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Sep 20, 2010 04:24PM
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Ok umm... There is this guy and he seems to like me I mean he likes hanging out with me he flirts and hits on me... But he's a senior and I don't think I am falling for him... I mean he was engaged to this chick and she broke it off because she thought he was cheating but her wasn't... And anyway... My friends think he's a creeper and well I have no idea what to do... Any suggestions??
I have the same problem as you Just Joe, it's not exactly the same but close too it..>.<
Depends on how harsh you want to be...
If i were you...i'd let him flirt but i wouldn't let it get too far..
If i were you...i'd let him flirt but i wouldn't let it get too far..
Uh, plus he was ENGAGED...That probably means he either wanted to commit, get into her pants, and/or wants money.
And what grade are you in? If he's old enough to start thinking about marriage then I think you should stay way from him.
I'd say make it clear you're just friends (if you want it to be so?), toying with him is not a good solution. Also, I'd listen to your friends, a lot of seniors who hit on froshies are creepers (spoken from experience)....
ok...ya I do sorta flirt back but not to the extent that he flirts and ya he is sort of a creeper but I don't think to the extent my friends think but thats just my opinion...how should I go about asking if he like...likes me and say we are just friends and it won't go any further? gahh and he made me made today to...:/ jerk commenting about my boyfriendless status grrr him grrrr :(
Creepers tend to be creepier than you think, as a rule of thumb :PAnd, I'd just be point-blank, "Hey, you flirt with me constantly, do you like me?" "Yes" "OK well I'm sorry but I only like you as a friend."
-Sugar-coating = bad
-I'm probably not giving you the easiest answer >.<
problem!! he asked me out last night and i never said yes but I never said no and he is like...talking me into it and stuff.......ahh! Help!
Well don't let him talk you into it - make your own decision. I say you're too young... but... you know...
....well uhh... I said ya :) and now I'm really happy about it I just can't tell my rents...
If your parents don't know, then take it back. Dump him. Do whatever. Now. Seriously, if you don't have trust with your parents then you don't have anything. Take it from me and some of my friends...
That depends on the parent though...like my parents have extremely strict guidelines, some of which I dislike in a person, some are incredibly discriminatory...etc. So, in my opinion, if you really honestly truly like him...OK...but it didn't really sound like it in the original few posts. :P But it sounds to me more like he basically talked you into all....
Ok i have a problem.(many problems)First problem: I just got my first Boyfriend but I dont really dont know if we are affically going out. And im to scared and embarresed to ask him myself. Second Problem: i dont wanna tell anyone because i dont know if we're affical and i dont want him to get mad. Third Problem: If I tell people it would spread like a virus. Then one person tells a teacher them im done!!! What should i do?!?!
You're HOW old? Why are you going out and if you have to hide it and be afraid of making it public then I don't think he's an okay kid to be with. If you're THAT nervous then just dump him.
First Im ten!! Hes ten!! I invited him to my B-day party and my friends asked him if he liked liked me and he said "Ya, I guess so." And then my friends asked him if he wants to go out with me and i guess he told them the same thing. So we have been dating for 5 days. That was the last time Ive heard of him... Another thing is Ive had a crush on him for like a year I think. When I was in Fourth grade thats when I first met him. And the beginning of Fith Grade. The last him he talked to me was Saturday. I wonder if hes even gonna talk to me on our 1rst week together. Ive been waiting for HIM to ask ME out for about a year. Like last year we would get in trouble for talking to much. Now I havent heard his voice since saturday!! I wish he would talk to me!! What should I do?!?!?!?!
Seriously, you're only ten. xD You're blowing this way out of proportion. He's a little kid and so are you - don't try to grow up too fast.
whoah woah... im not trying to grow up to fast.I just want him to talk to me..... like the last time i heard is voice was saturday! i wonder why he was not at school today! Like i wishhe would talk to me!!! But he wont....... Sadly. Im just repeating the same thing as last time. So you saying I should break up wit him?!?! HELP ME!!!!! I like him but he wont talk to me. HELP ME!!!
Yeah - you're trying to grow up too fast. :P As in, you're too worried over this boy that will probably break up with you in a couple of weeks anyways (and no - not trying to be cynical). Just let things flow if you don't want to dump him right now. If worst comes to worst, then dump him before he can dump you.
Thanks for the help MYHAPPYMONSTER he knows were going out and he just hasent gottin a chance to talk to me so everything is cleared out know!!! THANK YOU!!!!
