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Is nostalgia holding you back?

Nostalgia is an affection for the past and when it comes to work many people yearn for a time long gone.

If nostalgia is put to good use it can provide fuel for a vibrant culture. This includes:

The behaviours required to overcome adversity

The creativity shown to maintain performance

The work done by teams to bridge silos

How leaders evolved their strategy to meet challenges or opportunities

How the team worked together to reject the behaviours of another who sought to undermine safety

These are all elements of a learning culture and when done well ensure that the culture positively evolves based on what’s gone before.

Unfortunately, many people use nostalgia to reject change. Things you will hear include:

‘You can’t say anything these days’

‘The kids today have it easy’

‘Everything is too PC and fluffy today’

‘The way we did things in the past worked just fine’

‘If only we could go back to [insert time period]’

The way that we work has moved on dramatically, even just in the last 5 years and we’re raising children to make more of a contribution in the world. Therefore, wistfully hoping for the sugar-coated memories of previous days to return is a waste of time and energy. It will reinforce aged or experience-based cliques, drain the energy from teams and disengage people looking to make a difference.

Negative nostalgia has no place in vibrant cultures, however, positive stories of human achievement always will. Is your nostalgia pushing you forward or holding you back?

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There's nothing constructive about criticism

Throughout my career I worked for managers who were great at giving criticism, but who were light on the ways to address what they perceived my flaws to be. I fully recognised (more so as I matured!) that I wasn’t the perfect employee, however - like most people - I wanted to do well and please those around me, whilst maintaining my sense of individualism.

Yet, being on the end of their ‘tough love’ never generated feelings of motivation. In fact it did the opposite. Their criticism served only to drain any enthusiasm I had for the job and led to feelings of inadequacy.

Being a naturally positive person, I like to think that we’ve moved on in the last 20 years, however last week I read a job advertisement and one of the bullet points read ‘the ability to accept criticism and work well under pressure’.

I have no issue with the end of that sentence as being able to demonstrate calmness in stressful situations is a skill that most of us need. Being able to accept criticism however, is a different matter.

Criticism is, by definition, ‘the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes.’ Therefore, it is always negative and is mostly perceptive, i.e. your assessment (truthful or otherwise) of another’s faults.

It inherently triggers defensive responses that prevent the construction of new thinking or behaviour, which means that there’s nothing constructive about it!

Regular criticism therefore chips away at a person’s self-esteem, confidence and ultimately the psychological safety of a team or organisation. It contains hidden judgements as the basis for criticism is often a difference in approach.

Finally, criticism focuses on problems rather than possibilities, directing energy toward ‘fixing’ weaknesses instead of amplifying strengths.

Alvaro Carias and I giving each other feedback on a presentation for FIFA

What’s required instead is empathetic feedback. You might think this semantic, but words and approach are important, not least when we are looking for changes in the responses of human emotions.

None of us are perfect and we all need feedback to improve who we are and what we do and this feedback should be both positive and negative.

From a team culture perspective, when flaws are continually magnified without strengths being acknowledged, it actively reduces feelings of engagement and belonging and leads to a reduction in productivity. Yet when strengths and successes are acknowledged, the results are quite different with increases seen in almost all areas of company performance.

According to the Gottman Ratio, the perfect amount of positive to negative feedback required to maintain strong relationships is 5:1. That is to say, to get the best out of another person, you need to consistently reinforce what they do well - this is great for confidence and feelings of self-worth - which then provides you with the opportunity to address what could be improved.

It needn’t be gushing, a simple ‘well done’ will suffice, however, when we have been on the receiving end of positive feedback, it makes the negative feedback much easier to take and act upon.

When giving this feedback, rather than just tell people what they need to improve, you need to also provide them with either a) the opportunity to outline how they would address the issue; or b) the tactics required to improve. This is the difference between coaching and mentoring and will differ depending on the situation.

This helps with the absorption of feedback and ensures that the person on the receiving end sees it as a benefit (a way to improve) and not criticism (something wrong with them).

So, what should the advertisement say? It should read ‘The ability to reflect on feedback and work well under pressure.’ Unless of course they just want to criticise their new staff. In which case, it’s a job to avoid!

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Young people today

Before you bemoan the actions, communication styles or habits of ‘young people today’, it’s worth remembering that you were young once.

When you first came into the workforce - regardless of what you did - you had been raised differently than your parents had been raised. You had access to more information than they had. You had access to technology (even if it was just a calculator!) that they didn’t have and as a result of these things, had different ideas and opinions of the way things should be done.

So, rather than moan about how things have changed and point imaginary fingers at those who have changed them, try empathy and education instead. Keep in mind that you were ‘young people today’ once and expected those who were older to understand you and keep up with newer ways of doing things.

Today’s new employees are no different.

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Corporate slop

One of the biggest complaints about AI is the level of ‘slop’ that it produces, i.e. low quality media and writing that it outputs from the prompts that it’s given.

The technology will improve over time (the end of 2026 is currently being touted as the date for high-quality AI) and the amount of ‘slop’ it produces will lessen.

However, organisations that are waiting for AI to improve productivity can achieve their goals right now by ridding themselves of the corporate slop that they have allowed to take root.

Corporate slop has been bogging employees down for years. Needless processes, complicated forms, behaviours that have never been dealt with, endless emails about nothing in particular, pet projects that add no value to the organisation, meetings that are 10-15 minutes longer than they need to be and time wasted reacting to the latest whim.

These are all examples of activities and actions that prevent people from doing work to increase outputs and consequently, results.

Rather than waiting for technology to solve productivity problems, leaders can create an exciting pathway instead by removing the corporate slop that will allow employees to embrace the gains that AI can - eventually - provide.

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Culture doesn’t belong to HR

When I was researching my latest book Detox Your Culture (recently shortlisted for a Business Book of the Year award, get your copy here) I kept encountering the same misconception in all of the case studies I read: that HR departments have full responsibility for day-to-day culture within an organisation and as such, if there was toxicity, then they were to blame.

However, as we’ll see, culture is never solely HR's responsibility (and any seasoned HR Manager would agree!) They can’t be there every minute of every day telling people how to behave, interact and work together 

The culture of any team or organisation belongs to everyone that shows up for work each day, regardless of whether they’ve been employed for 5 minutes or 50 years. So where do HR or the People and Culture team fit in then?

HR acts as the cultural architect; drafting strategies, securing the money for learning, tools and evolution, and reporting to leadership on issues that need addressing.

They should lead the process of defining values, ensuring they remain relevant in line with the organisation’s strategy and equip managers with the skills and knowledge to implement them. 

They should coordinate pulse surveys and ensure action plans fall to the managers actually responsible for culture, with appropriate consequences for those who don't follow through and improve the daily lives of employees.

Which means that they also have the responsibility to implement policies that safeguard the organisation's reputation and employee safety. They should enforce these when anyone (regardless of title or status) undermines the culture through their actions or behaviours. 

They encourage activities that positively evolve culture - including working with facilities on office space (if required) - and ensure fair, equitable pay and working conditions for all.

But when it comes to culture, that's where it ends.

The lived experience - "how we do things around here" - belongs to everyone, with managers having the most direct influence over what people experience day-to-day.

When HR Directors hire me, it's to deliver on their promise to managers - equipping them with the skills to build vibrant cultures (skills they're measured on annually). Forward-thinking HR teams also use the opportunity to sharpen their own skills, as they rarely have time to keep pace with global culture trends and practices.

Those pointing fingers at HR for poor culture can only justifiably do so if HR has neglected to build the foundations I've outlined above. Otherwise, leaders and managers should look in the mirror and at their teams for answers to their culture problems.

Culture doesn't belong to HR, but HR needs to ensure everyone has both the knowledge and skills to create and sustain a workplace worth showing up for, every single day of the week.

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Meetings are killing your culture

Badly run meetings are now endemic in many governments and corporate organisations. In this video I break down how you can fundamentally change the way that you meet, to save time and your sanity!

It is also available as a podcast, simply search for ‘Colin on Culture’ on your app of choice.

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10 biases that prevent culture change

One of the questions that I’m regularly asked either by senior leaders at the start of a culture initiative or by delegates at conferences is ‘What have you seen at other organisations that we can learn from?’

I have many stories and case studies that I share. I always start with the positive ones (there are some good examples here), but it’s the negative ones that they are often most interested in!

These are the stories where organisations needed my help but somehow found ways of talking themselves out of it. This then led to issues further down the road, which - many times - saw the organisation and its leadership make it into the media (not positively!) for their culture and their lack of attention to it.

There are, in my experience, generally 10 reasons leaders chose not to act and they can all be linked to a particular bias. I’ve listed them below:

‘The costs are too expensive’: Numeric anchoring effect - the tendency to focus on a reference point (the cost of something) rather than the value that it could create

‘Culture change is hard’: Illusory truth effect - the tendency to believe that a statement is true if it is easier to process, or if it has been stated multiple times, regardless of its actual veracity

‘There’s nothing wrong with our culture right now’: Availability heuristic - your most recent cultural experience dictates how you think about it

‘We don’t need to worry about a toxic culture here’: Normalcy bias - the refusal to plan for, or react to, a disaster which has never happened before

‘We’ve always had a great culture’: Confirmation bias - to interpret, focus on and remember information in a way that confirms one's preconceptions

‘As leaders, we don’t see any real issues’: Egocentric bias - the tendency to rely too heavily on one's own perspective relative to others

‘We’re looking to culture change within the next month’: Planning fallacy -  the tendency for people to underestimate the time it will take them to complete a given task

‘We just need to train everyone on [topic of the day]’: Hyperbolic discounting - the tendency for people to have a stronger preference for more immediate payoffs relative to later payoffs

‘We’ve done it ourselves’: IKEA effect - the tendency for people to place a disproportionately high value on an object that they partially assembled themselves (even if it's rubbish!)

‘This is not the right time’: Status quo bias - the tendency to prefer things to stay relatively the same in the short-term

And maybe an additional one…

11. ‘We’re aware of all of these!’ - G. I. Joe fallacy, the tendency to think that knowing about one’s bias is enough to overcome it!

Which of these have you seen or heard in your organisation?

If you’re tired of excuses and are looking for culture change that encompasses global good practice AND that builds in-house capability to deliver it, then email me at colin@colindellis.com to set up a time to talk or else you can book a time here.

The benefits you can expect to gain by working with me are as follows:

Leaders and managers develop the capability to build and evolve culture themselves

We develop a common language to help all leaders talk about culture

The capabilities directly link to the day-to-day demonstration of values

We emphasise that culture is everyone’s responsibility

The work becomes self-sustaining within your organisation for years to come and thus reduces future reliance on external help

You can find case studies from organisations that have achieved this by clicking here.

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The Outlook rule that saved my inbox

Email started to become a ‘problem’ for me as a manager in 2008. Prior to that, it was a bit of a novelty, however, we didn’t establish any rules around how it should be used, and so it was no surprise that it soon became the (lazy) way that all information was communicated.

It wasn’t long before I felt overwhelmed by the sheer number of messages in my inbox and if the statistics are to be believed then things have become significantly worse in the years since.

According to one survey, the average office worker receives over 100 emails a day, with 38% of respondents saying that ‘email fatigue’ is likely to push them to quit their jobs. Another report found that 42% of employees reported feeling compelled to immediately respond to emails even outside working hours.

This may be your lived experience too. It was mine back in 2008 and yet a training course changed my relationship with my inbox. I recognised that despite my own (obviously very good!) email habits, I couldn’t change those of others. So instead I turned to rules and one in particular dramatically reduced what appeared in my inbox. I thought I’d share it with you.

To create a rule in Outlook, go to ‘View’, then ‘View Settings’, then ‘Rules’. Click the ‘Add New Rule’ button. Name your rule ‘CC Emails’, then add the Condition ‘I’m on the CC line’, then in actions add ‘Mark as read’ and then add another action ‘Move to’, then in the select folder box, select ‘Create New Folder’, name it ‘CC Emails’ then click ‘Save’.

Once saved, every new email that someone lazily copies you into won’t appear in your inbox, it will magically disappear (as a read message) into a folder instead leaving you to concentrate on the important messages sent only ‘To’ you.

If you’re a control freak or have lots of time on your hands and want to see these, then don’t worry, there’s a folder with them all in to peruse whenever you get the chance to do so.

The final thing to ensure this strategy works properly is not to tell anyone! As soon as you do (and I made this mistake in one company) people will start adding your name to the ‘To’ field instead!

You can set up rules for just about anything, but this one helped me for years and can work for you too.

Whilst we’re at it, you should turn notifications off too! Learn about that here.

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The only thing you're in control of

You bringing your most self-aware, emotionally intelligent self to your place of work is the only thing you’re in control of. This control is likely to be severely tested as you go through your day by:

People not in control of their emotions

Unclear priorities

Volume of work

Complexity

Work that lacks stimulus

Bureaucracy

Technology fails; and

Other outside factors

However, if you can stay in control throughout these events then it’ll be a good day. The challenge then is to repeat it the next day and the next day and the next day…despite what the world may throw at you!

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Why inspiration needs motivation

A couple of weeks ago I was asked whether I was an inspirational or motivational speaker. The person asking had had a couple of drinks and I’m sure the question was tongue in cheek (or as we say in England ‘taking the Mick’), but I replied honestly, anyway, ‘Both, because, being just one of those things will leave an audience disappointed.

If you were to draw a Venn diagram that represents human achievement, it would look something like this:

While often used interchangeably, inspiration and motivation are different yet complementary forces in our journey toward accomplishment. It may seem like I’m splitting hairs, but it’s true.

Inspiration is a flash of brilliance, an elegant solution, or a vision of what could be. It's a spark that ignites possibility in our minds. Sometimes it offers a glimpse of a creative path we hadn't considered, other times it’s an energy we feel or ‘take’ from others. Inspiration can strike at any moment: during a morning shower, on a countryside walk, reading a book, listening to music, watching a speech or Ted Talk or just amidst the hum of urban life.

Yet inspiration alone remains merely potential energy. Without its crucial partner, motivation, even the most brilliant ideas will go unrealised. 

Motivation transforms inspiration from concept to tangible reality. It's the disciplined force that propels us through challenges, fuels late-night flow state work sessions, and sustains momentum when initial excitement fades. It’s the practical reality that inspiration can’t always see, a lit pathway to making a dream a reality.

The magic happens at the intersection where these forces overlap. When inspiration ignites our imagination and motivation drives us to action, we enter the sweet spot of creative productivity. This partnership explains why some brilliant minds never translate their genius into meaningful output, while others with perhaps less innate creativity produce remarkable work consistently.

Understanding this relationship offers a practical framework for achievement: cultivate environments that welcome inspiration, but build systems that generate motivation. Seek moments of creative insight, then immediately look to establish structures to transform those insights into action.

The most successful innovators master not just the art of capturing inspiration, but the science of sustained motivation. The same is true of public speakers too. Yes it’s important to feel inspired, but without the practical knowledge to motivate you to do something different, you’re only getting half the picture.

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