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April 13, 2019
Potential awkwardness vs potential consequences
It’s ok to let people who seem perfectly fine know that you’re there for them and will listen without judgment if they ever just want to talk. Because the potential awkwardness in doing this is still far less significant than the potential consequences for not.
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April 11, 2019
Touching people’s lives
If you want to be a positive force in people’s lives, you don’t need anyone’s acceptance or permission to do that. Nor do you have to follow anyone else’s standard on how to do it.
There will always be people critical of how you choose to make a positive difference in the world, but the fact is, those people are not your target. Your target is the one person whose life you make a little bit better by being a part of it. And after that person, it’s the next one.
And o...
April 10, 2019
Newsletter: April 10, 2019
Ok, folks! Here’s the news some of you have been waiting for!
The Kindle edition of my book which regularly sells for $9.99 will be totally free on Wednesday, April 17th! If you’re paying attention, that’s exactly one week from today.
Set an alarm (or reminder) on your phone right now for April 17th. And then tell anyone you care about that my book will be free. Please. Why? Because I want to share the love. I want people who wouldn’t ordinarily be able to afford my b...
Stand behind your work
If people want to appreciate you for something you’ve created – even if you see flaws in it – let them. It is entirely OK to be appreciated & recognized for the things you create even if you’re better now than you were when you created them.
Don’t disparage your work just because you can see flaws in it. If it’s obvious to you what you could have done better, that’s proof you’ve grown. And that’s something to be proud of. And if you created somet...
April 9, 2019
Your life vs disapproval
Not everyone is going to approve of what you choose to do or how you choose to live. And in today’s world, many are keen to let you know when they don’t. Fortunately, this will rarely have any impact on your life unless you choose to let it. Your life is yours to live, not theirs.
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Your life is yours to live
Your life is yours to live, not those of who may disapprove of how you choose to live it.
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Accepting praise
When you are being genuinely appreciated for something, accept it. And if you know you can improve upon what you are being appreciated for, don’t point it out. Just do it.
Everyone is a work-in-progress. That doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t allow ourselves to be appreciated for where we are on our journey.
Just because you’re not on top of the mountain doesn’t mean you can’t be appreciated for the things you’re doing to get there.
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April 8, 2019
Being wrong is not a sign of weakness
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Confident vs insecure
One thing that separates the confident from the insecure is that confident people tend to acknowledge their mistakes, learn from them, and move on, whereas insecure people frequently do whatever they can to avoid admitting flaws & often seek ways blame their blunders on someone or something else.
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April 5, 2019
Stay true to you
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