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Nov 11, 2010 05:52AM
I know sometimes it's hard to talk to people you know so tell us about it. Anything you need an opinion on, or have a question answered. We are here to help:)
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If you get ditched many times in different senarios...is it ok to say "Oh, no it's fine." when you talk to someone bout it? as in you reffered to the getting ditched as ok?
Like in a lunch line or something?? People do it at my school everyday it makes me so mad like, if you're that hungry get to lunch earlier. But I just tell them "It's fine," smile then turn around. There isn't really anything you can do. Unless you tell on them, it might work but I wouldn't know because I never tried it.
Stand up and be a man! lol... getting ditched is NOT ok. Maybe if they have an out-of-this-world excuse, then I say that it was ok. But if you are getting ditched to the point where you can pretty much predict it, let them know. No TRUE friend should ditch you and they should know. That's just me though.
I've been getting ditched alot lately by my friends. one time i had asked my friends to wait for me while i went to the washroom and when i walked out they were all gone. i was so mad.
I really don't understand how anyone can ditch someone. I think I did when I was in middle school. But haven't since. Just recently-this past October actually-a friend came to visit from school and brought some friends with her. Some I knew and others I didn't. Every year around that time, our town has this festival for apples-weird, i know; but it's actually really great. Anyway, we were looking in this antique shop and my friend just starts to walk off. Some of the others notice and walk after her, but not all. So, there I was, standing outside this shop waiting for the one who didn't notice that her group had left. Now we are friends! Sorry...didn't realize I wrote so much!
I'm sure that girl felt happy that there was at least one person who would wait for her.
I used to have two friends, and we would usually hang out, the three of us at class and outside. But when it came to make like groups of two, I was always ditched. I was like the third wheel.
@Alice: That's how it is with my friends. I'm always the odd one out.
Then they arent really your friends. They are either using you, or they were using you and they're about to dump you. Thats why we're here. I'd love to hang with you. It's too bad that we only talk on the computer:(
If only I could meet you guys in person! That would be great! :( But that's not going to happen.
I know my parents don't let me hang with people I see everyday
@ Kenise, you only live 154 miles away from me! Lol....didn't realize we are so close! (yes, I looked at your profile!)
@Kenise: lol I'd love to hang with you too but we live to far apart and its also nice to know i've got friends on here :)
Thank you all for your advice!!!
@ Alice: No, YOU'RE awesome! Lol....No, really!
@ Tori: And you can count on us anytime! I think I am on here more than with my friends that I can actually be with! So you have friends here and we are more than glad to help ... at least I am anyway. Can't really speak for the others!
Camilla wrote: "@ Alice: No, YOU'RE awesome! Lol....No, really!
@ Tori: And you can count on us anytime! I think I am on here more than with my friends that I can actually be with! So you have frien..."
haha. ^-^
Tt wrote: "Hey..um what do you do when your in love with your best friend and he doesnt know and its killing you to not tell him....?"take a chance and tell him how you feel maybe? do you know if he likes you back?
oh i see... hmmm well maybe say you like him but you'll take it slow. i dont know im not the best for love advise cuz i've never been in love before :P
I can completely understand where you are coming from. I confessed my so-called love to two of my best friends....The first shot me down and then went running after a girl that he did like. It put a bit of a awkwardness between us. We remained friends and I remained jealous! After a while I moved on. We aren't friends any more because of choices he did (not because I told him that I liked him).
The second said that he loved me too, but (there's always a but!) he valued our friendship more. And I have to agree with him on that. I realized I loved him as a friend and just thought that I wanted more. I think it could have worked between us, but who knows. Nothing awkward came between us and we are really good friends now.
I don't regret telling either of the two my feelings. And if this guy is really a best friend. He won't do to you what friend #1 did to me. If you do tell him, that's great. But by not telling him, you run the risk of always wondering 'what if...'.
Anyway, that's my advice. I have some of random experience when it comes to guys. Hope all goes well with whatever your choice.
Tt wrote: "Hey..um what do you do when your in love with your best friend and he doesnt know and its killing you to not tell him....?"Depends... How dense is he to other things??
oh yayayayay!!! im so happy for you :D
Tt wrote: "@All Yall- Thankyou SO MUCH!!! He said it first :)"Sveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeetness!!!!
