Nikita Gupta's Blog
December 28, 2019
Love: Not a need but definetely a want
Love is the feeling that does wonders to some but proves out to be a disaster to rest.
It's a need to some and a waste of time to rest.
It's a passion that gives people a reason to live and a reason to die as well.
Often many people feel that love doesn't exist until they find themselves fall into the trap of it.
It gives us the feeling of being cared, being wanted, being the best out of the rest and this is the feeling that most of us crave for, isn't it?
Why shouldn't we?
It's one of the best feelings in the world to know that you mean the world to someone.
It is a want, I completely and blindly agree to it.
But a need? Now, that's contradicting to me.
Love is not life but rather just a part of it.
Entitling it your life is wrong. Many people who fall in love and call it their life, are the ones who we find eager to even lose their life for it.
I myself believe, being a Love Fiction Author, love is a want and if we achieve it, it's not less than a blessing, but naming it your complete life is what I don't consider anywhere near being right.
Why don't we just keep love a part of our life?
Like every other thing our life is completed with, love is also one amongst them.
So let us all be aware of the fact that life's not completely comprised of love but of different things as well like working, playing, enjoying little joys of life and many more.
Love is a feeling, a passion, a term that is known to every single person out there, experienced by half of the population already but it is achieved only by a few.
It's not easy, it's a journey like that of a rollercoaster and still we crave for it.
We know we can be heartbroken at the end but still we run for it and after it.
That's enough to prove it that it's a want, a desire.
But nothing can ever prove that it's a need of life, a necessity of life.
It's not something through which we breathe oxygen.
It's neither something through which our heart beats nor something that makes our mind work.
We all know that before love enters our life, we were living and after it leaves we can still live.
It surely brings out the warm feeling in our hearts, it surely brings out the best in us but it's all a want and not a necessity.
It's high time now to know the difference between love and want.
Loving someone is not bad. It's rather most pleasant thing to do but making them your entire life is bad.
All I want to say is love someone, love someone to the fullest, receive the love back, break all the limits of love but always remember to not let it destroy other elements of life.
It's a need to some and a waste of time to rest.
It's a passion that gives people a reason to live and a reason to die as well.
Often many people feel that love doesn't exist until they find themselves fall into the trap of it.
It gives us the feeling of being cared, being wanted, being the best out of the rest and this is the feeling that most of us crave for, isn't it?
Why shouldn't we?
It's one of the best feelings in the world to know that you mean the world to someone.
It is a want, I completely and blindly agree to it.
But a need? Now, that's contradicting to me.
Love is not life but rather just a part of it.
Entitling it your life is wrong. Many people who fall in love and call it their life, are the ones who we find eager to even lose their life for it.
I myself believe, being a Love Fiction Author, love is a want and if we achieve it, it's not less than a blessing, but naming it your complete life is what I don't consider anywhere near being right.
Why don't we just keep love a part of our life?
Like every other thing our life is completed with, love is also one amongst them.
So let us all be aware of the fact that life's not completely comprised of love but of different things as well like working, playing, enjoying little joys of life and many more.
Love is a feeling, a passion, a term that is known to every single person out there, experienced by half of the population already but it is achieved only by a few.
It's not easy, it's a journey like that of a rollercoaster and still we crave for it.
We know we can be heartbroken at the end but still we run for it and after it.
That's enough to prove it that it's a want, a desire.
But nothing can ever prove that it's a need of life, a necessity of life.
It's not something through which we breathe oxygen.
It's neither something through which our heart beats nor something that makes our mind work.
We all know that before love enters our life, we were living and after it leaves we can still live.
It surely brings out the warm feeling in our hearts, it surely brings out the best in us but it's all a want and not a necessity.
It's high time now to know the difference between love and want.
Loving someone is not bad. It's rather most pleasant thing to do but making them your entire life is bad.
All I want to say is love someone, love someone to the fullest, receive the love back, break all the limits of love but always remember to not let it destroy other elements of life.
December 15, 2019
Stop that Judgemental Look
The billionaire, standing in front of you, has once faced poverty.
The healthy man, standing in front of you, once went to bed empty stomach.
The man in expensive shoes, standing in front of you, once walked bare foot.
Then why just look at the position they are now and not at what they were before? Why just looking at the smiles on their faces today and not caring about the tears that fell from the same eyes yesterday?
Every person who is walking by you has his very own story which maybe is full of tears, sorrow and heartbreaks or full of love, smiles and care or a mixture of both. We just can't look at a person and be judgmental towards him.
Let's face it, we all have our own problems and our own source of happiness and so we have got no right to judge others. Instead, let's support them for who they are and not pursue them to become what they are not or what we want them to be.
If we pursue them to become what they are not then believe me, we'll lose a beautiful soul that is full of originality. After that, only a fake soul will be left with us whose love will also be as fake as it is, isn’t?
We ourselves are not perfect and we know that fact already then why are we expecting everyone around us to be perfect? A perfect company? A perfect personality? A perfect being?
Everyone has a past, everyone has imperfections and everyone has scars. It all depends on us as to how we take it, how we accept it and how we promise to look beyond it and also fulfil that promise.
Just imagine what a beautiful place earth would be to live at, after people have left their fake faces which they were forced to show just because of the fear of being judged.
If you want to know someone in real, then don't just go by the looks but rather have a look at his character, his yesterday and the most important, at his heart.
Why character?
Because his real character can never lie, can never betray and it speaks a whole lot about his real self.
Why his yesterday?
Because his yesterday will tell us more about him than anyone or anything ever will.
Why heart?
Because his heart will never prove out to be a traitor, like his actions and words.
The person who we feel is bad today, maybe was a good soul yesterday.
The person who betrayed you today, maybe was betrayed by someone else yesterday.
The person who is ruthless today, maybe, has faced a much severe condition yesterday.
We just don't know about anyone completely and this leaves no point to judge him.
Isn't it weirdly funny that the person who we first find to be the coldest person by making us feel that he has got no heart, turns out to be the most sensitive and caring person at the end?
Isn't this enough to explain that not everyone who behaves with so much of hatred is actually full of hate; maybe, deep deep inside, we will be able to find his heart full of love.
No one is born bad, cold hearted, emotionless, arrogant or ruthless, it’s the circumstances, the situation, the story behind him that turns a person in the personality that we don't want to encounter with.
So, let's not judge and before telling someone about the third person's character, just make sure that you know every minor detail of him, his story and his emotions.
The healthy man, standing in front of you, once went to bed empty stomach.
The man in expensive shoes, standing in front of you, once walked bare foot.
Then why just look at the position they are now and not at what they were before? Why just looking at the smiles on their faces today and not caring about the tears that fell from the same eyes yesterday?
Every person who is walking by you has his very own story which maybe is full of tears, sorrow and heartbreaks or full of love, smiles and care or a mixture of both. We just can't look at a person and be judgmental towards him.
Let's face it, we all have our own problems and our own source of happiness and so we have got no right to judge others. Instead, let's support them for who they are and not pursue them to become what they are not or what we want them to be.
If we pursue them to become what they are not then believe me, we'll lose a beautiful soul that is full of originality. After that, only a fake soul will be left with us whose love will also be as fake as it is, isn’t?
We ourselves are not perfect and we know that fact already then why are we expecting everyone around us to be perfect? A perfect company? A perfect personality? A perfect being?
Everyone has a past, everyone has imperfections and everyone has scars. It all depends on us as to how we take it, how we accept it and how we promise to look beyond it and also fulfil that promise.
Just imagine what a beautiful place earth would be to live at, after people have left their fake faces which they were forced to show just because of the fear of being judged.
If you want to know someone in real, then don't just go by the looks but rather have a look at his character, his yesterday and the most important, at his heart.
Why character?
Because his real character can never lie, can never betray and it speaks a whole lot about his real self.
Why his yesterday?
Because his yesterday will tell us more about him than anyone or anything ever will.
Why heart?
Because his heart will never prove out to be a traitor, like his actions and words.
The person who we feel is bad today, maybe was a good soul yesterday.
The person who betrayed you today, maybe was betrayed by someone else yesterday.
The person who is ruthless today, maybe, has faced a much severe condition yesterday.
We just don't know about anyone completely and this leaves no point to judge him.
Isn't it weirdly funny that the person who we first find to be the coldest person by making us feel that he has got no heart, turns out to be the most sensitive and caring person at the end?
Isn't this enough to explain that not everyone who behaves with so much of hatred is actually full of hate; maybe, deep deep inside, we will be able to find his heart full of love.
No one is born bad, cold hearted, emotionless, arrogant or ruthless, it’s the circumstances, the situation, the story behind him that turns a person in the personality that we don't want to encounter with.
So, let's not judge and before telling someone about the third person's character, just make sure that you know every minor detail of him, his story and his emotions.
December 10, 2019
Dose of Motivation
A person who loves to sing, whose passion is to become a singer, is told not to sing but rather study; then where do you think that talent will go?
Nowhere. That talent will be just left inside those pages of the book.
And who knows that child could be a music sensation tomorrow.
A person who loves cricket, whose passion is to become a cricketer is told not to play it but rather just be an IPS like his/her father or cousin or sibling. Again where will that talent go?
Nowhere.
Now again, who knows that person could be playing in Indian Cricket Team in future.
Well, that's the second talent we have just lost.
Like this, how many talents have we lost till now and are still losing?
It's very rare when parents are able to identify and actually are considerate about the child's talent. And also when they don't force their expectations on their children.
We have to face it, not everyone has got the same capabilities. Not everyone has got the same talent. Not everyone has got the same dream and the same passion.
Tell a doctor to draw and an engineer to cook. Do you feel they'll still be efficient like they are in their profession?
Nobody is talented in each and every field. Everyone has got their own field, their own choices and their own mind.
What one likes, it's not compulsory for the other to like it as well.
Friends have different opinions, a couple has different opinions. Well, amazing out of all these things, even the twins have different opinions.
So, let's not judge everything and everyone on basis of one criteria.
The child good in mathematics may not be good in literature and vice versa.
We just can't expect one thing from everybody, can we?
And why the comparison?
The comparison is the main problem today.
The comparison doesn't motivate or inspire a child or anyone. It just demotivates them. It makes them feel that there is nothing special about them, it makes them feel that they are ordinary and sometimes the worst of all the things happen....they feel that they aren't worth anything, they feel that they are losers.
These are the feelings people should never ever encounter in their life but this habit of making comparisons eventually makes them feel this.
Sometimes, a certain thing or a certain subject is not someone's cup of tea and we have to accept it. It is the reality.
They say, nothing is impossible and I too believe the same but I also believe that sometimes it's okay to not make one thing possible if that's not what you want.
If you don't want a certain thing then don't run after it because that's a waste of time and that's something you'll never reach because of the lack of interest. Even if you reach, you will never be satisfied because in the first place that is something you don't really want from life.
But something you should run after and have to run after is your dream, your passion. Put efforts, work hard, keep going and face challenges. Turn every damn stone that's coming there, in your way to make your dream happen and to make it reality. When you'll reach it, you'll know that it was worth it and for once you'll feel satisfied, satisfied with where you have reached and satisfied with what you have achieved.
So, let's not impose things on anyone and on ourselves but rather let's together fly for what we actually want. Let's fly to our dreams. Let's fly together.
Nowhere. That talent will be just left inside those pages of the book.
And who knows that child could be a music sensation tomorrow.
A person who loves cricket, whose passion is to become a cricketer is told not to play it but rather just be an IPS like his/her father or cousin or sibling. Again where will that talent go?
Nowhere.
Now again, who knows that person could be playing in Indian Cricket Team in future.
Well, that's the second talent we have just lost.
Like this, how many talents have we lost till now and are still losing?
It's very rare when parents are able to identify and actually are considerate about the child's talent. And also when they don't force their expectations on their children.
We have to face it, not everyone has got the same capabilities. Not everyone has got the same talent. Not everyone has got the same dream and the same passion.
Tell a doctor to draw and an engineer to cook. Do you feel they'll still be efficient like they are in their profession?
Nobody is talented in each and every field. Everyone has got their own field, their own choices and their own mind.
What one likes, it's not compulsory for the other to like it as well.
Friends have different opinions, a couple has different opinions. Well, amazing out of all these things, even the twins have different opinions.
So, let's not judge everything and everyone on basis of one criteria.
The child good in mathematics may not be good in literature and vice versa.
We just can't expect one thing from everybody, can we?
And why the comparison?
The comparison is the main problem today.
The comparison doesn't motivate or inspire a child or anyone. It just demotivates them. It makes them feel that there is nothing special about them, it makes them feel that they are ordinary and sometimes the worst of all the things happen....they feel that they aren't worth anything, they feel that they are losers.
These are the feelings people should never ever encounter in their life but this habit of making comparisons eventually makes them feel this.
Sometimes, a certain thing or a certain subject is not someone's cup of tea and we have to accept it. It is the reality.
They say, nothing is impossible and I too believe the same but I also believe that sometimes it's okay to not make one thing possible if that's not what you want.
If you don't want a certain thing then don't run after it because that's a waste of time and that's something you'll never reach because of the lack of interest. Even if you reach, you will never be satisfied because in the first place that is something you don't really want from life.
But something you should run after and have to run after is your dream, your passion. Put efforts, work hard, keep going and face challenges. Turn every damn stone that's coming there, in your way to make your dream happen and to make it reality. When you'll reach it, you'll know that it was worth it and for once you'll feel satisfied, satisfied with where you have reached and satisfied with what you have achieved.
So, let's not impose things on anyone and on ourselves but rather let's together fly for what we actually want. Let's fly to our dreams. Let's fly together.
