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Guys, I cannot believe this, but I'm so angry right now. Occasionally, I write harsh reviews and I know it may be hard for an author to read it. But I have NEVER attacked an author in my reviews. Despite popular opinion I do not have a vendeta against anyone. But today I lost a lot of respect for the YA community when I recieved an email about an author calling me a "stupid cow" or a "toe rag" and a "bitch."
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Word. I respect your reviews, but I'm not going to rush out to buy a book because you liked it. Books are way too expensive these days for me to blindly buy them. That's why I wait for it to come out at the library or go to the bookstore. I mean, I like Libba Bray and Holly Black, but I still prefer to borrow their books from the library first because I can't afford to spend twenty dollars on a book I'll never glance at again.
And agreed on the negative reviews. I went and looked at books you didn't like because I was curious. I didn't buy them, but like I said, it's because I can't afford it.



The link there leads to this thr..."
You click in the top right corner, and you'll see the entire thread here: http://absolutewrite.com/forums/showt...

I don't know you, but I hate a bulling author...so it is on. :)

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ARGH.
You know she's got Google Alerts on.
Crap crap crap.

I saw those comments and I really wanted to say something, but she's been getting so much attention because of us. I just wish she'd disappear, and that's why I keep wanting to ignore everything about her. It's hard though. I'm sorry this is happening to you."
I'm very sorry too, Lissa. God, she's so petty. Her fake accounts and "friends" are a plague on this site.
(Goes back to forgetting she exists ...)

Good for you Stephanie. I have no doubt the author has heard about this thread, and if she really didn't send that mass email out I'm sure she'd be denying it by now
Edited to add: ah, I see from page 4 the author did own up and apologize. Mighty big of her, but sadly nothing she can say now will really clean up her mess.


But I'm on painkillers. :'(
I don't think I would have cared if someone had called me names or called my review trash or anything of the sort. Haters gonna hate. It's the fact that she's trying to stuff the ballot box and round up her friends against a legitimate review that is the most reprehensible. So she was upset and she vented or had a knee-jerk reaction? If she was just apologizing for that then I think this would blow over a lot quicker. But thinking you have the right to manipulate rankings and votes and things like that is bullshit.

Ever since this whole debate popped up sometime in 2011, in the few posts I've made, I've defended the authors. I got in discussions with Kat, Cory, and some others (thought I wouldn't be surprised if you guys don't remember me...) and I've stood up for the authors, claiming that one side is no better than the other.
But this? This thread proves otherwise. This thread hints at a shift in author-behaviour, and quite frankly? I'm disgusted by it.
Not only did I have a hard time believing an author could do such a thing, but I've read this whole thread and seen how respectful you guys have been, even in your anger. You've supported Stephanie (and seriously, Steph, nobody deserves support more than you!) and kept the thread from becoming a hate-filled shriek-fest. You have truly been professional. Great job!
So, even though I hate taking sides, even though I'm fully aware not all authors are like this, I have to say that I'm done. There comes a time when one has to send a message: this is not okay. It's simply not, no matter what Leigh says to try and justify it.
So... I'm officially Team Reviewer. Oh dear...


Sorry you had to endure this, Steph :(

To be honest Paige. I just found out about the Tempest review today. I rarely check into Goodreads :) I (along with several others who replied on Twitter to that hash tag) thought it was a fun hash tag. So I didn't know it was about a specific review here and my comment was about the trolls here not good reviewers.

Hopefully, things will get better around here, and authors won't continue trying to change the reviews here or on amazon or any other place.


I have to admit, I don't have a problem with the private venting to friends (although one of those "friends" obviously didn't care to keep it private -- let that be a lesson to all of us!), it's the organizing a hit squad that's so egregious.
I gave an author a terrible review once and then followed it up with a much better review on another book. But the much better review had some (deserved, IMO) criticism in it. This author is a sweetie, but I could see her being upset by my harsher review. I know she's seen it. If she vented to friends I wouldn't take offense. I was pretty harsh. However, right after I posted the better review (that still had criticism) all my reviews at Amazon started getting "unhelpfuls". Even old ones that hadn't been liked or disliked in ages. It just coincided so perfectly since I hadn't posted a review at Amazon in a long time. I know it was in relation to the criticism. Did she request it? I seriously doubt it. But one of her friends or a slavish fan sure did it, of that I'm certain.
All this to say that fans can be bad enough without authors egging them on.


I have to admit, ..."
I don't know who the person was. It seems like the account was newly created to send me that message and it was a private account.
Once again, thanks everyone. I'm just glad it's over and done with.

AUTHORS! NOT EVERYONE WILL LIKE YOUR BOOKS! WE. WANT. TO. LIKE YOU. STOP GIVING US REASONS NOT TO, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!
Goodness, I need some ice and a giant bowl of popcorn and a couple of cheesy Disney movies right now.
Steph, I am SO, SO angry and sorry that this happened to you. I hope Leigh learned her lesson. And Lissa? That. Sucks. Tons.
Lastly..
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Stephanie, I'm very sorry this happened to you -- it's one of the hazards of reviewing, but it shouldn't be! Her apology seems, well, better than can be expected, but it doesn't put the genie back in the bottle.
Lastly, can someone steer me toward the Rachel Hawkins stuff? I loved the first 2 Hex Hall books, and I was looking forward to giving them both a very nice review when I got some other reviews and obligations out of the way, but there is no way I will support her if she is bullying reviewers. If this is true, it will be a great disappointment, considering how excited I was to find a new author.
Why does this stuff keep happening? It always harms, never helps.

Just check her Twitter feed a few days back.

Stephanie, I'm very sorry this happened to you -- it's one of the hazards of reviewing, but it shouldn't be! He..."
http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/...

However
Freedom of speech extends to EVERYONE and let’s not forget that. An author can absolutely respond how they wish to, however I would hope that they would be wise about it and professional enough to do it with grace and sensitivity acknowledging the above statement.
What happened to Fallon is a bit like her personal diary being thrown around the internet for all to see. In the words of Bridget Jones “It’s just a diary. Everyone knows diaries are full of crap”. I don’t believe Leigh was making a personal attack in any way; she was obviously hurt by such a negative review and acted like a normal human being by venting to those closest to her. Her ranting to a couple of friends was never meant to be made public. Now imagine this happening to you. Embarrassing? Sure. Pretty devastating? Absolutely. But overall, it would probably make you feel like shit which I’m guessing is pretty much how Fallon is feeling right now. I think it was very brave of her to admit that she wrote those words and to explain her actions. She even apologised for her private thoughts and opinions which haven’t we already agreed, that we are all entitled to our own opinions? I don’t believe in punishing someone for making a mistake, especially when it was not her fault. Have I read Leigh’s book? No. Will I? Sure. This “incident” has not put me off at all. I don’t believe this drama should be seen as authors vs. bloggers or bloggers vs authors or even bloggers vs. Bloggers (yes, the person who attempted to stir some shit up about a fellow blogger did not go unnoticed) but I’m hoping that we can all be decent human beings and invoke our capacity to forgive.


Seriously. I think we were supposed to be twins, bro.

Seriously. I think we were supposed to be twins, bro."
: )

I think her eyes glazed over.


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Lynsey,
I agree about privacy and being allowed to vent to friends. If the email has just been that, well, I wouldn't have an issue with it. More authors would be in better shape if they vented privately. Honestly. Trusted friends! Spouse! Dog! Vent to them! If this has been all the email was (and the toe rag thing hadn't happened) I'd think no less of this woman, and would honestly think less of the person who betrayed her confidence.
I mean, it's ridiculous for any reader to think that a critical review is not going to stick in an author's craw. However, professionalism calls for the official response to be thanks or silence. The private one can be whatever they want, as long as they're not being shady.
The issue, for me, is that she enlisted her support group to sabotage an honest review. That is where she lost me -- well, that and calling the reviewer names directly. The former shows a lack of respect for readers, the latter is reviewer intimidation. Her choices show that she would like to suppress opinions that exist for the sole purpose of helping readers.

Stephanie, I'm very sorry this happened to you -- it's one of the hazards of reviewing, but ..."
Hey Lucy, I've just read the whole Twitter thing based on the comments of your review. It's unbelievable. But do you know if the authors have, I don't know, apologized or something?

Stephanie, I'm very sorry this happened to you -- it's one of the hazards of revi..."
As far as I can tell only Dan Krokos apologized and, well, obviously Fallon has for this separate incident too.

Stephanie, I'm very sorry this happened to you -- it's one o..."
Yeah, okay. Thanks. It seems like they've all lost many potential readers..

I saw that! I'm amazed.
I think Lucy, THT, and Michelle have pretty much voiced my opinion on the matter. I'm glad she apologized, just sad it all came to this.

This isn't really related to the current discussion but I feel it's important just the same:
Hannah Moskowitz (of the awesome comments on Kira's review of Tempest) and I were having a conversation on Twitter and she told me that one author who was using the #goodreadsslogan hashtag had absolutely no idea what was going on and just made an innocent comment. This author is now being blacklisted and is getting hate mail on her blog for the comment.
Although making the comment was just slightly in the wrong, it was also a comment that was made by someone totally unaware of the actual situation on Goodreads.
I would appreciate it if you all would take Jessica Corra off your "will-never-read" lists and the like.

I think her eyes glazed over."
This is what I'm talking about, that's not a particularly nice comment. I did see that but I did not see any proof of it and to be honest, I don't entirely understand what she did on Amazon?

This isn't really related to the current discussion but I feel it's important just the same:
Hannah Moskowitz (of the awesome comments on Kira's review of Tempest) and I were havin..."
The same thing with me and I talked to one author and she had no idea either. I don't think anyone had any idea that what we were replying to was more than talking about trolls on Goodreads. I for one didn't mean anything more than that and I didn't know anything about Tempest or Kira or Dan.


Exactly what I was thinking when she tweeted that. I thought she was talking about Krokos.

Particularly nice or not, the author admitted to rallying friends behind her to get Stephenie's review moved down on Amazon, thinking that it would increase her sales. That kind of behavior is dishonest and looked down upon. If you'd read all seven pages instead of jumping in, you'd understand that this isn't just about Fallon calling Stephenie a bitch/toerag/whatever in a "so-called" private email.
ETA: But I will offer an apology.

Kira, I'm going to put the same comment on your review so it's out there.

You should ask for clarification. I'm not saying heads or tails on Hawkins until she does. Other authors, however, have made their opinions quite clear on the matter.

"Not particularly nice" is a bit of an understatement.

It honestly doesn't matter to me who she was talking about. I didn't appreciate her comments or the ones from people who responded in kind.

Kira, I'm going to put the same comment on your review so it's out there."
Well, Pam is letting us know publicly she knew nothing about Kira, which is nice. I wish Jessica would do the same. By not saying either on her blog or twitter that she didn't know she's not removing the perceived support her tweets indicated.

This isn't really related to the current discussion but I feel it's important just the same:
Hannah Moskowitz (of the awesome comments on Kira's review of Tempest) and I were havin..."
Thanks for letting me know about that.

Again, Stephanie: hugs. I don't know what else to do other than support you.