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How to Prepare for Your First TED Talk (From Someone Who Just Did)

So, you’ve been selected to give a TED talk. Could be a big TED event, could be your city’s own TEDx — doesn’t matter. The nerves still hit the same. One moment you’re thrilled. The next, you’re spiraling through open tabs, wondering if you’ve made a mistake.

“How do I even begin?” you keep asking.

Breathe. Let’s slow down.

This isn’t just another “presentation tips” post. I’ve been where you are. I recently stepped onto the TEDx stage with a heart full of stories and a mind overflowing with doubt....

Letting Go: Transform Your Life with Wisdom from the Gita, Quran, and Bible

Why Do We Struggle to Let Go?

What are you clinging to at this moment? A painful memory? A toxic relationship? A career that doesn’t speak to you anymore?

We all do this. We hold on tight to what we know, despite its pain. It also feels like a risk, a leap into the unknown. But what if the unknown is not a threat… but a gift?

Letting go is not about losing — it’s about clearing space. Space for peace. Space for growth. Room for the life you’ve been quietly dreaming of. But how do we start? How do w...

Kapil Raj: Author and activist redefining societal narratives

Author and Writer : Kapil Raj

Kapil Raj, a distinguished Indian author, speaker, and writer-activist hailing from Delhi-NCR, India, possesses the keen intellect of a philosopher and the pragmatic mindset of a realist. With an unwavering commitment to challenging societal norms, he expertly crafts stories that delve into intricate social issues and defy conventional thinking.

Following the success of his debut novel “ENDURER: A Rape Story,” he launched the Change Stories Series. The recent release ...

Clouds or Clear Sky (#writingshots)

In the vast expanse of the sky, my heart debates: clouds or clear sky? Each holds its allure, its own unique charm that captivates the imagination.

Photo by Chaz McGregor on Unsplash

Clouds, oh how they comfort! Drifting lazily across the azure canvas, they whisper secrets of hidden worlds, tempting us to reach beyond the veil and explore the mysteries that lie beyond. They paint the sky with hues of grey, hinting at the depth of emotions and stories waiting to be unraveled. Clouds beckon us to em...

Unveiling the Perfect Guide to Launching a Book in India: A Comprehensive Journey

Embarking on the exciting journey of launching a book in India demands strategic planning and flawless execution for a truly remarkable event. In this post, we delve into the critical steps and considerations that can transform your book launch into a memorable and successful experience. Drawing from personal experiences and valuable tips, this guide is crafted to save you both time and money.

Before diving into the standard structure, let’s ponder over some crucial questions:

1. Why Launch a Book...

Unlocking Your Best Self: New Year Resolutions for 2024

As the calendar turns its pages, ushering in a new year, it’s time to embark on a journey back to oneself. This year, let’s rekindle the spirit of the untainted, fearless self — the one who believed in conquering the world, finding love, and making a positive impact. It’s a return to authenticity, shedding the layers imposed by society and expectations. Join me in embracing the New Year with resolutions that transcend the ordinary and connect with the core of who we are.

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A Symphony of Serendipity: When Two Strangers Create Unforgettable Moments (#writingshots2)

In the vast tapestry of life, some moments stand out like radiant stars against the night sky. What makes a moment worth living? Is it a feeling, a memory, or perhaps an unexpected experience? The beauty lies in the unpredictability of these moments, like the story of two strangers whose lives intersect in the most enchanting way.

Photo by Takahiro Sakamoto on Unsplash

It all began with a spontaneous decision, a quick run from an event that sparked an impulse to connect. A call was made, an invita...

Is Prioritizing Self-Love More Important Than Receiving Love from Others?

In our relentless pursuit of love, we often find ourselves chasing an ideal that has been shaped by society, movies, books, and even religion. The concept of love is frequently portrayed as selfless, demanding sacrifices, and a willingness to give it all, even if it means sacrificing one’s happiness or life for the ones we love. It’s a narrative deeply ingrained in our culture, and it’s one that I respectfully disagree with.

Photo by Willian Justen de Vasconcellos on UnsplashThe Borrowed Notion o...

I am HIV Positive #Day 1

This is a story of a person I met in one of my events. Sharing the ordeal, we agreed on the unawareness and judgmental outlook of society for HIV infected people.

It was a typical Sunday, and I was at home, enjoying a hearty breakfast while contemplating whether to start my day with a book or perhaps indulge in an early morning movie. As I relaxed, my phone began to ring from an unfamiliar number. I typically avoided calls from unknown contacts, but the persistent caller made me reconsider. I fin...

Dear Heart, I Apologize to You

A Letter to my Heart

Dear Heart,

I want to start by saying I’m sorry. I’m sorry for all the times I’ve let you down, for the moments I neglected you, and for the times I chose convenience over passion. You have been my unwavering companion, my emotional compass, and the source of my deepest desires. Yet, I’ve failed you in so many ways. This letter is a heartfelt apology for the times I didn’t listen to you, for the times I put life on hold, for the moments I chose comfort over adventure, for the ...