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Yes, it's kinda' silly, but it moves along ok.
(Passage to India ... I think I did read that - and liked it)



Just think about it - everybody has at least one memory of an about to blossom romance when Mother starts calling out the door - ha ha!

I just went through the movie, available online, of Cold Comfort Farm - that book's on for discussion here at Goodreads soon. That particular story is supposed to be very funny - but I didn't laugh once. Just don't find it funny at all.
But R W A V is hilarious.


I'm past the part where she was kissed.
(I was a bit mixed up there about who had kissed her)


The ending's kinda' contrived. It needed at least 50 more pages or so to properly end.
I think the author should have taken her to Greece, having him follow - then had a good rip snortin' romance there - then come home to announced they're married.

Traditionally one does not congratulate the bride nor her female relations. It makes it seem like you are saying she might have had some difficulty finding a husband. One only congratulates the groom, and says to the bride something such as "you look beautiful".

Yes. Also, "best wishes" for the bride is acceptable. (Not that I'm really the expert or anything.)

Reading this time is very different from when I read it in college. In college I was trying to understand which sort of person I would like to be. I didn't see myself as identifying with the main character; I _was_ the main character. Now I read it and think how glad I am to not be 20, just as 10 years ago I might think how glad I am to not be a teenager.
It is not just the reminder of the confusion of that age, but also the reminder of the strains of trips with relatives when you have no assurance or power. Also the way the lives of the young are the gossip of the old as if they were dogs or racing horses or some kind of hobby. I am reminded that the young do not need their peers to build their insecurities; their elders fill that role quite well!
What I find unrealistic about this story is that this confused young woman was such a prize. Why would Mr. Emerson been glad for his son to fall in love with her?!

I love how you put that!
I read this book many years ago for my book club, and I remember we were all so frustrated by the fact that the characters couldn't be honest with themselves or each other. So many of the problems they had simply would not have existed if they could tell each other what they really think/feel. I like to think their behavior is explained by the time/place in which they lived and that "we" are better at understanding ourselves and expressing our thoughts. But, of course, we continue to make some of the same mistakes. Seeing them in such exacerbated circumstances as Foster shows can be both amusing and a lesson for us.

But Lucy did have a flair. She was innocent, passionate (the musical talent) and she loved George back.
I enjoyed this book overall. I thought it was a welcome break after Maisie. :) The pond scene is a riot! I remember watching the movie version of this story with my mother years ago (I would have been in high school) and I remember my mother rolling that they showed full male nudity! She thought it was awesome, since you usually only see girls. I was just embarrassed then but it makes me smile now.


One of the things I love about Forster is his gift for social comedy. There are some very funny bits, such as the scene in the pond, or the description of the way the English behaved in Italy, which made the book fun to read.

I agree completely - even the chapter titles are very tongue in cheek - how can you not chuckle at "How Lucy Faced the Situation Bravely". I too loved this book - one of my new favorites.

Traditionally one does not ..."
I would congratulate them both - as a couple. This is the first time I've heard of this.

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I remember taking my mother to see the 'Spring Thaw' back in the late 60's. That was when we had Hair playing in Toronto - and there was a big schmoz about it having a nude scene.
I'd been told that the Spring Thaw had a nude scene that year. I warned my mother about it. Told her not to make a fool of herself and appear all shocked - ha ha!
Well, she was fine for the nude scene - and I was too. It was done so artistically, you couldn't have faulted it.
But there was a part in that play where four people 'dress off the line' to do that - gimmee' an F ... gimmee' a U ... gimme' a C ... gimmee' a K ... now FO!
Well, I was so shocked that I gasped audibly and loud! My mother just laughed at me ... heh! heh!
It seems amazing when I think back to a day when it was still shocking to hear four letter words spoken aloud. And to see nude scenes in the movies.



As for Lucy as a prize, don't forget that she was an heiress due to come into her inheritance the following year.
But the author, I think, wanted us to appreciate her vitality and "inner light" as what made her stand out from young women of her day.
And how could Lucy have seen into her own passions and desires when the whole of her society taught her not to even have any of her own outside of wanting to make someone a good wife! She had it much worse than young ladies today, and that is hard enough!

was anyone else surprised by how delightfully feminist this was?
Lucy muses in Italy: "Why were most big things unladylike? Charlotte had once explained to her why. It was not that ladies were inferior to men; it was that they were different. Their mission was to inspire others to achievement rather than to achieve themselves. Indirectly, by means of tact and a spotless name, a lady could accomplish much. But if she rushed into the fray herself she would be first censured, then despised, and finally ignored. Poems had been written to illustrate this point."
and is eventually won over with George's description of her fiancee: "He daren't let a woman decide. He's the type who's kept Europe back for a thousand years. Every moment of his life he's forming you, telling you what's charming or amusing or ladylike, telling you what a man thinks womanly; and you, you of all women, listen to his voice instead of to your own."

However after jogging my memory with some of the above comments this book was fun to read but nothing special to tell your friends about.


How..."
I would echo this. I wasn't surprised to discover that Forster wrote the Italian and English parts of the book at separate times and then joined them together to make a single narrative - the second part is considerably more confident and enjoyable.
As you say, this is not a silly book, but in fact a deliciously barbed satire on the social mores of the time, particularly in relation to class and gender issues.

I think next time I read Forster, I'll opt to read print, instead.


I wasn't all that impressed with Lucy but my favorite characters were Mr. Beebe and Mr. Emerson. They were always interesting.
