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I have two fetishes. Spa small penis humiliation, because I do have a small penis 4 1/2” hard. The other is my penis is addicted to the feel of Angora. Unfortunately my Wife has kept it locked in chastity since 2003.
Brett wrote: "I have two fetishes. Spa small penis humiliation, because I do have a small penis 4 1/2” hard. The other is my penis is addicted to the feel of Angora. Unfortunately my Wife has kept it locked in c..."
I do not hear of Angora very often but it does feel good against the skin. I think your wife being in complete control of you sounds like a great idea. :)
DIane, you offer an excellent description of the SPH fetish. It certainly isn't limited to men who have smaller-than-average penises, and penis insecurity is common even among men who who know that their penises are of above average size. It's the intensity of that insecurity, fear, and shame that allows many of us to learn to sexualize those strong emotions and harness them with good effect as part of sexual play, or simply something we enjoy in reading erotica.
Now, having said that, for men who are significantly below average in penis size, and we certainly know who we are, we have three choices: (1) let the fear control us and withdraw socially, some becoming bitter or angry in the process; (2) pretend that it isn't an issue at all, and stumble through life hoping partners won't notice or shouldn't mind one bit to find a tiny pleasure tool; or (3) have some fun with it, and seek out partners who can enjoy indulging our SPH kinks, as we grow to understand and indulge their unique kinks.
I'm in that third category, grateful to have non-standard male equipment, even if most would initially consider it glaringly substandard. I'm also grateful that Diane is a writer who understands this particular kink and writes erotic fiction that makes my tiny little penis stand up and salute.
Very good article. As previously mentioned there are 3 places a man with a small penis can end up.
1. Mad. You know the type, overcompensates for everything
2. Sad... Depressed, withdraws from women
3. Gald... celebrates life, and makes the most of it. I think this is what landed me in SPH fetish land.
I am just under 4 inches and thin. Less than a half-inch from a micro. I have been married, have had many girlfriends, and have only been rejected a few times in my life.
SPH is very exciting for the reasons you mentioned. Power exchange is very real.
My GF now is very much into SPH and has outed me to her friends and family. She also outed her last BF for the same... in a bar that he hangs out in everyone, bartenders, waitresses, everyone.
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I have two fetishes. Spa small penis humiliation, because I do have a small penis 4 1/2” hard. The other is my penis is addicted to the feel of Angora. Unfortunately my Wife has kept it locked in chastity since 2003.
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Brett wrote: "I have two fetishes. Spa small penis humiliation, because I do have a small penis 4 1/2” hard. The other is my penis is addicted to the feel of Angora. Unfortunately my Wife has kept it locked in c..."I do not hear of Angora very often but it does feel good against the skin. I think your wife being in complete control of you sounds like a great idea. :)
DIane, you offer an excellent description of the SPH fetish. It certainly isn't limited to men who have smaller-than-average penises, and penis insecurity is common even among men who who know that their penises are of above average size. It's the intensity of that insecurity, fear, and shame that allows many of us to learn to sexualize those strong emotions and harness them with good effect as part of sexual play, or simply something we enjoy in reading erotica. Now, having said that, for men who are significantly below average in penis size, and we certainly know who we are, we have three choices: (1) let the fear control us and withdraw socially, some becoming bitter or angry in the process; (2) pretend that it isn't an issue at all, and stumble through life hoping partners won't notice or shouldn't mind one bit to find a tiny pleasure tool; or (3) have some fun with it, and seek out partners who can enjoy indulging our SPH kinks, as we grow to understand and indulge their unique kinks.
I'm in that third category, grateful to have non-standard male equipment, even if most would initially consider it glaringly substandard. I'm also grateful that Diane is a writer who understands this particular kink and writes erotic fiction that makes my tiny little penis stand up and salute.
Very good article. As previously mentioned there are 3 places a man with a small penis can end up. 1. Mad. You know the type, overcompensates for everything
2. Sad... Depressed, withdraws from women
3. Gald... celebrates life, and makes the most of it. I think this is what landed me in SPH fetish land.
I am just under 4 inches and thin. Less than a half-inch from a micro. I have been married, have had many girlfriends, and have only been rejected a few times in my life.
SPH is very exciting for the reasons you mentioned. Power exchange is very real.
My GF now is very much into SPH and has outed me to her friends and family. She also outed her last BF for the same... in a bar that he hangs out in everyone, bartenders, waitresses, everyone.
