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March 14, 2020

A Love Letter to Grievers in the Midst of Coronavirus

We’re all kind of grieving right now.Credit: pexels.com

Hi there, my beautiful Grief Growers —

The world is totally wigged right now. People are getting sick, and yes, people are dying because of coronavirus. It’s a strange time to be alive (side note: we’re only three months into 2020?!)… and it’s also a strange time to be grieving.

I don’t have any words to fix what’s going on or alleviate the swirling anxiety about the state of things. All I can say right now is that THIS FEELS A LOT LIKE GRIEF....

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Published on March 14, 2020 07:55

February 8, 2020

How to Order Sympathy Flowers

Five helpful tips from a griever-turned-florist

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Published on February 08, 2020 10:11

February 3, 2020

I am so delighted this article was helpful to you, Patty.

I am so delighted this article was helpful to you, Patty. Thank you so much for reading! It’s so hard when friends/family shut down grief because the person was not “good.”

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Published on February 03, 2020 14:11

December 31, 2019

Grieving? Read These Five Books in 2020.

Latch on to validation, comfort, and hope in the aftermath of loss

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Published on December 31, 2019 01:56

May 8, 2019

Seeing My Dead Mom in the Mirror

My biggest grief trigger is my own face.

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Published on May 08, 2019 12:21

February 6, 2019

I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of Késhia.

I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of Késhia. You depict her so incredibly well. Thank you for speaking to the larger cultural grief of black lives gone too soon. There is so much systemically to push back against when it comes to this ancestral — and yet still wildly current — unacknowledged grief. My love to you and your circle. ♥

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Published on February 06, 2019 07:17

January 8, 2019

Grieving? Check out These Five Books in 2019.

My favorite grief-related page-turners for grievers and the people who love them.

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Published on January 08, 2019 18:31

August 20, 2018

Sex After Loss

Why some people have it… and some people don’t.

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Published on August 20, 2018 09:43

July 25, 2018

Hi Cherry, I’m so sorry for what you’re going through.

Hi Cherry, I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I did a podcast episode on having trouble sleeping while grieving that you can find here: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/podcast/16

I would also suggest finding a grief coach, counselor, or Grief Recovery Specialist (like me!) in your area that can help you unpack all of the “mind-circling” that can keep you from sleeping. (You can find a Grief Recovery Specialist by typing in your zip code here: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grief-supp...

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Published on July 25, 2018 07:24

July 9, 2018

On Grieving Toxic People, Abusers, and Assholes

Why it’s valid to grieve folks that are “wrong for you.”

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Published on July 09, 2018 10:06