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Women are not attracted to nice guys because nice guys fail to ignite their attraction triggers. In fact, it could be argued they do just the opposite.

Remember, it is how a man makes a woman feel that matters, and how you make a woman feel is determined by your behaviour.

So why is it that nice guys are unattractive to women?
Don't women love it when a guy is willing to help them out all the time and do whatever she wants?

The simple answer is no.

Nice guy's are generally unassertive and afraid to express their true feelings. The nice guy does not just appear in dating, but in all aspects of life. Whether it is expressing their desire for a woman or having the courage to say 'no' to people, a nice guy's behavior manifests itself in all aspects of his life.

If she fails to read the nice guy's secret feelings, however, the nice guy will become embittered and blame her for taking advantage of him and his niceness.

The term 'nice guy' is a euphemism for insecure men unwilling to articulate their romantic or sexual feelings directly. Instead, nice guys choose to present themselves as their paramour's friend, and hang around, doing nice things for her in the hopes that she will one day pick up on his desire for her.

Why do women find nice guys unattractive?

When it comes to sexual interest, the word 'nice' can be a shorthand antonym for bold, strong, sexy and exciting. Instead, 'nice' can be a synonym for needy, weak, predictable and boring.

Consequently, as harsh as it might be, women are often repulsed by the idea of being sexually involved with a man she considers to be a 'nice guy'. Women will even flat out say "I don't think of you that way."

The problem with nice guys is they do not behave in a way that triggers a woman's instinctive attraction. A woman's 'cavewoman' brain does not subconsciously feel that mating with a nice guy would provide her offspring with the best chance of survival.

Women are still instinctively attracted to men who they subconsciously feel would be able to protect them. Not consciously, but subconsciously.

So the key thing to take away here is this: women are attracted to the way you make them feel. And how a woman feels around a man is dictated by his behavior.

To be safe and to survive, women needed strong, dominant men. Women being physically weaker and more vulnerable are instinctively attracted to men who they feel can protect them.

Nice guys finish last. It's true. Especially when it comes to women.

So why is it that the polite and well-mannered men of this world, who always treat women like royalty, never actually get the girl? Why does it seem to be that desirable women always end up with 'assholes' or 'jerks'?

- What is it that women see in so-called 'assholes' and 'jerks'?
- Why do women find so-called 'nice guys' so unattractive?

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❞إن النجاح يخفي العيوب، والفشل يجسمها ويبرزها لنا وللآخرين على السواء.❝

❞القاعدة هي الخير والاستثناء هو الشر.❝

مأساة البعض منا أنهم يحملون معهم ‏شخصياتهم العامة إلى بيوتهم فتفسد حياتهم الزوجية غالبًا. فنراهم ناجحين في حياتهم العامة ومرموقين.. وفاشلين في حياتهم الخاصة وتعساء!

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‏"إن بعض الرجال ‏يصعدون درجات السلم ‏فما أن يصلوا إلى أعلاه.. ‏حتى يزدروا هذه الدرجات التي صعدت بهم ‏إلى القمة!"

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Maybe there’s a version of your life for all the choices you make and all the choices you don’t.

Love is worth everything. Everything.

Chaos theory says that even a small change in initial conditions can lead to wildly unpredictable results.

❝I’ll protect you. Stay with me. You’re all I have.‏‏‏❞

❝I can’t lose you, too. Not after everything.‏‏‏❞

I don't want comforting or protecting.
I just want the truth.

❝Sometimes I think maybe your mama's not quite right.‏‏ Maybe she never recovered from what happened to your papa and brother.‏❞