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How Cruella defeated an energy narcissistic vampire, and how you can too
Have you ever wondered why the nastiest, meanest people are successful? While the people who are loving and kind seem to befall a pauper’s fate? This is happening all throughout the country and even in the world, because of the witch wars. Yes, we’ve seen the witch wars play out in Game of Thrones between Cersei Lannister and Deanery’s Targaryen, and later in Cruella between Estella and the Baroness. Yet, we have no idea how these energy vampires, slash narcissists are stealing our ideas, our money, and even our energy to claw their way to the top. So, in this video we’re going to talk about how you can protect your energy and win the war against narcissistic energy vampires. And naturally, we’re going to do this by analyzing Disney’s Cruella.
Understanding energy vampires and the empath
Both Estella and the Baroness are fashionistas. However, Estella is born poor, neglected by her biological mother and raised, almost in poverty in a country town outside of London. Estella, wild by nature, exhibits many of her mother’s feral and ambitious traits. She can’t be tamed and as a result, she is repeatedly punished and almost expelled from her country-side school. Now, what many people fail to understand is that creative people, by their very nature are empaths. It’s not that we are weak, or overly sensitive. It’s just that we have a special relationship with Mother Nature. Let’s me explain why.
Understanding energy vampire abilities
I beat your ear up in other videos about energy, ashé, life-force, and chi. I explained that you really can’t do much without it. And if you want to manifest or do any type of magic, or magick, you’re going to need ashé. The tricky part is that many of us are disconnected from nature. And when I say disconnected from nature, I mean our human nature. The best way to explain this concept is to think of energy as money. Now, imagine that nature is this huge bank that you can make withdrawals from any time you need it. And you can continue to make withdrawals, so long as you’re in good standing. Empaths tend to have a good standing and relationship with the banks, aka, Mother Nature, and thus can make withdrawals when needed and necessary.
Narcissists, the new type of energy vampires
However, the energy vampire, or the narcissists doesn’t have a good relationship with the bank. Or, they had a great relationship with the bank, but ruined it due to foreclosures, late payments, fees, and delinquencies. You get my drift. So, with no money, or energy, the narcissist has to steal it. And once they have this energy, they need to protect it. If we take a look at the Baroness from Cruella, we can see how she exploited workers and everyone around her. She had no qualms about stealing people’s ideas, and even murdering people if they got in her way. Sadly, this was the case for poor Catherine, Estella’s caretaker. Catherine had visited the Baroness in her home to seek aid for Estella, only to be attacked and killed by Baroness’ vicious dogs. This left poor Estella, bereaved, orphaned and forced to scavenge and steal to survive. She meets her fellow cronies, Jasper and Horace, and thus they start a new life of high crime and deception.
Understanding narcissistic abuse in relationships
Another thing that is important to understand is that narcissism is almost like a curse. A curse that is triggered by some type of traumatic event. Estella, never had to worry about money before because she had a caretaker, but once she’s killed, Estella realizes that she’s on her own and will need to fend for herself. Sadly, this is the case for many narcissists and energy vampires. Somewhere down the line, they lost their sole source of energy, whether it be a loving parent, spouse, or even a sibling. And since there was no one around to guide them or teach them how to tap into the forces of nature, they are reduced to stealing it. And that’s what energy vampires, aka narcissist do, they steal, everything! They do this because they can’t generate power within themselves. And also, because they can’t make any withdrawals from the bank account known as Mother Nature. As a result, the narcissists become a predator, constantly looking for more prey. Their egos and their appetites for exploitation grows. This happens because society rewards many narcissists with fame, adoration, and yes, more energy. And as a result, they’re constantly looking for their next mark, casing joints and even sizing up people to see how they can exploit them.
Understanding the terrible effects of narcissistic abuse
With all of this said, it’s important to understand that Estella and the Baroness were both narcissists. We had empathy for Estella because she was an orphan. However, as the movie unfolds and Cruella, Estella’s alter ego starts to shine through, we see her become more vicious, cruel, and mean. She belittles Jasper and Horace and adopts a haughtiness that is off-putting to all those around her, including the audience. This is what happens when you pit a narcissist against another narcissists. There is a tug of war, or a witch war so to speak, where one will always try to outshine, upstage, and take down the other. Which brings me to the second point about narcissists. Since they can’t replenish and get energy from nature. They are forced to get their energy supply strictly from other people. As a result, they tend to take on the negative attributes and even personality traits of the people they are around the most. We saw this when Estella became more and more like the Baroness. She steals her vintage dresses, upstages her at her own black and white ball. And even kidnaps the Baroness’ Dalmatians.
Understanding narcissistic abusive parents
Cruella says that she wants to get her mother’s charm back––a necklace that one of the Dalmatians ate. And she wants to avenge her care-taker, Catherine’s death. And it seems like she wants to do this, by any means necessary. Her good friend Jasper, and one of the few people who truly loved hers, cautions her about going in too deep and losing herself to the dark side. And even Cruella has to stop herself from being as wicked and devious as the Baroness herself. You see, as the narcissist grows in power, so does their ego, and their sense of entitlement. So, after a while, they feel like they can do anything, including murder, and get away with it. Their sense of entitlement eats away at their empathy, enabling them to rationalize their bad decisions and behaviors. It’s them or me, they tell themselves. Or, they’re are casualties in every war. The narcissists aka energy vampire is always in survival mode, and everything is about self-preservation. As a result of this, they can’t develop or even maintain intimate relationships. Thus, they drift further and further away from their nature, their human nature.
Energy vampire fully explained
The Baroness felt no remorse for stealing other people’s ideas, for murdering staff, and even ordering the disposal of her baby. The Baroness was a narcissist, a freak of nature, who feasted upon the energy of her subordinates and fans. For years, she seemed unstoppable, until Cruella knocked her off her throne. Some would say that Cruella was able to do this by reconnecting with nature, plugging back into the source, tapping into Mother Nature’s bank account to make some energy withdrawals. And by doing this, she became more powerful than the Baroness. She was able to defeat her, without killing her, and thus inheriting the home, the fortune, and the fame, which was rightfully hers.
Crystals that will protect empaths from narcissistic vampires
So, what’s the moral of this story? Narcissists create other narcists. But also, one can stop the pattern by reconnecting with nature. They can do this by getting their source of energy from Mother Earth, and not strictly from other people. If you see yourself as a victim of narcissistic abuse, or an energy vampire. Just remember, that when you reconnect with your nature, withdrawal from those accounts, and get enough energy to defeat them. You can do this using the following crystals:
Black Tourmaline: Works as a great auric field protector and grounding.
Rose Quartz: Works great for the heart chakra, but can also be used finding inner harmony and seeking positive energy
Moonstone: Heavily laced in feminine energy. Is great for chasing away shadows
Narcissistic abuse occurs when someone is removed from nature and is dependent on other people for their energy source. You can help alleviate the effects of the narcissists and energy vampire by becoming one with nature and using certain healing stones.
http://yessyblue.com/narcissistic-abuse/
https://youtu.be/74IEisS9Os0
Understanding energy vampires and the empath
Both Estella and the Baroness are fashionistas. However, Estella is born poor, neglected by her biological mother and raised, almost in poverty in a country town outside of London. Estella, wild by nature, exhibits many of her mother’s feral and ambitious traits. She can’t be tamed and as a result, she is repeatedly punished and almost expelled from her country-side school. Now, what many people fail to understand is that creative people, by their very nature are empaths. It’s not that we are weak, or overly sensitive. It’s just that we have a special relationship with Mother Nature. Let’s me explain why.
Understanding energy vampire abilities
I beat your ear up in other videos about energy, ashé, life-force, and chi. I explained that you really can’t do much without it. And if you want to manifest or do any type of magic, or magick, you’re going to need ashé. The tricky part is that many of us are disconnected from nature. And when I say disconnected from nature, I mean our human nature. The best way to explain this concept is to think of energy as money. Now, imagine that nature is this huge bank that you can make withdrawals from any time you need it. And you can continue to make withdrawals, so long as you’re in good standing. Empaths tend to have a good standing and relationship with the banks, aka, Mother Nature, and thus can make withdrawals when needed and necessary.
Narcissists, the new type of energy vampires
However, the energy vampire, or the narcissists doesn’t have a good relationship with the bank. Or, they had a great relationship with the bank, but ruined it due to foreclosures, late payments, fees, and delinquencies. You get my drift. So, with no money, or energy, the narcissist has to steal it. And once they have this energy, they need to protect it. If we take a look at the Baroness from Cruella, we can see how she exploited workers and everyone around her. She had no qualms about stealing people’s ideas, and even murdering people if they got in her way. Sadly, this was the case for poor Catherine, Estella’s caretaker. Catherine had visited the Baroness in her home to seek aid for Estella, only to be attacked and killed by Baroness’ vicious dogs. This left poor Estella, bereaved, orphaned and forced to scavenge and steal to survive. She meets her fellow cronies, Jasper and Horace, and thus they start a new life of high crime and deception.
Understanding narcissistic abuse in relationships
Another thing that is important to understand is that narcissism is almost like a curse. A curse that is triggered by some type of traumatic event. Estella, never had to worry about money before because she had a caretaker, but once she’s killed, Estella realizes that she’s on her own and will need to fend for herself. Sadly, this is the case for many narcissists and energy vampires. Somewhere down the line, they lost their sole source of energy, whether it be a loving parent, spouse, or even a sibling. And since there was no one around to guide them or teach them how to tap into the forces of nature, they are reduced to stealing it. And that’s what energy vampires, aka narcissist do, they steal, everything! They do this because they can’t generate power within themselves. And also, because they can’t make any withdrawals from the bank account known as Mother Nature. As a result, the narcissists become a predator, constantly looking for more prey. Their egos and their appetites for exploitation grows. This happens because society rewards many narcissists with fame, adoration, and yes, more energy. And as a result, they’re constantly looking for their next mark, casing joints and even sizing up people to see how they can exploit them.
Understanding the terrible effects of narcissistic abuse
With all of this said, it’s important to understand that Estella and the Baroness were both narcissists. We had empathy for Estella because she was an orphan. However, as the movie unfolds and Cruella, Estella’s alter ego starts to shine through, we see her become more vicious, cruel, and mean. She belittles Jasper and Horace and adopts a haughtiness that is off-putting to all those around her, including the audience. This is what happens when you pit a narcissist against another narcissists. There is a tug of war, or a witch war so to speak, where one will always try to outshine, upstage, and take down the other. Which brings me to the second point about narcissists. Since they can’t replenish and get energy from nature. They are forced to get their energy supply strictly from other people. As a result, they tend to take on the negative attributes and even personality traits of the people they are around the most. We saw this when Estella became more and more like the Baroness. She steals her vintage dresses, upstages her at her own black and white ball. And even kidnaps the Baroness’ Dalmatians.
Understanding narcissistic abusive parents
Cruella says that she wants to get her mother’s charm back––a necklace that one of the Dalmatians ate. And she wants to avenge her care-taker, Catherine’s death. And it seems like she wants to do this, by any means necessary. Her good friend Jasper, and one of the few people who truly loved hers, cautions her about going in too deep and losing herself to the dark side. And even Cruella has to stop herself from being as wicked and devious as the Baroness herself. You see, as the narcissist grows in power, so does their ego, and their sense of entitlement. So, after a while, they feel like they can do anything, including murder, and get away with it. Their sense of entitlement eats away at their empathy, enabling them to rationalize their bad decisions and behaviors. It’s them or me, they tell themselves. Or, they’re are casualties in every war. The narcissists aka energy vampire is always in survival mode, and everything is about self-preservation. As a result of this, they can’t develop or even maintain intimate relationships. Thus, they drift further and further away from their nature, their human nature.
Energy vampire fully explained
The Baroness felt no remorse for stealing other people’s ideas, for murdering staff, and even ordering the disposal of her baby. The Baroness was a narcissist, a freak of nature, who feasted upon the energy of her subordinates and fans. For years, she seemed unstoppable, until Cruella knocked her off her throne. Some would say that Cruella was able to do this by reconnecting with nature, plugging back into the source, tapping into Mother Nature’s bank account to make some energy withdrawals. And by doing this, she became more powerful than the Baroness. She was able to defeat her, without killing her, and thus inheriting the home, the fortune, and the fame, which was rightfully hers.
Crystals that will protect empaths from narcissistic vampires
So, what’s the moral of this story? Narcissists create other narcists. But also, one can stop the pattern by reconnecting with nature. They can do this by getting their source of energy from Mother Earth, and not strictly from other people. If you see yourself as a victim of narcissistic abuse, or an energy vampire. Just remember, that when you reconnect with your nature, withdrawal from those accounts, and get enough energy to defeat them. You can do this using the following crystals:
Black Tourmaline: Works as a great auric field protector and grounding.
Rose Quartz: Works great for the heart chakra, but can also be used finding inner harmony and seeking positive energy
Moonstone: Heavily laced in feminine energy. Is great for chasing away shadows
Narcissistic abuse occurs when someone is removed from nature and is dependent on other people for their energy source. You can help alleviate the effects of the narcissists and energy vampire by becoming one with nature and using certain healing stones.
http://yessyblue.com/narcissistic-abuse/
https://youtu.be/74IEisS9Os0
