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Why is the father more attached to his daughter and the mother to her son?
She made me cry today...
It is the 829th day today since I first saw her. For the very first time when I started walking towards her, she was looking at the other side. But as I went closer, she turned towards me and smiled. I fell in love with her, that very moment; it's still inscribed in my heart.
But, my fate was playing games. Whenever I felt that she is sensing my love and getting closer to me, I had to invisibly wave 'bye' to her with heavy heart.
But, whenever I met her again after a significantly long break, sometimes of a quarter or of a month or a week, I re-energized myself to start afresh; to make her feel my love for her. I hated starting from zero every time she went away from me but I didn't give up. I wanted to keep my love brewing in her heart. But, I had to go a long way it seems. Because, probably, she didn't bother much going away from me; all this while.
It was the 821st day, I was seeing her after a month's break. This time I had hopes that she too will feel bad that she had to be away from me for a month. After all, I had loved her truly and had showed it to her every second possible to me. But, alas! She didn't mind waving 'bye' this time too. Though, there was no glitter in her eyes, which used to be there earlier in such moments, this time she was little upset. Trust me, I'm not cooking stories!
Today, on 829th day, when she came across, she came jumping to me. It was expected; 'welcome' from her was never a problem! We spent some good time together. I made sure that I spend most of the time with her; I did and she enjoyed too.
Now, it was time to say 'bye' again today after a while, after 14400 seconds, to be precise! My heart was pounding. Will it be a just another 'bye'? Probably not! I sensed something different today. She ignored everyone and walked with me. I sensed that she doesn't want to leave me today. I sensed that she wants to acknowledge my love for her. I sensed that she will let the world know, what "I" mean to her. She held me firmly as the time was ticking. And finally, when that last moment of the day, of seeing each other was sensed by her...she bursted out. 'I want to stay here'. She hugged me tightly as her eyes flooded, she finally said, 'I want to be with you Daddy'.
Ah....that very moment which made me wait for 829 days (71640000 seconds, to be precise!).
But, what's this? I waited for it so long but I'm not happy about it when it happened. (probably my daughter's tears made me feel so). She had no choice but to wave 'bye' today as well. She was still crying. As their car raced, I felt as if I'm sending her off to her in-laws on her wedding day! I broke down! How would I really face this moment years later? It's tough to be a father of a girl! God give me strength, please and also end her mother's 2nd maternity vacation soon please!
Yeah, so I love my daughter the most. Probably, more than to my parents!
But, it doesn't mean I don't love my son.
Oh, but I don't have any Facebook post with him in 3 years!
And what's this, in all the pics, majority of the time my daughter is in my arms, son is with her mum!
***
Dear son, when you grow up and and read this post, please don't misunderstand me. When you have a daughter, you will know, that it's natural!
***
So dear readers, coming to the mothers loving sons more, compared to daughters. Mothers love all their kids, equally. But, only until they don't get mad at them!
Fathers are gentle towards daughters and comparatively harsher on sons, when they get mad!
My daughter would kick if I touched, when she was in the womb. But, not when her mother would touch. So, daughters love fathers back equally and more than they do, to their mums.
To conclude - it's natural.
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It is the 829th day today since I first saw her. For the very first time when I started walking towards her, she was looking at the other side. But as I went closer, she turned towards me and smiled. I fell in love with her, that very moment; it's still inscribed in my heart.
But, my fate was playing games. Whenever I felt that she is sensing my love and getting closer to me, I had to invisibly wave 'bye' to her with heavy heart.
But, whenever I met her again after a significantly long break, sometimes of a quarter or of a month or a week, I re-energized myself to start afresh; to make her feel my love for her. I hated starting from zero every time she went away from me but I didn't give up. I wanted to keep my love brewing in her heart. But, I had to go a long way it seems. Because, probably, she didn't bother much going away from me; all this while.
It was the 821st day, I was seeing her after a month's break. This time I had hopes that she too will feel bad that she had to be away from me for a month. After all, I had loved her truly and had showed it to her every second possible to me. But, alas! She didn't mind waving 'bye' this time too. Though, there was no glitter in her eyes, which used to be there earlier in such moments, this time she was little upset. Trust me, I'm not cooking stories!
Today, on 829th day, when she came across, she came jumping to me. It was expected; 'welcome' from her was never a problem! We spent some good time together. I made sure that I spend most of the time with her; I did and she enjoyed too.
Now, it was time to say 'bye' again today after a while, after 14400 seconds, to be precise! My heart was pounding. Will it be a just another 'bye'? Probably not! I sensed something different today. She ignored everyone and walked with me. I sensed that she doesn't want to leave me today. I sensed that she wants to acknowledge my love for her. I sensed that she will let the world know, what "I" mean to her. She held me firmly as the time was ticking. And finally, when that last moment of the day, of seeing each other was sensed by her...she bursted out. 'I want to stay here'. She hugged me tightly as her eyes flooded, she finally said, 'I want to be with you Daddy'.
Ah....that very moment which made me wait for 829 days (71640000 seconds, to be precise!).
But, what's this? I waited for it so long but I'm not happy about it when it happened. (probably my daughter's tears made me feel so). She had no choice but to wave 'bye' today as well. She was still crying. As their car raced, I felt as if I'm sending her off to her in-laws on her wedding day! I broke down! How would I really face this moment years later? It's tough to be a father of a girl! God give me strength, please and also end her mother's 2nd maternity vacation soon please!
Yeah, so I love my daughter the most. Probably, more than to my parents!
But, it doesn't mean I don't love my son.
Oh, but I don't have any Facebook post with him in 3 years!
And what's this, in all the pics, majority of the time my daughter is in my arms, son is with her mum!
***
Dear son, when you grow up and and read this post, please don't misunderstand me. When you have a daughter, you will know, that it's natural!
***
So dear readers, coming to the mothers loving sons more, compared to daughters. Mothers love all their kids, equally. But, only until they don't get mad at them!
Fathers are gentle towards daughters and comparatively harsher on sons, when they get mad!
My daughter would kick if I touched, when she was in the womb. But, not when her mother would touch. So, daughters love fathers back equally and more than they do, to their mums.
To conclude - it's natural.
#AlmightysEmbryo
#SwapnilThakur
#ManavPuraan
#F.U.C.S. - Follow,Upvote,Comment,Share, Costs No Dime
Be Generous, It's Not Even A Crime…
