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Having recently retired and now happily reading, guilt-free, for several hours every day, I feel like I've died and gone to Heaven.

Sally, Try to follow up "Old Filth" with "The Man in the Wooden Hat" it is a companion novel, I am sure that you will enjoy!!!

Having recently retired and now happily reading, guilt-free, for several hours every day, I feel like I've died ..."
Hi folks, I am a retired person, and find that I am only able maybe find two hours a day for reading!!! I think the secret is to live alone and retired.

I don't live alone. My secret is that my dear wife loves to read as much as I do.
Douglas wrote: "Junek wrote: "I am a retired person, and find that I am only able maybe find two hours a day for reading!!! I think the secret is to live alone and retired. "
I don't live alone. My secret is that..."
Envy, envy, envy. I love my husband dearly, but why does he always want to talk when I want to read? Even when I tell him I NEED to read (for work, a book discussion, etc.)
I don't live alone. My secret is that..."
Envy, envy, envy. I love my husband dearly, but why does he always want to talk when I want to read? Even when I tell him I NEED to read (for work, a book discussion, etc.)


Douglas wrote: "NEED to read is right, Linda! Actually, the fact that we could both sit in the same room and read for hours is one reason we got married! We've been together over 32 years, and counting."
I need to clarify that I am married to the most wonderful man in the world, but we are very different. He is dyslexic which means he is incredibly intelligent but doesn't get along well with the written word.
Yesterday we went off on Route 40 (the National Road) garage sales together. I asked if he brought his iPod, he's listening to Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln
, because I have to finish Inferno
since it's due back at the library on Monday. He did not. He talked a lot yesterday and it became a joke that he was talking and not allowing me to read.
It was enough of a joke that when I got home early this morning from taking our son to work and heard him coming down the stairs way earlier than I expected, I teased, "Great! Now you're going to ruin my reading time by getting up early."
His response, "Damn straight." And we kissed each other good morning.
We've been married 25-1/2 years and I have vision issues that prevent me from fully appreciating his photography.
My husband recognizes that I will be jaunting off to parts I've never been when I hear the word "Booktopia". He does not complain that he stays home and goes to work.
I know I didn't need to explain. I should say something positive about the wonderful man I married.
I need to clarify that I am married to the most wonderful man in the world, but we are very different. He is dyslexic which means he is incredibly intelligent but doesn't get along well with the written word.
Yesterday we went off on Route 40 (the National Road) garage sales together. I asked if he brought his iPod, he's listening to Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln


It was enough of a joke that when I got home early this morning from taking our son to work and heard him coming down the stairs way earlier than I expected, I teased, "Great! Now you're going to ruin my reading time by getting up early."
His response, "Damn straight." And we kissed each other good morning.
We've been married 25-1/2 years and I have vision issues that prevent me from fully appreciating his photography.
My husband recognizes that I will be jaunting off to parts I've never been when I hear the word "Booktopia". He does not complain that he stays home and goes to work.
I know I didn't need to explain. I should say something positive about the wonderful man I married.
My DH and I are both intense readers, but he and my daughter have this uncanny sixth sense that detects when I am five minutes away from finishing an audiobook, movie or book!
DH: "Honey? Where's the large colander?"
ME: "Where it's been shelved the entire 6 years, five months and 2 days that we have lived in this house!"
DH: "I can't find it!"
ME: [Sighs. Pauses program/bookmarks book; stomps into kitchen and open cupboard to reveal aforementioned item]
It's maddening to be jolted out of a story that close to the denouement every single time!
DH: "Honey? Where's the large colander?"
ME: "Where it's been shelved the entire 6 years, five months and 2 days that we have lived in this house!"
DH: "I can't find it!"
ME: [Sighs. Pauses program/bookmarks book; stomps into kitchen and open cupboard to reveal aforementioned item]
It's maddening to be jolted out of a story that close to the denouement every single time!

My family can't be found when I'm doing chores, but let me sit down for breather with a book and out they come. To their way of thinking, one only reads when there is nothing better to do. They think they are rescuing me from boredom. No amount of explaining on my part has undone this false notion.

The thing is as you get older cunningness allows one to plan the reading habits to suit!!!



I often ask him what he is reading, it does sound strange, however I class it as reading.

Sally wrote: "Question?? About two years ago I was sitting in my chair reading a "real" book. Now I am downloading books (more than I can ever read) and getting some of them as audio books!! I am changing from my Kindle, iPad and iPhone (when I am out). Sometimes I am listening to and reading the same book - at the same time. Am I crazy!! Is listening to a book reading?? Let's not forget listening to podcasts about books and getting on Goodreads to see what everyone else is reading!! Help! "
"Listening" vs "Reading" is an old argument with diehards on both sides as to whether listening to audiobooks counts as reading. Personally, I say "Yes" as the same imaginative parts of the brain are activated plus more of the memory parts. Others say "No" because the brain isn't actively decoding field rows of symbols. Interestingly, there is an argument that reading eTexts is changing the way we process information (and not for the better) and destroys our ability to read critically (ref. The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to our Brains by Nicholas Carr.) Whatever side of the argument you come down on, it's not like the Ghost of Gutenburg is going to come down and rip up your library card! :-D
"Listening" vs "Reading" is an old argument with diehards on both sides as to whether listening to audiobooks counts as reading. Personally, I say "Yes" as the same imaginative parts of the brain are activated plus more of the memory parts. Others say "No" because the brain isn't actively decoding field rows of symbols. Interestingly, there is an argument that reading eTexts is changing the way we process information (and not for the better) and destroys our ability to read critically (ref. The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to our Brains by Nicholas Carr.) Whatever side of the argument you come down on, it's not like the Ghost of Gutenburg is going to come down and rip up your library card! :-D

Carr's article (and the research cited therein) relates to online reading of website content (what they refer to as eText), not to reading books in ebook format. There is no cognitive difference in reading a literary work published in paperback, ebook, or, for that matter, deluxe leather editions. Reading Proust is reading Proust, no matter how the text is presented to the eyes.
However, there certainly esthetic differences in the reading experience afforded by different formats which are important to the pleasure of reading. Most people object to ebooks on this basis. Further, ebook reading subverts the bookstore culture we readers all love. Even so, the ease (and, for many, the pleasure) of ebook shopping, downloading, reading, and keeping an entire library on a 7-inch tablet is undeniable.
Douglas wrote: "Carr's article (and the research cited therein) relates to online reading of website content (what they refer to as eText), not to reading books in ebook format. There is no cognitive difference in reading a literary work published in paperback, ebook, or, for that matter, deluxe leather editions. Reading Proust is reading Proust, no matter how the text is presented to the eyes."
I figure that if you are dnloading content from the internet onto a device that has a chip and a program that enables you to read the content, click on links (either internally e.g. footnotes or bonus material), go social (highlighting and sharing notes), sync up with other media (e.g. WhiperSync audio + text), that alters the form of the codex (swiping pages that remove the cues that help determine where a previously read passage may be), that is formatted by programmers/conversion program, that eBooks qualify more as material that Carr is referring to than not; but maybe that's just me :-)
But all that is beside the point: Again, whether you count or discount any form (text, eText or audio) or not, there's really no credible literati referee out there saying "You're wrong! It's cheating! It doesn't count!" Any or all of it counts if it works for you :-)
I figure that if you are dnloading content from the internet onto a device that has a chip and a program that enables you to read the content, click on links (either internally e.g. footnotes or bonus material), go social (highlighting and sharing notes), sync up with other media (e.g. WhiperSync audio + text), that alters the form of the codex (swiping pages that remove the cues that help determine where a previously read passage may be), that is formatted by programmers/conversion program, that eBooks qualify more as material that Carr is referring to than not; but maybe that's just me :-)
But all that is beside the point: Again, whether you count or discount any form (text, eText or audio) or not, there's really no credible literati referee out there saying "You're wrong! It's cheating! It doesn't count!" Any or all of it counts if it works for you :-)

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A good topic, I shall have to put my thinking cap on.

Wanda,
I know how you feel. I love all the new avenues that I get books and recommendations, but it absolutely heightens my sense of too many books, too little time. I actually feel this way about content in general...there are so many amazing things out there now (and readily available), and I know I'll never get to even the tiniest fraction...great books, great movies, tv series, blogs, pinterest, twitter, and on and on. I wish I had a personal content concierge.



Irish author Jennifer Johnston writes of talking to the departed in two of her novels that I can recall "The Christmas Tree" and "The Captains and the Kings" it for me was fascinating reading, not scary.
Another author is Edna O'Brien in her novel "House of Splendid Isolation" she is another Irish writer.
Another is Alice Hoffman, she often adds some magical haunting into her novels, especially "Blackbird House".




My book group just read Eiffel's Tower: And the World's Fair Where Buffalo Bill Beguiled Paris, the Artists Quarreled, and Thomas Edison Became a Count. Not nearly as exciting as Devil in the White City, but still interesting. It tied together several different historical figures and placed them in context of the World's Fair. Especially interesting (at least to our group) were the parts about Van Gogh, as we had recently read a historical fiction novel based on his life.

Janet wrote: "I would love a show about bookstores that have especially good handsellers that you know either through your work, personally, or have just heard about. One of the best things about Booktopia Sant..."
Hi Janet,
I love the idea, but it would be very hard for us to do that, since Michael and I work with a lot of bookstores. While some have fantastic handsellers, and most do a good job, we'd be too worried about leaving someone out and insulting others.
I can 100% state that any Booktopia partner store will have excellent handsellers. Beyond that, I'd recommed checking out the IndieNext List (http://www.indiebound.org/indie-next-...), which has recommendations from booksellers around the country. If you look through a few random editions, you will see many of the same store names pop up again and again -- those stores are a great place to start!
Hi Janet,
I love the idea, but it would be very hard for us to do that, since Michael and I work with a lot of bookstores. While some have fantastic handsellers, and most do a good job, we'd be too worried about leaving someone out and insulting others.
I can 100% state that any Booktopia partner store will have excellent handsellers. Beyond that, I'd recommed checking out the IndieNext List (http://www.indiebound.org/indie-next-...), which has recommendations from booksellers around the country. If you look through a few random editions, you will see many of the same store names pop up again and again -- those stores are a great place to start!


Chanda2426 wrote: "How about a show about bookshops with the best staff recommended or shelf-talkers? I would love to hear some cool suggestions from across the country."
Chanda, see above. I think, because of our jobs and relationships we have, we will have to stay away from "best" bookstore anything. However, this might be a great future call-in show....
Chanda, see above. I think, because of our jobs and relationships we have, we will have to stay away from "best" bookstore anything. However, this might be a great future call-in show....

My favorite books in this vein have been:
A Constellation of Vital Phenonema (Chechnya)
Running the Rift (Rwanda)
In the Shadow of the Banyon (Cambodia)
On Sal Mal Lane (Sri Lanka)
Another angle on this would be books that are set in a different time, but weave the memory of the political upheaval in and out. My favorites are:
The Surrendered (Korea)
A Measure to Mark Drift (Liberia)
Wendy wrote: "Personal stories about people surviving political upheaval in other countries could be an interesting topic. Often very painful stories, but I appreciate what I learn, personally and politically."
You might be interested in Persepolis: The Story of a Childhood by Marjane Satrapi. It's an graphic novel that illustrates what it was like to be in Iran when The Shah was overthrown, from the POV of a girl forced to bear witness for virtue of having lived there at the time. It is autobiographical and stunning with his b&w artwork and poignancy.
You might be interested in Persepolis: The Story of a Childhood by Marjane Satrapi. It's an graphic novel that illustrates what it was like to be in Iran when The Shah was overthrown, from the POV of a girl forced to bear witness for virtue of having lived there at the time. It is autobiographical and stunning with his b&w artwork and poignancy.


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AThousand Splendid Suns (which I just finished!) falls in there too.

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