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Bruce Chalmer

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Dr. Bruce Chalmer has been helping couples for over thirty years. Through his teaching, consulting, and videos about relationships, his ideas have helped thousands of couples and their therapists.

Together with his wife, Judy Alexander, Dr. Chalmer is the host of the Couples Therapy in Seven Words podcast (https://ctin7.com).

Dr. Chalmer's website is https://brucechalmer.com. ...more

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Two Jewish Boomers Visit Germany and Talk About Forgiveness

In my book Betrayal and Forgiveness, I define forgiveness as an “inside job.” Among other things, that means that you can forgive people who have committed acts of pure evil—because forgiving just means you can think about what happened without being consumed by anger or panic. Forgiveness is about healing yourself. To paraphrase Anne Lamott, forgiveness gets the rat poison out of you. Then you ca

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Average rating: 4.37 · 63 ratings · 26 reviews · 9 distinct works • Similar authors

	Reigniting The Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy and How to Get It Back 4.07 avg rating — 27 ratings — 4 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Betrayal and Forgiveness: How to Navigate the Turmoil and Learn to Trust Again 4.53 avg rating — 17 ratings — 3 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	It's Not About Communication!: Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong 4.58 avg rating — 12 ratings — 3 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	The Passion Paradox: When You Feel Miles Apart and Still Love Each Other: A Workbook 4.50 avg rating — 4 ratings — 2 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Seven Words to Jump-Start Your Love Life: What You Need to Know About Relationships, in One Sentence it was amazing 5.00 avg rating — 2 ratings — 3 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	My Husband Complains About My Cleaning! What Do I Do?: Hint: It's Not About the Cleaning it was amazing 5.00 avg rating — 1 rating — 3 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Berakhot: a Midrash Cantata: Program Notes and Commentary 0.00 avg rating — 0 ratings	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
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