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The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph by Ryan Holiday
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“We have it within us to be the type of people who try to get things done, try with everything we’ve got and, whatever verdict comes in, are ready to accept it instantly and move on to whatever is next.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“It’s an infinitely elastic formula: In every situation, that which blocks our path actually presents a new path with a new part of us.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“We can always think clearly, respond creatively. Look for opportunity, seize the initiative. What we can’t do is control the world around us—not as much as we’d like to, anyway. We might perceive things well, then act rightly, and fail anyway.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Or more precisely, can we see that this “problem” presents an opportunity for a solution that we have long been waiting for?”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Every chemical reaction requires a catalyst. Let this be yours.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“It’s at the seemingly bad moments, when people least expect it, that we can act swiftly and unexpectedly to pull off a big victory.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“We wrongly assume that moving forward is the only way to progress, the only way we can win. Sometimes, staying put, going sideways, or moving backward is actually the best way to eliminate what blocks or impedes your path.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“In fact, the best way to get what we want might be to reexamine those desires in the first place.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“When we want things too badly we can be our own worst enemy. In our eagerness, we strip the very screw we want to turn and make it impossible to ever get what we want. We spin our tires in the snow or mud and dig a deeper rut—one that we’ll never get out of.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Sometimes a problem needs less of you—fewer people period—and not more.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Sometimes in your life you need to have patience—wait for temporary obstacles to fizzle out.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“We have a choice about how we respond to this situation (or any situation, for that matter). We can be blindly led by these primal feelings or we can understand them and learn to filter them. Discipline in perception lets you clearly see the advantage and the proper course of action in every situation—without the pestilence of panic or fear.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“We often assume that the world moves at our leisure. We delay when we should initiate. We jog when we should be running or, better yet, sprinting. And then we’re shocked—shocked!—when nothing big ever happens, when opportunities never show up, when new obstacles begin to pile up, or the enemies finally get their act together.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Life can be frustrating. Oftentimes we know what our problems are. We may even know what to do about them. But we fear that taking action is too risky, that we don’t have the experience or that it’s not how we pictured it or because it’s too expensive, because it’s too soon, because we think something better might come along, because it might not work. And you know what happens as a result? Nothing. We do nothing.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“They start. Anywhere. Anyhow. They don’t care if the conditions are perfect or if they’re being slighted. Because they know that once they get started, if they can just get some momentum, they can make it work.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“It’s a huge step forward to realize that the worst thing to happen is never the event, but the event and losing your head.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Blessings and burdens are not mutually exclusive. It’s a lot more complicated.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“It’s one thing to not be overwhelmed by obstacles, or discouraged or upset by them. This is something that few are able to do. But after you have controlled your emotions, and you can see objectively and stand steadily, the next step becomes possible: a mental flip, so you’re looking not at the obstacle but at the opportunity within it.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Though of course we don’t control reality, our perceptions do influence it.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Remember that this moment is not your life, it’s just a moment in your life. Focus on what is in front of you, right now. Ignore what it “represents” or it “means” or “why it happened to you.” There is plenty else going on right here to care about any of that.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“One thing is certain. It’s not simply a matter of saying: Oh, I’ll live in the present. You have to work at it. Catch your mind when it wanders—don’t let it get away from you. Discard distracting thoughts. Leave things well enough alone—no matter how much you feel like doing otherwise.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“The implications of our obstacle are theoretical—they exist in the past and the future. We live in the moment. And the more we embrace that, the easier the obstacle will be to face and move.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“It doesn’t matter whether this is the worst time to be alive or the best, whether you’re in a good job market or a bad one, or that the obstacle you face is intimidating or burdensome. What matters is that right now is right now.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“What we can do is limit and expand our perspective to whatever will keep us calmest and most ready for the task at hand. Think of it as selective editing—not to deceive others, but to properly orient ourselves.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“That we are scared of obstacles because our perspective is wrong—that a simple shift in perspective can change our reaction entirely”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“That is, when you can break apart something, or look at it from some new angle, it loses its power over you.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“In our own lives, how many problems seem to come from applying judgments to things we don’t control, as though there were a way they were supposed to be? How often do we see what we think is there or should be there, instead of what actually is there?”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“We defeat emotions with logic, or at least that’s the idea. Logic is questions and statements. With enough of them, we get to root causes (which are always easier to deal with).”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“You can always remind yourself: I am in control, not my emotions. I see what’s really going on here. I’m not going to get excited or upset.”
Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph