alexander shay's Blog
October 22, 2025
the psychopath circle: the characters
The Psychopath Circle is, in basic terms, all my psychopath characters grouped together. The idea being similar to a doodle Q&A, but in written response, which can be directed at any one character, multiple, or the group as a whole. This wiki post is the home base of the PC, of sorts, where you can […]
October 21, 2025
on writing submissives (in roleplay)
Note: by “submissive” I am referring to the more submissive character in a relationship overall, regardless of gender or sexual position. CONTENTS1. Stereotypes2. A Note on Face Claims3. Emotional Depth4. Realism5. Character Growth6. A Small Note on Variety7. A Small Note on Trauma & Melodrama ✦✧✦✧ STEREOTYPES How I view a stereotypical submissive is as […]
December 26, 2022
On Being Quoisexual, Part 2
AKA: the tangled mess of arousal, desire & attraction Aegosexuality can be defined literally as “sexuality without self” or “sexuality separate from the self”. A more explanatory definition is the lack of desire to be a participant in sexual activities — like asexuality — with the further specification of “having sexual fantasies at times, despite feeling a disconnect between […]
August 28, 2022
On Being Quoisexual, Part 1
AKA: Everything and nothing all at once simultaneously “Quoisexual” aka WTF- or whatsexual, can be defined in the following ways: I have decided to start this series to help explain to myself and others what it means and is like to be quoisexual, because even as someone who identifies with the label it can be […]
May 11, 2022
To Post or Not to Post?
I conducted a very informal poll on Instagram recently and learned I am not alone in avoiding posting to my writer’s blog. A further question showed I’m also not alone in avoiding posting specifically because many publications consider posting to your blog a form of publication, severely limiting where you can submit your work if you’ve posted it on your blog.
The desire for every thought you put to paper to be published is obviously a strong one, but in this day and age having a social foll...
January 4, 2021
The Psychopath’s Guide to Dating
We’re going to try a little experimentOnlyYou aren’t going to know it’s an experiment.I’d call it a game, but—This “game” is only ever fun for me. How I meet you almost doesn’t matter, but I’ll take note. Where are we? What time of day is it? What are you doing? What are you wearing? What’s […]
