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This is a great comment, I totally agree with. Do you think that if Finch would have got help with his mental issues, his relationship with Violet could have worked out?
I think that could have been a possibility if he was truly dedicated to getting help. Part of me thinks that if she had found him before he died then maybe then he would have gotten the help that he needed and maybe they would have went to NYU together and maybe their relationship would have lasted and maybe he would have found a way to truly be awake and alive. But there is too many maybe's to know for sure.
Dan Claudiu In a relantionship being a long term or that kind of stuff I consider bullshit. Why ? simple: because is about felings, emotions and to be connected with eachother, not like buying a car: "is this fiable? Do I see riding this in long term? What this model has to offer to me and other don't?" this is pure bulsshit. A relantionship is now, we do what we feel, we are free. Being free and wanting to be with sameone makes it a RELATIONSHIP making clear the ideea is your choice. But coming back at that long term bullshit, all I can see is 2 people bored af by eachother but they are engaged or pruposed or even merried or have kids in the hope that kids will save the relantionship and make the man never leaving. Don't you all see the problem here? I swear every women end up with some guy that give the safe feeling, and yeah they may have a nice "family", they may have an healty safe sex life, they may carry for eachother, but she is not deeply in love. I meet couples like I said before, and in one random night the women confessed that even she has a husband and she is lovable, loyale ... etc, if she can choose to have 1 night with the guy that she felt in love with and her husband, she will choose that guy, but if she had to choose that bullshit long term, she will choose her husband. And I have so much more examples of this ... But one thing I don't understand, we all live in 2021, and we act like childs. Why ? simple: put this question: what would you preffer A. To be in a relantionship where you love that person without they loving you, or B. Being in a relantionship with them loving you and you don't? We both know you will choose B. That's what we all choose, the safe, and we later wander where i made mistakes. Well what if I told you there is C. , but you won't like it, the C. version means being single, until sameone that drives you crazy appears, and how crazy that shit is, you are taking it slow, and get to know each other, and is like meeting the best 'One night stand' and being best friend with him/her, love him/her, cudle him/her. Because where is no sex drives there is nothing. Where is sex drives and mutual respect and friendship there is all. How great it sounds to have your husband making you scream only in bed never arguing, always listening, not runing for others male opinions because yor opinion is what that metters, having his soft side seen only by you, and also you being the only women/men he/she see ? How does it feel to know his/her hands was just for you, and after he found you you both are 1. I'm telling you it feels wonderfull, having that.
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This is a great comment, I totally agree with. Do you think that if Finch would have got help with his mental issues, his relationship with Violet could have worked out?
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I think that could have been a possibility if he was truly dedicated to getting help. Part of me thinks that if she had found him before he died then maybe then he would have gotten the help that he needed and maybe they would have went to NYU together and maybe their relationship would have lasted and maybe he would have found a way to truly be awake and alive. But there is too many maybe's to know for sure.
Dan Claudiu In a relantionship being a long term or that kind of stuff I consider bullshit. Why ? simple: because is about felings, emotions and to be connected with eachother, not like buying a car: "is this fiable? Do I see riding this in long term? What this model has to offer to me and other don't?" this is pure bulsshit. A relantionship is now, we do what we feel, we are free. Being free and wanting to be with sameone makes it a RELATIONSHIP making clear the ideea is your choice. But coming back at that long term bullshit, all I can see is 2 people bored af by eachother but they are engaged or pruposed or even merried or have kids in the hope that kids will save the relantionship and make the man never leaving. Don't you all see the problem here? I swear every women end up with some guy that give the safe feeling, and yeah they may have a nice "family", they may have an healty safe sex life, they may carry for eachother, but she is not deeply in love. I meet couples like I said before, and in one random night the women confessed that even she has a husband and she is lovable, loyale ... etc, if she can choose to have 1 night with the guy that she felt in love with and her husband, she will choose that guy, but if she had to choose that bullshit long term, she will choose her husband. And I have so much more examples of this ... But one thing I don't understand, we all live in 2021, and we act like childs. Why ? simple: put this question: what would you preffer A. To be in a relantionship where you love that person without they loving you, or B. Being in a relantionship with them loving you and you don't? We both know you will choose B. That's what we all choose, the safe, and we later wander where i made mistakes. Well what if I told you there is C. , but you won't like it, the C. version means being single, until sameone that drives you crazy appears, and how crazy that shit is, you are taking it slow, and get to know each other, and is like meeting the best 'One night stand' and being best friend with him/her, love him/her, cudle him/her. Because where is no sex drives there is nothing. Where is sex drives and mutual respect and friendship there is all. How great it sounds to have your husband making you scream only in bed never arguing, always listening, not runing for others male opinions because yor opinion is what that metters, having his soft side seen only by you, and also you being the only women/men he/she see ? How does it feel to know his/her hands was just for you, and after he found you you both are 1. I'm telling you it feels wonderfull, having that.
