Zero Dean's Blog, page 34
May 7, 2019
Not giving a damn is not the answer
The more I browse social media, the more I see the increasing popularity of the belief that not giving a f*ck is the answer to all of life’s problems…
That the answer to caring too much about what people think is to not care That the answer to caring too much about the world’s problems is to not care That the answer to relieving stress in your life is to simply not give a f*ck about anythingAnd it simply isn’t true. This mode of handling things is just another dysf...
To thine own self be true
The consequences of continually catering to others people’s expectations can affect everything in our lives, from the types of jobs we hold, to what we buy with our money, to the people we have relationships with, and how happy and fulfilled we are as a result. This is why if one wants to truly live an authentic and fulfilling life, it’s important to not only know thyself, but “To thine own self be true.”
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A person of value
One adds far more value to their life by contributing something of value to other people’s lives than they do by seeking to benefit only their own.
Collect value by contributing value.
“Try not to become a [person] of success. Rather become a [person] of value.” — Albert Einstein
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Self-confidence is a byproduct of a stable sense of self-worth.
A stable sense of self-worth is a byproduct of self-acceptance.
If you wish to be more self-confident, learn to accept yourself as you are.
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Change your life. Start today.
Always be mindful of the fact that the positive changes you initiate from this day forward will lead to results you will reap the benefits from for the rest of your life.
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Start building a better future
You can literally start building a better future for yourself by making today the day you finally refuse to put off the changes you know will be good for you.
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May 5, 2019
If you want to make a positive difference
If you want to make a positive difference, but don’t know how, helping those who help others is a great place to start.
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Help create a perpetual kindness machine There is no inflation on acts of kindness Never underestimate the power of a single act of kindness Go ahead, make someone’s day If you want more kindness in the world, put some there. Appreciation and gift giving.The post If you want to make a positive difference appeared first on Lessons Learned from The Pat...
Happiness is not just putting on a fake smile & pretending
Excerpt from: Happiness is not a choice
Happiness is not a choice. Attitude is.
Happiness is not just putting on a fake smile, acting cheerful, and pretending everything is OK.
Sometimes things are not OK. And that’s OK.
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Even if attaining a state of happiness was as simple as making a choice, telling someone who isn’t happy that “happiness is a choice” is as about as helpful as teaching someone how to fish by telling them that “there are fish in the sea”.
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Success isn’t just about accomplishment
Success isn’t just about accomplishment. It’s also about how the things you do in your life motivate & inspire others to do something motivating & inspiring in theirs.
It’s about helping people. It’s about adding value to other people’s lives. It’s about making a positive difference, no matter how small.
Success has a lot more to do with what isn’t immediately visible than it does with trophies, awards, wealth, or material things.
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