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Hi Ali! Welcome to Chicks on Lit! Glad to see you joined us. Now you can see where we came from when we jumped into your review. :o)
I haven't checked out the Torn reviews on Amazon for a few days. Will have to take a look. A bunch more "glowing 5-stars" I imagine?
I did download the free sample of this book to my kindle. Might have to make myself read it, then review the book based on the sample. :o)
I haven't checked out the Torn reviews on Amazon for a few days. Will have to take a look. A bunch more "glowing 5-stars" I imagine?
I did download the free sample of this book to my kindle. Might have to make myself read it, then review the book based on the sample. :o)

I just checked my free sample on my kindle. It looks like it is just pages 1 through 27 of the book. It is the introduction by Samantha Parent Walravens, Stella on Motherhood, Part One: Balance, Schmalance, Fluidity, Dora the Explorer my Babysitter, & The Good Enough Mother.

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We need 5 reviewers for 3 of our newly released titles. We ask that you write a 1-3 Paragraph review with a 5 star rating (5 being best) of each of the 3 books. We will then ask that you forward the reviews over to us so that we can look over them before you post them on Amazon.com and Barns and Noble.com. Most of our reviewers are paid from $5- to $10 per review or $15.00 to $30.00 per 3 review book set. Unfortunately, Amazon has recently instituted a new procedure whereby you can only review books if you have an account that you have used to purchase books / products from them before, so in order to bid you must have an account with Amazon that you have used to purchased books with them from before. You are bidding on writing 5 reviews and posting them to Amazon.com, BarnesandNoble.com and lulu.com Long term work
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Wow, Diane. I guess it makes sense, but I didn't realize people would get paid for it. To think how much trust I've put in reviews. So sad.
Dianne wrote: "What you need to remember about some books is that sometimes people are paid to write 5 star reviews on books and other things."
Wow, Dianne, I had no idea that there were some people who actually advertised for and paid people for writing phony 5-star reviews for them for Amazon and B&N. I just figured all the phony reviews were from the authors and their friends and family. The authors paying money for the fake reviews takes it to a whole new level of LOW!
Wow, Dianne, I had no idea that there were some people who actually advertised for and paid people for writing phony 5-star reviews for them for Amazon and B&N. I just figured all the phony reviews were from the authors and their friends and family. The authors paying money for the fake reviews takes it to a whole new level of LOW!

And self-published authors wonder why the majority of people do not want to read/review their stuff.

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Ummm, I love to do that for the money. I could really use it but I can see how it could be misused. However, I wouldn't write phony reviews. If it merits a 5 star book then that's what it gets.

I don't even know when the last time I read a review at amazon. My TBR list is mostly from the women in my groups.
I agree. when i first look at a book's reviews I look to see what friends and COL members have said. I know they are real people.

I kinda fell for this too with a horrid book Riven: A Novel. There were so many good reviews (and I wasn't yet well read into knowing about review plants), not to mention misleading (at least to me)plot summaries via the reviews...though I received this book for free via B&N, I'll never get the time back that I spent reading this horrid book.(one of the few that I gave one star to, I'm pretty easy to please)...
Speaking of easy to please, I hope that I'm not considered a review planter...even though I have received a few books for review, I try and give an honest opinion(and BTW, I didn't realise there were comments on the review till reading this, so TY), again, I'm pretty easy to please...and I think the fantasy writers know that I like a good tale of imagination and I'll forgive some things...
I added my review to this book here on Goodreads:
http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/...
I also posted it on Amazon, and got a thank you message saying my review was pending and should be posted within 48 hours. Is this typical for Amazon reviews?
http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/...
I also posted it on Amazon, and got a thank you message saying my review was pending and should be posted within 48 hours. Is this typical for Amazon reviews?
Well, they are obviously still closely monitoring their amazon reviews. The two star review I gave the book was posted, and overnight 5 nasty comments were posted on it. LOL
I had to post a reply for them on Amazon. :o)
I had to post a reply for them on Amazon. :o)
SOOOO FUNNY! Maybe they should try to write comedy because they are cracking me up. It's one of those 'It's so sad it's funny' sorta things.
Question for you Sheila - why one star on GR and two on Amazon? Just curious about how you decide?
Hmmm, I hit post but my message disappeared! Oh well, I'll try again. :o)
I base my reviews here on Goodreads on how they define their stars (what it says when you hover your cursor over the star rating):
1-star: didn't like it
2-star: it was ok
3-star: liked it
4-star: really liked it
5-star: it was amazing
But when I posted the review on Amazon, their stars were labeled differently:
1-star: I hate it
2-star: I don't like it
3-star: it's ok
4-star: I like it
5-star: I love it
So, since I didn't like the book, but would not go so far as saying I hate it, that is why it was a 1-star here on Goodreads, but ended up being a 2-star on Amazon. :o)
I base my reviews here on Goodreads on how they define their stars (what it says when you hover your cursor over the star rating):
1-star: didn't like it
2-star: it was ok
3-star: liked it
4-star: really liked it
5-star: it was amazing
But when I posted the review on Amazon, their stars were labeled differently:
1-star: I hate it
2-star: I don't like it
3-star: it's ok
4-star: I like it
5-star: I love it
So, since I didn't like the book, but would not go so far as saying I hate it, that is why it was a 1-star here on Goodreads, but ended up being a 2-star on Amazon. :o)
I just checked the book on Amazon again, and about half of the 5-star reviews have vanished. I wonder if the authors deleted them, or if Amazon did?
Also, I was re-reading the comments on Mary's 1-star amazon review, and WWG commented on that review too. Today on my review, WWG first accidentally posted as "James" then deleted that and came back and posted as "WWG" calling herself a stay-at-home mom. But on Mary's thread, WWG actually identified herself as editor of the book Samantha Walravens! Classic!
Also, I was re-reading the comments on Mary's 1-star amazon review, and WWG commented on that review too. Today on my review, WWG first accidentally posted as "James" then deleted that and came back and posted as "WWG" calling herself a stay-at-home mom. But on Mary's thread, WWG actually identified herself as editor of the book Samantha Walravens! Classic!


Post 1-dh says:
As a busy mother of three attempting to reignite my career after 12 years staying home, I can appreciate understanding how all of the women in Torn cope and cannot cope with "having it all." Rather than depressing, I find it a look into the lives of others. Knowing that the feeling of trying to have it all and the highs and lows of such a balancing act are shared by other women, it makes me feel more secure with my own feelings. As for the daddy comment - I am sure daddy was at work too - does your husband stay at home? Rather than winey wealthy women complaining, this book is about educated women who prefer to challenge themselves with something other than a pie recipe. I guess that a fancy job must mean using your brain? One of the chapters is written by a mother in the armed services, passionate about serving our country. And "mother-ish" is an interesting term. Judging the love these women have for their children from a book excerpt is inane. And by the way, Martha Stewart is quite the business woman. I doubt she cooks or owns a glue gun.
Post 2-dh says:
get a life

My husband actually does stay home, sort of. I work days and he works nights so we can stay home with our child.


The other thing I think is if these women were as literate as they think they are, at least one of them would have noticed that I said *I* didn't get a mother-ish feeling from them, not that they didn't love their children.

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That's why I'm not going to take her bait and mention my level of education to her. It's not pertinent to the subject at hand; and I like to think that how I comport myself speaks well enough for me.



Wow, that woman will just not give it a rest, will she? Ali, I just posted a comment to WWG for you too. :o)
And I just checked out the blog of Samantha Walravens. She is even talking about us there:
http://samanthawalravens.com/main/201...
http://samanthawalravens.com/main/201...

http://samanthawalravens.com/main/201..."
"Ruffling a few feathers"? That's an ...interesting way to describe her thinly disguised harassment of reviewers.
I read the Kindle sample last night and I thought the essays available in the kindle sample were pretty well-written (although almost identical). It's a shame she and her collaborators have such poor comportment because I am genuinely interested in the book's topic and can see myself reading it under different circumstances. But it will be a very cold day in hell when I buy it after their little display.
I also really question their claim that this is some great universal book that any mother should delight in its wisdom. The essays in the sample were almost identical in that the authors were professional writers who were able to work part-time from home. That in itself is a pretty unique position at least from the mothers I know. It seems to me that they think any woman who wouldn't love their book must be a barefoot bumpkin who never leaves the kitchen and is too stupid and oppressed to appreciate the book's brilliance.



Bwahahaha. Tera's comment on Ali's review cracked me up. I wish I could edit my review to say that!
That woman just doesn't get it.
Two things -
1.) She should thank her lucky stars for your negative reviews. It's generate more actual buz than all her fake positive reviews. I can promise you I never would have looked once at the book had it not been for your reviews.
2.) She is right women should come together and not tear each other apart. I believe this to my core. However, part of this is allowing all women to have their own opinion. And apparently you aren't allowed to do that if it doesn't praise their work.
It frustrates me because rather than accepting the review but still promoting the discussion of motherhood and how it is approached and recognized by women and the world she turns it into this. It is an important topic and one that often gets muddled by hurt and defensive feelings. I would have hoped from more from someone who worked on a book on the subject.
Two things -
1.) She should thank her lucky stars for your negative reviews. It's generate more actual buz than all her fake positive reviews. I can promise you I never would have looked once at the book had it not been for your reviews.
2.) She is right women should come together and not tear each other apart. I believe this to my core. However, part of this is allowing all women to have their own opinion. And apparently you aren't allowed to do that if it doesn't praise their work.
It frustrates me because rather than accepting the review but still promoting the discussion of motherhood and how it is approached and recognized by women and the world she turns it into this. It is an important topic and one that often gets muddled by hurt and defensive feelings. I would have hoped from more from someone who worked on a book on the subject.
Books mentioned in this topic
Riven (other topics)Torn: True Stories of Kids, Career & the Conflict of Modern Motherhood (other topics)
(I think she was also insinutating that I broke Amazon's rules about "profane or obscene, inflammator..."
I voted like both places too! Such idiots.
It's fine to comment on a review if you do it politely or have something interesting to share with your readers, but it upsets me when authors question our rights to give them bad reviews, even if their work is too bad to finish. We've after all wasted our hard earned money on their book!
I NEVER buy books with all 5 star reviews, unless I can see that the reviewers have rated a lot of other books with various grades.
Tastes are so different, even the 2-3 books I think are the most brilliant of all time have a few 1-2 star reviews from people who didn't like the writing style/story.