Well I'm gonna anyway... 11 days from today Baby would be 18, if he were still alive. This is killing me inside. I know people mean well and all but it hurts to be constantly asked all of July how I'm doing. It just brings that pain to the surface. How does one politely tell someone that I just don't want to talk about it, at least not this close to his birthday?
nora, i'm so sorry about your son- i think you should say exactly what you said in your post-that you know they mean well but that its too painful to talk about him right now.
11 days from today Baby would be 18, if he were still alive. This is killing me inside. I know people mean well and all but it hurts to be constantly asked all of July how I'm doing. It just brings that pain to the surface. How does one politely tell someone that I just don't want to talk about it, at least not this close to his birthday?