I Didn't Do the Thing Today Quotes

“We often ask ourselves where the time goes, and no one really knows. But for things to be worthwhile, for making good times, for things to be timeless, we have to allow them to take the time they take. This doesn’t mean that we have to make them perfect, or wait for the perfect moment, or be perfectly optimized. The fruits of our labor might not reveal themselves in a day—some days it can look like we didn’t do anything at all—but the knowledge we put in the bank is priceless. So trust the timing of things—trust the timing of your life.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“When we tie who we are to what we do, we can get stuck in an 'if only' spiral -- we might say we are a runner, for example, but then shame ourselves when we don't manage to run every day. We make the mistake of labeling ourselves as nouns, when we really are verbs -- we are not a runner, but rather a person who runs; we're not a writer, but a person who writes. Our sense of self doesn't have to be bundled up with whether we did the thing today -- because we are not the things we do.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Perhaps it’s not about squeezing more into our days, but removing what breaks our attention. Whether it’s meetings, to-do lists, or social media, we can scatter seemingly harmless interruptions in our day that take longer to recuperate from than we might anticipate. We might schedule a coffee meeting that’s only”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Familiar with this feeling, journalist Anne Helen Petersen described the phenomenon as “errand paralysis” in her conversation-shifting BuzzFeed article “How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation.” “Why can’t I get this mundane stuff done?” she asked. “Because I’m burned out. Why am I burned out? Because I’ve internalized the idea that I should be working all the time. Why have I internalized that idea? Because everything and everyone in my life has reinforced it—explicitly and implicitly—since I was young.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“We make the mistake of labeling ourselves as nouns, when we are really verbs—we are not a runner, but rather a person who runs; we’re not a writer, but a person who writes. Our sense of self doesn’t have to be bundled up with whether we did the thing today—because we are not the things we do.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“The pandemic has shaken up our days in varying ways, but one thing it has taught many of us is that we are always more adrift than we think. In our obsession with doing, we can overlook that life has a way of intervening in our plans for a productive day: distractions come to the fore, things fall through, responsibilities arise unexpectedly, and our minds and bodies don’t always cooperate with our expectations.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“So much of what we are trying to achieve in our days is bound to the idea that we can optimize things to the point of perfection.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“When we conflate productivity with worthiness, what we do is never enough. We can always do more, and there is always more to do.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“The curiosity to learn, to be interested, to be kind is how we find the extraordinary in the ordinary. We so often overlook the ordinary, or want to rid it from our days. We multitask; we outsource; we turn to life hacks to avoid the mundane; we project a shimmering version of our lives to others. But behind the scenes, the ordinary will always remain -- and it can be where we connect to our curiosity and wonder.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“We can't be perfectly balanced as we navigate the pendulum swing of our days--we can only wobble toward what we need.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“The two may be interlinked: time and attention are our two most precious resources, and both happen to be how we spend our love.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“mental, sensory, creative, emotional, social, and spiritual. We can determine the rest we need by looking at where we are using most of our energy in the day. Perhaps rest for you is getting more sleep. Or maybe it is walking in nature, a morning of solitude, playing an instrument, or watching the clouds pass by. I rather like going to a local grocer’s to unhurriedly wander the aisles of fruits and vegetables and return home to make a soup—for someone else, of course, this might be the opposite of restful. Giving yourself permission to rest in the way you need it can be the very thing that allows you to discover more opportunities to shape your day rather than having busyness shape it for you. Taking”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“In her TED Talk “The Real Reason We Are Tired and What to Do About It,” Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith talks about how we have incorrectly combined the concepts of sleep and rest, when sleep is simply one of the seven types of rest we need: physical,”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Slowing down to rest isn’t a moral failing—it’s essential to help us recharge and reflect. As Hugh Mackay told me, being human is an undeniably demanding business”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“There is no end point to our days while we are living in them. Once we arrive at the end of one, we find ourselves at the starting point of another - what happens in the middle is what we call life.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“When we think about everything we have to do, we can feel weary before we even begin. Other times, we might get through our to-do list, only to find there’s more waiting at the bottom of it.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“This scarcity of free time can contribute to productivity pressure: we have so little discretionary time available that we feel we must not waste it. Fulfilling but nonessential activities start to feel like a waste of time.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Perhaps what’s most corrosive to our ability to feel good about the day is when we keep trying to do so much in a day that we only disappoint ourselves. Expectations are like tiny promises in our days that can knock us over. If we are more realistic about our expectations, we are more likely to keep the promises we make to ourselves and feel good about the things we did do.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Creating the ideal routine can, rather ironically, be the very thing that lands us in a rut. A thing that was providing momentum starts to feel tired, the pursuit of improving ourselves makes us feel exhausted, the chasing of better becomes boring.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“For some of us, when things fall through the net and we don’t stick to our ideal routine - because of bosses, because of kids, because of a sunny afternoon, because of life - we enter the “if only” spiral. Instead of inspecting the precarious structure we’ve tried to assemble, we might draft another new routine - perhaps one that is even more elaborate or strict - and convince ourselves that it’s toppleproof.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“When we don’t meet the high standard of productivity we set for ourselves, we feel bad - overlooking the fact that the benchmark was out of reach to begin with.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“There will be days like this. Days that aren’t our day. Days we don’t seize. Days when we wished to accomplish more. Days that blur in bitsy errands. Days that get derailed. Days when we worry about all that will be stacked onto tomorrow. Days when we’re convinced everyone else is having a better day.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Our ambitions for the future can make us busier in the present, so we long for a sense of balance that’s unattainable or fleeting, or we add expectations to the day that will only leave us disappointed.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“It can be a rare gift we give ourselves when we learn something just for ourselves—that’s learning driven by curiosity, not by our desire for success or status.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Here I am, a person, on this planet, in this solar system, in this galaxy we call the Milky Way, in the company of a limitless number of other galaxies. I am but a speck, on a speck, on a speck, on a speck—why agonize over what I did or didn’t do when it doesn’t matter as much as matter itself?”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Creativity doesn’t follow a perfectly consistent schedule, and being the creative bunch of day artists we are, perhaps neither should we.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“We become so stifled by the pressure of being productive that we sometimes don’t do anything at all.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“Curiosity is what allows us to see that the most ordinary fact about our lives is already rather extraordinary -- we're here. We're living. We may not be sure why, but we're going about our days anyway, and that's rather remarkable.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“We live in a society that tends to measure our value based on what we do, how hard we work, and the results of our actions. But our value doesn't live in the accolades we receive, or in the number of followers we have on social media -- it lives in us.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt

“When we strip away the judgment of what we did or didn't do, we can embrace the day for what it is -- an empty canvas. We might not have the same privileges, the same resources, the same available hours in the day as somebody else, and our canvas will not look the same as theirs. But regardless of our life circumstances, each of us is given a day, and within it there is always something, however small, we can experiment with.”
― Madeleine Dore, I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt