Ryan Field's Blog, page 234
July 9, 2017
Teen Vogue's Anal Sex Fail and Messy Bottoms; Disability Pride Parades; Gay Movie "Making Love" Is 35 Years Old
Teen Vogue's Anal Sex Fail
There was an episode of HBO's Looking not too long ago that got into the topic of anal sex, and how to prepare for anal sex. At the time I thought they went a little overboard, but looking back now, and comparing that show to an article I recently read in Teen Vogue about anal sex, I'm starting to rethink that.
First, I've tackled this topic in novels, however, I've never gone into great detail about it. It's not my job as a fiction writer to give step by step instruc...
There was an episode of HBO's Looking not too long ago that got into the topic of anal sex, and how to prepare for anal sex. At the time I thought they went a little overboard, but looking back now, and comparing that show to an article I recently read in Teen Vogue about anal sex, I'm starting to rethink that.
First, I've tackled this topic in novels, however, I've never gone into great detail about it. It's not my job as a fiction writer to give step by step instruc...
Published on July 09, 2017 17:52
July 8, 2017
"Gaysians" At London Pride; 78 Year Old Gay Man Talking To A 13 Year Old Gay Kid; Social Network Blued and Gay Apps
"Gaysians" At London Pride
Here's a story about a new support group that's being referred to as "Gaysians." It's about uniting British Asian LGBT+ people under one banner.
For me, building a community and central resource for British Asian LGBTI people had been developing as a thought for some years.
I found it a challenge to access support after coming out to my family who are quite a traditional Indian family. It was quite isolating from my culture when I was disowned by them, so I started to...
Here's a story about a new support group that's being referred to as "Gaysians." It's about uniting British Asian LGBT+ people under one banner.
For me, building a community and central resource for British Asian LGBTI people had been developing as a thought for some years.
I found it a challenge to access support after coming out to my family who are quite a traditional Indian family. It was quite isolating from my culture when I was disowned by them, so I started to...
Published on July 08, 2017 12:13
July 7, 2017
Chechnya Allegedly Rounding Up Gay Men Again; Oral Sex and Gonorrhea; FREE Gay Book Giveaway On Goodreads For "A Christmas Carl"
Chechnya Allegedly Rounding Up Gay Men Again
Here's more about what's been happening in Chechnya.
The group says it has received more calls from Chechnya in the last 72 hours. And it says they contained credible evidence that arrests are happening again.
It has been over three months since the persecution of more than 100 gay men began.
State Authorities hunted down, arrested, and tortured men because of their sexuality. Many were reportedly incarcerated in concentration camps...
Here's more about what's been happening in Chechnya.
The group says it has received more calls from Chechnya in the last 72 hours. And it says they contained credible evidence that arrests are happening again.
It has been over three months since the persecution of more than 100 gay men began.
State Authorities hunted down, arrested, and tortured men because of their sexuality. Many were reportedly incarcerated in concentration camps...
Published on July 07, 2017 17:04
July 6, 2017
Andrew Garfield's "Gay Physical Act" Comment Gets Backlash; Gavin Russom Comes Out As Trans; Big Brother Contestant's Creepy Gay Advance
Andrew Garfield's "Gay Physical Act" Comment Gets Backlash
When I post about these things I don't necessarily believe the person who makes comments like this is throwing shade at gay people. I'm not offended by it; I'm used to it. I actually think it's innocent. I'm only pointing out how little straight people know about gay people and gay culture, and suggesting that straight people shouldn't try to "splain" what it's like to be gay...especially when they are getting paid to play a gay...
When I post about these things I don't necessarily believe the person who makes comments like this is throwing shade at gay people. I'm not offended by it; I'm used to it. I actually think it's innocent. I'm only pointing out how little straight people know about gay people and gay culture, and suggesting that straight people shouldn't try to "splain" what it's like to be gay...especially when they are getting paid to play a gay...
Published on July 06, 2017 17:16
July 5, 2017
Steve Grand In Provincetown; A Teen's Coming Out Graduation Speech; More Gay Sex Scandal In the Catholic Church
Steve Grand In Provincetown
Openly gay entertainer, Steve Grand, who is one of the newer stars who created a place for himself in the entertainment world through online exposure only, and crowdfunding, will be playing at the Art House in Provincetown this week.
While ogling the pic, please note that Grand will be performing at The Provincetown Art House Theatre every Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday at 7 pm from July 5 through August 31.
I would imagine the show is sold out, but if you are in P'...
Openly gay entertainer, Steve Grand, who is one of the newer stars who created a place for himself in the entertainment world through online exposure only, and crowdfunding, will be playing at the Art House in Provincetown this week.
While ogling the pic, please note that Grand will be performing at The Provincetown Art House Theatre every Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday at 7 pm from July 5 through August 31.
I would imagine the show is sold out, but if you are in P'...
Published on July 05, 2017 17:05
July 4, 2017
The First "Agender" Baby; Muslims Urged To Boycott Pro-LGBT Starbucks; I'm Proud Of My Label and I Own It
The First "Agender" Baby
For those of you who get frustrated about these things, and I know you do, keep in mind that I'm only linking to them. They do not reflect my opinions.
A baby in Canada is believed to be the first in the world to be identified as agender on an official document.
Searyl Atli was born to Kori Doty, a non-binary trans person who doesn’t identify as male or female, eight months ago.
Kori wishes baby Searyl to discover their own gender.
Here's the rest. Now, if you want to rea...
For those of you who get frustrated about these things, and I know you do, keep in mind that I'm only linking to them. They do not reflect my opinions.
A baby in Canada is believed to be the first in the world to be identified as agender on an official document.
Searyl Atli was born to Kori Doty, a non-binary trans person who doesn’t identify as male or female, eight months ago.
Kori wishes baby Searyl to discover their own gender.
Here's the rest. Now, if you want to rea...
Published on July 04, 2017 10:50
July 3, 2017
Rent Boys In India; "The Tearoom" Public Bathroom Sex Game; What Some Guys Do To Stay In the Closet
Rent Boys In India
This one is about what it's like to be a so-called "male sex worker" in India.
Rohit, who identifies as gay, quickly learned sex work was a quick and relatively easy way to make extra money. He joined a gym to get in better shape and began building a small client base. At first he only accepted male customers, but over time, he started accepting older female clients, as well, many of whom were looking for companionship rather than sex.
So if it's not all about sex why are they...
This one is about what it's like to be a so-called "male sex worker" in India.
Rohit, who identifies as gay, quickly learned sex work was a quick and relatively easy way to make extra money. He joined a gym to get in better shape and began building a small client base. At first he only accepted male customers, but over time, he started accepting older female clients, as well, many of whom were looking for companionship rather than sex.
So if it's not all about sex why are they...
Published on July 03, 2017 17:35
July 2, 2017
Royal Family Gay Sex Blackmailer Found Dead; Scott Silverthrone's Meth-for-sex Scandal; Average Age Gay Men Marry
Royal Family Gay Sex Blackmailer Found Dead
I didn't even know this had happened.
After months of mystery, authorities in the U.K. have finally released the cause of death for the man who once tried blackmailing the Royal Family with gay sex rumors.
In 2008, Ian Strachan, whose real name was Paul Adalsteinsson but who went by the name Charles Goldstein, tried to extort £50,000 from England’s Royal Family after claiming he had a video of an unnamed junior royal performing a sex act on a male aid...
I didn't even know this had happened.
After months of mystery, authorities in the U.K. have finally released the cause of death for the man who once tried blackmailing the Royal Family with gay sex rumors.
In 2008, Ian Strachan, whose real name was Paul Adalsteinsson but who went by the name Charles Goldstein, tried to extort £50,000 from England’s Royal Family after claiming he had a video of an unnamed junior royal performing a sex act on a male aid...
Published on July 02, 2017 12:49
July 1, 2017
Review: "I Am Michael" With James Franco; Facebook and the Dyke Word; Drag Queen Babadook Music Video
Review: I Am Michael With James Franco
I finally had a chance to see I Am Michael, with James Franco playing the gay character, Michael Glatze, and I didn't hate it.
In short, it's based on a true story about an openly gay activist-dreamer-screwed-up-gay-guy who goes off the deep end and winds up identifying as a straight Christian preacher.
I wanted to see it because I'd heard so much about it...forever. I also like to see Franco in action. Franco is supposedly straight but he's always been eag...
I finally had a chance to see I Am Michael, with James Franco playing the gay character, Michael Glatze, and I didn't hate it.
In short, it's based on a true story about an openly gay activist-dreamer-screwed-up-gay-guy who goes off the deep end and winds up identifying as a straight Christian preacher.
I wanted to see it because I'd heard so much about it...forever. I also like to see Franco in action. Franco is supposedly straight but he's always been eag...
Published on July 01, 2017 17:42
June 30, 2017
Jay-Z's Mom Comes Out As Lesbian; A Dumb Comment From A Straight Actor Playing Gay; A Step Backward For Texas Supreme Court and Gay Married Couples
Jay-Z's Mom Comes Out As Lesbian
Whenever I'm working on a new book and I see a news story that coincides with the topic of the book, I feel validated for some reason. So when I saw that Jay-Z's mom came out as a lesbian, in public, in a duet, I couldn't help thinking about the book I'm working on right now where the father and son come out as gay at the same time.
Carter came out as lesbian in "Smile," the third track off her son's 13th album. It's the first time either of the two has publicly...
Whenever I'm working on a new book and I see a news story that coincides with the topic of the book, I feel validated for some reason. So when I saw that Jay-Z's mom came out as a lesbian, in public, in a duet, I couldn't help thinking about the book I'm working on right now where the father and son come out as gay at the same time.
Carter came out as lesbian in "Smile," the third track off her son's 13th album. It's the first time either of the two has publicly...
Published on June 30, 2017 17:33