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December 11, 2015
THUS SPAKE MS. AMANDA, Part Two

WIFE-LED MARRIAGES

Changing your name to that of your wife’s is a wonderful symbol of your recognition of her as leader. My husband and I married quite young (early twenties) and it was a traditional white wedding, but there was no word “Obey” in the ceremony; I was quite adamant about that! With age comes growing confidence in one’s beliefs, and so if I were to marry now, I would have my husband say the word “Obey” to me and to take my last name.
FEMALE-LED FAMILIES
It is only right that a husband should serve his wife with his total obedience. In doing this, he is not showing devotion to her and setting a perfect example for the children, both girls and boys.

My children see their father as a happy man who lives in deference to his wife. They see a couple who love one another, and a man who worships his wife and would do anything for her. What better example of family life could we give our children?

I believe that girls who are brought up in a household with female authority are more likely to use this model for their own future families.

My husband is indeed well trained. He has painted my finger and toenails in the past, but did not really do a good enough job. I prefer going to the salon. However, I believe it may be time to reintroduce him to this service. A man painting his wife's toenails is certainly appropriate behavior for the children to see.
Family life is so much happier for everyone when the females are in charge.

The earlier in life that boys are taught respect for female authority, the better. So many young men grow up without this respect. This can lead to boys getting into trouble at school and even with the law. Perhaps compulsory lessons on female authority for all boys might be the answer.
From an early age my son saw that his father would stand whenever I entered the room. My son would also see my husband ask for my permission to leave the dinner table. This becomes second nature, and my son simply copies his Dad.
Teaching children about female authority requires both parents. It is very important that my husband backs up my authority and my daughters’ authority by talking to our son regularly. The sooner parents start teaching their children the better.
FLR is common sense! I never argue with the girls in front of their brother. He needs to understand that their authority over him is backed by me.

Our family discussions about allowances are done on a one-to-one basis between the recipient and me. However other family members may make comments. I make the final decision on allowances after reviewing the previous week’s behavior.

It is very important to be firm and consistent when teaching children. They will pick up on any disagreement between Mom and Dad and use that chink in the parental armor for their own ends. That is why FLRs make parenting so much easier, as Dad will always agree with Mom! This is the bedrock for a loving marriage and family life.
Love and discipline go hand in hand. Love for the children and discipline for the husband!
CFNM

The male ego is completely deflated when a man is naked in front of a clothed woman, and that is how the male ego should be.
Keeping a male naked signifies his lower status. In the perfect world I would have all males adopt the posture of nakedness.
MATRIARCHY

We are at the start of a new dawn of female empowerment. The true matriarchal society may still be somewhere in the distant future, but I have never felt more happy for my children to be part of this change. It is our duty as parents to educate our children and show our daughters that they can make a difference. Then perhaps their children will live in a wonderful and peaceful matriarchal world.
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Published on December 11, 2015 12:50
November 29, 2015
THUS SPAKE MS. AMANDA, Part One

FEMALE SUPREMACY
A male’s position in life is to serve the superior female sex.
The ideal state of man is to be completely subjugated by a powerful woman.

It takes a superior female to make a male’s life and submission complete and meaningful; without her he will revert back to his empty shell of worthless manhood.
TAKING CONTROL

The next generation of females is being shown how to train and handle males.
All males, regardless of age, need to be controlled.
About that time in my life, I discovered that I could twist my

Slowly bring your male to his knees, in absolute submission.
Nothing gives me greater pleasure than putting males in their proper place, at my feet.

I believe in corporal punishment for recalcitrant males.
If I think my male is not completely sincere in his submission, I will severely correct him.
A male’s obedience and submission must be constantly tested. Anytime I come to believe that his commitment to me is anything less than 100%, there will be severe consequences. I will break him down.
Male insubordination is quite common in the first stages of a female-led relationship. It must be stamped out quickly. Otherwise he will feel that he can keep pushing his boundaries. In my household my reaction [to insubordination] would be swift and resolute. He would be severely caned.
When the children are out of the house or in bed, my training of my husband intensifies exponentially. But I am becoming a little stricter with him in front of the children. For instance, having my husband sitting on the floor instead of the sofa is symbolic of his lower standing in the family hierarchy, below his wife.
I believe the best place for a man is at his wife’s feet.
My husband sitting on the floor is not a humiliation for him; it is a show of deference to me. He has now started sitting on the floor next to me when watching TV or playing with the children. In fact, I have now given him his own cushion!
FINANCIAL CONTROL

It is important that a man knows his spending can be scrutinized by his wife at any time. By having his allowance limited, my husband is unlikely to make frivolous purchases. If he wants to do so for some reason, he must ask me first. I decide whether or not his request is reasonable. In this way his thoughts are continually focused on me, every time he opens his wallet.
HOUSEHOLD CHORES

The more a husband does for his wife, the more she will come to expect from him. From little acorns grow mighty oaks!
A man should be very tired at the end of each day because of hisr chores and seeing to the needs of his goddess ruler. If he is not tired, he is not working hard enough toward these goals. His every waking minute should be geared toward making himself a better servant through his submission.
End Part One (to be continued...)
Published on November 29, 2015 13:27
November 10, 2015
'IF' BY EOSUCHUS, LEGENDARY FEMDOM SHORT STORY WRITER

IF by Eosuchus “If they know me, honey, then they’re going to know what you’re into. I’ve never been in the closet. I mean, all my friends in the city, they know who I am. They know I’m, well let’s just say that they think I’m a little extreme.”



“I don’t mind wimps, don’t get me wrong, they’re often very nice in their way, but in bed I like a man with some muscle definition. You have a nice body, a body I’m happy to own.” She leaned over him, allowing her ripe, womanly breasts to fall loose from her merry widow. His cock pulsed and quivered as her tits tumbled into his face and were rubbed around on him softly, up and down and back and forth. “Lick your Mistress’s breasts, slave.” He licked. Eventually he suckled while she worked his penis bringing him to the edge of coming and then stopping by grabbing his balls and squeezing them hard while she smacked his cock with a little whip. Again and again she did this, until she tired of it and finally made him come, watching his sperm shoot high into the air with a little smile on her full lips. His penis continued dribbling come for several long seconds afterwards. “That was fun, wasn’t it, darling?” “Oh yes, Mistress.” She stood up and loomed over him, her breasts, her waist and belly constrained within the black leather of the merry widow corset, the V of her black satin panties visible to his right. “Now it’s time for some fun for me, isn’t that right, hon?” “Oh, yes, Mistress.”



Published on November 10, 2015 11:20
November 3, 2015
VOICES OF FEMALE SUPREMACY

A wife who understands female superiority means realizing your husband is inferior, and women have a hard time thinking of their husbands in a negative term like inferior. But the facts give no other option. Once your wife sees herself as superior, that will allow her to accept your worship. Most husbands today understand, even if subconsciously, that they are inferior to their wives.—Beckie Sue
“[My husband] and I have Absolutes; I have absolute freedom; he accepts and lives under my absolute control; this applies to all aspects; there are no exceptions.”—“Melissa,” quoted by Elise Sutton
“I don't consider men in an FLR to be lucky. To be a woman knowing she is superior is special.”—Beckie Sue
“Most men have a very overblown ego. They learn this as little boys and they continue to exercise this silly posturing for most of their life until they meet a woman capable of deflating it, and eventually destroying it.”—Ms. Caligula

“Our son sees his father doing all the work around the home, both all housework, yardwork, mechanical, etc. He understands the importance of serving women so the female is able to pursue her more important interests. He has taught him the importance of obeying not only his mother, but also his sisters.”—Becky Sue
“My wife knows her place is at the head of the house. And I am learning that I belong beneath her. She sits at the head of the table now and tells me that when the kids are not around I will be at her feet eating, naked.”—Ruth’s Boy

The slaves in My household are just that: slaves. They are deprived of freedom, subjected to iron discipline and compelled to toil endlessly to ensure the pleasant life I feel entitled to. In return for their sacrifices and rather frugal lifestyle, they have no other reward to expect than the knowledge of My satisfaction.”—Saharah Eve
“I have believed that females are quite simply better than males for as long as I can remember… I live with four women who expect nothing less than good manners and total obedience from me, which I thoroughly enjoy trying to live up to. There is no set of rules as such—just to accept that Females are superior to males and to live with this in mind.”—Sam (commenting to the Worshipping Your Wife blog)
“No man can continue with his male ego while being punished by a woman. As you introduce him to more and more regular sessions of physical punishment; you can begin to introduce him to some rules. Once you have done this, it is only a matter of time before you will have you a personal servant—or slave, if you wish.”—Ms. Caligula

“Female supremacy is based on the voluntary submission of the male who, recognizing the innate superiority of women, knows his place. His submission is therefore complete and genuine. His body, his spirit and his heart belong to her.”—Source Unknown
“Female control of men is only natural. It is the natural order of things.”—SandraClark
“Hopefully, this will get people to understand and accept female superiority as a fact of life. One point I would like to add. The last few years, women have been striving for equality in all things. We are not equal, we are superior.”—Beckie Sue
Q: Do You think Women are superior?A: Yes, in every way. Men just can't compete with us. We are not goddesses, just superior. In a moment I will press a little buzzer and my husband will come into the study, curtsey and wait for my instructions. When I tell him what I want, he will do it happily without questioning my authority.”—Ms. Zoe (in a comment on Mistress Kathy’s Femdom 101 blog)

“My slaves abhor the thought of freedom. Unlike all slaves of the patriarchal world, they are terrified of ever being sent away and freed.”—SaharahEve
“It is the nature of men to be obedient and to work. It is the nature of the female to be sexual/sensual and to direct the men in their lives.” —Beckie Sue
“With female supremacy established, males will no longer have to pretend to be what they are not with macho bravado, but will be able to maintain their true position in life – at a woman's feet under her control. The battle of the sexes is coming to a close; female oppression by egotistical males is slowly being replaced by divine feminine wisdom ruling over content subservient males.”—Goddess Miranda

“I am a female supremacist who believes allwomen possess a Goddess element which is lacking in males. Women are the nurtures, thinkers, and caretakers of society whereas men are simply the grunts, peons, and workers who possess a wild sexual energy that cannot be harnessed by itself. Men need and depend upon women to do this for them. Hence a woman defines a man's purpose in life. He is to work and serve her. It is natural for him to do this. Without a woman man is lost, unsocialized, and uncontrolled.”—Mistress Sheree (interviewed in Elise Sutton’s Predominant Magazine, Feb. 2011)
“I reduce [my slaves] to such mindless obedience that they respond to My commands instinctively. My satisfaction is their happiness, My displeasure is their instant torment. My ascendency over them is such that I have reshaped them to My liking, imprinting My philosophy into their docile minds. They are not only Mine, they are a integral part of Me.” —Saharah Eve
“In a true female supremacist society men and women are equally valued and respected. Men simply yield control to women, and willingly, because they believe it's for the best. The way a man should interact with the women around him is with respect, attentiveness and service. Be helpful, supportive and courteous to all the women in your life and you will see how much better your life will be. The special air of femaleness is when female values prevail and the feminine spirit is filling the air.”—Ms. Becky

“Men are inferior and they know it, they instinctively prevented women from being equal because they know their superiority would then overtake all aspects of their life. If they only could understand that female superiority would be the ideal for them. Men are created for worship. Women are created to receive worship.”—Beckie Sue
“In order for males to assume their proper place at the feet of the Female, men must take that first step and learn where they belong, how they must behave and what exactly is expected of them. They must come to terms with their submissive nature, embrace it, be proud of it, and prepare themselves for a life of servitude at the feet of women.”—Goddess Miranda
“Why does female superiority make males happy? They are happy because they have found their place in this world. They have found a reason to exist, a reason which they can intuitively link to the natural order of things. To learn that they are inferior does not make males unhappy, on the contrary; they state it with pride. Males who have understood female superiority know that at their place they can be useful, and this makes them happy. They also realize how lucky they are to share this planet with such wonderful beings as women. To serve a superior female is not degrading; on the contrary, it is an honor for males to serve their superiors, It is assuming their rightful place and duty in the order of the universe.”—Subservient Husband
And thus the day ended, with Steve cuddling his wife and ruler as she slipped happily into sleep, served and serviced to the absolute limit of a man’s ability. Sometimes it was hard being a father in a household run on femsupremacy rules. Still, for Steve there was no other choice.—Eosuchus, “Beneath Her Hem”

“My husband knows he is inferior to me and he loves being inferior to me. Male inferiority is to be accepted and embraced by both wife and husband. Once both accept their respective role, a relationship will be much smoother.”—Source Unknown
“The most effect way to break down a male into a compliant servant is through the constant use of incessant verbal humiliation and abuse followed up by affection and the carrot of redemption, and lots of genital stimulation.”—Oracle
“It is good to show your son early on that women are superior. So having your son make up his sister’s rooms every morning and having him and your husband wait to eat until you and your daughters begin is showing a wonderful example.”—Beckie Sue
“I believe that in marriage, the Wife should be the undisputed Head of the house and family, and the sole Decision Maker, and the husband should be obedient to his Wife, and belongs completely under Her authority in all aspects of the marriage – both outside the home and in the home, both outside the bedroom and in the bedroom. I believe this represents the most ideal, most natural gender roles for marriages and relationships, and is the way marriages and relationships were meant to be.”—“Gary” (original source lost)
“I simply believe that women are better equipped to lead the marriage and society. Your feminine power and sexual energy cause him to become weak in your presence. This should provide him with a wonderful stress reliever as he surrenders to you.”—@Sachero007
“I am a devout Female Supremacist and will always be so. I learned from My Mother and have passed on My knowledge to My Daughter. I have always seen Female Supremacy as simply the natural order of life itself. The Human Female is the highest form of life while the human male is truly an unstable, irrational creature.”—Sandra Clark

“Female supremacists can have homes in which it is obvious to the children that their mother is the boss. The father can set an example for his sons through his obedience to the lady of the house. This is in fact the most important thing a man can do for his sons-to give them this example of obedience. Then the children can grow up expecting to have the same kind of marriage as adults.”—Julie Wilson
“I went to our lawyer and changed my name back to my maiden name. My husband is going to take my maiden name as part of his name. Even his mother thinks this is great. Men are so immature and pliable when you really confront them. Girls, you don't have to accept being slapped around and dominated!”—Doreen

Published on November 03, 2015 08:08