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April 18, 2023

The Chariot (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

“Be confident! Release indecision.”  If the Chariot appears reversed, it means that fear of making the wrong decision can rob you of feeling like your life and destiny are in your control. 

This card will often accompany a feeling that life is pulling you in two opposite directions. Fear of committing to a choice can lead to a sense of being stuck. Avoidance of taking responsibility and making a choice will only make things feel more "out of control." The Chariot driver reminds you that you are in the driver's seat of your life. You get to choose whether to respond assertively or re-actively to the situation confronting you. Once you make the choice you have been avoiding, you can reclaim your self-confidence and self-esteem.

When the Chariot appears reversed, it may be time to assess whether you are self-sabotaging. Fear of failure, rejection, and change can all contribute to a lack of confidence in your decision-making abilities. Remember that mistakes and missteps are a natural part of the growth process. By avoiding making a decision, you are essentially giving up control of your life to outside circumstances. The Chariot is a reminder that you have the power to steer your life in the direction you want it to go.

It's time to recognize the self-doubt, face it head-on, and make a choice. Trust that you have the skills and abilities to navigate any challenges that may arise. The Chariot reversed can also indicate a lack of clarity or direction. Take some time to reflect on your goals and values. This will help you make a decision that is aligned with your authentic self. Once you make a choice, take action and move forward with confidence. Remember, even if the path ahead is uncertain, you have the ability to steer your own course.

Do you find yourself avoiding decisions that may lead to your happiness out of fear of failure?

Have you ever remained in negative situations due to the fear of an unknown future? Perhaps there is something you wish to alter in your life, but fear is holding you back?

The Chariot card embodies the spirit of bravery when faced with uncertainty. It encourages us to take chances and pursue our true desires, despite the absence of certainty. The Chariot reminds us that success is not solely achieved through achieving a goal, but rather, by choosing courage over fear.

The Chariot is led by two sphinxes, one black and one white, facing opposite directions, each symbolizing a potential future. The sphinx, a creature of mystery, represents the unknown. The Charioteer takes a risk and allows the sphinxes to guide him despite not knowing what lies ahead.

In the backdrop of the card, a massive castle is surrounded by stable walls, representing leaving the safety of home and venturing out into the world. A wide moat encircles the castle, symbolizing the need to avoid emotional decision-making, which often favors comfort over personal growth. The Chariot is draped in a veil with star imprints, signifying that the Charioteer can see the bigger picture, with his Higher Self directing his path.

Even though the Charioteer is still on the way to his objective, he is already crowned and carrying a scepter. He has already won by making the choice to embrace courage over the need for comfort, certainty, and security.

The Chariot advises us to take chances to better our lives, even if the outcome is uncertain. Choosing courage empowers us, making us winners even before we've achieved our goal.

The Chariot tells us that the only wrong decision for you at this time is making no decision at all.

Be bold and proactive. Take charge. Even when this card is reversed it reminds you that you still embody the powerful the qualities of the brave charioteer. The Great Mystery symbolized by the sphinxes will lead you to safety every time. You can still be victorious, but only if you have a horse in the race. There is no need to fear mistakes. Even if you possibly make mistakes along the way, they will prove to be your best teachers. Success comes from action, not avoidance. Reclaim your personal power and make the decision you’ve been too scared to make!

Don't let fear hold you back when the Chariot appears reversed. Making no decision is the only wrong choice. Take control of your life and trust that mistakes are just opportunities for growth. Remember that you are still the powerful charioteer and victory is within reach.

The Chariot (Reversed) in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

The reversed Charioteer can represent a love interest who is obsessed with appearing impenetrably confident. This may be a mask for an unacknowledged insecurity within.

This card can also represent someone who retreats into his (or her) shell when he doesn’t understand his emotions. You can’t “make” the Charioteer reemerge. He must come to you.

Long Term Partnership

The Chariot reversed may describe a partner who feels they’ve lost control over their life’s direction. Although this person appears emotionally impenetrable, he or she is likely feeling extremely vulnerable. Discussing underlying issues compassionately may help them get back in the driver’s seat.

Seeking Romance

A past heartbreak may be tempting you to retreat behind fortified, impenetrable walls. Focus on pursuits that bolster your confidence. Physical activity can be one tool to help restore vitality and passion. Resist rushing into a rebound relationship to avoid feeling the discomfort of a past loss.

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April 17, 2023

Page of Pentacles (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

“Reclaiming passion.”  Page of Pentacles (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

Page of Pentacles (Reversed) | Tarot Card

The reversed Page of Pentacles tarot card suggests that you may be losing your passion for something that once interested you.

If you feel blasé about your goals it's time, to remember why you love the work you do. This is a pivotal moment where the direction of your energy needs to change. The Page of Pentacles reversed can symbolize feeling burnt-out with a skill, subject or routine. Check in with yourself and ascertain if excitement for your passions feels blocked. This card can often appear for people who turn hobbies or interests into their careers. If the purposeful work is not injected with gratitude, joy and excitement, it can soon feel like a daily grind.

To reignite your passion, take some time to reflect on what drew you to this work in the first place. Think about the skills you've developed and the progress you've made. Remind yourself of your original goals and aspirations, and ask yourself if they still resonate with you. It's also important to explore new ways of approaching your work, to add some variety and excitement to your routine. Remember, mistakes are a natural part of the learning process, and they can be your best teachers. Don't let fear of failure or comparison to others hold you back. The key to success is to stay focused on your own journey and to enjoy the process.

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Does your current pursuit allow you to help others or to express yourself in a unique way?

What motivated you to start in the first place? Was it the joy of creation, the sense of accomplishment, or something else?

The Page of Pentacles represents the passion you feel for what REALLY interests you. This can be a goal, a talent, a creative pursuit, or a career that you love. To get better at anything, you have to work at it. When your interests become "work," it can be easy to forget why you used to love it. The job to do (and the anxiety to do it well), can soon take the place of the passion. The process of getting better at anything is strewn with mistakes. Errors are your best teachers. If you don't remind yourself what you love about the work you do, your morale can quickly sink. If you throw in comparing yourself to others, who you think do it "better," and you've got a perfect recipe for anxiety, apathy or avoidance. In order to reclaim your passion, get back to the basics. It's time to remind yourself what initially made you passionate about this pursuit in the first place!

The Page holds up his Pentacle with reverence. It is a symbol of his passion for learning, perfecting, and understanding. He lives in a fertile valley in the shade of trees and mountains. Although he is a child of the "Earth element," he always seems to have his head in the clouds. The tall trees and the towering mountains lie far beneath where his dreams take him. This kid is going places! His red hat symbolizes the passion he has for the fresh goals he is just getting started with. He is not just a dreamer but also a "doer." His green tunic represents that abundance will always result when there is a self-motivation for improvement.

Sometimes anxiety about doing well at something causes avoidance of the very things that used to bring you joy. The Page of Pentacles asks you to try to remember, what made you passionate about doing this work in the first place. Did it make you feel good to help someone? Was it something that you felt brilliant in? Did it build your self-esteem up, because you had a gift, and you used to know it?

For success to take root, the love of the pursuit must supersede your anxieties about it.

The Page of Pentacles reversed reminds you to restore feeling into your pursuits.

Perhaps you need to take a break from “work” and create something just for the love of it. The Page of Pentacles loves to stimulate the mind. Allow yourself to participate in something that reignites your interests. Seek out fascinating people and exchange ideas.

Often, the Page of Pentacles reversed represents re-learning a life lesson that we thought we completed. This may be a time where you are circling back over your life and reinforcing the fundamentals of who you are. This will ensure growth and opportunities that will emerge after you embody who you are becoming.

If you feel stuck, depressed or bored, you must add passion. Life always feels better when you infuse it with excitement and activity. If your mind isn’t enjoying the object of its focus, then something needs to change. If you're feeling burnt out, it may also be a good time to take a break and recharge. Take a day off to do something you enjoy, spend time with loved ones, or simply relax and recharge your batteries. Sometimes, a change of scenery or a change of pace can help you find your passion again.

In the end, it's important to remember that your passion is what drives you and gives your work meaning. Don't lose sight of that, and don't be afraid to make changes if you need to in order to keep that passion alive. The reversed Page of Pentacles is a reminder to take a step back and reevaluate your direction, so you can continue to grow and thrive in your pursuits.

Page of Pentacles (Reversed) in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

Every reversed Page can signify a level of immaturity. The Page of Pentacles reversed can highlight juvenile behavior or someone who is very bright but struggles to take full responsibility for their choices. The above average intelligence of this person can make them extremely adept at rationalizing away what needs to grow.

Long Term Partnership

The Page of Pentacles reversed can represent a person who upholds unrealistic standards of perfection in himself and in his potential partners. He may also come across as overly critical. He may seem a bit “off,” when trying to connect in relationships. This card can also signify a partnership where one partner is extremely difficult to satisfy.

Seeking Romance

If you are single, the Page of Pentacles reversed will highlight a lesson you seem to be relearning. Until this lesson is learned, you may feel your plans for romance keep getting derailed. What issue do you seem to be relearning again and again in your relationships?

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April 16, 2023

Eight of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

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Eight of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card

The Eight of Wands reversed represents a flurry of activity.

There are deadlines to meet, tasks to complete, bills to pay, events to be present for. All the while life is still going on in the background. Family needs attention, mini-crises need to be averted, unexpected events require immediate flexibility. All this activity can cause our breathing to become shallower, the heart to start racing, and anxiety levels become elevated. It's time to slow down and take a step back. The flurry of activity that you are experiencing may be causing you to lose sight of the bigger picture. Take a moment to reassess your priorities and make sure that you are not neglecting anything important.

It's also possible that you may be taking on too much at once. Sometimes, saying "no" can be a powerful tool in managing stress and preventing burnout. Prioritize your to-do list and delegate tasks if necessary. Remember, you don't have to do everything alone.

When you feel overwhelmed, it can be helpful to take a break and practice mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga. These practices can help you stay centered and focused, even in the midst of chaos.

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Are you neglecting other important areas of your life in the pursuit of completing tasks and meeting deadlines?

Do you need to let go of something that unrelentingly races around in your head or heart?

When the Eight of Wands appears reversed it asks you to take a time out. Slow down. Take a break from the frantic dash and give yourself a nice relaxing cup of tea, or another luxurious treat. Calm down, all will get done on the list, but you need to address your center right now. Check in with your center and ask it how it's feeling. Can you be kind to yourself today and not cruel? It's time to take a deep nourishing breath and exhale that stress away........There! Doesn't that feel better?

The Eight of Wands is a card that signifies progress, motion, and momentum. When this card appears, you should be prepared for things to start moving quickly. The Eight of Wands is associated with information and communication, which means that you may receive answers to your questions, find solutions to your problems, or get the information that you have been waiting for.

If you have been feeling stuck in your personal or professional life, the Eight of Wands encourages you to take action and get things moving again. Ask yourself whether you have been procrastinating, avoiding a difficult task, or letting anxiety hold you back. This card suggests that it is time to confront these issues head-on and take control of your life.

In the Rider-Waite Tarot, the Eight of Wands features eight sticks flying through the air. There are no people illustrated on the card, which suggests that events that are unfolding should not be taken personally. You should move forward with what makes rational sense, rather than letting anxiety or emotion stall you. The river at the bottom of the card represents the need to go with the flow of life, rather than fighting against it. The small house on the hill symbolizes the importance of taking a higher perspective and making logical choices.

The Eight of Wands can also signify the need to take action and get things done. If you have been putting something off or procrastinating, this card is telling you to stop making excuses and take that personal risk. Avoidance will only deplete your personal power. Strength comes from confronting your fears and taking action.

The reversed Eight of Wands reminds us that sometimes, taking a step back and slowing down is the best way to move forward.

Trust in the process, and know that everything will fall into place in due time.

Being productive doesn't mean being tense, irritable, and stressed out. In fact, this makes you far less effective. The eight wands on this card are all flying through the air. They will meet their mark more effectively if the skies are clear. The element of air is a symbol for the mind. This card is a reminder to connect with the element of air through the breath. Deep breathing has the effect of immediately creating calm, providing an opportunity to become centered, and to regain perspective. Often, we don't stop to alleviate our anxiety by partaking in this one simple act.

Today, lower your stress and anxiety levels by treating yourself to a break. Even a little one. You can give yourself fifteen little minutes, right? Do this, and you will accomplish all your tasks with grace and ease.

Eight of Wands (Reversed) in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

When reversed, the Eight of Wands can represent inconsistent communication. You might experience a flurry of messages one week, only to receive silence the next. Upright or reversed, there is an impersonal quality to this card. The inconsistency you are experiencing is not because of something you did. Don’t personalize another person’s issues.

Long Term Partnership

Your partner is experiencing increased demands on their time and energy. They may be spread too thin. Instead of taking their distance personally, understand that there are too many irons on the fire at this time. This card can also represent a partner who is scattered or forgetful about issues you find important.

Seeking Romance

The Eight of Wands reversed can represent a heightened sense of anxiety. It’s time to keep calm and carry on. There is likely a situation that is triggering some nervous tension which is interfering with your ability to think clearly about your current prospects. You will connect with others more effectively if you restore inner calm.

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April 15, 2023

King of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

“Believe in yourself.”  King of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

King of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card

When the reversed King of Wands makes an appearance, it suggests a time when you may be experiencing doubts about your own competence, skills, and talents

This usually occurs when your focus is directed outwardly and the links to your authentic, inner-self feel diminished. Sometimes this card is just a reminder to stop comparing yourself to the achievements of others. Remember the false equivalency of comparing lions to lizards.

You may be feeling disconnected from your inner self and lacking confidence in your decisions. This card serves as a reminder to turn your focus inwards and reconnect with your authentic self. Stop comparing yourself to others and their achievements, as this will only lead to false equivalencies and feelings of inadequacy.

To regain your confidence, take some time to reflect on your strengths, accomplishments, and unique qualities. Embrace your individuality and trust in your own abilities. The King of Wands is a symbol of leadership, strength, and courage. Reversed, it may indicate that you are experiencing a temporary setback in your journey to success. But remember, setbacks are opportunities for growth and learning. Use this time to reassess your goals and make adjustments to your approach if necessary.

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How can you demonstrate trust in your own abilities and honor your past experiences?

The King of Wands is a tarot card that represents a wise counselor. He is a survivor who has faced many trials and emerged victorious. This king speaks with wisdom and gravity because of his experiences. He embodies the wise and competent part of yourself and teaches you to trust in your abilities. If you have trouble trusting yourself despite your competence, the King of Wands reminds you to honor the part of yourself that has helped you survive.

The King of Wands did not gain his royal status through birthright, but through his competency as a soldier. He won battles and saved his kingdom on many occasions, earning the respect of his men. The people recognized his leadership qualities and named him the King of Wands after the former king died without an heir. Even though he carries himself with dignity and regal bearing, he does not command respect; it is given to him naturally.

The King of Wands' emblem is a lizard, which speaks to his familial roots. Lizards are survivors who can thrive in the hottest climates by moderating their body temperature. They symbolize the ability to "take the heat" and not allow emotions to get too hot or cold. This quality helped the king assess himself and others. Although the noble soldiers in the army used to mock the lizard on his banner, the king now places it alongside the royal lion emblem with pride. He understands that coming up as a "low-born" lizard gave him valuable gifts that he wouldn't have gained had he been born into the lion's club.

Like the King of Wands, you are competent and deserve a seat at the table. Don't compare yourself to others and assume they are better because of their material possessions, position, or education. You don't know their real struggles. Everyone has difficulties they are working on, even the most well-to-do. Your inner saboteur may try to convince you to retreat because you feel inferior, but tell that voice to take a hike. You are disrespecting your inner lizard. Each person has their unique gifts, and just because yours may not be as immediately apparent doesn't mean they should be underestimated or dismissed.

Respect your inner lizard today, honor the part of yourself that helped you survive, and trust in your abilities.

New opportunities are arriving that require you to tap into your deepest strength.

This can be scary. Fear of new experiences can lead to doubt in your ability to succeed. If you are beginning to doubt your talents, abilities, or strengths remind yourself of your total journey up until this point. Remember all the times you pushed past former barriers and succeeded. Reach deep within for that implacable belief in yourself. Reacquaint yourself with the strongest version of yourself that you can remember from the past. That person is still you, no matter how far your experiences have taken you away from that time and place in your life. The King of Wands reversed asks you to truly remember who you are. 

The truth is you do have the ability to succeed in whatever situation is presenting itself. Be open to personal growth and transformation now. Do not let your fears undermine your sense of self-confidence. The King of Wands is a tough character, upright or reversed. He is a survivor that always finds a way to succeed. In truth, he is a symbol for the same qualities which reside within you. Bolster your self-confidence by remembering the version of you that is competent, strong, and empowered to act. The King of Wands encourages you to be more assertive and less passive.

Be confident and believe in your competency. You’ve got this!

King of Wands (Reversed) in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

The King of Wands reversed can represent a partner with a sensitive sense of pride. He (or she) must feel recognized and appreciated before opening up. This person dislikes feeling contradicted in front of others. Reputation matters to him. He does not respond well if his methods are questioned. He desires respect above all else.

Long Term Partnership

This card can represent a relationship that has survived many trials by fire. Both partners have a shared experience of suffering that has actually strengthened their mutual respect for one another. Sometimes this card will appear when Express your talents, warmth, optimism, and playfulness.

Seeking Romance

This card can represent a time where you are beginning to doubt what you know to be true or are second-guessing your own perception. You may need to take a break from what is triggering you to see the situation more clearly. When your emotions have simmered you will know just what to do.

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April 14, 2023

Seven of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

“It’s not you against the world.” Seven of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

Seven of Wands (Reversed) | Tarot Card

When the Seven of Wands appears reversed, it advises you to let go of the false belief that it’s you against the world.

This card also asks if you are injecting an attitude of struggle and exasperation into your tasks. The Seven of Wands Reversed can indicate that there are many demands being made upon you mentally, physically and emotionally. There is a tension inherent in this card and it often indicates that is the anticipation of struggle that is causing extraneous tension that makes the object of your concern even more worrisome than it actually is.

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Call your attention to your neck and shoulders; are they tense, raised or tight?

It’s time to breathe relaxation into these muscles and let them unwind. Bracing for life situations before they’ve happened will often ensure that they will be more difficult to experience. Instead, accept life as it reveals itself to you. Even the “difficult” moments need to be accepted. Say yes to what is happening. Accept it. It will change your posture from tension to transcendence. The more you resist life as it is, the more unnecessary suffering you will subject yourself to.

The Seven of Wands is a powerful card that urges you to stand up for what you believe in and maintain your personal integrity. It can be tempting to conform to group dynamics or engage in negative behaviors to gain acceptance, but this card reminds us that true strength comes from staying true to ourselves and our values.

The man on the card is depicted standing on a hilltop, defending his position against unseen attackers. He wears two different shoes, symbolizing his nonconformity and individualism. While those in the group below may be more interested in fitting in and attacking those who stand out, the man on the hilltop remains true to his personal strength and honor.

As humans, we all have an instinctual desire to be accepted and belong, but we must be mindful of the negative behaviors we engage in to gain acceptance. Gossip, groupthink, and rejection of those who appear "different" can erode our integrity and individualism. Instead, we should strive to embrace compassion and take a stand against behavior that is beneath our dignity.

Those who embody integrity and personal strength are often admired for their courage and willingness to take a stand. They are not better than others, but they have the wisdom to know that engaging in negative behavior is not worth sacrificing their personal values. By staying true to ourselves and standing up for what is right, we can shine and inspire others to do the same.

Stop pushing so hard to “make” life do what you expect it should be.

Another meaning of the Seven of Wands Reversed is that you aren’t allowing yourself to be open or vulnerable enough with others. No man is an island. Perhaps you need to accept help from others when offered, of even to ask for it. Perhaps you need to remember that you are connected and not alone. This card in this position can often reveal a “them versus me” attitude. In actuality, we are all connected through Spirit. If you have no evidence for a possible threat from others try not to approach your social interactions with an unnecessary guard up. The keyword for this card is acceptance. Acceptance of yourself, acceptance of others and acceptance of where your life is at in this moment.

Seven of Wands (Reversed) in a Love Reading:New Relationship

The person you are asking about is hard to get close to. They may also be erecting barriers because they aren’t ready to connect. This person doesn’t follow a “type” and is likely very sensitive. If you want to get close to them, you may have to wait for them to come to you.

Long Term Partnership

The Seven of Wands reversed can also represent a relationship conflict that is at an impasse. Both partners are dug into their position. You may need to ask yourself if your viewpoint is aligned with your values or if you are just being stubborn. If your core values aren’t being violated, then don’t sweat the small stuff and resolve the conflict.

Seeking Romance

The Seven of Wands reversed could suggest that you are currently difficult to get close to. Allow yourself to be more open to others, especially if you desire a connection. If a relationship is what you desire most, you must lower any unnecessary defenses and take a risk.

[1] Johannes Fiebig and Evelin Burger, The Ultimate Guide to the Rider Waite Tarot (Woodbury, MN: Llewellyn Publications., 2016), 90.

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April 13, 2023

Five of Swords (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

“Pace yourself.”  Five of Swords (Reversed) | Tarot Card of the Day

Five of Swords (Reversed) | Tarot Card

If you are feeling discouraged or overwhelmed, the Five of Swords reversed reminds you to take a step back and reevaluate your approach to the task at hand.

The Five of Swords carries a similar meaning to the upright position, but to an even greater degree. Often this card appears when there is a looming deadline or heavy expectation placed on the self to succeed. This card also appears when you have been pushing hard for something over and over, only to feel like you are hitting a wall. Events may feel overwhelming so you must pace the tasks in front of you, to avoid a burn out. Learn from the mistake of the discouraged squires in the background of the card. They tried to collect all the swords at once and were quickly overwhelmed by the weight. Instead, do a bit of the task now, leave it, and schedule consistent times to come back to finish the task gradually. Patience and consistency will help you win, don't get flustered or overwhelmed.

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What can you do to restore a sense of calm and clarity?

What could you give yourself at this time to feel better?

When the Five of Swords appears in reverse, it may be a sign that you have been avoiding a task that needs to be accomplished. It can also represent times where your energy feels scattered and unfocused. Perhaps you’ve been getting burnt out lately. You may be feeling overwhelmed or defeated before even starting. This card urges you to take a step back, break the task down into smaller, manageable parts, and approach it with a new mindset. Avoid taking on too much at once, as this can lead to burnout and frustration. Instead, focus on what you can realistically accomplish and set achievable goals.

The image of the Three of Swords shows two defeated squires who were unable to handle all of the knight's demands and tasks at once. However, the squire in the foreground is able to accomplish the task by getting organized and collecting only what he can carry at one time. This symbolizes the importance of approaching a task in a manageable and organized manner.

The reversed Five of Swords reminds you to take care of yourself and to avoid taking on too much of other people's problems. It may be time to set healthy boundaries and focus on your own needs and priorities. Remember, it's okay to say no and to take a step back when you need to.

The Five of Swords reversed asks you to take control of your stress level by taking control of your time.

Be patient with yourself and stop cracking the whip over your own back. Break up larger tasks into smaller ones. Often, our best work emerges from taking breaks, taking our time, and returning to projects rested and clear-minded. If your thoughts are muddled, then there may be emotions that need to be heard right now.

The task before you will not prove to be as overwhelming as the other big trials you’ve faced in life. You’ve got this!

Five of Swords (Reversed) in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

It may be time to walk away from a relationship that is giving you more sorrow and stress than joy. Although it may be difficult, you will fare better is turn away from disempowering partnerships. This card can also signify that you need to be clearer about your relationship expectations from the beginning.

Long Term Partnership

You have been engaged in an argument, conflict or struggle and your energy has feels scattered and messy. You may need to walk away from the conflict to get clear about what it is you want. Difficult conversations are necessary in any relationship but cease to be productive if they repeatedly devolve. Know your non-negotiables and adhere to them.

Seeking Romance

There is an overwhelming conflict between your head and heart which needs to be resolved. Keep your word with yourself. If you say you are going to uphold a better standard, stick with it. If you are experiencing a moment of weakness, seek the support of the people you trust who want the best for you.

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April 12, 2023

Ten of Pentacles (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

"Legacy." Ten of Pentacles (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

Ten of Pentacles (Upright) | Tarot Card

The Ten of Pentacles is a card of legacy.

It represents investment in the things that really last. It is also a card of family and tradition. When the Ten of Pentacles appears, it asks you if you are working toward leaving the world a better place than you found it. This can include caring for the future generations, cultivating a talent that impacts the world, or being a representative of what is best in humanity.

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What legacy do you want to leave?

What really matters to you? Where does the best part of yourself shine through? How can you ensure that your light continues to shine long after you are gone?

The old man in the card reflects on a life well lived. The roots of wealth are firmly established for the future generations surrounding him. He never grew up in a wealthy home. He sacrificed and scraped throughout his youth so that he could leave something better for his children and grandchildren. He is not only leaving his family "a house," or "money." He is leaving them with his example. He is also sharing himself and his love in the present. The love he has for his family is the greatest legacy he will leave. The family is content and has more than they need. His children have been "raised right," and will pass on all the love and learning they received to their children.

Today, make great memories with your family. It is important to work hard and plan for the future, but it is even more important to stop, reach out, and connect with your loved ones. Love is your greatest legacy. Don't sweat the small stuff. Forgive past pettiness. Every human being has a mixture of "good" and "bad." Nobody's perfect!

The Ten of Pentacles assures you that what you are investing your energy in now will have positive results, well into the future.

This card also asks you to look at your progress toward your larger goals. The things you are building that will remain long after you have gone. It could be a book, a business, a masterpiece, an art-form, or even a property. Perhaps your life's work is merely to be your best self, and to spread kindness and love in a world that really needs it right now. Your life is becoming more and more secure. There is no need to fear the future when the Ten of Pentacles appears. Keep an eye on the long game and be patient. Now is an ideal time to establish strong foundations.

Ten of Pentacles in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

The Ten of Pentacles represents a growing bond with a person who shares your values. The person you are seeing will likely have a strong sense of duty to their family. They are likely looking for someone who shares their long-term goals. This person is repelled by drama and will want events to unfold securely and predictably. Impulsivity makes them nervous.

Long Term Partnership

The Ten of Pentacles can signify an investment in your future security together. Issues of financial planning, buying property, and investments in education all come to the fore when this card appears. The needs of extended family may also become a major priority. If you are considering any changes, make sure they are practical; avoid taking unnecessary risks.

Seeking Romance

If you are single, this card urges you to reconnect with your community or chosen family. Family events or outings with loyal friends may lead to romantic opportunities. Say “yes” to more social invitations. Reconnect with your tribe. The Ten of Pentacles also advises that you not waste your time with flighty partners who don’t share your values.

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April 11, 2023

Eight of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

“Momentum.”  Eight of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

Eight of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card

The Eight of Wands represents movement, progress, and momentum.

Events begin to move faster when this card appears. The Eight of Wands also rules information, and communication. Answers to questions become available. Once stuck issues become unstuck; whether about a personal goal, an awaited answer, or your state of mind.

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Is it time for you to confront something in your life that feels stuck, and get it moving again?

Is it time to act on your personal goals? Are you procrastinating about something instead of just getting the job done?

The imagery of the Eight of Wands in the Rider-Waite Tarot is the only card without a human (or part of a human) illustrated on it. There is an impersonal quality to this card. Eight sticks are flying through the air.... what is that supposed to tell you?! The lack of people symbolizes that events that are progressing should not be taken personally. It also advises you to move forward on what makes rational sense, instead of letting anxiety stall you.

A river that appears on the bottom of the card, symbolizing that you need to move with life's currents, and not fight against them.

The small house on the hill signifies looking at things from a higher perspective. Take the rational view when confronting this issue. Make the logical choice.

This card can also appear to tell you to just “get this going!” Write the emails, finish the job, stop procrastinating, do a “Hail Mary,” and take that personal risk! Ask yourself, “Am I letting anxiety about something impede my progress on this issue?” “Do I need to speak up and confront something, so that I can overcome it?

Don't be surprised if once stuck parts of your life begin to pick up speed. Summon your motivation and get it done. No excuses, no whining, and no making choices derived from anxiety. Avoidance results in depletion of personal power. Today, strength comes from confronting and taking action.

Let the breeze at your back propel you forward. This is a very favorable card for those who act.

Eight of Wands in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

The Eight of Wands can represent an exciting, fast-progressing partnership. The person you are inquiring about is thrilling, offering endless opportunities for exciting experiences. Your ability to communicate is unmatched. Expect engaging conversations, shared interests, and ideas. This card can also represent a close connection to someone who is separated by a long distance.

Long Term Partnership

The Eight of Wands can signify sweeping changes that are providing new opportunities for either you or your partner. This card can also represent increased passion and communication after a period of quiet and distance. A fresh breeze of exciting momentum is blowing through your life together. When this card appears, go with the flow.

Seeking Romance

If you are single, this card encourages you to act instead of overthinking. Avoid analysis paralysis. If you see someone you like, say something. Socializing online can also give you a safe opportunity to put your toe in the water before taking the deep dive with dating.

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April 10, 2023

Six of Cups (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

“Remember what brings you joy.”  Six of Cups (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

Six of Cups (Upright) | Tarot Card

The Six of Cups is a card that often signifies nostalgia and looking back at the past.

Many people look at the past and fixate on the difficult moments worthy of therapy sessions. However, if you look at your past in its totality, you will realize that along with difficulties there were times when you were joyful and optimistic about the future. The past holds important clues as to what will bring you fulfillment in the future. If you've felt happy before, you can feel happy again.

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Has the pursuit of security taken over your life, causing you to forget your joy?

Is it easier to remember the bad things that happened in the past, rather than the good? Who were you at your happiest?

The children on this card are part of the little girl's happy memory. The girl is receiving a gift of flowers. Flowers and gardens are her bliss! There are so many joyful feelings that flowers conjure up for her. In the future, she wants to have a house, garden, and courtyard, just like this! The children feel completely safe in their secure courtyard. A guard is posted in the background to ensure the children can play in the gardens without a care in the world. To emphasize their protection, a large shield is emblazoned on the walkway rail. These children have more than their basic needs met. They are free to be creative, laugh, and grow in safety and security. The flowers emerging from the cups symbolize that all is thriving happily. The children look at life with complete confidence and optimism, that the future will be just as happy as this moment.

When your basic needs are met (food, shelter, safety, security), you can thrive. You can begin to develop self-esteem and place your attention on the goals and dreams that you wished for yourself as a younger person. As an adult, your chief responsibility is to see that you have your basic needs in place. This ensures you can focus on what brings you fulfillment and happiness.

The Six of Cups asks you to remember what brought you bliss.

What brought you happiness way back when? This will remind you of who you really are, and what life pursuits will bring you fulfillment in the future.

The problem for many adults is that they forget to return to their bliss once their basic needs have been established. Adults can never seem to make enough money to feel safe. They can never tear away from work long enough to enjoy the afternoon. People get so caught in the routine of securing basic needs, that it overtakes every waking moment. Even if the needs are met, people are programmed to keep securing more. They end up identifying more with the guard illustrated on the card and forget the child within. Pretty soon they can't even remember their hopes and wishes leading to their abandonment.

If you've gotten your basic needs for safety and security established, it is important to return to the forgotten parts of yourself. Your dreams and wishes can still come true, but first you must remember them. Look back at the happier times in your life for clues as to what you want your future to be like. If you can remember the feeling of being happy, you can most assuredly have it again.

Six of Cups in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

It feels as if you’ve known your new love interest forever. There is a shared sense of familiarity between you. You can sense what the other is thinking or is about to say. You may share similar childhood experiences or even feel a past-life connection. The Six of Cups can also represent a partner with an eternally young, childlike spirit, especially when accompanied by Pages.

Long Term Partnership

The Six of Cups is a reminder of happy times gone by. If you and your partner haven’t been feeling as enthusiastic about your current life, it may be time to revisit a place you found special in the past. If there are current relationship difficulties, they are likely rooted in an issue that was never fully resolved from the past. It’s time to seek closure.

Seeking Romance

If you are single, this card may alert you to an old attachment that is unintentionally blocking you from experiencing new relationships. When your heart is occupied with a past love, you are unconsciously broadcasting to others, “Sorry, I already have a love. I don’t have room for you.” Perhaps it’s time to do a cord-cutting ritual to finally let that past love go.

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April 9, 2023

King of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

“Trust in your own competency.”  King of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

King of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card

The King of Wands is the wise counselor of the tarot

He came up the “hard way,” and has survived many trials by fire. Because of his experiences, he speaks with gravity and wisdom. The King of Wands represents the part of you that is wise and competent. He teaches you to trust in yourself. You haven’t let everything fall apart up until this point, so why panic and assume that suddenly you’ll drop the ball now. The King reminds you, that if you don’t trust in your own competency and abilities, you are betraying the very part of yourself that helped you survive. This part of you deserves some respect!

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Do you have trouble trusting yourself, no matter how well you do your job, or run your affairs?

Are you someone that came up the hard way, and has some uneasiness about not having some of the perceived "advantages" of people you think are better off? Have you proved to yourself time after time, that you are competent, and even after all of this time still don’t believe it?

The King of Wands doesn’t “command” people to respect him. Others need only to look at him and do. Although he carries himself with dignity, and a regal bearing, this king was not born “royal.” He was a soldier, and came up through the ranks the hard way. He earned the respect of his men by winning battles, and saving his kingdom on more than one occasion. His competency at leading naturally caused others to follow. When the former king died without an heir, the people named this proven warrior "the King of Wands."

As a King, the throne he is seated on is naturally emblazoned with lions. However, the King carries another powerful emblem that speaks to his familial roots.....the “lowly” lizard, seated right next to him.

Lizards are survivors. They can live in the hottest climates by moderating their body temperature. They can literally "take the heat." This symbol reminded this king's "lowborn" ancestors for generations, to not allow emotions to get “too hot,” or “too cold.” This quality always helped the king, when assessing himself and others.

The "noble" soldiers in the army used to laugh at the lizard on this soldier-king’s banner. To the upper echelons lizards were “dirty,” or even worse “evil.” Lizards were definitely not “royal.” For many years as a young man, the king felt shame about the lizard being on his family’s crest. Like the lizard, it meant that he too was "low-born." However, now the king places the lizard alongside the royal lion emblem with pride. The king has gained maturity and wisdom. He now understands that coming up as a lizard gave him more valuable gifts that he wouldn't have gained, had he been born into the “lion’s club.”

Today, it’s time to acknowledge that, like the King, you are competent.

You “belong” and deserve a seat at table in front of you. You've worked hard to get here. Don’t look at others and assume they are "better" because they have more money, a greater position, better schooling, more "this" or more "that." You don’t know their real life or private struggles! Everyone has difficult things they are working on...even the most well to do. No one gets a “free pass” in this life. Like the King, you will also have to battle the baggage in your consciousness that causes you to doubt yourself and your place in this world. This inner saboteur will tell you to retreat, because you aren't as good as someone else. Tell that malicious voice to take a hike! It's disrespecting your inner lizard.

In reality there is no practical way to compare lizards and lions. This would be a false equivalency. In reality each animal brings its own gifts. However, just because the lizard's gifts are not as immediately apparent, does not mean that it should be underestimated or dismissed.

Respect your inner lizard today. It may not be as glamorous as the lions you see on the shields of others, but it is the reason you've survived, and it deserves to be honored.

King of Wands in a Love ReadingNew Relationship

The King of Wands personality is thoughtful, understanding, and warm. However, he (or she) cannot abide dishonesty. You will not have to guess how he truly feels, for this King is honest to a fault. This card can also represent a developing passion where both partners feel understood and can communicate authentically with one another.  

Long Term Partnership

This card represents a mature partnership based on mutual respect. The King of Wands will encourage you to apply the wisdom gained from past to the present. No matter what Trials by Fire are currently before you both, the King of Wands governs relationship bonds that can withstand the test of time.

Seeking Romance

If the King of Wands represents you, he symbolizes the survival of many trials by fire. You become your best when times are toughest. Whatever you are currently enduring will only sever to make you better. Maintain your integrity and don’t lower your standards for a quick fix.

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