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While I am against incest, I wouldn't have minded it in a book if it was handled and developed well; in this case though, I will have to say it wasn't.

Curious, why give it one star only then?"
Well, I love to read about different cultures, specially Asian. I thought the author did a great job describing India and all that is Indian. I really saw the colors, and felt the humidity. But nothing seemed to happen, it was long and boring, and then disturbing. If not for the ending, I would have probably given it 3 stars, at least.

Well, it's said all along that they have an immense connexion - that they're two halves of one. When they are divided, they live two lives of emptiness, unable to live fully without the other half. So they, er... unite. It's a wound closing up.
On a psychological rather than symbolic level, you could say that their childhood experiences have left them deeply traumatised and unable to deal intimately with the world - for each, the other signifies all that was good in the world, in their childhood, that they have now lost. The urge to bond with the outside world, including sexually, has been turned inward, to each other. It's like they're living in a bubble that nobody else is part of. Why is this expressed sexually? I think each has a great desire for intimacy, but cannot connect to anyone but the other. It's not a rare thing for sex to be used in place of intimacy.
That's how I saw it, anyway. I thought it was handled very well - I thought it was inevitable, and would have felt cheated if it hadn't happened (cheated, or perhaps upset on their behalf, since I thought it was the best thing that could happen for them at that stage).

Oh! Sorry, but if you haven't read it, how come you are following this page?

:) I know. The Invisible Orange sort-of stuck to Estha's hand forever. It was saddening.

:) Ah... Very well put Wastrel. I too agree with the fact that Estha and Rahel were two parts of a whole and symbolised all that was innocent, symbolised their childhood for each other.
Further, I would also say that the sex wasn't in any way a celebration, nor did it come about as a pleasure. In fact, it was a sharing of their deep-set grief, the grief of losing the man they loved, a sharing of Estha's agony to testify against that very man, the loss of their mother and ultimately the tremendous pain of separation. I think the sex was only a wordless way of saying 'I know what you've been through.' :)
I agree that a lot of people share wonderful relationships with their siblings and sex seems unacceptable. It sort-of corrupts the relation. But we must take into account that Estha and Rahel were not really brother and sister, atleast not the coventional ones. They were 'He and She', 'We and Us'. :)

Perhaps it also means that in love there shouldn't be laws: a touchable is free to love an untouchable and siblings are free to love each other. But I also think that that of Rahel and Estha wasn't love (as love is understood normally) but rather an act of understanding, a feeling lost if separated or, like Tanvi said, a sort of "I know what you have been through".
It didn't disturbed me because I didn't consider it a "normal" sex relation, it is something more deep.

I agree with your comments.

Perhaps it also means that in love there shouldn't be laws: a touchable is fr..."
I like your writing. When I made a similar comment at university my lecturer did not understand me.

Perhaps it also means that in love there shouldn't be laws: a touchable is fr..."
:)

Perhaps it also means that in love there shouldn't be laws: a touchable is fr..."
Well said, Dely..

Wastrel, you put it very well, thank you for putting into words what I was feeling when I read this beautiful book.

"Nothing seemed to happen"? Well, you do need to get right to the end to understand the significance of all those seemingly "nothing" things, but then they become parts of the enormous whole. On my second and third reading I cried from almost the beginning as I knew then the significance of things like Estha not talking.

Marianne wrote: "Barbarac wrote: Well, I love to read about different cultures, specially Asian. I thought the author did a ..."
"Nothing seemed to happen"? Well, you do need to get right to the end to understand..."
Sandyboy wrote: "having not read it yet, thanks for the spoiler"
it need you to think out of the box to digest it.....its in the face nd amazingly wrote wit realism

Incest is a cultural taboo in most societies, but inter-caste sex is a strong cultural taboo in the society depicted. We are 'supposed' to be shocked by the incest, but then realise that we are reacting to a cultural taboo in the same way as those who condemned Estha and Rahel's mother did.

I don't think whatever they did was wrong - yes, it was strange but all they had suffered in their childhood and all those bottled up, tortured feelings were I guess, enough to make them do what they did.


Oh! Sorry, but if you haven't read it, how come you are following this page?"
The heading says "brother-sister sex"on the list of recent updates on the homepage. You already ruined it for people.




Your comment is just untrue. I think you just wish there was no brother-sister sex.

Ofra wrote: "There was absolutely no sex between the twins , there was only a deep bond. This book is one of the best books I have ever read..."
You can call it what you want, but sex remains sex.
You can call it what you want, but sex remains sex.

Often times when people travel to India physically or through the arts e.g. books, film, dance) they seek the Disney World experience of the cultural beauty, food, clothing, architecture, smiling faces, snake charmers, mystics or some form of spiritual enlightenment.
But in reality growing up or even just traveling in India one inevitably faces the full range of the best, worst, simple, complex, and controversial aspects of the human experience.
Much if the story telling traditions in India ( and even Western cultures) captures, shares and teaches the listener/readers about these experiences by work of mouth, dance, and recently though literature and film
Arundhati Roy's masterful story telling captures a glimpse and awakening the readers to these realities of the human experience though the eyes of the children.
It is only when one gain awareness of these realities either though direct experience or indirectly though the of arts, that one can work towards making a positive change in life, which especially in Indian tradition is what story telling is all about.



Hermione wrote: "Furqan wrote: "I was more disturbed by the sexual abuse of Estha by the man at the theater. At least, the brother-sister incest was consensual and I think it was a perfect ending."
I agree with yo..."
I agree with you, too. Additionally i couldn't grasp the exact connection of this with the whole story. Something's missing, i think.

Beautifully put!!!


I agree that the incest scene was handled delicately, and probably about as tastefully as any incest scene can be handled. And I think reading certain commenters' descriptions of it on this thread was helpful in making me less upset, in trying to understand the twins' unresolved trauma as leading them to that act. But still, the moment I read that scene, my premature gushing of love for this book was stopped short. I hate hate hate the forbidden-sibling-love trope and anything resembling it, and I hate that it was the "resolution" we got for the relationship between the twins, that their first step toward some semblance of "healing" was to have sex. I adored this book, but I guess even Tasteful Incest Scenes are more than I can bring myself to accept.

well.. i just accepted it for what it was and honestly it did disturb me but it was written very beautifully. it did not seem erotic at all.. ( referring to the ending )

This book was difficult to understand.
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