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April 10, 2020

Postponed

I celebrated a birthday recently. Since we are quarantined for covid-19, we couldn't go out to eat like I would have preferred, but thankful for the food we had to prepare. I know a child's postponed birthday party is a much bigger deal than my dinner out, but I think a lot of us will be celebrating when things get better. “Do overs” are appropriate.

While there are many things that can be postponed, like movie or concert plans, and birthday celebrations, there are some things that just can't and won't be put off. Divine plans made since before time itself, have not, and will not be changed, cancelled, preempted or postponed.

Immanuel. God with us. Christ was born just as scripture told us (Isaiah 7:14). And when He was born, King Herod heard of this coming King and attempted to kill Him by murdering all boy babies under two years old (Matthew 2:16). But having been warned in a dream, Joseph and Mary fled. By divine order, this Baby lived.

The Great Exchange. Jesus, our Savior, was crucified at just the right time. Even though the scribes and Pharisees plotted to do away with Him, He slipped away from their grip (Luke 4:28-30). The timing of His death was perfect and all a part of God's redemptive plan. While there was no one who could make it happen sooner, there was no one who could stop it either. Peter drew his sword to defend Jesus, but was rebuked by Him. Jesus told Peter that He would drink the cup His Father had given Him (John 18:10-11). By divine decree, this Man died.

The Resurrection of Christ. After Jesus was crucified, His body was placed in a tomb and guarded so that no one would be able to disturb His body, or steal it so His followers could say He had risen. But no large rock or guard could keep the stone from rolling away. His resurrection could not be prevented! Death could not keep Him. The tomb could not restrain Him. The angels at the empty tomb asked the women who had gone to prepare His body why they were looking for Jesus among the dead? (Luke 24:5-7). By divine power, this Man rose again.

The Bible says it is appointed for man to die once and then the judgement (Hebrews 9:27). All of us will face eternity in one of two places, heaven or hell. Our lives, every thought, attitude and action will be measured against a Holy God, and no one has even a slight chance of standing before Him. The Bible says none of us are righteous, no, not one (Romans 3:10). But for the believer, the blood of Christ (sinless One) was shed for us (sinful one) and now God sees His Son's righteousness covering us instead of our sinful, wretched selves. I refer back to the Great Exchange. Jesus took on our sin and the death we deserved, and in exchange, gave to us His righteousness.

God's kingdom will be ushered in on earth on the exact day and time only known by God Himself. Nothing will hold it back. No delays. No quarantine can postpone it. Nothing. God created this world, He preserves this world, and reserves it for those final days (2 Peter 3:3-10). We don't know the day or the hour, but it will happen. Are you ready? Do you know my Savior? Has the fear of the virus, or cancer, or unemployment or being alone caused your heart to long for a God Who will save you? I urge you to seek Him today.
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Published on April 10, 2020 10:54 Tags: delay-postpone-easter

January 18, 2020

Take a Jacket

We recently attended the memorial service of a friend. I think it was the sweetest home going service I’ve ever attended. The gospel was clearly preached and friends and family were urged to be sure of their salvation and faith in Christ.

Coming up, I don’t remember many families speaking on the loss of a loved one. Having lost my brother and parents, I know it has to be very difficult. But in this service, the children and wife spoke their memories into existence in my mind. They were funny, and they were touching, all ringing true to a life well lived in service to his Lord, family and community. But one in particular stood out to me.

On their last encounter together, the dad advised the son to take a jacket with him when he went out that evening. The weather here in Georgia changes by the hour, so I'm sure it was well received. To me, it was love. Tender, compassionate, plain and simple. A father wanting his child, grown as he is, to be protected and prepared.

And it got me thinking. Doesn't our Heavenly Father tell us the same thing? In this world, we can expect to face more we can handle on our own. His Word tells us to put on the armor of God, and be prepared for whatever comes our way. We never know what a day will bring us…but God does.

The Bible tells us to suit up. We are in the world but we are not of it, so daily we face opposition, struggles, sorrows and heart breaks. Our friends turn against us, we lose our jobs, we face addictions and insurmountable debt. We feel stepped on, wounded and abandoned at times. But that jacket... Ephesians 6:10-17 tells us:

“Be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power. Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil. For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.
Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm. Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness. For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News so that you will be fully prepared. In addition to all of these, hold up the shield of faith to stop the fiery arrows of the devil. Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.”

Never hurts to have a jacket with you. Sometimes the weather changes abruptly. Rain showers happen. Temperatures drop unexpectedly. Just never know if you might need one. But the believer is prepared for changing weather, climate, attitudes and battlegrounds…and knows that God is with him, and for him. So, brothers and sisters, put on your jacket and fight the good fight.

This sweet family has the wonderful assurance of seeing their loved one again. So I ask you the same question they asked the congregation. Do you belong to Christ? Do you know the One who paid the price for you and provides this armor freely? Be sure of that relationship while it is still called today.
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Published on January 18, 2020 14:07

December 31, 2019

Hope and Joy

As the Christmas decorations come down, so does my spirit. It always seems like all the anticipation and excitement builds up, until poof, it's all gone in a pile of wrapping paper way too soon. The lights brighten the long nights and everything looks quite dreary without them. The dreaded thoughts of Winter settle in and I know it's a long haul until Spring. All the Hope and Joy of celebrating the birth of a Savior gets a little lost in the deconstruction of the tree and the packing away of the Nativity.

But it doesn't have to. We can choose to keep Hope and Joy in our homes and in our hearts all year long. So instead of packing them away and waiting until next year, remember this. Our Hope placed in Christ will never disappoint. Sure there may be days we struggle, we fear, we fail and flounder. But one day our world will be set right by Him who created it. We can find Joy in knowing that for the joy set before the Lord, He endured the cross. He died so that we might live with Him and be a part of His joy.

This might not have been your best Christmas. Maybe you survived it without a loved one, gifts, or even a job. Jesus loves you, friend, and is the greatest Gift ever given. I pray 2020 finds you like the Magi – seeking Christ no matter the cost, time or distance. You won't find Hope and Joy under the tree, but only in the One who bore the Tree for you.

From the Kelly house, to you and yours, we wish you all Hope and Joy in the New Year.
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Published on December 31, 2019 10:55 Tags: christmas-sadness-hope-joy

December 10, 2019

German Chocolate Cake

Daryl and I have been walking a lot lately. Getting into a healthy habit of exercise, spending time together away from other distractions like the tv and internet. We've “outgrown” our one and a half mile circle we live on, so we venture out in other directions. We normally greet the usual dogs, cats, horses, goats, cows and the occasional squirrel or deer. But on our walk this morning we met a man tending his livestock.

He had a question for us, so we stopped and talked a while. It evolved from his original intent into politics, the Bible, and family. He introduced himself and we talked a while longer. I'm not really sure how the mention of food worked it's way into the conversation, but as an old timey Baptist myself, it never really surprises me. This newly made friend asked if I had ever made a German chocolate cake. I said I didn’t think I had. He tells me what I need to make it, be sure to double the frosting and make one for my husband, too! Well, I took that as a challenge and purposed right then and there that I would make one for him. As we parted, he wished us a blessed Christmas and I reminded him I would be back with that cake, wondering silently to myself, what just happened?

I had to ponder on that a bit walking home before I shared some inside information with Daryl. I'm absolutely certain my new friend had no way of knowing that German chocolate cake was my Daddy's favorite. And of all the cakes he could have requested, he chose that one. I think I know why.

Part of grief is undeliverable love. I will always love my Daddy, but can't love “on” him physically. I won't ever be able to bake my Daddy another cake, but I can make a cake, with love, and share it with someone. I can give some of that love away, and in doing so, honor the memories I have of the love my Daddy gave me.

Our Father in heaven has loved us with a great love, and we have been instructed to love others as He has loved us. Is there someone you could share some love with this Christmas? An elderly neighbor? A co-worker that's struggling right now? I pray God will open our eyes to how many ways there are to share His love, not only this season, but all year round.
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Published on December 10, 2019 12:50 Tags: love-grief-sharing-christmas

September 1, 2019

Well Done

Sitting under the tent, watching the color guard fold our great nation’s flag that had covered the casket, I was wondering. The service celebrating my Daddy's life was coming to a close. Did we choose well? Would Daddy have been pleased with the song selections? Having the service on what would have been his 85th birthday? I'm pretty certain he would have been pleased with the presence of the Marines and the message. But there are just some things you wonder about, mostly because you can't ask. Just then, there was a strong, cool rush of breeze that ruffled the tent and made the overhang flap loudly. Others noticed. It was definitely spiritual. I closed my eyes and whispered, thank you Lord. My Daddy is home. And he is pleased.

And while I so wanted to know my earthly father was pleased with my care of him, I also want my heavenly Father to be pleased with my service to Him. I'm not perfect. No one is. But am I living my life in a way that reflects who He is, and that I am indeed His child?

Loved ones, the Bible tells us explicitly how to live our lives pleasingly to God. To honor our parents and to love one another, to name a few. And that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. In light of all the instructions He has given, let us study His Word. Let us love each other well and do our best to honor the Lord with our lives. As much as I want to know my Daddy was pleased, even more so, I want my Father to one day say to me, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” I know my Daddy heard those words the 26th of August. If you don't know my Savior, my Daddy would urge you to seek Him while He may be found. I do, too. And I pray you will one day hear those sweet words welcoming you Home.
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Published on September 01, 2019 09:20 Tags: death-service-christ

July 9, 2019

Reign In My Heart, Oh Lord

I love to hear the falling rain, the thunder as it rolls across the sky. And I realize, it’s all under God’s authority. That nourishing precipitation is at His disposal – to give or to withhold. My plants just got watered yesterday (by me) but how much happier they look when the rain falls on them. I hear the frogs chant, “more, more!” (well, at least that’s what I imagine they might be singing!) And I think about how all creation responds to this gentle outpouring. Why? Because rain was made for it – to nurture and strengthen. To cause to grow. To refresh…which got me thinking…

The Bible tells us in Acts 14:17 that rain is a visual reminder of God’s provision and presence. “He did not leave Himself without witness, in that He did good and gave you rains from heaven and fruitful seasons, satisfying your hearts with food and gladness.” That’s love. In Matthew 5:45 we’re told that He “sends rain on both the righteous and the unrighteous.” That’s mercy. In Hosea 10:12 it says that God showers us with His righteousness. “Sow with a view to righteousness, reap in accordance with kindness; break up your fallow ground, for it is time to seek the LORD until He comes to rain righteousness on you.” That’s grace. The Psalmist longed for God as the deer might long for a drink of water on a hot day (Psalm 42:1). And to me, the blessing of water falling on the earth is like the Word of God is to our soul and spirit. It brings life, it strengthens our faith, and it causes us to grow.

Do you feel like you’re getting a little dry and dusty in this weary world? Dust off your Bible and drink in God’s Word. I pray the Holy Spirit will meet you there and refresh your heart today.
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Published on July 09, 2019 13:23

July 1, 2019

But God Didn't

I've had more than one friend experience loss and tragedy in the past few days. A loving mother way too soon. A beautiful young lady with her whole life ahead of her. Earnest and sincere prayers weren't answered in the way we thought best. And it reminded me of my Momma and how we lost her.

See, even though there were complications during her open heart surgery, I was sure she would pull through, recover and have a wonderful testimony to give. She loved Jesus. She taught Sunday School. Her life was an example to me and others of God's grace, mercy and love. I prayed and wept before the Lord for her life. But God didn't answer my prayer the way I thought would be best. He took her home. And I was left with a decision to make.

When things aren't going well, when you lose your job, when you’re diagnosed with cancer, when your spouse walks away, when a loved one dies…do you decide to turn away from your faith, or do you hold on to Jesus that much tighter? Dear one, let me encourage you to hold on. Your prayers were heard, but our heavenly Father knows what is best. It's a hard statement to make, but I believe it with all my heart. There are just things we can't fathom in our finite minds, that He, in all His wisdom, love and mercy, has a clear and perfect knowledge of. And His will be the final, and best answer.

The Bible tells us in Proverbs 3:5, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” We will not always be able to understand the things we go through. To me, this verse means God knew we would struggle with the “whys” so He's telling us ahead of time to trust in the “Who.”

We've all heard the “but God” stories. I've read some incredible ones lately. Absolutely, no way possible things were going to work out in life for these folks. All the odds were stacked against them and looking like a huge Jenga game on it's last play. But God! He pulls off a flat out miracle that makes it completely unquestionable that it could have ever happened without His intervention. And yet, for some of our prayers, dreams, goals…the “but God” story becomes a “but God didn't” one. If God is sovereign, why does He allow this disappointment, pain and hurt? If only I could answer that well. My feeble attempt would be that we learn and grow through those times, hopefully closer to Him and His will for our lives.

Horatio Spafford had lost his only son, just four years old, to sickness, then two years later his four daughters aged eleven to two. Yet he penned one of my favorite hymns, It Is Well With My Soul. Believers, I pray that when you experience great loss, unreal tragedy and fierce pain, that you keep your eyes fixed on the One who holds your hand through it all, and that you are able to say, it is well. We've read the end of The Book and know the eventual outcome is in our favor. If you don't know my Jesus, I pray you would seek Him while He may be found. If I can help, please reach out. I want you to be able to say with me, it is well, even if God didn't.
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Published on July 01, 2019 13:45 Tags: tragedy-loss-death-hope-faith

June 17, 2019

From Hapless to Hopeful

I stopped for gas on my way to Daddy's the other day. They have gas pumps with video now, like we need more intrusion in our lives. But the station where I usually stop always has a “word of the day” video. I find these interesting and I'm always curious if I can remember it long enough to impress someone. But that day, the word sunk my battleship.

Hapless. The meaning is having no luck, unfortunate… Can I get a witness? Seems like lately there's just a little too much going on in my life. Of Job proportions. Seriously. And I just can't seem to catch a break, no matter how hard I try.

The book of Ruth tells us that Naomi suffered so many trials and heart aches that she began to refer to herself as Mara, which means bitter. And like Naomi, when we suffer, we can become sourpusses. (My darling husband, please don't elbow me in the ribs, our pastor already did!) And when we don't understand the reason for the illness, the financial set backs, or dare I say, depression creeping in, it's all the harder to paste a smiley sticker on our faces and tell the world we are doing fine. But the Bible has a lot to say about our suffering.

James 1:2-4 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

Romans 8:17-18 Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.
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And this quote rings true as well…
“Our vision is so limited we can hardly imagine a love that does not show itself in protection from suffering…. The love of God did not protect His own Son…. He will not necessarily protect us – not from anything it takes to make us like His Son. A lot of hammering and chiseling and purifying by fire will have to go into the process." ~ Elisabeth Elliot

I really can't explain suffering. But I know my Lord endured immense pain for me and I trust that He is with me in what I'm experiencing. I know He could take away all my tears in the blink of an eye. But even if He doesn't change things, I will choose to follow Him. Even if it means I linger in my sorrow and my night. My hope is in the One who created me for a purpose, and that He is making me fit for my calling. He's making me stronger. I trust this completely. Doesn't mean I won't feel down sometimes, but I truly want the end result to be a “better me” from weathering the storm, not a “bitter me” from it.

Brothers and sisters, whatever you are suffering through, know that God is for you. Hold on, that beautiful sunrise is on the way.
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Published on June 17, 2019 15:35 Tags: suffering-perseverance-hope

May 13, 2019

Trusting the Master

I recently helped my friends while they were away with a little tending for their inside dog. Not much was needed, but just to let him out to relieve himself a few times a day, while others were covering his meal times. Which got me thinking.

Are we trusting the Master, our Father God, in every situation we face? This little furry fellow had no worries that his needs were going to be met, even though his master wasn't home. Even though he didn't see his main caregiver for a few days, everything had been meticulously planned so that he would not go hungry, thirsty, or need shelter. He patiently waited for assistance in calm assurance that his master would provide care in his absence.

My friend, even when it feels like God is absent from your life, I assure you, He is not. If you are feeling alone in your struggles, I can assure you that you are not. I'm in the same place. Kind of feels like the Saturday of Easter weekend. Everything is dark and still. It seems like hope is scarce and the darkness surrounds me. I can't see around the corner, much less the future. But the Word of God promises me that He will never leave me nor forsake me. He promises me that not a sparrow falls to the ground that He does not notice, and yet, I am worth more to him than all the birds in the world. And His Word tells me that nothing can separate me from His love.

Even though I'm in a perplexing and stressful time in my life, and I feel alone in my struggles…I know my God is with me and He will see me through. He will see you through, too, just trust in Him. Be trusting of your Master, who knows your needs before you even realize you have them.
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Published on May 13, 2019 13:41 Tags: trust-assurance-hope

March 28, 2019

United

On the way to a gathering of friends this past weekend, we made a quick stop at the grocery for a side item to share. I stayed in the car as I figured I would just slow up the process. And I'm glad I did.

I watched as a man in a bright yellow Michigan ball cap loaded groceries in his car. Then he noticed another fellow in a similar ball cap head down the opposite row where he was parked. He called out, the second man walked over. I let the window down so I could eavesdrop. It was the hats they were wearing that brought them together. There was some talk about two Michigan fans happening upon each other in Georgia. Talk of where they were headed, then first name introductions and hand shakes. Each got a selfie with his new found friend. Then a little more small talk, another handshake, a manly hug, goodbyes and a God bless.

I really wished I had gotten out of the car, offered to take their pic, and told them thank you for what I just witnessed. But I knew I would end up with something in my eye, and I didn't want to embarrass myself. And even though it might not seem particularly special or unusual to you, the first fan was a black man and the second man was white.

Might I suggest there is less racism in our hearts than the media would have us to believe? Might I suggest that it's more what unites us than what divides us? Things that happened in this country's past are just that. Past. But each man (and woman, and child) can make the decision today to focus on what brings us together instead of what pulls us apart. Things like “parking lot instant friends” happen everywhere, all the time. But also there are times where people have saved lives, paid a debt, or bought a meal, out of no other obligation than to help someone regardless of their skin tone. But the media rarely tells us about them. Instead they choose to tell us about the evil events where hate prevails. And sometimes it does. But just because it does, doesn't mean you should regard your neighbor, fellow sports fan, or co worker as evil just because their skin is a different color. And you shouldn't assume because their color is different, that they look at you that way too. Racism does exist, between all races and in all directions. But the Word of God compels us to forgive and love.

Open a door for someone today of a different race. Smile at that cashier who looks completely different than you. Greet someone today with a different background than yours. You might be surprised by how much you have in common. Jesus died so that the opportunity to know Him and be joined to His family would be made available to all. Yep, even Michigan fans. 😉
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Published on March 28, 2019 07:52