Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken Quotes

“I learned to trust my husband again by placing my full trust in God. You see, I knew that God called me to stay in my marriage and work it out. Because I knew that, I knew I could trust Him regardless of the future. God is the only constant in my life. People in my life will let me down and fail me. It’s a given. So expecting my husband to suddenly be trustworthy after spending years causing trust to dwindle in our marriage was ridiculous. So I trusted God instead.”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“The day we live in fear and allow our minds and hearts to worry about situations that may never occur is a day he is winning. These moments of fret and hopelessness are a complete waste of my precious time and my precious life and marriage. The same is true for your life, my friend. We are experiencing restoration, and we needn’t look beyond God for our truth and courage.”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“It’s never too late for redemption.”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“Jesus said that divorce is not permissible except for unfaithfulness. This does not mean that divorce should automatically occur when a spouse commits adultery. The word translated “unfaithfulness” implies a sexually immoral lifestyle, not a confessed and repented act of adultery. Those who discover that their partner has been unfaithful should first make every effort to forgive, reconcile, and restore their relationship. We are always to look for reasons to restore the marriage relationship rather than for excuses to leave it.4”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“God’s unmerited, divine assistance is enough. Period. It’s enough when things are going great and the stars are aligned, and it’s enough when God chooses to allow something dreadful to come across your path. It’s enough. It’s not easy, but it is what we need. And praise God for that.”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“I no longer expect perfection from myself. It’s a ludicrous thought any‑ way. And when I see a weak point in my life, perhaps in my ability or in my character, I don’t wish it away and expect God to make me 100 percent perfect. Instead, I ask Him to make up the difference for me. I lean into Him more and know that when He meets me where I am and “makes up the difference” caused by my shortcoming , I’m actually better off. Because if every thorn or hardship is removed, I essentially don’t need the God who saved me. I become enough without Him.”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“If you aren’t sure that getting a divorce is exactly what you want at this time, don’t file the papers. It doesn’t mean that you won’t ever file them, because you just might. Your husband may appear remorseful and may truly be. Time will tell if he is willing to do the hard stuff it will take to have a new marriage.”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“I believe in doing everything we possibly can to restore a broken or dead marriage. Many will say that is an impossible feat. And for some situations, it just might be.”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration

“sacrifice is giving up something you love for something you love more. So”
― Cindy Beall, Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration