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Zofie Kae is committed to helping women find love and happiness by reclaiming their power and demanding respect in their lives.

Zofie graduated from the University of Virginia with a degree in Studies in Women and Gender, after which she worked as an Advocate and Case Manager at a domestic violence shelter, counseling survivors of domestic and sexual violence, and guiding her clients through the legal system.

Zofie currently lives in the Virginia countryside with her husband, two children and far too many cats. She now shares her knowledge of healthy and unhealthy relationships and the cycle of violence through her writing. Finding Love & Commitment in the Culture of Self-Gratification is her first book.

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Zofie Kae In my work as an advocate for survivors of domestic violence, I would witness women enter into abusive relationships over and over again. They would g…moreIn my work as an advocate for survivors of domestic violence, I would witness women enter into abusive relationships over and over again. They would go from one abuser to another, from bad relationship to another bad relationship, over and over and over. Many of these women came to think that that was just how relationships were, and that was how men were. I heard a lot of ladies say that they thought there were no "good men" anymore. While I know a good man can be hard to find, that certainly doesn't mean that they don't exist! I know there are many good men out there, who treat their women like queens. The problem is that most women just don't know how to find them.
My book addresses this issue. First of all, I discuss why we have such a shortage of good men in our society--it is a problem of our culture, which basically trains men to have little respect for women, and trains women to simply accept this. Next, I discuss how to move beyond this to find a good partner who will not only respect you, but will also be willing to commit to you, ideally through marriage. Finally, I have given a series of tests intended to weed out any man who will not be a good partner, by enabling the reader to identify red flags that indicate a man might not be of the greatest character, and may even possibly be an abuser.
I wanted to write a book that would not only save other women the heartache that so many of my former clients had to endure, but would also help women to find happiness through finding a great relationship!(less)

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I Caught My Husband Having Cyber Sex

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Last week I came home from work to find my husband on the computer, having virtual sex with some woman and jacking off. I was so mad! In my mind, this is cheating. He wasn’t just jacking off to porn or dirty pictures—there was an actual, real person on the other end, who in reality lives only a few hours away. My husband says I am overreacting and that what he did was really harmle Read more of this blog post »

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“...sex is a commitment. You are gifting another human being with access to the deepest part of yourself; you are sharing with them a bit of your soul. You are forging a connection that can never be undone--no matter how much you may want to undo it after the fact.”
― Zofie Kae, Finding Love & Commitment in the Culture of Self-Gratification

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“Contrary to what we read in romance novels or see in Disney movies, the purpose of marriage is not to "complete you" or to "find your other half." If your goal in seeking marriage is to fill a void in yourself, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment.”
― Zofie Kae, Finding Love & Commitment in the Culture of Self-Gratification

tags: marriage, marriage-advice, relationship-advice, relationship-quotes

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“Dealing with another human being on an intimate level is an exercise that is inherently fraught with difficulties. All human beings have good and bad traits/habits--no one is perfect. Even the most wonderful, "perfect for you" guy is going to do things that annoy you to no end, like leaving the toilet seat up, farting in bed, or conveniently forgetting how to put a new roll of toilet paper on the holder after using the last of it. That's life, people.”
― Zofie Kae, Finding Love & Commitment in the Culture of Self-Gratification

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“If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals.”
― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire

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