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Tom McAllister

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Tom McAllister is the author of the novels "How to Be Safe" and "The Young Widower's Handbook," as well as the memoir "Bury Me in My Jersey." He is the non-fiction editor of Barrelhouse magazine and the co-host of the weekly Book Fight! podcast. His shorter work has appeared in a number of places, including Best American Nonrequired Reading, The Collagist, Hobart, The Rumpus, and The Millions. He lives in New Jersey and is an Associate Professor in the English Department at Temple University. ...more

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Tom McAllister Thanks for the question, Rebecca. The answer is "sort of," in that I read a lot about school shootings/mass shootings in general. So I read Dave Culle…moreThanks for the question, Rebecca. The answer is "sort of," in that I read a lot about school shootings/mass shootings in general. So I read Dave Cullen's book on Columbine, and Asne Seierstad's "One of Us," in addition to lots of little articles, etc.

So my initial focus wasn't on the false accusation, but on the issue as a whole. One thing that really interested me was the frenzy in the immediate aftermath; the desperate rush to just find any answer and be the first to break the news. This especially crystallized for me when I was refreshing social media obsessively after the Boston Marathon bombing. There were all these amateur detectives trying to find people, and nearly ruining some people's lives based on very little/no evidence. On one hand, I understood the impulse, and on the other I was absolutely horrified. Coincidentally, not long after that, I watched the 30 for 30 on Richard Jewell, who was falsely accused of the Olympics bombing in Atlanta, and it basically did ruin his life.

The short answer: yes, I did read about all that. But it wasn't a linear process at all.(less)
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“Some (sea)shells have magic in them. If you listen really closely, you can hear voices from another world.”
Tom McAllister, The Young Widower's Handbook

“My problem is not a lack of dicks. My problem is an abundance of dicks, being surrounded by dicks, always being reminded that they’re ready to be unsheathed and used as a corrective if I step out of line.”
Tom McAllister, How to Be Safe

“The culture at large had exerted the same pressure on her that it exerts on all women, namely to feel insecure about herself regardless of what she was doing, to feel that simply by being a woman in the world she was necessarily doing something wrong and could only correct her wrongness via endless consumerism and an array of contradictory neuroses. She’d been socialized to always apologize, to smile when a man told her to smile, to believe men who told her she was doing something wrong. Before”
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