The Laws of Love Quotes

“A relationship is like a garden. To create a condition that will cause your plants to thrive and produce abundantly, you must weed, water, fertilize, and care for the plants in your garden. You must also know about the special needs of the plants you're caring for. Some need more or less light than others, some need more or less water than others, and some need special fertilizers.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“To preserve what you have, to keep your relationships alive and glowing, give generously- give of your time, you assets, your attention, your help, and your love. Give of yourself.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“If you allow disagreements and arguments to escalate, you are making the bone of contention of whatever you are heatedly arguing about more important than your relationship.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Once you look at your problems as "workout situations," they take on a whole new aspect.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“The challenges and changes you meet are, in effect, hand delivered to you by a generous, loving Universe for the purpose of making you stronger and wiser.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“The way to heal your relationship is to look for the underlying conditions in yourself and in your partner that have caused your relationship to go off track and then to seek out the guidance you need to heal yourself. The Laws of Love will give you that guidance.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“In the eyes, heart, and mind of the one you love and who you want to love you, you will become, in essence, a new person.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“First-class relationships are possible only in an atmosphere of total trust.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Trustworthy partners always think first before they do anything that may affect either the reputation or well-being of each other.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“The relationship must come first or it will not last.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“... all decisions and actions that will affect your relationship must be made by answering this single question: Will the action I am considering have a negative impact on my relationship? If the answer is yes, don't do it.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Change starts with awareness.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“From this moment forward, I am in control of every situation. I will always know the exact right action to take, and this is so. I will now obtain vibrant good health. I will have the possessions I want, I now have the power and wisdom to bring this about, and this is so. I will have peace and harmony in my life. I will have love and abundance, and this is so. I now claim all these things for my own from this time forward.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“A diminished self-image will cause you to slouch, to avoid meeting others, to avoid looking others in the eye, to be unassertive, and to be indecisive.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Once an event has taken place, since you cannot alter the past, all that is left to you is your response.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“To have the beautiful relationship you want, you and your partner must share your life stories with each other, holding nothing back. That sharing includes any past experiences of brutality, traumas, rape, incest, and emotional or mental torture of any kind that either of you has experienced as well as the wonderful memories you each cherish.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“When you imagine yourself as a failure or as having insurmountable problems in your relationships or any part of your life, you think failure, act failure, and produce failure.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“You create your future moment by moment.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Each of us is different and has different needs. In addition, our needs change over the course of our relationship. When you are committed to an enduring relationship with someone, you aren't simply concerned about having your needs met. You also go out of your way to care for your loved one, being aware of and adaptable to their changing needs.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Life's tempering and altering process often takes the form of adversity, and, as far as outward appearances are concerned, seems to be working against us when it is actually working for us.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Life is like a river: nothing is ever the same, even for an instant.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“Do you believe in chaos- in random, uncontrolled events, in the idea that anything can happen at any time without fixed laws governing it? If you believe that, you will always be in a state of fear, not knowing what will happen from one moment to the next. The fear might be small, but it is there. That fear results in a lack of security and a feeling of mistrust.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“What you think of as your common sense in regard to relationships may be based on something you have come to believe that isn't totally true or may not be true at all.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“You can easily see that if you are regularly nasty to your loved one, it won't be long before cause and effect sets in and undermines your relationship. The reverse is also true: if you are unceasingly caring and loving to your loved one and act with the Laws of Love in mind, you will be deeply loved in return and your relationship will thrive.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“We help our clients discover and correct the underlying conditions that are causing them to self-medicate, to seek relief in substances and addictive behavior.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams

“What will allow you to enter the world of great relationships is living in accord with the simple but powerful Laws of Love.”
― Chris Prentiss, The Laws of Love: Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams