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Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments I need some.Badly.
How do you make friends with a person when your enemies are her friend?
I had a friend a long time ago.She moved and my mom told me to forget her.Should I?
How do you get your writing on here?
I sit alone all the time because only random people sit with me.How do I make a real friend?


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Ignore her friends

No, don't forget her, email her and all that so she knows you still love her.

Under the arrow by "Explore", it has Creative writing, then on the right it says my writing and yeah.

Buy them food, ask them questions, and avoid talking about yourself, or they'll think your all stuck up.


message 3: by Em~Lost In A Dream~ (last edited Sep 27, 2011 08:44PM) (new)

Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments Thanks I needed that.I hope I can find my friends email.Your so great. <3 =)


message 4: by [deleted user] (new)

:D:D I try. I don't have many REAL friends either. I just hang out with some of them because I think they hate me and I wanna annoy them. :D:D


Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments I just wrote my first poem.It's called Sunset.YAY!!!!


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YAY!!!


message 7: by [deleted user] (new)

lol

All my REAL friends are Goodreads friends, and I can't share everything with them cuz of internet stalkers. I have 2 non-GR real friends. :D:D


message 8: by [deleted user] (new)

FTW?


message 9: by [deleted user] (new)

AAAAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I need advice.


message 10: by [deleted user] (new)

life. :D:D


message 11: by [deleted user] (new)

very.

Okay.

Here goes:

I can't tell if any of my friends actually like me or not. They always choose someone else over me, unless I'm the only one left, but they talk to me a lot and tell me all the drama. How can I tell?


Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments κιαиα wrote: "Emily wrote: "I need some.Badly.
How do you make friends with a person when your enemies are her friend?
I had a friend a long time ago.She moved and my mom told me to forget her.Should I?
How do y..."


Thank you so much.It helped me.I think my old friend never got my email adress.(I didn't have an email then).But really,thanks. =)


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κιαиα wrote: "I'd know quite know how to answer that because I don't how they act around you. Umm, how can you tell? You have to (this is going to sound weird) observe their behavior. You have to basically be a ..."

You have a lot of advice. What if I told you I was always made fun of by everyone and when I tried to include myself, everyone stopped talking and walked away?


message 14: by [deleted user] (new)

lol I know who I'm coming to if I have any minor problems!


message 15: by [deleted user] (new)

which I really don't, unless you consider having thriller stuck in my head all day a problem. :D:D


message 16: by [deleted user] (new)

:D:D YUP


message 17: by [deleted user] (new)

CUZ ITS THE THRILLER!!!!! THRILLER NIGHT!


message 18: by ♥ Rachel♥ (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) xD That's a great part ^-^


message 19: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) Emily wrote: ":D:D I try. I don't have many REAL friends either. I just hang out with some of them because I think they hate me and I wanna annoy them. :D:D"

WHAT???!!!!


message 20: by Amber (new)

Amber (bermarie) ^haha that's hilarious, go on annoying! :D

And I need advice to.
Ok, so my best friends parents rented my moms house for the longest time.
Now my moms getting divorced again and needs the house because they said they would buy it but they haven't.
The people have even called law enforcement to saw my moms "harrasing" them.
Now I haven't seen my best friend since May 27, the last day of school.
Then she switched schools.
I haven't talked to her since around August 28.
I've called and called and she's never home and never calls back, no facebook messages, and no txts either.
I have feeling our friendships over and done, but I don't really want to let it go.

Should I just realize it's over and were to distant with to much in between us, or should I keep trying?


message 21: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) Maybe your mom should call the law enforcement instead.... But I don't know anything so..... yeah.... That's rediculous of them. If it's your moms house, and she needs it, they need to get out, so maybe she should call the law enforcement...

I'm sorry about your friend. I don't know what to do... You could just put it aside and hope you hear something from here one of these days.


message 22: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) If she does end up contacting you some way or another though, definitely talk.


message 23: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) In other words be a jerk.... Maybe it wasn't her fault she couldn't contact you.


message 24: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) I like how we're arguing by talking to someone else... I still think that if she does end up trying to contact you, speak then decide whether or not she's worth talking to anymore.

That's my final answer.


message 25: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) Well, she's only betrayed once so she should get a second change.... If you really classify that as betrayal.


message 26: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) Elanor Roosevelt was dumb though anyways so I don't ever listen to what she said.


Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments I agree.She wasn't stupid.


message 28: by Katie (new)

Katie | 192 comments I think you should talk to her once just to hear what she has to say, then decide whether or not she deserves a second chance


message 29: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) Three to one Kiana.


message 30: by Connor (last edited Oct 17, 2011 04:36PM) (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) Tell that to congress why dontcha. Then I'll listen to your wonderful words of wisdom...


message 31: by Connor (new)

Connor Kinkade (connork) Well you don't have words of wisdom to listen to anyway so I don't really care. Just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean my thoughts are idiotic either.


message 32: by ♥ Rachel♥ (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) Agreed with Adrianja...it's not your job to convince her to do what you say, just to give her an option, Connor....


message 33: by Rachel (new)

Rachel | 17 comments I know this is really cheesy, but how do you make friends when you're insanely shy and spend almost all of your waking time reading?


message 34: by Katie (new)

Katie | 192 comments I suffer the same problem, but whenever I see someone reading, I just go up to them and say: "hi, what are you reading? is it good?" or something along those lines, its a pretty good conversation starter


message 35: by Rachel (new)

Rachel | 17 comments Thanks:)


message 36: by Katie (new)

Katie | 192 comments no problem :)


message 37: by Em~Lost In A Dream~ (last edited Oct 31, 2011 03:37PM) (new)

Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments What's OCD?


Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments Ok.I might have that with books I have a lot of them.Everywhere.I usualy read while I eat which has to stop.I guess.


message 39: by Rachel (new)

Rachel | 17 comments I guess this isn't really advice but if I read the Infernal Devices series (the prequel to Mortal Instruments) Would that spoil anything for me? Would I even be able to get whats going on?


Em~Lost In A Dream~ | 168 comments I heard that I should read City of Bones first so I had more background info on the whole story.


message 41: by Rachel (new)

Rachel | 17 comments Thanks!


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