was talking. Of course, we identified the author at the beginning of the section, but since some sections extended over several pages, the different fonts provide a visual cue.


In What are style guides and why do I need them?, I talked about more extensive information guides. An information guide for a novel might include details about characters and setting as well as the spelling of names and hyphenation of words. When you write a book over months or even years, it's easy to forget what you wrote 200 pages ago.


An information guide is helpful to you as the writer, and it's also important for your editor to ensure consistency throughout the manuscript. Without a style sheet, the editor won't know if your character's name is Susanne or Suzanne or if she lives in Harveytown or Harvey Town.


Style sheets make it easier for everyone involved in producing a book, article, or other document, and the resulting consistency makes it easier for your reader to get your message without getting confused or bogged down in discrepancies.


Do you use style sheets? What advice would you give about using style sheets effectively?


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Published on February 15, 2011 22:37

February 13, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day

Single Rose - Day 11 of 14I seldom watch TV or listen to the radio, but my husband always has the TV on in the house or the radio in the car. So I hear bits and pieces of programs—and lots of ads.


Recently, I've been hearing all kinds of advertisements for Valentine's Day gifts. They all say something like, "Give your girlfriend or wife this , and you'll have a great Valentine's Day because you're going to like the way she shows her appreciation."


Is Valentine's Day only about romantic love? Why can't we express our love to family and friends?


Even if the day is only about romantic love, why are girlfriends and wives the only ones to receive gifts on this special day about love? Shouldn't women let their boyfriends and husbands know how much they love them?


Is a gift of love supposed to be given to receive something in return? Shouldn't we give gifts to show our love without consideration for how much the recipient will appreciate the gift and show that appreciation?


I don't expect my husband to send me roses or chocolates or cuddly toys—or anything else. I don't measure love by material gifts. Just hearing "I love you" (which I do several times a day every day) is the only valentine I need.


I'll send my husband a mushy e-card and tell him privately and publicly here on my blog, "I love you!"


And I'll tell you, my readers, that I love having you as part of my blog family. I appreciate your comments, and even if you don't comment, I appreciate your reading my words. Today, I'll say, "Thank you! Happy Valentine's Day!"


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