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At what age do you think it is appropriate for kids to start reading Harry Potter?
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Aug 14, 2013 02:47AM

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My ninety-two year old gran would raise an objection with that (she's just started Goblet of Fire, having whizzed through years 1-3).



These books are SO good. SO amazing. I read them with my youngest daughter and (though I was in my late 40s and early 50s) I loved them too. We made some wonderful memories together. Such great books for kids! Every child should read them.

I think you're correct, Jessica. I am holding my 8 year old of books 4-7 because they're just so intense and I don't want her reading all of that alone. We, as parents, need to sacrifice the time and all of our undone reading and soak up books together. I can't imagine my dear, sweet and sensitive daughter reading about the death of Dumbledore without someone to process!
THanks for your insight.

I think it depends on which book. They do get darker as the series goes on, and the later ones may not be suitable for some kids whereas the first one would be. It all depends on what you're ok with exposing your child too. The first book does have his parent's murder in it, the whole "Quirrel/Voldy" thing... but it's a lot lighter than the last few.

I consider the appropriate age to be dependent on the parents. It's an individual thing. Me, I started reading them very young. Someone else may make a different decision for their child (or themselves); and that's right for them.

Kids generally won't keep reading a book that they aren't ready for yet. In general, if they can read it and enjoy it then we should encourage them to read.
I started reading them when i was 8 but when i was 9 i realized i didnt understand most of the books and that I need to read the series one more time so that is what i did. i recommend ages 10-11 if you want to understand it fully.


I read the first book in second grade and would have finished them in elementary school but my stupid school wouldn't let me >>. Personally for appropriateness level I would be okay with age 9 or 10? It depends on their reading level more than anything, because there isn't really any problem with sex references or anything like that.

I read the books by myself in Kindergarten but I would say 3rd grade, as a kindergartener I came across some inappropriate language and was quite confused.


I wanted to read them with my younger brother, who was 7 at the time, but my dad wouldn't let me because he had problems sleeping and being scared at night for him to read them.
It really is up to your kid, and what you know they are capable of.



The audio books are great for those young people struggling with reading.

That is how I read them I was always the same age as Harry, Ron and Hermione and it made the stories more alive and exiting I still read them all from time to time.
I must admit it was not my own selfrestraint but the fact that they were being published like that.
And you should expect you kids to sneak a peak.
My mom read me the first two chapters of number one when I was 9 cause I hated it at first. But when she was gone to bed I read two more until I colapsed with sleep and finished it myself the next two nights, cause mums reading out loud was to slow :P
I would say 11 or 12. they need to understand the charater in the book. I was so not ready when I was 9.


I read them when I was 6 but I didn't really understand anything

I hold the baby in my arms, lean closer, cuddle it a little, and then start, "Mr. and Mrs. Dursley, of number four, Privet Drive, were proud to say that they were perfectly normal, thank you very much..."

I hold the baby in my arms, lean closer, c..."
WIN

I hold the baby in my arms, lean closer, c..."
:D I love it!


I really cannot see how Harry Potter led to the child being bullied, and I also disagree about the "ethically mean-spirited" business. Care to explain?
Also, film industry ratings are a bit excessive. I watched 2001: A Space Odyssey when I was like 11, and although it wasn't a walk in the park, I was a pretty intellectually mature adolescent. I've watched tons of films with nudity- not porn, mind you- before I was technically old enough for it, and I'm glad. I was the girl who watched world cinema and read Nobel-winning books while her classmates watched Bollywood and read- well, not much other than textbooks. Was it isolating? Yes. Do I regret it or wish I'd hung out more with people instead of books and movies growing up? Absolutely not.
I'm sorry to say this, but sometimes adults really have no clue about what is appropriate for children. Children- and adolescents- are capable of understanding much more than what adults give them credit for.

Do I think it was inappropriate for a child at that age? As the mentioned child, I don't think so. I was and am very happy for reading them as soon as I could. Also, I think that dark parts come at the 6th book but I admit that the 4th is darker than the first three books. I am almost 18, so I don't know it's like to have cildren; but I have a sister 5 years younger than me and I know what trying to protect her from the things that might be inappropriate for her age is. I'm trying to look from that point of view, I have all the books and I wouldn't have any problem if she would have wanted to read them when she was 6 (she learnt to read at the age of 4 too, so it was possible).
To sum up, I don't think Harry Potter is too dark to read, even for the pre-teens. It is an all-ages-fantasy series. If you believe that your children's reading level is enough, you can give them the first book.

When I was in school I went straight to the Sci Fi Fantasy section of the book store. I was in my 30s before I discovered they had books that were just as good hidden in the young adult section.


Don't start too early. The first few books are pretty mild, but the themes get darker as the series progresses. I would suggest starting on the first books at around 10/11, but the last book I wouldn't suggest for someone under at least 12, maybe even 13.

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