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Relationships...are you in one?
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Aug 20, 2011 12:28PM
Oh, Clari! LET ME GIVE YOU A GIANT VIRTUAL BEAR HUG! I'm sure everything will work out. And if God doesn't want you to be together, you won't be together, but God always has a plan, so you have to trust in Him and trust that you'll find your perfect match.
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i know, but...its so hard....a few months ago, I was questioning my religion....but, Im glad to say that I have God in my heart, and I believe in him....just, thnigs were so complicated, I thought "If there is a God, why doesnt he help me?" You know? It was really stupid of me...
Oh, why thank you. And I could never NOT believe in him, just....idk....I felt ike I ddint fit the form of Christian....that I should find somethnig else....I think im Deist now....Actually, I know im Deist....
A Deist....uh, its sort of a form of Christianity...but, you believe in god, but you think he doesnt have control over anything in the world anymore, he just steps back and lets everything unfold on its own...you dont need to go to church to be Deist, and you dont need a bible...
Oh I know that!!!!! I remember it wheni was doing an essay on the American Revoltion.That's not a loving God though.
I HAD a relationship....AND I WANNA BOYFRIEND. All my friends have one....
oh...im not sure! just text and call eachother i guess...
Tiffany, you seriously want a boyfriend super badly????
yes!
idk
Well...
You see, I could never be like that. Plus, all the boys at my school are dumber than a bag of hair....it kills me, to watch people be so stupid...and arogant....and prissy....If Im gonig to fall in love, I want it to be with someone special, with a guy who wouldnt rock my social status and make me queen bee, just for the fun of it....you know?
You see, I could never be like that. Plus, all the boys at my school are dumber than a bag of hair....it kills me, to watch people be so stupid...and arogant....and prissy....If Im gonig to fall in love, I want it to be with someone special, with a guy who wouldnt rock my social status and make me queen bee, just for the fun of it....you know?
Not that I dont mind fi other people are like that, because ive seen it done twenty thousand times in my life....just, dont be weird and like, cry when the dude dumps you after a week, and then go out with a guy the next day.....from an outsiders point of view, it makes you look trashy....
Lol, the only girls at my school are like that.....practically...
Lol, the only girls at my school are like that.....practically...
ooh
hehe, i cant stop thinking about it...this girl at my school, she wore the shortest skirt today....it was nasty! I mean, I could describe IN FULL DETAIL what her underclothes looked like....*shutters*
Hehe, no....she is not a very nice person, so im not attracted to her, but normally, yes...I would like it.....hehe, *slightly jk*
Hi! I sat with my crush at a resturant, and he was sooooo nice to me! Think I may have a chance someday, for now, I have a rockin boyfriend named C.J.!!!!!
wait, so you have a crush but you have a boyfriend already??
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---*Clarinets and Indie Rock*--- wrote: "I dunno, I just...really miss that girl, and i almost started crying in the locker room, since I havent been in there since she left...I almost picked her locker too, just to prove to myself that I..."Rosie wrote: "awwww Clari, that's true love."
---*Clarinets and Indie Rock*--- wrote: "I know, I know...gah, it hurts so badly..."
hahahahhah..!! thats soooooo cute
umm...... can i ask a question guys???
yea?
umm there's this boy, who is my best guyfriend,, probably the only guy who i love to have fun with.. we were classmates from 5th grade till now(10th graders now) and he said that he had a crush on me from the 7th grade till now and he's caring and so loyal to me.. my friends say you make a good pair and we study together from time to time during classes, so teachers would just watch us and do nothin. he knows me better than i know myself, and his family knows me like hell.. they used to take help from me, asking infos about exams, taking my notes, his mum would and i would talk in the phone.. etc. and this month me and my friends went to his house for a project, and that was the day he asked me to be his gf... umm should i?.. what do you think, any suggestions? you think i should be with him??
yes!!!
i like him too but its that i've never been in a relationship and it fears me. and i'm afraid what if we won't be friends even after the break up.. i want him to be in my life not just by being with him and breaking up!((i know, breakups always come, i think its a must))
Well, I think you should be completely honest with him. If that's what you're worried about, just tell him, and I'm sure he'll understand.
And for the record, I know of some of my older sisters friends, who once dated, they ended up breaking up, but the point is they stayed great friends after, still.
And, I would never tell my sister this, but I really want her to be with one of them, if you know what I mean...
And for the record, I know of some of my older sisters friends, who once dated, they ended up breaking up, but the point is they stayed great friends after, still.
And, I would never tell my sister this, but I really want her to be with one of them, if you know what I mean...
Boys at my school are dorks...there all the same
just ask him when you break up if we can still be friends!
☆★ Katoptris ★☆ wrote: "Well, I think you should be completely honest with him. If that's what you're worried about, just tell him, and I'm sure he'll understand.And for the record, I know of some of my older sisters fr..."
i've done that.. he's like i can't hang around with you like before, knowing i can't be with you.
i'm confused.
Oh...
Well, my sister has friends that dated each other at one point but then broke up. But they all still stayed good friends.
And I really want my sister to date one of her friends, but I think it would be awkward for her, because they've known each other since the fourth grade (and she's now a senior in high school). But they're really good friends, and they texted each other so much that his mom thought they were dating. But yeah, he's really nice, and funny, and that's the kind of guy I want my sister to end up with.
Well, my sister has friends that dated each other at one point but then broke up. But they all still stayed good friends.
And I really want my sister to date one of her friends, but I think it would be awkward for her, because they've known each other since the fourth grade (and she's now a senior in high school). But they're really good friends, and they texted each other so much that his mom thought they were dating. But yeah, he's really nice, and funny, and that's the kind of guy I want my sister to end up with.
good to know, hope they end up together!.. my love life sucks!! well, forget i ever mentioned.
Well, I don't think they like each other, but I want them to so badly!
u should. just b totally honest w/ him about everything
yea.. but i don't feel that way about him,, no feelings.. just great friends. now,, he's joking sayin he's going to blackmail me! its a bit hard for me now as he sits by me everyday and i got used to it!
Well I think you should be honest with him and if he is really your friend he'll understand. Yes, it might be awkward at first but it will take time. Or you could try going into a realtionship slowly if you want to be imbibe with him for him.
Avada Kedavra! wrote: "wait, so you have a crush but you have a boyfriend already??"
Yeah,,,IT'S COMPLICATED!!!!
Yeah,,,IT'S COMPLICATED!!!!
Rosie wrote: "Avada Kedavra! wrote: "wait, so you have a crush but you have a boyfriend already??"Yeah,,,IT'S COMPLICATED!!!!"
how come it is complicated???!
Zoha wrote: "Well I think you should be honest with him and if he is really your friend he'll understand. Yes, it might be awkward at first but it will take time. Or you could try going into a realtionship slow..."yea.. he understands it though i still feel him being sad.. he still hopes i could be with him. i wonder what will happen next?!!
thanks for your opinions guys!
maPzIeGee_colney wrote: "Rosie wrote: "Avada Kedavra! wrote: "wait, so you have a crush but you have a boyfriend already??"
Yeah,,,IT'S COMPLICATED!!!!"
how come it is complicated???!"
cause it is...my crush and I sit together all the time, at resturant at tennis, and i have a boyfriend though...
Yeah,,,IT'S COMPLICATED!!!!"
how come it is complicated???!"
cause it is...my crush and I sit together all the time, at resturant at tennis, and i have a boyfriend though...
I used to have a crush on this guy named Brandon Chen, and he told me that he liked me back like SIX times. I was sooo happy...then he said he wanted a little sister named Audrey, which touched my heart. And then..he just...called me a straight A nerd...that broke my heart...and now I want to call him a jerk...Then there was this guy named Kai Delacruz who was completely in love with me. God, actually every guy is now. Weird....?
Now I like this guy named Ryan Leotini, and he's super popular! But I don't think that he even remembers me...DX
Hudson, his friend, was all over me. "HI AUDREY! WHAT'S UP?? HEY, WANNA DO THIS WITH ME?"
And now, I think that one of the guy's friends that liked me, likes me back. SOOO CONFUSING!! And a guy named Jason. He asks me to do things for him, and he'll do it back. I think that's sweet. :D
BUT I SWEAR, I'M GONNA KILL BRANDON!!!
ooooooh.... do kill him.. i'm here if ya need any help!maybe a hammer?? XD
So on the last day of school the guy I liked said he really liked me back ...But he is going to highschool while i stay in middle and girls will probly be all over him and he will forget about me :(
he's my best friend i love him, he drives me crazy. if any of you can make sense of this somehow, i would greatly appreciate it. read from the bottom, up:Siyana to Justin
show details 9:43 PM (4 minutes ago)
ugh. we're going to the beach on monday. whether you like it or not. just an fyi.
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don't care about people, it makes it easier for them to hurt you.
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On Fri, Aug 26, 2011 at 8:21 PM, Justin wrote:
chill man, just chill
On Fri, Aug 26, 2011 at 7:28 PM, Siyana wrote:
wat is with u???? one second ur going on about i don't even know wat and the next ur like "oh siyan-chan" ur so confusing!!!!!!
On Fri, Aug 26, 2011 at 7:11 PM, Justin wrote:
chill
On Fri, Aug 26, 2011 at 5:51 PM, Siyana wrote:
???
On Thu, Aug 25, 2011 at 10:03 PM, Justin wrote:
oh siyan-chan
On Thu, Aug 25, 2011 at 9:59 PM, Siyana wrote:
seeing as you refuse to be seen with me in public, i doubt that u'd've gone either way. even if it was another day, u'd've found an excuse, and i feel like u were lying about not being able to that day anyways. i'm not awkward with my cousin i'm pissed most off the time and annoyed. and i'd be wandering with the person i went with cuz my cousin wouldn't want to join and my mom doesn't mind. my signature makes perfect sense. just because you don't have the half a brain required to understand it, doesn't make it dumb. if a hobo called u an idiot to ur face u wouldn't really care as much as if your family member said it, and if you died, ur best friend would cry a lot more than a random guy named bob. now, let's see y u thought it was dumb. oh wait, u can't explain it, because u just do. u HAVE to contradict everything i say or else you'll die of a deadly desease called i'm-not-a-jackass-today-itis. also, go to hell, and feel free to complain to all the dead seaturtles, instead of me. cuz that's wat the "chain mail" was about. the lovely country of costa rica and smuggling sea turtle eggs. i don't want to know y u'r being a douche bag right now, because as my signature states, i don't care. u should just know that u most certainly ARE being a douche bag.
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don't care about people, it makes it easier for them to hurt you.
On Thu, Aug 25, 2011 at 4:12 PM, Justin wrote:
Siyana, you're using feminism as an excuse to make me go, the movie, if anything, is sexist (hate that word) , the camera probably sends it's time on her butt. Also, if you want someone to go to Watercountry with you, don't make the hook your cousin you are awkward with and your parents. Also, the email tag you have "don't care about people, it makes it easier for them to hurt you." is the dumbest thing I have ever heard, now stop sending me annoying emails for things I won't do. Also, I DONT CARE ABOUT ANY CHAIN MAIL YOU SEND ME, I HATE IT SO MUCH AND WILL NOT READ IT. I AM RAGING RIGHT NOW, RAGING.
On Tue, Aug 23, 2011 at 6:16 PM, Siyana wrote:
but, seeing as you're anti-feminism, i can see y u'd be against it.
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don't care about people, it makes it easier for them to hurt you.
On Tue, Aug 23, 2011 at 6:06 PM, Justin wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_0R5m... What about this trailers says "good?"
On Tue, Aug 23, 2011 at 5:47 PM, Siyana wrote:
anyone wanna see columbiana before school starts?
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don't care about people, it makes it easier for them to hurt you
Oh, please hand me a hammer in california. Please do so. Besides, he's really popular....all of them all...DX No one likes me...
We girls really like hugs. Colorguard and volleyball like hugs more than the usual girls. Though I don't know what I am. I am a nerd but I play a sport watch things like any jock or talk about cute things with my friends. So I'm in between and I am saying girls hug a lot and volleyball girls are terrible to hang around because they are just.. Cranky flirty and whole lot others.
Oh, I know how it feels...everyone fights over me!! Also my sister. She's so pretty and super hot to guys, and everyone falls in love with her. OMG, you should have seen yesterday, this stranger guy just kept staring at her, smiling. It creeps me out....I guess that it just runs in us two, me and my sister. XD
