How To Get A Girlfriend Quotes

“Don't hold her hand like a child holding onto mommy's when crossing the street. There are numerous ways to hold hands, some more deeply intimate than others. The mommy hand hold is the least intimate yet you see guys doing it all the time.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“A classic old school dad-style trick you can do in a moment when submarine shell breaching seems imminent is to run the starting line up of your favorite sports team through your head. Add the bench players, full names, uniform numbers.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“A potential girlfriend likes a man with a plan. The less thinking and brainstorming she has to do the better. Have you ever taken a cruise or been on a guided vacation? All you have to do is show up and be entertained. You want to be your girlfriend's entertainment director. Show her a fun time on a consistent basis and she will have no reason to spend time with another guy.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“What they don't tell you in those cheesy PUA books is the real secret is not the pick up line itself. What you say doesn't really matter. The delivery, your confidence, being humorous, and appearing desirable is the trick.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“Always adhere to the 70/30 principle– she talks 70% of the time and you talk 30%. This tip is key for picking her up, talking on the phone, and first date conversation. You want to be seen not only as a good listener but an active listener. It's essential to remember bits of information about her as it allows fresh new conversation to flow and gets her to trust and like you more. When she speaks to you, listen closely for select words and topics to index away and refer back to later. Active listening is key to keeping the conversation rolling along, especially on that first date.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“When you start to take her for granted you will not even notice the moment you stopped romancing her. She will though. You want to keep your mind forever in date and foreplay mode like that period of time you were doing your best to make her yours. Always remember that foreplay and romance are closely related to each other.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“I don't aggressively approach every hottie I see like Pepé Le Pew from those Bugs Bunny cartoons. I use my intuition and assess the situation before making my attack. Come at her like a creepy perv with nothing to offer and you will repel her like Raid cockroach spray.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“When you first start dating the future of the relationship is seeded, the power balance begins to set like a mold of Jello. Like with sports cars, there is a power to weight ratio that affects a relationship's performance. Sports cars perform best on the racetrack with a 50/50 front to rear weight ratio. Too much weight in the front and the car will push through turns (understeer), too much weight in the back and the car's tail can swing out (oversteer).”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“The best first dates I've experienced were seeded by talking on the phone a day or two before meeting up. So much nuance is lost via texting and it never has the impact of a real conversation. Texting is a lazy way of communicating and stunts first dates that could otherwise have been in full throttle turbo mode from the start.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl

“The trick to working your charm is wholly giving yourself to others. It's kind of a temporary sacrifice, a spiritual loan that will return to you.”
― DJ Born, How To Get A Girlfriend: Guide to Attracting, Understanding, Dating and Romancing Your Dream Girl