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Nate
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May 06, 2012 06:32PM
oh and idt so (about the relative thing)
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I feel like I'm that argument again, *sigh* He was thinking deeper into it, but now I feel stupid bc if I'd talked to someone while this was going on I could've prob tried it. And then maybe he wouldnt have felt like he did. What's done is done, can't change it.
sorry. Didn't mean to put you in that position. You mean you didn't talk to anyone when you were having the issue? That sucks I'm sure someone would have given some ideas and it sucks cus yeah I htink you could have come to a compromise.c'est la vie
live and learn lol
Yep. & I've got a problem with not talking about my problems but *shrug* we both said some pretty bad things, and idk how that would sit in either of our mindsOh omg this kid never heard the phrase 'c'est la vie" I was like what rock do you live under
he lives under a boulder. I have a question...
ok so idk if you've been in this situation but, ok trying to figure out how to word this....Two different life styles, can mean two different classes, like maybe class isn't right either, cus Cass has a lot of class more than some ppl that consider themselves above others. Anyway...We'll just say that we are in a different tax bracket, and sometimes I think it makes her uncomfortable, like certain events that we attend if I take Cass along I can always tell she like nervous as all hell. & I just don't know how to make hre fell more at ease. I mean I don't give a shit if she uses the salad fork to eat her main course. Neither does the rest of my family. She's always worried she's going to embarrassed herself or us. I've even purposely done stupid stuff to kind of lighten the mood and once that happens she's relaxed a bit more but we go through this all the time. Its lead to other disagreements as well...but I guess my question is - Any advice on how to lighter her up?
That's kinda difficult, I think it'll always be there, at least for a while. It's not something we're used to, but random tip I learned! It was something with your fingers, you make a b with your left one and a d with the other, and I think that's something for which spoon is for what. I only have one experience to go off of, but yeah nervous as all hell is a great way to phrase it. I felt totally out of place and really uncomfortable, and I felt like I was gonna say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing at the wrong time, and it was a little better having someone there next to me, but not much. I knew they might not care but I was worried about people looking and thinking "Dear God look at that girl, was she raised by (idk what)?" idk if you mean just those events or the diff 'tax bracket' in it's entirety, but in my personal experience I've just felt awkward bc it's like Whoa. The person or people can shake it off bc it's been a part of their lives for a long time, but it's still a bit shocking to 'regular folk' lol idk how to say it. Tips, Uh I'm not much help. My experience was so short and I don't think much could've been done to help. If there's certain people that are always at those events, maybe getting to know/talking to kids there, the nice One's would help, bc she'd have other people to be around? And maybe they could understand her situation too, and possibly help and give tips. Sorry if this was just a bunch of babbling:/
Nah your not babbling, at least its good to know that someone else as been there. & You confirmed how I thought she must feel. But it made you feel better having the other person there next to ya? I try to stay with her as much as possible but sometimes I wonder if I'm making her more nervous,you know? maybe that doesn't make sense. She's gotten better, I kinda force her to go sometimes..I guess I figure the more she's exposed to it the easier it will be. Maybe that's being selfish of me though eh? I never thought of that til now...thanks
you need to slap some happy into Richard
Well don't confirm anything, we might not be thinking the same way (Cass and I). And idk if it helps but maybe taking a break and getting some air through the middle of it might help, like a little boost to get through the night. Having Cohen near me was comforting in the way that, like that feeling that 'he's there' if you get that, but he could talk and be what he needed to be and I just tried not to screw anything up. It just felt like I could breathe after leaving a conversation. I can see how it might make her more nervous, but that depends on the person. I'm sure she's glad to hve you with her though. Idt it's selfish, she'll need to get more comfortable in those situations. Though I prob wouldn't be so chill if I was her but..if she does wanna talk about it or anything, which idt she would need to, but if she did, she could use your account to inbox me and maybe I could talk to her, sometime just talking about it helps. Just an offer. And np, glad to be of assistance
cool. so what else is new? Not too much here, well nothing all that good anyway.
Alex walked in a few minutes ago and I said 'Hey there sexy' LOL & cracked up, I was thinking about how he was girl..he just looked at me.
I did that silent for a sec and then laughter laugh, I typed all that up and you just said 'cool.' *sigh* 3 minutes of my life goneLOL aw I can just see the look on his face. On the inside he's gotta be having a cocky moment though. Jk,
I feel kinda bad but I need to be going to sleep, I've got my AP Chem exam tmrw. Send happy thoughts to me and hope I get a 4
LOL Sorry I know I hate when ppl do that...type a whole fricken paragraph they relpy with ok, cool, or even worse lol....so let me back track.
Cool, if I remember I'll mention your offer to her. & Yeah I get what you mean I try to stay with her as much as I can and I actually do try to slip out for a bit to give us both a brk. I bet she prob gets nervous while I'm talking with someone too...I'm nver sure if I should try to include her in the convo or if she'd rather I didn't but ...Cass is pretty good at letting me know things like that. But I can feel how tense she gets. I suppose it'll get easier.
He's a git.
Thanks Kar
Night. sleep well.
He's a fit git;) *excited* wasn't that good??And yeah, I'm not sure on if I'd like to be in the convo or not, so I'm no help there, but since she's good with letting you know, it doesn't matter
Thanks, you too, enjoy your night
*Apathetic applause* lol g'luck on your exams. Remember, Go with your first instinct.
Thanks, didn't help bc the exam had pretty much everything I wasn't good with. I wanted to snag a 4, now I'll be lucky if I could manage a 3. It really bummed me out but I'm getting out of that mood. I started drawing on it after I filled in all I could, and wrote them little notes.
You prob did better than you think. I wouldn't stress over it too much. That'll just mess ya up.
No im being honest, I think I got a 2. I hate feeling stupid like thisAnd now you may wanna leave my thoughts, prob gonna be a weird topic)
Guess I'm supposed to be an orphan soon. Mom's telling me where everything is and what's mine and what's Neil's, da da da..
Sometimes I think itd be nice to know what's in store. I've never been one to think it'd be better if life wasn't a mystery but some mysteries need to be solved
Why do so many people have that dress! :( *whiny* Not fair
too..much..Why can't I just have a photographic memory, be a genius, and live a happy life? Oh that's right, you want me to suffer. Thanks big guy
Considerably difficult to think happy thoughts right now. I'll get my grades up and pass these exams.
STOP THE MADNESS!!! sorry I just needed a place to yell that. I think its safe here...oh they wouldn't know what I meant anyway
I shall now exit
*amused look* Alrighty then. Lol feel free to yell whenever you need to, I'll let you know if I get a headache and need you to not do it though
I don't think they're in this group. I had to stop myself from posting something, I had it all typed out but thankfully didn't hit post. The person was being very sincere, genuine (Spl?) about a serious matter and I was going to post something that was humorous though I don't think they'd appreciate it at this time.
Yeah that's right! The spelling.And that was prob smart
Nate wrote: "you need to slap some happy into Richard"OMG I missed this! Lol aww
Do you wanna type it up and post it? Lol
ok maybe it was more Mean than funny...but I'm kinda in that dark humour mood
...that's attractive. *End Sarcasm* LOL jk
Hahaha yeah I'm cute like that;) smh I should prob feel more shame but it is so fun doing weird things.Dang it!! I'm in the stupid gutter.
OH and now I've seen 4 people with that dress. I don't even want it anymore. Well that's not true but I'm still annoyed
Did you buy it from a major chain or something? smh I think its funny how worked up girls get about hat stuff.
Yeah stupid AE. But it reminded me of this Betsey Johnson dress, just the colors were different (but better for me anyway) and ik you don't wanna hear it but my boobs look fricken amazing in it, and it was just nice. And it had pockets! I like pockets.And that's the last comment about my body parts, I feel weird talking about it
*squinty eyes* lolShe's just a designer, some of her stuff is really cute. But I wouldn't spend so much money on it, it's just for a name. I mean, for some things yeah, maybe, but she's not like super iconic for me
I'll be going to bed soon, just letting you know. Have a nice run and day tmrw
Thanks you too and sleep well. (Closet ppl) ...Oh wait they bother you....You know that scratching sound at the window?...Mawhahahhahaa
Stop trying to give me your girlfriend's nightmares! And that's not funny what if something gets me? You'll be sorry. You'll ALL be sorry. Mwahahahaha!&thanks
I think that went well, I'm hoping I got a 4. Everyone else didn't feel good about it, I hope this isn't one of those You feel well so you did bad things
Kicking myself bc I didn't review when I got home, and more worried about my grade in the class than the exam.
deep breaths, you'll be fine. just relax
Please please don't make me go to ISS next week. If I have to I'm gonna be so upset. I forgot my slip but the lady said I could go, and I asked twiceAnd thanks, it went okay. I just wish we could type up essays, it's a problem for me with the SAT too. Like I remember things later and can't go back and add them in, so I probably look like idk enough of the material
you, iss? Whoa ...*shocked face* Did you ever see that etrade commerical, with the kid?...'Let me show my shocked face'
This 'slip' seems to be very problematic
I mean they shouldn't put me in there (it'd be for 3 days) bc I asked twice and the woman said it was fine since I was on the list, but the office lady said I needed to have my slip when she gave it to me yesterday. But idk Just cross your fingers for meLol I'm picturing that home alone kid, you know?
that's a good shocked face too but not what I was referring to. *crosses fingers* Wait you can't even tell your mum to get her to help...*Crosses toes*
