Denial is also the weirdest stage of grief because it so closely mimics stupidity.
“Feeling is the antithesis of pain…the more pain one feels, the less pain one suffers” – Arthur Janov”
― Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving
― Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving
“First: white supremacy is, most fundamentally, a system of power designed to channel material resources to people socially defined as white. Second: white supremacy is not just neo-Nazis and white nationalism. It’s also the way our society has come to be structured, such that political, economic, and other forms of capital are predominately maintained by elite whites.”
― How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White Supremacy, and the Racial Divide
― How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White Supremacy, and the Racial Divide
“The bottom line is that white supremacy is about resources: who gets (and retains) access to them, who gets excluded, whose lives are made to matter, and whose lives are rendered disposable.”
― How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White Supremacy, and the Racial Divide
― How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White Supremacy, and the Racial Divide
“But maybe the trick isn't sticking everything out. The trick is quitting the right thing at the right time. The trick is understanding that saying "No, thank you" to something you're expected to accept isn't failure. It's a whole other level of success.”
― I Miss You When I Blink: Essays
― I Miss You When I Blink: Essays
“The most expeditious way to get past an unpleasant emotional experience is to embrace it and to fully feel and express it.”
― The Tao of Fully Feeling: Harvesting Forgiveness out of Blame
― The Tao of Fully Feeling: Harvesting Forgiveness out of Blame
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